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The same happens to me. Poster thanks for creating this topic. Nonetheless I sometimes look good in some pics be it un-expected or expected. Although I have a friend that understands this photo thingy, that he always look good in all pics.

Maybe some pple can post their so called " I dnt look good pic" so we can justify it here.

sexybabes:
U beated me into it, was gona ask d same thing.I tot u said u removing urself from all the temptations?

How am I flirting?

blissieng:
@ Eyo

u tryna cheat right in front of us?

What's with the flirtin'

I dnt understand.

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! I knew it, she is a lesbo. No biggy though. I just love these laydees, aint ashamed to display their sexuality. Too bad Michelin, u know sey na iice get Muki. They share too much together that u can ever imagine, they wear the same bra, the same pata, they even share pamy inside the same otupu.

Just Terry-G muki. She can only appreciate ur feelings towards her, but u'll never get her.

Hairat007:
@ eyonniger

I am glad u have realised u made a mistake and dat u re working towards wat u called a cheat less relationship.
but how i wish it cld be a cheat free relationship. anyway, i wish u guys all d best 4rm d depth of ma heart.
and pls since u luv her, tk good kia of her lol.

Awww!! Thats so sweet, ok imma put it this way, cheat free relationship. And oh yes im taking care of her, Amidst other things, I just bought her a customized Ipod and a new Barca jersey to start off the season.

HmmmmM!!!!!

illusion2:
its just an 'apere'. u love pounded yam (like ur babe),but u still eat noodles(ur skele or 'belewu'   ),i.e both na for enjoyment ultimately. When it get to wife,confirmed then d analogy doesn't apply again.

Hope this helps?

Ur very wrong. Be it normal relationship, cheating still aint right. Whats the probability that if u cheat prior to marriage u wont cheat in marriage?

tea-baby:
My bro,shit happens but am glad a guy can actually feel bad about cheatng, since u lov ur gal dis much try nd aviod situatns dat will make u cheat .

I have been implementing measures since the past 2 days now to make sure that whatever may cause temptation wont come my way. I was with some few of my girlfriends (no string attached) I intentionally brought up the issue of cheating in a relationship, so i came up with a statement that I will never cheat on my girl, they were really amazed and interested in getting to hear more.

It was then that I knew that girls do really cherish guys that will not cheat on them or their Gf's.

Mukinot and Ika, u both are making this thread drown with the absence of iice.
She nor go happy if she come back see sey her thread don fall to page 2.

illusion2:
The same reason u eat noodles tho' u love ponded yam

Lol, but does that relate to relationship?

Poster, this is just the logic behind it. Do u still want ur ex back? If YES" then try to get him or her back, I mean if that should be ur case, then pushing away all the people u have dated is just because u still think and care about ur bf or gf.

On the other way round, if u dnt feel anything for ur ex nemore, or u dnt want him/her back, I suggest u are to take ur time to be ready for dating. The way am seeing things with u now is like ur in a rush to fill in the blank space in ur hearth which has eventually been leading to pushing away all those u have been trying to date.

Advise is take ur time, the right person that will lighten up ur emotions more than ur ex will come ur way.

sexybabes:
Im not a bro, i am a babe. Lol!!!!

Lol, ok babes

Thore, u and ur talks ehn!!

sexybabes:
U know as much as I do that it is wrong. The reason why it still goes on its only because people are greedy and never satisfied with what they have.
Thank you for clearing that one up. People turn to interpret Bible in a way to justify what their own deeds.
Let me make something clear to you. The fact that you cheated only twice doesnt make you a less cheater. You cheated, you are a cheater just like the one who cheated hundred times more its still the same thing.
There is no going from bad to good here, you still the same person you were six years ago when you were a player according to you.
And YES everyone makes mistakes(im no saint myself), the difference is DO YOU LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES & NEVER REPEAT THEM. If you gonna keep on that statement you still gonna make mistakes and claim they are mistakes. If you say cheating is a mistake, you cheated on her 1st time that should have been a mistake and it shouldn't have happened again.

And I am not crucifying you!

I knw u aint crucifying me bro. But you need to understand the fact that If were to be the hardened player I was years back, I would have cheated more than twice be it she being around or not. Though I still count myself as a player having cheated on her twice, but it still cannot be compared to those years. Thats why I said its a procedural step.

Besides, one can cheat and never feel bad about it, I felt bad and I am ready never to cheat anymore after this last time. And I pray that God helps me, cos he nor easy mehn.

Hairat007:
Feeling guilty, is very natural after d deed might have been done. but den it does'nt matter now does it?
if ur girl wnts 2 live long n stay out of a heart attack, i think she shld just act as if nothing ever happened,
wen she gets wind of it. dats wat i'll do if it were me cause no body is worth having a headache 4. Besides
enjoy ur life while still breathing lol.

Let me try to clear myself out here once more. I was a player for years until I met  my current bf in who I found a different kind of love, so I decided to stay clean and never to cheat on her. If you read my second post on this thread, I speculated that I have only cheated on her twice, the first time there was no remorse, but this second cheating made me feel bad.

Now you can see that Im going from bad to good, but on the verge of completing myself as being a good boy, to attaining self control was not that easy for me since its a procedural step, I made mistakes twice, of which one of the mistake brought about remorse. So I say its a stepping stone for me to go beyond what I crave for (cheat-less relationship).

I am quite confident that I am not the only guy that has gone from bad to good regarding what the post is all about, and this is to the people crucifying me for the mistake I made. Yes MISTAKE I SAY, Every1 makes 1.

cheating is cheating, regardless of any gender, no1 shud say there are some thangs men do that women should not venture on. That is feminism in its own department.

Mumu pple. Inferiority complex dey worry una. If ur arch rival fans no come here use una Pah like punching bag, aint u guys gonna be left bored out? We still dey help una, una dey complain sey we dey show for this thread.

Abi na debosky, FBS, bluediva or Ibime go come dey chit chat with una for here?Well he be like sey I se two getafe fans for this sport section, maybe they can help out since na them dey Bleep both of our yansh wella. Yall better be good.

guy, u are suppose to be pimping chics n not coming here to stir up unnecessary talk. You talk sey u be closet barca fan, which one come be all this one wey u dey yarn?? Abeg come off ya shell.

Khanye i dey ooo, just chilling.

I doubt it can kill in this our Nija. With all the agumu, sepe, jedi aale, and monkey wey men dey drink? Mehn he nor fit happen. Thats just for some selected few, in general terms, our atmosphere is too harsh for such an American invented virus to come flourish here. WORD!!!

I really do not buy sets of pefs, just 1 is enough for me, buy another until it finishes.

Currently im using : Tom Ford's Black orchid

Nothing smells better than this, but my all time favorite pef would be and will ever be JPG.

Im sure no pef freak on here can say he/she has never worn that before.

blissieng:
@ Poster,

Why do u think u felt bad after you've done it? becos it shouldnt have happened.
We all know that. And as often as it happens and you feel bad and someone says something that makes ur conscience at peace, you'll continue to cheat and eventually ur conscience will be seared. It'll become normal for you to cheat.


You say you love this girl, how do you think she'll feel when she finds out? you think u r being too careful and that cannot happen? that'd be a great lie. these things have a way of biting us on our behind.

If you know you cannot be faithful with her away then make sure you guys are not apart. at least not for long. It's all a sacrifice.

BTW. I dont support sex outside of marriage. as commanded by God. But that's a personal bone we all have to chew with God. Each man his own.

If I'm away from my partner, boyfriend, fiancee or husband for 30 years, I KNOW I'll remain faithful. It'll be hard, but it can be done.



I have a question for you, how will you feel if the shoes were on the other foot?

Have u ever heard that if u use a Love Machine in ur bf's absence, u are also cheating? How can u survive 30 years without helping urself 1 way or the other. Maybe masturbation would do. @ ur question: If she was the one doing this, I would feel bad just the way am feeling bad cheating on her. I think maintaining a cheat- less relationship takes the grace of God to maintain, and it is also a procedural step in our relationship lives. Can no 1 tell me they have not cheated on their bf/gf, not all, but I can bet 95% of the majority have.

pc guru:
You know i laugh when pple cheat and make it not a big deal.@eyonigger it means you're weak and not strong willed probably you can't commit to anything good.As for your ill advisers here you all losers.Hi5

I cnt commit to anything good? Is cheating a good thing? even though it aint that a big deal. So feeling guilty cos I cheated on a girl I love makes me some1 that cannot commit to anything good? Bra u are offscript, besides I see u as some1 that wants to erupt wahala here. But me nor get ur time.

Hhehehhehe, ogazi_rainbow, u nor be better person. Terry-G this people make them PB no go rise.

Awon omo aye.

Ben20001:
continuous cheating reduces the love.

as time goes on, you discover dat the original love you have  for your gurl is drastically reducing.

Ben, I rarely cheat, a year and the half relationship, and I have only cheated twice. It only happened when she was not around and I was really Hot. Funny enough I heard about this " emotional cheating and just sneaky cheating
Categorically, it means when u cheat emotionally, u are seeing another girl sharing the same kind of feeling u have for ur original bf with another girl, while sneaky cheating means u shagged a girl u dnt have feelings for just for the sake of being so Hot with no strings attached similar to what I engaged myself with yesterday.

All in all, do yall still count emotional and sneaky cheating as the same? I am trying to partition my guilt based on what Nlanders would categorize this kinds of cheating as.

DaudaAbu:
All this advice. i tire ooohhh.

If a man keeps coming back it means jst 1 thing. He culdnt fiond what u guyz had b4 with any1 else.

4get those telling u dat all he want is **x. if he is a player as u said then its not hard for him 2 com across gals 2 lay.

and bliv me playaz dnt think any gal is worth coming back 2 xcept she's got somtin xtra which they couldnt get any where els. if he keeps coming back it means he like u enuf to wana b with you and if u realize u did have what makes him comin back then girl, u can make the RULES.

Dnt throw what u guys have away just like that. u keep runnin out to c him, so u lov him still. work on him.

Bro u have a very good point there. If the dude just want sex, he could have gotten it from the other girls calling her, but bro the poster's sex might be sweeter than the others yanno. But if its ur loving and all that existed in the relationship is what the dude is missing that he cnt get from other gurls, I feel he truly wants u back, and I also think the rest of the girls calling him are the ones he has been or trying to hook up with while u guys broke up. Really they dnt mean shyt to him right now, but u are!!! Advise is, let go of all those thoughts of him calling other girls baby, and try to reconstruct what has been demolished.

Hello Nlanders!! Yesterday night, I cheated on my girlfriend and I felt very bad afterward. I really love my girl and I just do not know what befell me to have cheated on her.

My guys in the house wey love their girl. Do you cheat on ur girl? I mean 1nce in a while, if so, what causes it? I think mine is the fact that she is not around and I needed to shag. Because I know some people would say if u love some1, u will never cheat on them. But I love this girl, not lust for her, and I still cheated, so I think this "If You love her.u will never cheat on her" theory is a bit twisted.

Question for the guys that love their girl: Do you cheat despite the fact that you are in love with ur gurl?