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nextstep:
It's backed by my 40+ year empirical study of Nigerian men and their attitudes towards sex, male chauvinism, and in some cases misogyny. You see it in daily life, even here.

did you publish your study in any journal for independent study or its still just in the realm of personal experience and speculation

pick up arms , defend yourself

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1Sharon:
Isn't she right? The girls that are raped aren't they someone's sister ?
Trust me, if a woman in your family gets assaulted, she'll be unlikely to tell you based on ur behaviour, even ur parents likely won't know either cos they're likely to be shamed and accused of doing something/not doing something to attract the rapist

Rapist is seen as something that happens to "those girls"

sexual abuse goes both ways... but that aside

i make sure i make my sisters and female relative know for some fact that a man doesnt eat a lion doesnt mean a lion wont pounce on you and deviour you, avoid compromising space and dont decieve your self on self restraint of the other party

and your claim is backed by what study? victimisation and emotional blackmail of nigeiran men?

nextstep:
This post is typical of many men in this country... rather than take the time to listen to a complex issue, the knee jerk reaction is proffered.

Women in Nigeria are often raped by the ones closest to them: family friends, cousins, uncles, brothers. All these women are somebody's sister. Nobody talks about it because of stigma, but it does happen a lot more than you can imagine. When it trends, women are empowered to tell their stories (which most people don't want to believe), and are stigmatized for it.

I'm not a fan of victimization, but in a culture where men are often regarded as "can do no wrong" when it comes to sex, yet women are shamed if they so much as hint at anything sexual, you have to call a spade a spade.

typical sentimental loud mouth entitled punk would type such

yes you were raped and i feel bad for you (or dont) but victimising men saying many of men's sister got raped just to score cheap point is manipulative and a sign of pure wickedness

i'll say it again and again stop victimising men stop this evil manipulation or your kids would suffer such disgraceful defamation through manipulation of some women

safarigirl:
Rape victins are so MANY

The number is staggering. Most don't speak onit, so, when some men come here and say these women are lying, I laugh.

Many of you, your sisters have been raped, by an uncle, a cousin, a friend, but you don't know and you will never know, because anytime she mentions another rape case, you will open your big mouth and insult the victims. She hears how you judge others, she cannot tell you, because she knows you will judge her too


If your sister was raped today, ask yourself, with all the comments you make about victims, can she tell you?

Hoephase:
You all rapists should learn to keep your dick in your pants and understand that if ashwo wey dey do ashawo work you no suppose rape am.

I hope you repent before you rape the wrong person and bring your life to a miserable end.

to impregenate you dey hungry me

keep going about trying men sho gbo

grossintel:
Ever heard of Crime of passion? You don't understand how the law works, you can get killed for raping or sleeping with another man's wife and the person who committed the crime will walk freely. You might call it murder but the law doesn't until proved in the court, goodluck testifying against the living. Better delete that part of your brain that's justifying rape, someone like me won't ask you silly questions before acting.

stop being ridiculous.. nothing like crime of passion in Nigerian law, highest you can get is life imprisonment if manslaughter gets proven

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Hoephase:
A rapist/rapist apologists sighted.

I spit on your head may heaven afflict all rapist/rapist apologists on NL with incurable diseases until you all repeat.

such an helpless pvssy

daughters of eve and delilahs should make an effort to also protect their "private organ" not always try blackmail innocent men

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grossintel:
What's your point exactly? If anyone tries this with my daughter, 9mm will be deposited in he's skull. I don't have time to trend nonsense on social media.

and you get charged with murder or the victims parents discharge hot bullets from his or her glock pistle

better get your daughters keeping their pouch right than hoping on a fight after they get violated

Haboki1990:
Yoruba men are mostly simps who women can control anyhow..

Do you Igbo how Yoruba women who men knack on steady in Yoruba lands .. Igbo men don't kiss and tell..unlike Yoruba men that keeps disturbing us when they knack any girl.

Travel to countries like SA and see Igbo men married to hot South African ladies and you don't see Igbo men bragging about it cause they are the real alpha male not simps like Yoruba men

master key is any key that can open every locks (yoruba demon) loose keys are opened by any key (ipob women) Yoruba women are hard locks to crack

Hoephase:
You can't marry an Igbo lady u no reach.

I thought you guys were crying on the other thread about the Igbo girl that was given an appointment.

The truth is that Yoruba men are not men enough to marry an Igbo women. If you look closely the ones married to Igbo women are being married by their wives.

I truth Igbo girls they know how to hold una men for work.

look child.. we dont marry ibo girls, we shop them like fresh shoprite bread... mention any ibo girl and yoruba demon would chop and clean mouth ... levels dey to this demon shiit and you ibo men should watch us enjoy our choping since your women aint complaining

a british police officer got raped wow

if you cant protect your own vagina from intruders and claiming some stupid sentiments i dont pity you

Vagina is a pouch of about give or take 9 inches at max, and for some reason this emotional blackmailers cant seem to protect that

since people like eve and delilah in the bible got away with shitty moves destoying men, dumb bitches now see it as a payback and revenge move

If God, Allah, Ellah, Olodumare and the creator of heaven and earth is real.. God please shame all women trying so hard to make already difficult life of Men worldwide harder

yes many would call me a rape apologist, and am not bothered as long we get fair hairing and trail without emotional blackmail, i havent had an enocurter of any rape case but i am sensible to know of the undue criminalisation of painfully hardworking men just for some manipulative women to get fame, revenge and vendetter

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yakubudivine:
we lost that Good man

we did bro... benefited directly from his money and pocket

Pain:
Why is it that most dead robbers always have their trousers sagged...boxers must show. Why?

when you loose control of your body and dii, people pull you with anything they can pull you with

lol won fo le nu

die modafvcker

lazy dunce even wore black black for opreation


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bukatyne:
This thread is tragically funny.

If both sexes can uphold boundaries pre-freedom to do anything, this thread would not exist.

Like I said in another thread, this would hopefully bring a moral revolution.

Where everyone (men & female) maintain moral boundaries with common sense and decorum so we see who the rapists really are and deal with them very stiffly under the law.

Quranic law (sharia) Laws of Moses , Ifa laws and teachings of other african religion all stated this boundary.. westerners came in to mess everything

donuchris007:
. She can blackmail me and I will lose respect.

and you sue her for defamation of character

see i am not condoning rape, am just saying this because some ladies would try and reap apart your destiny over emotions and sentiments and you best bet is to prepare ahead

this days the moment you want to vie for an office... women would step forward to accuse you

reuben81:
so the man is late I work with him before,but

he is oo

donuchris007:
I don't you understand me.. I am talking having a girl friend and she come over to your place, kiss, cuddle you, even allowed all the foul play at the point of penetration ( point of no return)if I insist on having it, it term rape. How do I deal with this?

simple fact remains if you penetrate her .. the only evidence she has against you is if you bruise her through friction because she wasnt wet , if by any chance she wasnt bruised she cant show any you forced her

police need medical report, and only when a doctor sees sign of force would he consider it a rape

its very simple, get Nigerian penal code, and Nigerian criminal justice code, and read what constitiute rape in Nigeria, if you can read bible and quran, a form of constitution made for Arab and Isrealite read your own constitution

you cant accuse me wrongly when i know clear defination of rape, and i am armed with abit of knowledge .. this isnt the days of Jacob where a lady can just say anything and you get docked, now you have to arm your self with real knowledge

To esthablish a case of rape, police would ask for doctors report, and a doctor would only certify a rape if he sees any sign of friction, bruise or use of force during penetration

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nobody deserves to be raped, and no justification for rape whatso ever

however we can help our ladies avoid rape if we lecture them on how to avoid sexual predators as the foolish prase "No means No" doesnt seem to help them

well corona virus isnt scam lost an uncle Retired Assistant Inspector General of Police Osanaye, actress Rose Odika's former Father in Law

instead of paying frontliners their allowance, we are paying politicians to read out trash to us, while dunce are still calling it hoax till it gets close to them


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Humanoid01:
If you are a Christian, you should believe that the spirit of the Antichrist is slowly coming out. He's revealing himself.

Please if you're not a believer, don't quote me. Abeg I nor too get strength to argue.

how does this have anything to do with christ? because last time are checked even before christ was born we have serial pedophiles walking about on earth without control..even your bible refrenced sodom and gomorah

Adaibeku:
rotimi "chukwu abiama" aketidolu( in t9ksy 's voice) , afonjas will regret their ill treatment n racism on us trust me

we aint regreting shiit... we would keep marrying your women and marginalising your men .. because thats how starz do

Akeredolu and Ganduje are undoubtedly some of the best when it comes to governance

soldiers sef don tire for Trump wahala... always using them to settle scores... that was how he shamelessly killed General Suleimani and sent innocent Soldiers to Iraq to defend his foolish action

this is the same scumbarg that refused to fight for america durinf vetnamese war because his dad was a millionaire and he could fake medical report to dodge the compulsory drafting

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why some men just dey hell bent on humilliating men worldwide

this one no be SIMP na foolish simpleton pedophile


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stupid guy... the girl say hin be 23, the IndecentStar say hin be 23 but you sha want to start a rape and men shaming post by force

fortran12:
It was trump that killed the guy right? It was also trump that was rioting and looting

why dont you google what leadership entails before you engage me in an arguement

richard870:
Nah! racism is an integral part of the American history. It's just unfortunate that Trump is caught up in it at this time.

no doubt racism wont go anytime soon in america, but as a leader Trump needs to do more to posture himself against such

MansoryMX:
Sometimes these black American can be so stubborn as well whenever a white cop approaches them. No one seems to be say this. I watched a video clip yesterday where these black Americans are abusing fellow black cops with so much disrespect, So irritating. They are just too stubborn and the white cops sees it as an avenue to unleash their hatred for them. What happened to George was pure hatred from that white cop, even after you have successfully submit the dude to the ground and contained every threat, you still kneeled on his neck until he choked out.

look this is what racism is all about .. yes you have seen clips of blacks misbehaving to officers on duty, i have seen clips of white, asians and indians too getting reckless with cops, but blaming the whole race and treating them is the issue here

i have seen an ibo drug dealer, and ritualist, i have seen a fulani murderer and i have seen a yoruba ritualist .. this doesnt give me any right to categorise millions of people based on actions of few i have seen