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Okay now u'v rilly got me started.Let me just say it as it is.When mansions are talkin "face me i face u" will also want to rise to the occassion.Guy u're suffering a serious identity crisis,which leads to manic depression and eventually suicide.Get help fast,i know a therapist that can help u & it had beta be sooner rather than later.

So na u be the mansion, sebi u dey claim fine boy, post ur real pic on here, cold abi wetin u call urself, he be like sey ur brain dey fold? Na me u dey give illustration of wetin I need? Abegee na  u need am.

eyonigger:
I am not gay, why can you guys at least say something as matured individuals, I mean, I only asked for help, not dent, its not my fault that I am feeling this way, yall should be encouraged that some1 can actually come out and say something like this out, yunno so many peeps might feel this way and wud never let it out, please be nice,

Your comment is off script bra, read my post and resend ur response on it, ya grab

What else can I be thinking of, I have finished school and earning 300k per month with BETA computer, just 24 going to 25, guy i know sey u wan dey yab me, so dnt try to sound nice,

HeatFusion:
You're welcome. Anytime


You need help. wetin you dey do comparing yourself to fine boys out there? Low self esteem or you're denying your gayness

I am not gay, why can you guys at least say something as matured individuals, I mean, I only asked for help, not dent, its not my fault that I am feeling this way, yall should be encouraged that some1 can actually come out and say something like this out, yunno so many peeps might feel this way and wud never let it out, please be nice,

cold:
Ah ah!!Wich one be this one again? When the real cute guys like us remain quiet and let them honies sing the praises,sombody is on here tryin to raise his ego.Listen mate no matter how good one looks there's alwayz som1 beta.Get a grip.

Your comment is off script bra, read my post and resend ur response on it, ya grab

vicade:
@ Topic

Your woman is gone. She is 16 and beautiful and she is going to be among wolves. Everything you do, there will always be a guy that will be willing to do double and the fact you have been dating for just 2 months does not help matters.

Best thing is for you to have a Plan B and enjoy it while it lasts cos it ain't gonna last long

Whats the plan B? But she''s still gonna be coming home for hols, guys All i want u to tell me is what I can do in order to still remain number 1, or should I just call the relationship a quit? I dey give am head with one tongue, are there guys that have two tongues Lol

HeatFusion:
Am fine, sweetie, how ur sunday?

@Rebellious
That guy is not fine

Thanks for saying am not fine, at least I am proud to be one of the fine boys that would be confident enough to say am fine, I mean alot of fine boys are there that will get compliments that they are fine, but they'll go mehn me i no fine ooo, and they know deep down that they are, abegee make we see ur own photo,

big father:
Inferiority complex . How you go see a fellow man come dey fear cause say him fine pass you ?
Pally, MONKEY NOR FINE O BUT HIM MAMA LIKE AM SO !

Please take note that I only made out one point about feeling self initmated by just other guys cuteness surpassing mine, not their swag, dressing or money, I got money, i dress well, my personality is WHOA!!! Besides that, my swaga is automatic, so that counts more about me,

pc guru:
Got a feeling that pix was snapped for this thread.incase we check his profile.but u no bad.get used to it finer boys dey.just be happy say u no get small boy face like ,

The only good response I have gotten on this thread, thanks bra!!

My man, I close my eyes when am having a very romantic kiss, thats the best way to go about it. Who d Bleep is jessica simpson? That one know anything about KISS?

I am a fine boy, but I feel self intimidated when I see finer guys most especially in social gatherings. To me, I dont feel good about it, its not just right to be feeling that way, and I just cannot control it. What do you guys think I can do about this?

@taken, yes its true,,,very very possible

@Poster, first off, I want to sound funny, shey na starcomms or multilinks u dey use browse? If its either of those two, then be rest assured that your email has went straight to junk mail or direct to draft, lol. That alone would not make him see the email. Listen for the fact that he enforced a friendship after you guys broke up, and you started treating him bad for a reason, then you guys set apart, I think he feels the best way to let it be is to ignore your email, that way he'll be able to forget about you forever.

I have had almost the same situation when my girlfriend and I broke up, she proposed friendship in which I told her was not going to be easy, I ended up being friends with her, and then we started kissing again but with no understanding that we are in a relationship, at last I figured out she was going out with another guy while I was still trying to ask her out. What did I do, I sent hera txt to forget about our friendship, never to call or send me txt messages, she responded and I never did respond, because if I did, conversation will keep piling up and something can start up from there again. So get it right, he ignored your email in order to set the issue straight, which is, I am gone forever.

Czarskit:
You've lost her already.
U r presently left wit 2 options, get her baq or get sum1 else.

Either of us have not declared it over yet, we are still playing hard to get, she aint calling, am not calling, I am actually planning to go back to my ex who loves me more than I do to her, cos my mum told me to always stick to a gurl that I knw loves me more than I do to her, but I love my present gurl, time will take me to heal if I did lose her, but ooowheee!!! Nor be today I have been heartbroken and getting out of the pain.

Taken:
Some times you cant blame some of these guys for balalaing some of these teens cus many of them these days are on an extreme heat period without leash.
I have seen a ten years old pregnant girl.

Even when it is not right to do so, you cant stop these full packaged teen girls not to tempt a brother.  Only that a brother needs to control himself sometimes.

@Taken, U are right, U can imagine me not meeting my gurl a virgin at the age of 16, I mean she is too fine for a mammy water self, tall with big boobies and big ass. Abegee, even priest go wan yansh am,

Poster has not been online since 2007, so she must have found a husband that has popped her cherry, better still a sharp dude that breached all her security into entering the flower point and breaking it.

Some dudes up here are talking like savages, I mean in Nija here, ages 15 upward does not really matter in a relationship because them dey over soji, and its not like they are being sexually manipulated into bed. My own gurl has balad, but that dont mean I have to, you should all know that most young gurls from ages 15 upward have had sex in this our so called Nigeria.

bluespice:
the grammar, vocabulary and sentence structure of the poster leaves one wondering
what attracted the 16 year old to him in the first instance

I just wonder why you guys are up here blasting my vocabs,grammar and sentences, do u know what? Thats woeva, it aint like you do not understand what I have written, this is not an essay writing, so be matured bra!!!

omega25red:
@ poster have you ever had sex? and why are you obssesd with being with a virgin?

i think men who want virgins are afraid of women their age or women who have experience because you feel you might not measure up.
Seriously if you had a history before her, why cant she have one too?

I am not obsessed about the fact that shes no more a virgin, I am only talking about if she lied about what she said, finding out does not make any big difference, I know its a lie, but I need more insight,thats all. Besides I use to finger Bleep her, and I dont think that pussy is really wide that much, but who knows, finger might not be able to do the research wella.

@ TOYOSI, Its not a surprise that any lady that comes on here would blast me, please visit another thread.

Its a big deal, WHY? Because we are both still talking, and we are actually accusing each other of what we have done or lied about in the past, this let alone could end the case by the time i hit the nail on the head regarding this issue.

Big lie, how can someone save another person number with an international country code, and when the person calls, it will show an international number, please pple like this should be able to contribute to issues valid, not fabricating it, u no sabi lie @ all. If a number is not saved correctly, call wont come through, its only a name that can be edited or changed.

Hahahha, u guys are funny, but she don bala before na? And she wan dey bala dey go? Make I come dey dull? @ d person that says I gonna go to hell, are we not all sinners? I know am wrong, but two wrongs cant make a right cos she self don bala before. Besides it aint only bala that is on my mind, I love her but as a guyman that has invested my whole feelings into this gurl, I am entitled to a balala, please feel me.

Please yall, I need more insight on this issue, there are secret juries ready to pronounce if its true or false what she said, but it certainly depend on your views and response on this thread.

Man you are perfectionist in explanation and illustration, what more?? Man words can explain, i dey feel u die, /.

Man me, I never bala this gurl na, to be sincere, na wetin dey worry me be that. Actually neglecting her is what I have started since yesterday, she just called some minutes ago to ask me something, told her, and she said ok, bye, and she hung up, , Me i just wan bala make i know sey i no lose at all.

You know attimes there are things that would seem like a pure lie but could be true, but as a street boy, I know sey she don bala b4, but I just did not want to debate on the issue because I felt she was not trying to play me but lieing to protect her image with me.

I actually forgot to input the fact that she is more than 16 in character and any other thing you can think of, this is the first relationship having to be with a young girl, and its nothing different to any other matured girls that I have been with. So what you guys are saying is that I should just forget the relationship? Or should I just stop worrying myself and see the way things would go either ways?

Na toto be the decoy wey dey rule men, and men is the world, so women rule the world,

But I am not showing it to her that am worried.

My ex-girlfriend and I have dated for 8 months, during the first month of our relationship, she opened up to me that she aint a virgin, that her ex-bf finger bleeped her causing a loss to her virginity,and concluded that she has never had privates in her puzzy ever before. I believed her, then I started exercising doubt when we were both in my car having a good conversation, she suddenly asked me how big my privates is, then I used my car hand break to make a description, then she said, damn, that would not even get to any level inside a gurl, I exploded inside of myself and said, gurl u told me u have never had any sexual experience, how could you have known if the size of my privates would reach a level in you or not. She said it does not matter, that she has had sexual conversations with friends and read some couple of sex stories. Do yall think she has actually had sex or she actually lied about not having sex just to protect herself from me looking at her like a slut? Please give me an insight!!!

My Nija pple, I have been a dummy for a while now, seeking answers to questions that really needs urgent response to, I have been going on yahoo.answers to seek answers to my questions, but I figured out that white men or even black Americans cannot give me an accurate answer unlike my own nija peeps that understands the way things are here.

I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now,  I am 24 and shes 16, beautiful with all assets required to be a modellino. Please do not say am a child abuser. We are both in love with each other. I am scared right now cos she just resumed school far away in Owerri as a jambite, and I feel I might lose her due to the fact that most nija girls that enters Uni for the first time tends to lose focus from their present relationship regardless of the fact that they are in love or not.  She usually wake me up in the morning with calls or txt messages, but nw she does do that, so Im having a feeling that the feeling is fading gradually. I know it is very obvious that she'll have a relationship there, I do not mind, but what do you guys think I can do in order to sustain this relationship in a way that I can still be her number 1, I am so much in love with this gurl that any little error in our relationship makes me hyper. Nija sensible soji guys abeg help with sensible advise.