Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 8:34pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: This was the same way it used to be in the West they moved on..once women started having jobs and careers
The economy in Niigeria is still the issue
Give it time *Sacarsm* Blame it on the Alcohol as usual I wonder what some breadwinning wives could've became if they didn't have an Amazon role models as an example growing up? It's imbred bro, simple as that. pickabeau1: evulz... Those who enter with their eyes open sha.. dem tori dey sweet  Hehe Color me Evulz but those ones dey sweet pass aswear  I'm like HUH?? |
Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 8:23pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Chill madam.
If the saying that there is a woman behind every successful man is true then your chances of getting a handsome rich guy is very low. Hahaha That is to say 'Marriage is to be only ENJOYED not ENDURED' mantra is Bullcrap? Ofcourse the latter arent always the case for celebrities , Politicians & made tycoons like Adenuga & Momoodu et al's wives. Ayam learning |
Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 7:36pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
ednut1: in year 2030 u wud see d guy. hammered and looking fresh and fine. na den u go dey regret Money gooduu oh  Fresh and fine A brotha was granted a study visa & came here for his post graduate program after a bad breakup, he went home after he acquired his Permanent Residency. Aswear he refused to marry till now, we are begging him but e no go gree  He's all built and fresh compared to his oogly mango eyeballs when he landed years ago  |
Family › Re: Can You Swear You Did Not Do Any Of This? by Ewuro4: 7:25pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Cool! I did almost everything!  Halos it's nice to see you here. |
Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 7:19pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Mintayo: As in... I read the OP, and I became so so weak... so many ladies are shortsighted! You blame them? What 'self insufficiency' & 'keeping up with the joneses' syndrome will cause in this world, a 1M tonne truck fork lift wont be able to haul it. |
Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 7:12pm On Jun 29, 2015*. Modified: 7:38pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Shymm3x: Lmao @ Heidi Klum and muthaphucking Seal.
But Seal has the star power, money, and respect - he should be super romantic, if his tunes were anything to go by. And 'em Ivory queens love them some chocolate. So he made up for whatever he lacks in looks, with other things.
The guy this girl described here can't be compared to muthaphucking Seal with the "kiss from a rose" - kiss of death. 
Darn! Chics can be so judgemental - she rejected the guy and nuked his self-esteem.  True , Seal is soft spoken , romantic and has that superstar persona that aspiring broke aśś Russian model long for to break into Hollywood connection . I doubt Heidi will poke him with a long fork if he's a broke aśś?  'sides we don't know if the brother in OP is hopeless romantic too but OP ain't having all that. These girls ain't loyal bro, it's all bout maneeey !!  |
Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 6:58pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
humilitypays: ...and you are proud to say this and even using it to advice someone SMH for you.
Take it or leave it, that your so-called fiance is only saying YES to you now because all the Mr. Rights she has been waiting for have been disappointing her...and not coming forth...so she now saw you as her last option...and believe me, she may hurt you in future because she is accepting you now out of pity, which is dangerous!
You wooed a girl for 4 years and she only said yes to you after 4years and you are happy about it, gosh!
Guys listen: I am not an expert in woman affairs, but I can boldly tell you all that it takes less than 1minute for a girl or lady to know if you are the kind of man she wants or not...and will take from 1 minute - 1 month (at worst), for a lady to tell you yes. Any girl that delays more than this doesn't like you at all...she isn't feeling you at all...she's only struggling to find something to make her like you while waiting for her dream man to come around and if her kind of man shows up, u are gone, but her dream man doesn't show up, she may just consider you whilst being unhappy inside.
So you better screen that your girlfriend abi fiance well to avoid future regrets.
Guys just be falling their hand....if a girl says NO...common guys, move on cheerfully and work hard to be that Mr. Right they all want and you will be the one laughing and making choice.
No man is born ugly! Every man is handsome and unique...the only problem a man has is MONEY!
Lack of money makes a man looks ugly and unlovable...once a man has money, he will be confident and bold...and those are what makes up a man's handsomeness and not just 6 packs!
If you like, have 12 packs, if you aren't financially buoyant, then you are ugly in the eyes of women!
Check all the rich guys in the world whom super-gorgeous ladies are dying to have, are they that physically attractive? NO!
E.g.
Kanye West - married to Kim K Jay Z- married to Beyonce Snoop Dogg Our own Adams Oshiomhole, Obasanjo, Chief Mbanefo married to the most beautiful woman in Nigeria...google her, Taiye Taiwo, Mario Baloteli, etc.
Guys work hard and pray...the only challenge you have to becoming that dream guy most ladies daydream about is financial lack...if you are doing business, do it harder and pray for God's favour and reduce the rate at which u chase ladies to avoid distraction and waste of scarce resources.
If you are working, keep upgrading and gathering experience and also find a way to set up a side business.
If you are into handwork, work hard and pray.
I pray this day for God to bless as many hardworking guys working to make it in life because it is so humiliating what most guys face today in the hands of ladies just because they don't have money, its well guys! You made a lotta sense bro... Soo on point. Seal and H. Klum nko? She holds his massacred face soo close when kissing him... |
Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 6:55pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Heidi Klum came to mind.  |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Ewuro4: 6:51pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Nairalander Shares Throwback Picture With Cousin by Ewuro4: 6:49pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Nice one OP, wow God bless our children So, I don't have any 'throwbacks' here .... They're all mounted on my Dad living room's wall of fame  I have my hubby's though but don't have his permission to share  or I'll be toast  |
Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 6:42pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Calling a man ugly and broke , yet still have no integrity to tell him the raw truth is FRAUD... Hian ladies , have some self respect, develop yourself, who says you can't be a breadwinner yourself or there's a manual that said so?
the shallow mentality that marriage will free you from shackles of poverty is the most pauperish believe I've ever heard. All the longthroat attitude won't do you any good but a slap in the end. Good Men don't respect parasitic women. |
Family › Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 6:23pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Money and Good looks? As in..
I guess we'll be having more marriage 'stories that touch' on NL. Always my pleasure to read them anyway. |
Family › Re: I Don't Last Long In Bed. Never Reach Round 3 Before. by Ewuro4: 8:50pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
ROTFL coogar I can't laugh .... Tim what is choku choku?  |
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Family › Re: I Don't Last Long In Bed. Never Reach Round 3 Before. by Ewuro4: 8:01pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
I can't stop grinning at OP.  Coogar, timbuktou, Pickabeau, Bellong  ... CC .. Lalasticlala |
Family › Re: Help!!! Birthday Message Tears My Friend's Marriage by Ewuro4: 7:57pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Ewuro4: 7:34pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
edwife: Look at this,i am obsessed with efo riro...nice. Thanks!  |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Ewuro4: 7:28pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Biased my foot. FrancisTony: But, I didn't do back & forth. I only replied who quoted me once.
*Unfollows thread again*  You started it, why do you keep unfollowing the thread?  You falsely accused me of creating multimonikers , I responded and shait hit the fan and you just wanna 'ignore' , run and not get any shait for it?? Nah Twas same You that said I was Tooniosy, then lolaredvelvet then some other 3 or 4 monikers that were into you on one Feminist thread, and now TruthNL... You are so SURE but failed to 'prove it' , you said I went all gangster on you when you threatened to call the mods, how do you expect a falsely accused to react ? I ASK YOU AGAIN WHERE IS YOUR PROOF?? You called my name virtually on every threads and called me derogatory terms. I was humble in my response and you apologized , Now you're back again. You are TROUBLE. Heck I don't remember any exchange with your moniker since I joined this board so I don't get your hate fest to garner likes from my frustrated haters who are literally not worthy of any good thing whatsoever. So you succeeded in running away and now a victim? Wonders! If you don't like fracas, it'll do you a lot of good to stop poking one afteral na jejely I dey when you poked me to provocation. |
Jokes Etc › Re: Picture: When You Find Bae's Car Somewhere It's Not Supposed To Be. by Ewuro4: 2:31pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
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Celebrities › Re: Top Ten Most Handsome Nigeria Musicians by Ewuro4: 2:28pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
igbsam: [size=20pt]Abeg Who Dem don Help ?[/size] Good big Q. |
Politics › Re: Happy 52nd Birthday To Fashola: Checkout These His Lovely Pics With Tinubu by Ewuro4: 2:26pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Happy 52nd Birthday To Fashola: Checkout These His Lovely Pics With Tinubu by Ewuro4: 2:25pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
INTROVERT: Happy Birthday Babs Fash  How do you do this  Do you sleep atall? @Topic, Tinubu don old ohhh, Happy Birthday Papa Fash! |
Food › Re: Eba Eating Food Competition ( OMG!!! See Swallow) by Ewuro4: 2:23pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Da Fouk? |
Family › Re: In Turmoil... To Reconcile Or Not by Ewuro4: 7:22am On Jun 28, 2015 |
You need your parents support until this dude can prove himself worthy to be a responsible family man ( which is never gon happen, sorry) He has no right coaching the kids against their grandparents that help him to raise them when he was AWOL. What effrontery. What is wrong in going with you to your parents for Father's day dinner as an opportunity to make amend? Don't let him push you around like a dodo as he cannot for the life of him try that with any Nigerian Inlaws! I know this is against my moral values but you gon have to stick to 'dating' mode for now. By the way, I love your parents! |
Family › Re: When An Over Worked Wife Is Fed Up by Ewuro4: 7:03am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Dude is depressed and could be having a midlife crisis. wish I can hear his own version. This is not normal. Madam Im not blaming you but you enabled him to this point. Being a breadwinner & a wife is no big deal but he must pull his weight too since you're both involved. If you'd called a family meeting on him or reported him , it's possible he could've changed & sat tight. This is bigger than you alone. Watching a grown man wasting his life away with no iota of responsibility! Marriage is has its ups & downs and people say things they don't mean during life crisis, some crisis are shortterm while some are long term. Life itself is not bed of roses. I happened to know a man (60s now) who was very ambitious and fared profoundly in first 12 years of his marriage until his early 40s when he got sick of his career and wanted a change desperately. ( don't know why) It didn't happen for him as envisaged, jumped from one career to another & between jobs , while he did some professional courses to upgrade, he eventually gave up and warm couch all day. His wife shouldered everything and took care of the kids albeit he was helpful at home but not financially. People mocked them , infact in all my years of growing up, I have never seen such so I have my reservation on what to call it. The kids are all grown & married, wife retired and they're still together.  I really want to talk to her but don't know where & how to strike a convo coz she knew the rumours yet still stood by him. So situations like OP is not far fetched I guess. Madam, weigh your options and do what's best for you and your kids if you can't cope anymore, nobody will blame you. He will be fine in a long run, hopefully. |
Family › Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Ewuro4: 5:06am On Jun 28, 2015 |
mysweetnina: Nairalanders, I need mature and real people opinion here.
I am a banker, 32, married with two kids, boy and girl. My wife works with a MDA in abuja while I work out from Nassarawa. I rented a 2 bedroom flat for them in Lugbe, abuja while i visit every weekend. I love her and love the kids however I notice we dont agree on a lot of things, mostly financial matters. she prefer i spend all on her and her kids and whenevr i am broke, she will gladly lend me cash. I dont ve ish with that and i ve been enjoying it for years now. I cheat on her but i dont see it as cheating but rather caring for my emotional needs. I have talked her into coming to stay in lafia with me before but i noticed she is very comfortable with her job and i dont want to be the reason for career truncation/ dissatisfaction in her life.
i decide to live my life in my own way; strategically sleeping with other ladies as need be. recently, i asked my colleague out. a lady banker, same level. for 3 months now, we have been hot and i can no longer touch or tolerate my wife. my colleague recently took in for me but we took care of it. i am scared as she is madly in love with me and she is available. I am also madly in love with her. i am choosing her over my wife right now. how can I solve this.
Guys I love her, dont tell me to leave her. we enjoy sex together in a way I dont with my wife. Just give your honest opinion to help those that may find themselves in my place someday.
Thank u. I'm positive that sex was hot with your wife before kids and busy career veered into your respective lives. You're mean and heartless. Have you lost your mind  |
Family › Re: Sistas, Why Are Some Of Us Too Angry Even In The Public? by Ewuro4: 4:45am On Jun 28, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Ewuro4: 4:31am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Fried rice and Efo riro (spinach & bok choy) gbogboe 
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