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crystalgem:
like baby can u pls help me this tin or that? Like fetching water in my ous av to b done early in d morning, if not wot u ll lata get is dirty water,so I fil since he no dis he sud atlist help wt it bt anytym he sees me carry water in,he ll b lyk baby liv it and he won't even move an ich frm d bed. He alwaz tel me weldone sha

Sweetie please type clearly.

I for one don't respond well to a nag and he knows. If he asks me 1000 times he knows I won't do it. Same with him. We resolved one yesterday, kissed and made up.

My dear, 'well done' is not enough, You gonna have to change your approach : your tone , cadence & body language when communicating with him coz it's obvious the method you're using is not effective. You can't go on like this, what if you can't afford a maid nko, you can't work yourself to death abeg. You're a team.

a wife knows what locks and opens her husband's mood, Afteral you didn't marry a stranger?

You have nothing to prove to ANYBODY, this is your marriage and your life. Speak up.

Hehe I remenbered an old time friend I told what I got for my 30th birthday during our Facebook chat and she logged off and never chat me again since then. I see her online oh.. I think she unfriended me sef

Dywani yes it's healthy and for the most part fun fun fun . Stop sweating small stuff as long as she's a great girl and meets all other qualities you want in wife.

I get my husband the most expensive things in store and he never disappoints! I asked the store attendant to take me to the high end shelve when buying his dress shirts & jewelries .

We are running out of gift ideas

Same with the kids!

Life is good , enjoy it!

#Please don't quote me

Attraction

Terror

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UnknownT:
When they retire and those " thousand pounds" don't come weekly again, even when they go into coaching or "punditry", they don't earn upto that "thousand pounds". Next thing is to start austerity measures, the unlucky ones get bankrupt and start blaming government for not coming to their aids

Meaning

Bad belle.

See a relaxed man. I like him.

I have this piece saved on my desktop since 2011 or so.

Awesome piece.

'He's loaded'

Marry him already make we hear word jare.

'Mo money mo problems'

Your friend want to knack already? Anyway he tried. Una house sweet be that. He should take that as a compliment.

A MIL packed her load & left for Naija after just four weeks stay here (she had 10years grandparent visa) . Thank goodness the couple had a backup plan.

So the big Q , WHAT SHOULD HE DO? = NOTHING, enjoy mama's soups while you can.

Poshest.. Some people actually scrub their washrooms everyday. I happen to know a lady who does, ocd things.

mcdokwe:
I suggest the woman realises the damage she is doing and stops already.

I agree wholeheartedly. Do unto others ...

tearoses:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_8mdH20qTQ

coogar ewuro4 damiso edwife efemena

crazy cat

That's scary and hilarious same time. My middle kid cried the whole time, she's terrified the kitty's gonna jump off and die. Phew!

crystalgem:
I am married for two year nw with a baby girl, though marriages ave up and down but the one am going through ryt nw,that makes my body aches is the house chores, I do virtually al the work with no help, starting from sweeping the verandah, to the mopping the sitting room,kitchen, and the passage, to clearing the dishes,fetching water and serious u nid to see our well it's rily so deep,i fills the kitchen and toilet with water, wash the toilet, cook den take care of the baby while my husband sit al tru pressing his fone. Av discussed this with him several tyms but no change. I dnt no wot else to do as this is killing me I alwaz wonder if he love me cos I dnt no ow u ll claim to love ur wife but stil watch her go through stress without you helping ha.....pls advice

When you said you've discussed this with him with no change, can you please shed some on light how you normally on a good day ask him to do something around the house?

I have a lot of examples to give but would like to hear your reply first and in all honesty please. I'm not here to judge you.

Can't wait.

Nonso23:
Olamide ni

Title: Bobo

Owkay... GOT IT!

Kosontowosheti

freecocoa:
You can be funny you know.

I know.

shrekandfiona:

Oh well.

Nonso23 , what is that gbedu called?

Nonso23:
Chai!
I come late ooo. No wahala sha

Plugs earpiece....

Wo bobo,werey lo ba de ee
To get this money to dey ball every night
and day
Wo bobo, werey lo ba de
Zero dulling emi o le naa gere mo laye
Oya shakiti bobo
O fe ra bentley bobo
O fe ra ferrari bobo
Fly you to paris bobo
Oya shakiti bobo
O fe ra bentley bobo
O fe ra ferrari bobo
Fly you to paris bobo

Trolling dey sweet die

Hehe

'Rollin down the street, smokin indo, sippin on gin and juice
Laid back with my mind on my money and my money on my mind "

Wetin Ewuro do again?

I braided 3 heads full of hair in feathers all day yesterday my wrists ache.

Funlord you're cray

una too bellefull.

Micheal Bolton .. Without you.

njokusboy:
If it's true, I wonder why someone would bring such to nairaland, most women here have never experienced such, according to them, their husbands are next to Jesus christ, they don't even know how they might react if such happens to them, how can a blind man lead another.....
I don't know why people bring sensitive marital issues to this forum...

Hehe actually you're wrong. We have them here, they're just under radar. Have you ever seen a scorned individual boast of their experience?

edwife:
My sentiments exactly.I don't understand how can someone who has never been around a cheat or raised by such,will know what to do exactly.How can someone raised and surrounded by positivity only have negative advices and sermons about marriage?

Shouldn't such a person be more positive than negative? Why should i learn self defence when my life has never been in danger? if you know what i mean?

as in ... @bold well except for leisure. I visit the shooting range for leisure and I love my freedom way too much to jeopardize it for mere squabbles.

Been married a while now and have no reason to question my man's motives. Loved , Respected and treated like a woman and I reciprocate same. Everyone's happy. Yes we fight and argue most times coz life will be boring without none. But
If one should take to heart any of these hate fest about Nigerian men on NL, hmm na gobe.

I read a thread and saw an angry poster quoted another lady. The other lady said something similar to your post Edwife, and the angry poster said and I quote 'you don't have a problem with being a second class? ' ... I then opened that angry posters' profile in another window to read her posts... She's being through a premeditated hell yet still stayed with so called rich monster man. People will treat you how you want to be treated.

So you're right, you just have to jump pass some threads when your resume's short the area of discussion.

I leave with Mariah Carey's .. Without You.

Bluetooth2:
Look up the meaning of ghastly dude.

I know one of yall will quote me...
I wonder what's is considered 'pleasant' among OP's shots?

Bluetooth2:
Nothing is ghastly here if you were the one standing right in that picture.

Anyways thankgod it wasn't as serious as you have expressed.

Oh it'll be considered ghastly if his dead body is displayed eh.. Nigerians, na only bad news dey sweet most of yall pass.

OP.. Thank Jehovah for your life. Get that cut stiched abeg, it looks deep.

....

Fairgodwin:
Initial gra gra tinz. They will win your heart(s) at first and shatter it later.

Na wa for you oh.

Whoop!

indiraserv:
Lovely

Hmmmm


Wearing a shirt won't have been such a bad idea.....or did they post such a private pic (stomach and all) without his permission?

Obviously

Nothing wrong as long as long as Low self esteem & self hate doesn't crawl into your mood.

I saw the news about PANDA syndrome yesterday and Twas a shocking revelation to discover how common strep disease can jerk a full blown PANDA in children.

So the problem is Most introverts have low self esteem.

agarawu23:
agborodun
OK na maybe you are not among sha

Don't recall any

Love they say is kind and doesn't boast. The moment you marry a woman,then all her declared baggage(s) inclusive.So If he's boyant then should by all means assist the boy pay his tuition.

Marriage is not a competition, nobody's keeping scores of good deeds. Both participants are supposed to have each other's back . That's what you signed up for.

TENK!

mutter:
No! great minds need their own company.

The problem is you are like a closed book, but the moment you open up: they read you, use you, abuse you and dump you.

Remain the way you! Be true to yourself. The world has got enough court clowns.

Court clowns indeed!

How are you and family Mutter? Happy Father's Day to your oga.

agarawu23:
are you in the same situation? because we have treated the topic you are talking about already

if you are in same situation, share your story

Who are WE ?

NL agborodun