Supreme145:
I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.

In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.

She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.

She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.

I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.

It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.

I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.

Do you guys think I am over reacting?

The first thing I will ask you is how old are you?
Because with these red flags, it bothered me that you are still thinking of marriage with her

How many soldiers Ghana get wey Dem go with Niger, even Nigeria no dey go war with Niger, don't forget Boko Haram has finished our fighting men in uniform

9jahotblog:
lol 😂 Na the fact be that oooo. Muri Ajaka is a clueless political dealer. The good people of Kogi State knows him and his clueless evil deeds in Kogi State politics. He’s has no one to follow him

Let wait till then

9jahotblog:
Muri Ajaka is working for APC in Kogi State. Everyone knows that now. He’s a political dealer. Even the good people of Igala knows that.

Funny you

9jahotblog:
muri is a deceiver in Igala politics. Everyone knows the party Muri Ajaka is working for now. Muri is a political dealer in Kogi State politics. Everyone knows that

Which party is he working for since you know? My brother there was agreement among APC when Yahaya Bello was contesting for the second term in office that when he finished the second term he will hand over to another tribe but here we are, the question now is who is the betrayal?

Enskynelson:

Go to Kogi East and preach this gospel if it will sell. All your noise, na here e go end.

Don't mind the guy, he is bend on destroying Muri which he has already failed

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9jahotblog:

We'd have to let kogites know who Muri is already.

Question: How did Muri came across the billions in his possession today? And Please is Comrade Muri of SDP more qualified or too important to run for the office of Governor than Yahaya Bello's engine room, Chief Edward David Onoja?
Why you fighting Muri, at least we have other contestants like Ododo who is Yahaya Bello brother or you want to tell me he did steal money as the attorney general of the state


Muri and his bunch of association of looters/supporters won't be allowed to deceive the masses with their propaganda called Igala Agenda.

Before his recent clash with Yahaya Bello which we all know the cause, Muri was the Deputy National Publicity Secretary of evil APC Party which he used that office to launder billions. Muri was helping Gov. Buni of yobe to launder billions from Yobe State Government.

He lied to kogites and Nigerians all for stomach infrastructure.

He led series of thugs in kogi to rig kogi east elections in favor of the igbiras in 2019.

Muri was so comfortable betraying kogi east for personal gains.

Comrade Muri rigged H.E Engr. Musa Wada out just to please Bello's led APC government.

Please tell Muri Karma is real.- Comrade El-Amin Ibe Aruwa speaks with full confidence

Why are you fighting Muri, at least there are other contestants like Ododo who happens to be Yahaya Bello brother or you want to tell me that he steal money as the attorney general of the state. You want to pull Muri down because you know he has the population

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9jahotblog:

We'd have to let kogites know who Muri is already.

Question: How did Muri came across the billions in his possession today? And Please is Comrade Muri of SDP more qualified or too important to run for the office of Governor than Yahaya Bello's engine room, Chief Edward David Onoja?
Why you fighting Muri, at least we have other contestants like Ododo who is Yahaya Bello brother or you want to tell me he did steal money as the attorney general of the state


Muri and his bunch of association of looters/supporters won't be allowed to deceive the masses with their propaganda called Igala Agenda.

Before his recent clash with Yahaya Bello which we all know the cause, Muri was the Deputy National Publicity Secretary of evil APC Party which he used that office to launder billions. Muri was helping Gov. Buni of yobe to launder billions from Yobe State Government.

He lied to kogites and Nigerians all for stomach infrastructure.

He led series of thugs in kogi to rig kogi east elections in favor of the igbiras in 2019.

Muri was so comfortable betraying kogi east for personal gains.

Comrade Muri rigged H.E Engr. Musa Wada out just to please Bello's led APC government.

Please tell Muri Karma is real.- Comrade El-Amin Ibe Aruwa speaks with full confidence

Hisincrease:


I agree with your submission.
But take this, marriage can definitely change you. Marriage can make you violent. It takes extra Grace to remain calm in extreme situations.

May God send us help in the days when our strength fail us.

Amen

DavidTech23:

You didn't tell us what you said to warrant the phone smashing

I bet you, she said provocative words to him. The woman is incomplete

I doubt so

darealez:
are you married?

ivandrag0n:



Another demented satanic child of hate from the ever angry SadEast identified. Keep weeping, may your wailing never cease!!!

Before you disgrace yourself, the person that typed what you quoted is a northerner, and not Igbo as you stipulate. Why the hate towards Igbo

And El-rufai was busy increasing school fees during his administration. Atimes they forget that power is transient

abc115:
One of the best

B.A (Hons). University of Leicester
MSc, Henley Business School.
MBA, University of Oxford.
Ex-Head, of Investment Management Stanbic IBTC Pensions
Ex- Divisional Head, Investment Management of Stanbic IBTC Pension Managers Limited
Ex-Executive Director, Asset Mgt, Stanbic IBTC
Ex-CEO, Stanbic IBTC Investments Ltd

Congratulations to Prince Shuaibu Abubakar Audu, Nigeria’s Minister of Steel Development

I am seriously banking on him to revive ajaokuka iron and steel company. This is best appointment to kogite

IconicR:
Thank God they didn't present Mustapha Audu that one lives a very rough life . I pray he delivers sha. Asiwaju ministers are young men, the oldest among them will be same age as Obi

Must you mention Obi? You have a big problem

Ikennaford:
Seduce her, eat her cuntus, make her tell you babe,,,,,, come fuccck me,,, then your response will be you are not in the mood....

Are you still in America or back to Nigeria

They are at front of their party building. So you can't classify this as protest

opicgif:
so many years ago
i chased a woman for 4 years
she told me she wants to keep her virginity till she got married
and that she cant marry me because i don't go to her church (she is a strong christian girl)
i believed!!
we stayed celibate for 4 years
she cooked for me
she did everything for me
i thought she loved me


she lost her virginity to a muslim, married man, with two wives, who wasn't a graduate !!!
1. a muslim
2. a married man
3. who had 2 wives
4. wasn't a graduate

guess who she called to cry about breaking her vow?? guess who?


this was 2010. that was how i learnt my own lesson
your own is small

Kia, what a bitter experience. I fear those gender

Poten111:

I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.

I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.

In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.

After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.

I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.

I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.

So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.

She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.

What do i do?

If you want to do anything with a woman, always I repeat always remember what happened to Greenwood of Man united. Fear that gender

Angelfrost:


The club has no choice... They will receive serious backlash and image damage, as well as lose Millions in Sponsorship deals if they take him back.

It's most of the fans and sponsors that forced them to take this action.


Sigh... United is in trouble sha... The team is nowhere ready to compete for anything this season. They have done well in selling some poor players, but they really have so many more to bring in. Wahala!

Seriously, Man united needs quality players, and the only way to get that is to sent Glazer's family out of Old Trafford and bring in this Qatar businessman

tuzle:
do u know the thing I don't understand, he is married to this same woman and they are even expecting a child together. But people that is didn't concern went out to protest. Wokeness have taken over there world

The so called lady has giving birth for him. I hope the lady can enjoy herself since she has destroy his career. I thought if Greenwood would ever forgive the girl

EmiDon11:
MY CRUSHS:

»»»Michelle Alozie of Nigeria.

»»»Salma Parellulo of Spain.

»»»Esmee Brugts of Netherland.

U too like better things

Spain women team made my day, I was really happy that England didn't win it. Their media would have been everywhere

If you believe that this is amount they will get for house allowance, is like saying devil will repent

This northern senators can be useless, when buhari was the president, they were not worried but as the president shift to the south, suddenly they becomes worry. Worry kill them

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LoL

IconicR:
Farmers are so strong, farmers are extraordinary people.

Maybe you have to marry one

Pukkalolo:
Watching football ball alone in my crib is as boring as hell...I prefer watching football with other men because it makes the experience more fun. I think every guy can relate to that.

So I decided to go watch it at a viewing center closer to my place. Unfortunately, my club lost, so I angrily left the viewing center before the match was even over.

As I walked back home, I sighted this dark cute lady. Looking at her, I immediately guess she was a Muslim but I was not sure.

And for the records, I'm not a Muslim.

While she was walking confidently like a catwalk model, I was busy looking at her with my boombastic side eye and I was seriously debating with myself if I should go talk to her or not.

Before I knew it, she stopped a bike man. After negotiating price with the bike man, she climbed on the bike to sit down.

I decided I must talk to her before she move. How will I allow such a beauty get out of my sight just like that. I was comfortable with rejection, so I wasn't worried about getting negative reaction from her. I've conquered my fear of rejection long time ago.

As the bike man was about to zoom off, I said with an almost loud voice to the him, "Hey, wait!!!"

To my surprise, the okada man quickly stop; maybe he thought I knew the girl. He never knew I was only there to toast her. Lolz

When I got closer to them. I looked at the okada man and said, "give me a few seconds, I wanna talk to her."

The okada guy who was still trying to figure out what is going on just said, "Ok..." He had this hausa intonation.

Then I turned to the dark cute lady who was seriously staring at me in a confused manner. We held each other gaze for about 3 seconds, then she said in a rather low volume voice sorry please, can I help you


I said, "The only reason I'm talking to you right now is because I find you attractive, and you..."

Before I could even complete my statement, she caught me off immediately.

She harshly said, "wonders shall never end! wait, is that why you stop this bike"

I replied, "Yes!"

She said, "wow! Is the audacity for me? You even have the gut to say yes?"

I replied again, "Yes."

She shaked her head and sighed, "mtcheww, can you imagine...please okada let's go abeg." Then she signal to the bike guy to move.

I gave the okada man an innocent look; he looked hard into my eyes... before you know it, the "bro code" kicked in.

The okada guy turned to the girl, "Kai, aunty...calm down listen to wetin this oga I wan talk," he said that in his funny hausa intonation.

She replied the bike man, "Really?? So you are supporting him?"

Then I said. " as I was saying, I find you attractive that was why I stopped you... I'm thinking you"

Before I could even complete my statement she said: "are you kidding me..so because you find me attractive that's why you stopped a bike that was already about to move?"

I replied, "Well, it's all your fault."

She said in a sharp tone, "My fault?? As How? I don't understand."

I replied, "When you come out of the house looking this cute and classy then expect your bike to be stopped by a guy like me."

After saying that, I winked at the bike man who seemed to be enjoying the show.

My last statement made her smiled a bit but she quickly switched back to her angry face. Then she said, "Is that all you do Going about stopping any lady that you see on bike?"

I replied, "point of correction dear, I don't stop to just any lady on bike...I only stop the cute ones."

She rolled her eyes and said, "can you imagine!"

She seem shocked by my audacity.

I continued, "but the problem here is that there are many cute girls out there.... So apart from your cuteness, I believe there are other better qualities about you I'll like."

She smirked, "and what if I don't like you you?"

I replied, "well, when you get to know me better, you are gonna like me.... I'm very sure about that."

She said, "hmmm, you are funny"

Then the bike guy gave a sign that he was about to zoom off.

Then I handed her my phone to her and said, "you know what to do with this"

She hesitate for few seconds...then she typed her digit on the phone and handed it back to me.

Then I quickly asked the okada man, "how much is her t-fair?"

He said it's just #300. I opened my wallet and brought a thousand note and give it to okada man.

He made attempt to give me change, I told him, "my man, keep the change for yourself... because if not for you, my conversation with the cutie wouldn't have been possible."

She smiled. The bike man smiled. I smiled.

Then he zoomed off.

My conversation with this lady continue on the phone...I and this lady ended up vibing really well.

This lady turned out be of great value to me. My first tech job I got back then, it was this lady that that connected me to it. And she's has added value to me in some other different ways. Some women add no value to your life; some will. You need to seriously avoid the ladies that add no value to your life

Ok.... I'm not saying you should randomly stop girls who are going on bike...Lolz.

But the moral lesson is, as a man, sometimes you need to be audacious and be willing to take 'calculated' risk.

Stay blessed.

Which state are you typing this from

Don't worry, Woke have arrived