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Qmerit:
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Cause you re out just to defend and have nothing to offer take-less of arguing with me...u re less than infant if you can't know why I called those names..

The gods could be angry. You need more than domestic training to understand before you dwell into mature arguments. You may have access to devices that helps you roam the internet. The first thing you should understand is that understanding is important.

See, I am not of the school of thought where you take everything as a Kindergarten discussion

Qmerit:
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What is this thing saying here did you read what the comment I mentioned said about Wike and Fayose? Can't you see I didn't just compared on my own without quoting the names he called. Your reasoning is suicide

I need no argue with you. You sentences typifies that of teens.

Mtoluwase:
Your use of English and Buhari state of health, I don't know which is better!

Don't mind him. The leaders of tomorrow.

Qmerit:
You are entitle to ur opinion. Wike must have done few jobs no doubts but what has Fayose has done in Ekiti? Or has he paid the 8months salaries owing workers. ?

How old are you? How will you be comparing Rivers and Ekiti? Haaaaaa ! Why are you like this? Your reasoning could be disastrous

yarimo:
So their is commissioners in Ekiti State, This is the first time I had anything like commissioner in Ekiti State . Chai RIP to ekiti state under FAYOSE

So what are you driving out. You should at least reasoned of what to type before you air your ignorance here. Immature Post.

CplusJason:
If only you know how dangerous that religion is.



Lemme just stop here.

Your Mindset. Your Opinion

MrMontella:
Christianity is as fake as Islam

Your Opinion

NwaAmaikpe:


Na wa,


A car is more important, nobody ordinarily will give you one if you can't afford it.


But even if you don't have a land or can't afford one; there'd always be land to bury you in

Sigh. Must you talk. Psalm 119:33-40.

When a friend opts to date someone who is old enough to be their parent, a common response is to see if the decision passes the “half their age plus seven” test. The rule, whose origins remain mysterious, has been passed down through generations as a way of justifying or, more commonly, pouring scorn on other people’s couplings. It’s fine for a 22- year-old to go out with an 18-year-old. It’s not OK for a 38-year-old to go out with a 23-year-old, however a 26-year-old would be fair game. The older you get, the wider the permissible age gap: a 50-year-old can venture as old as 86.






That’s the theory. In practice, research conducted by Christian Rudder, co- founder of OKCupid, a dating website, suggests that when it comes to age gaps, men and women have slightly different ideas. While female users look for men roughly the same age as them (or perhaps a year or two older) men prefer women in their early twenties, regardless of their own age. While women prefer a small and constant age gap, men are so hooked on the idea of a nubile young partner that they prefer a larger age gap the older they get.





Are men searching wisely? In theory there are plenty of reasons to favour a small age gap. The ability of both members of a couple to sing a favourite childhood television theme tune could bond them together, at the risk of irritating those nearby. And sharing the joy of getting a free bus pass at a similar time, or saving money from combining big birthday parties, is clearly attractive. Some economists have wondered whether smaller age gaps between partners could have wider, societal benefits, as they might help to narrow the gender earnings gap. Because earnings rise with age, and women tend to couple with older men, relative earnings around the time of childbirth could put subtle pressure on women to drop out of work. That said, a study that compared Danish twin sisters found that the earnings of women who married older men were no different, on average, than those who married men closer to them in age. Could a smaller age gap also make couples more likely to stay together? In 2014, the Atlantic claimed that “a five year age difference makes a couple 18 percent more likely to get divorced, compared to a couple born on or around the same year.” While the study cited – which polled American couples and ex-couples – did show an association between divorce rates and age gaps, it did not prove a causal link. Something about the kind of person who opts into a marriage with a large age gap could be driving the higher divorce rates, rather than the age gap itself. A bright young thing considering a silver fox should also take heart from a study by Britain’s Office of National Statistics. It did not find a strong link between age gaps and divorce rates in England and Wales, though there was some evidence that women marrying later than 30 who were more than ten years older than their spouse were more likely to divorce.






Common sense does suggest that a large age gap would have implications for old age. Having someone to look after you in your dotage is wise, as is avoiding widowhood. A younger, healthier partner could make sense, at least from your side of the equation. Another study by Sven Drefahl of the University of Stockholm looked at people over the age of 50 in Denmark, and found that men with younger spouses survived for longer than those with ones of a similar age. The older their spouse, the worse their survival chances, even after controlling for things like education and wealth. Again, the link might not be causal: healthy men might be particularly able both to attract younger mates and live to a ripe old age. But mysteriously, this phenomenon does not appear to apply to women, where the bigger the age gap, the worse their survival chances, regardless of whether they were younger or older. In the case of women with younger husbands, Drefahl suggested, the gender difference could be due to women being less reliant on their partner for support, and so benefiting less from the energies of a younger spouse. What evidence there is, therefore, vindicates the choices of OK Cupid’s users: women should pick men who are as close as possible in age to them, while men should look for younger women. A true economist, however, would look for better evidence, perhaps by comparing the marital bliss of random couples with varying age differences. Unfortunately for them, but luckily for the rest of us, people make their own choices – and are free to ignore silly rules of thumb.

Jlow2:
dnt feel bad bro,dats nigerian politics for.

Feel bad ! How ? You digress from the topic you raised.
Nothing in life that doesn't involves give and take.

Sexytemi:
I like her ni

You can only learn and follow part of her that will help you to the height you do desire and destined to be.
Probably a role model. You can developed yourself be better than her.

Jlow2:
as tinibu is sayin now, cheer up brother but its too late to cry wen d head is off

This is digression of you.

Jlow2:
as banjo is sitting and Abba is acting?

Whatever!

Sexytemi:
When I grow up, I want to be like mo

Be yourself you may be better than her

Jlow2:
for 20billion naira in 2011 wat of 2015, and were is the person u installed in 2015.

goan sit down

Jlow2:
the same yoruba that betrayed ur brother GEJ

Where were you when Tinubu sacrifice the votes meant for ACN to Jonathan? Ondo state did the same thing.

dreezybines:
Olodo buruku

Professor Wole Soyinka. Bad Belle it is allowed.

dreezybines:
Olodo buruku

Professor Wole Soyinka. Bad Belle it is allowed.

bellotaofeek:
Based on dreams abi? God will ans your prayers . At least you would call me to groove with you too o .

You should be a Prophet. God will answer your prayers too. Things will be fine. No mountains too high to climb.

Wike sef understand politics small.

My own Yatch is a bit bigger than this.

juman:
@bolded They went to abroad because of too much money.
Police commissioner in lagos is a billionaire.
You know nigeria system nah.

No Nigerian Senator get their money.

Sex before marriage? These are weighty points. Notwithstanding sex education should be taken seriously. The advantages and disadvantages are equal. Both have their negative and positive stand.

optional1:
unfortunately i didnt get this here on nairaland havent even seen it here self..

Btw d original owner u talking about might have gotten it from somewhere else and post it here.

Haaaaaaa ! I doubt the verity of your claim.

“On May 23, 1986, four young people were killed at the Ahmadu Bello University. I am saying this because somebody has said we are supporting this quit notice. Prof. Ango Abdullahi was the Vice Chancellor of Ahmadu Bello University. “When those students were killed by the police, he came out and said only four students were killed. That angered Nigerians, particularly Nigerian students, and there were protests. One of the universities where that protest was very successful was the University of Nigeria, Nsukka. “The man who led that protest was the late Chima Ubani. The state did not like that there was a national protest against the killing of students. The government did not arrest people in the North; they did not arrest students who were demonstrating in the West. “The Babangida regime went for Chima Ubani and arraigned him and eight of his colleagues under a military decree that required that they be sentenced to death. I left Lagos and went to Enugu to defend those young men and we got them freed. When they returned to campus, the Vice Chancellor expelled them. Again, I went to court and got them freed. “This story is important because a Hausa Vice Chancellor invited police and they killed four young Hausa people. Nigerian students protested and an Igbo young man led that protest in the East against injustice. There are lawyers in the east, but a Yoruba lawyer from the west went to free them. “So, we must look at those things that tie us together and not those ones that the ruling class are using to divide our people. Poverty is the same all over the country; injustice is injustice all over. There is no nation without challenges and there is no nation without problems. It is the ability of a nation to rise to the challenge that matters. “Those who are talking about restructuring, many of them are talking in the air. We must concretise this now. You can’t have political restructuring without economic restructuring. If you are talking about restructuring, you can’t be selling the assets of the country to individuals. “How can a serious nation be giving oil blocks to individuals when states are broke. You are not giving these oil blocks to states. States are not buying electricity companies. We have just been informed that what is owed to pensioners who have served our fatherland is N300 billion. Just this week, the Federal Government released N701 billion to those who bought our electricity companies. Initially, they were given N300 billion. That is over one trillion naira to manage darkness in our country. So, please, let us begin to ask relevant questions. “On the national conference, don’t be carried away because power is not given without a fight. Those who want implementation of the recommendations of the conference should be prepared for a struggle with Labour and with progressive extraction of the civil society. “The most important recommendation is never touched by the ruling class. The most important recommendation is chapter two of the constitution that the fundamental objective of the state shall be made justiciable. In other words, right to education, right to health, right to unemployment benefits and living minimum wage, which are all set out in that chapter. “Those who are talking of restructuring and federalism are not interested in these areas. But we must all remind them that the Awolowos, the Ahmadu Bellos and the Azikiwes of this world addressed social services for our people. That is no longer the case. So, please this talk about restructuring and federalism must be concretised. “You can’t be going to Abuja every month to take money and yet, you are talking of true federalism. True federalism means you must produce what you need in your area and then, we can ask everybody to pay.." Credits: Femi Falana, SAN.



Food is ready Lalasticlala.

igbodefender:
No be as dem dey take talk am be that na. Haba! It is,"My Lords, Temporal and Spiritual." You no see as e blend for mouth? What is, 'My Lord and Temporal' ? Hyiah!

Prof Itsejuwa Sagay Welcome.

Excerpt: Zik Interview with New Nigeria in 1975
...........
Again, however, when the 1954 constitution
conference started, my good friend, Chief Obafemi
Awolowo tabled a motion to the effect that in the
new constitution, provision should be made that any
state which feels like seceding should do so. I was
opposed to it and said ‘no’ and said that once we
have a federation, we are indivisible and perpetual.
That was when we began to use that expression -
‘The Indivisibility and perpetuity of the federation’ -
and that to secede would amount to treason. And
so, a debate ensued.
The Secretary of State then was Oliver Littleton, later
Lord Chandos and he was very much interested and
that was his first time in saying that the people of
African descent were people actually debating at a
high level. So a full day was given to Chief
Awolowo to make his points. He spoke brilliantly
as a lawyer. He made his points why secession
should be incorporated in the constitution. He cited
the case of the Soviet Union which is a federation,
and that secession is written there so that any state
in the Soviet Union can secede at will.
He also cited the case of Western Australia and
eventually he finished his case and was applauded.
We adjourned. The next day, I had to reply. I availed
myself of the opportunity to, well, demolish the
arguments of my friend and I cited the case of
United States which based its constitution on that
of the Swiss Confederation. That is Switzerland. I
pointed out a case, I think, that of Texas versus
White, where Mr. Salmon Chase, the Chief Justice
laid down the principle - he was really an arbiter -
that the union was intended to be perpetual and
indivisible and that any attempt to divide the union
by secession was treasonable.
The North (NPC) supported Action Group. The
question was then: Should we have secession? The
Colonial Office came to our rescue. You know, the
usual principle of Britain - ‘divide and rule’ (laughs)
but this time, it was in our favour. So, the colonial
office backed us. Lord Chandos said that on the
face of the arguments before him it would be
suicidal to incorporate secession in our constitution
and that is why we have section 86 in our
constitution that if any region or state should
secede, then it will be an act of treason and that
was what led to this war, because Col. Ojukwu
seceded and so violated the constitution.
Credit: Babafemi Ojudu


My Lords, Spiritual and Temporal. Seun and The Moderators.

optional1:
HOW TO KEEP THE LADY YOU ARE DATING:
Do you love your girl and you don't want another
man to snatch her from you? Then do the
following things:

1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her
attention, she will not seek for attention
elsewhere. Chat with her online via social media or else another man will.

2. Give her listening ears whenever she is
speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone or reading a newspaper when your girl is talking to you.

3. Do not promise her and fail. Do not promise her what you cannot do. It is better for you to say you don't have than to promise and fail.

4. Do not be stingy. Avoid telling her that you
don't have, you don't have all the time.

5. Be caring. To be caring does not only mean you should be giving her money. There are many ways of showing care; e.g show concern whenever she is sad or in problems; be by her side when she is in problems, do not abandon her in her days of sorrow.

6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful.

7. Tell her daily that you love her.

8. Play with her and joke with her daily.

9. Don't be too hard and don't be too soft. Scold her a little, and pet her a little. Do not over pet or over scold.

10. Love her siblings, and respect her parents.

11. Appreciate her when she helps you to do
something.

12. Allow her to advise you, seek her suggestions and respect her opinions.

13. Respect her.

14. Do not take her for granted.

15. Do not cheat on her.

16. Play with her hairs

17. kiss her on her forehead, cheek and neck. It will pass a good message to her.


18. Let her sit on your lap sometimes.




I dy my house dey do oro come beat me.

The next thing will be that those Mods will now close the thread of the original owner.


Don't cheat the gods. They could be angry. The gods are watching.

optional1:
HOW TO KEEP THE LADY YOU ARE DATING:
Do you love your girl and you don't want another
man to snatch her from you? Then do the
following things:

1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her
attention, she will not seek for attention
elsewhere. Chat with her online via social media or else another man will.

2. Give her listening ears whenever she is
speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone or reading a newspaper when your girl is talking to you.

3. Do not promise her and fail. Do not promise her what you cannot do. It is better for you to say you don't have than to promise and fail.

4. Do not be stingy. Avoid telling her that you
don't have, you don't have all the time.

5. Be caring. To be caring does not only mean you should be giving her money. There are many ways of showing care; e.g show concern whenever she is sad or in problems; be by her side when she is in problems, do not abandon her in her days of sorrow.

6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful.

7. Tell her daily that you love her.

8. Play with her and joke with her daily.

9. Don't be too hard and don't be too soft. Scold her a little, and pet her a little. Do not over pet or over scold.

10. Love her siblings, and respect her parents.

11. Appreciate her when she helps you to do
something.

12. Allow her to advise you, seek her suggestions and respect her opinions.

13. Respect her.

14. Do not take her for granted.

15. Do not cheat on her.

16. Play with her hairs

17. kiss her on her forehead, cheek and neck. It will pass a good message to her.


18. Let her sit on your lap sometimes.




I dy my house dey do oro come beat me.

Another man posted this in Nairaland and you give it a new topic. Hmmmmm. One of tomorrow leader's. You will get to Senate begin change the rules.

Please any update from Agege Stadium Venue of the Lagos Recruitment.