My Nija pple, I have been a dummy for a while now, seeking answers to questions that really needs urgent response to, I have been going on yahoo.answers to seek answers to my questions, but I figured out that white men or even black Americans cannot give me an accurate answer unlike my own nija peeps that understands the way things are here.

I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now,  I am 24 and shes 16, beautiful with all assets required to be a modellino. Please do not say am a child abuser. We are both in love with each other. I am scared right now cos she just resumed school far away in Owerri as a jambite, and I feel I might lose her due to the fact that most nija girls that enters Uni for the first time tends to lose focus from their present relationship regardless of the fact that they are in love or not.  She usually wake me up in the morning with calls or txt messages, but nw she does do that, so Im having a feeling that the feeling is fading gradually. I know it is very obvious that she'll have a relationship there, I do not mind, but what do you guys think I can do in order to sustain this relationship in a way that I can still be her number 1, I am so much in love with this gurl that any little error in our relationship makes me hyper. Nija sensible soji guys abeg help with sensible advise.

Common my man, you should have better plans for your life beside worrying over a small girl that is yet to know about life.
Build your life, plan for your future, and let time and chance leads you to your final destination.
For the fact that you are worrying over this girl, you have already lost her.

Stop worrying.

But I am not showing it to her that am worried.

Look what I meant is don't fret over her but fret over building a solid life.
2. Most Young pple are unstable cus they have less/no experience about life
3. Definately, she will meet richer, better, more attractive, and more influential guys; You cant do nothing about that.
And she alone can determine that none of these would influenced her heart
4. Broken relationship is better than broken marriage
5. Let nature takes his toll.

common man be serious with ur self a 16yrs old gal. it is so very illegal to date a 16 yrs old gal not to talk more of u worrying about her seeing someone else, if it were to be in a mordenized country u will be jailed for 3 yrs. more over she is bound to meet people, but if ur relationship with her really means any thing to her u will still remain her num 1, u are just feeling insecure. sort ur self out first, become a better man , cos i think that will make u feel better.

she don leave u o. Accept my deepest sympathy

U hash o!

o boy, forget the girl.
but wetin u dey do with a 16 yr old anyways?

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Common my man, you should have better plans for your life beside worrying over a small girl that is yet to know about life.
Build your life, plan for your future, and let time and chance leads you to your final destination.
For the fact that you are worrying over this girl, you have already lost her.

Stop worrying.

Don't mind him, he has not seen anything yet.
@ poster
what news or story have been hearing about a fresher in higher institution especially girls?

@poster

you must have been thinking with your lower head for even going out with a 16year old, for goodness sakes, 16year old girls are so stupid, oh sorry, i meant STUPID, what value could a 16year old girl possibly add to your life, your ways of thinking should be different, thats another mistake, they don't even think at all, their actions are fuelled by irrational impulses, they are always lightheaded cos there's obviously nothing in the brain, the brain is still highly populated with more watery than solid tissues, they are highly sentimental and subjective and most of their choices and decisions are sieved through concepts and notions gotten from all those cheap skate novels, need i say more?, so my guy, consider it a love gift from the heavenlies that both of you are now somewhat apart, MOVE ON.

u re freting over a babe? for bleeping wot.
let me tell u something, forget about her.
i said that coz i know girls are naturally unstable,
and at that age, she is more naturally over unstable.
dont u know that d second name 4 girls is out of site is out of mind, if u aint gat dough.

im 95% sure she wil neglect

@1one, age dont realy matter,maturity matterz alot,have dated a 14years gurl,she love me so much,why? im her 1st love.

I actually forgot to input the fact that she is more than 16 in character and any other thing you can think of, this is the first relationship having to be with a young girl, and its nothing different to any other matured girls that I have been with. So what you guys are saying is that I should just forget the relationship? Or should I just stop worrying myself and see the way things would go either ways?

eyonigger ill advice u to carry on, dude u knw wat up? dont flash,text or call her for one week,if she ask why ur not being calling,lie dat ur down! but if she dont care to call or text u,just forget abt her. dat d way i do my thang.

Man me, I never bala this gurl na, to be sincere, na wetin dey worry me be that. Actually neglecting her is what I have started since yesterday, she just called some minutes ago to ask me something, told her, and she said ok, bye, and she hung up, , Me i just wan bala make i know sey i no lose at all.

why you dey worry, expect the worst most likely she will misbehave and you will get mad, and call it off, if you dont expect too much you maybe pleasantly surprised.

eyonigger it not mandatory u bala her? bcoz if u do,u don sin? if u sin u go dey hellfire? if u dey hellfire u don die be dat. lol just kidding but plz dont bala her.

excuse me but wats 'bala'

that said wht on eath is a 24 yr old doing with a 16 year old?
its understandable if ur friends
but u claim to be dating her
ur a sad case for a peadophile
ur ass should be frying in jail and yes i meant that in every way possible!

that said i can only hope that she finds a person best suited to her age when she gets to uni
u might love her, but wait till she's matured enough to be able to objectively define what ever it is she feels or doesnt feel for u

Bala = bang bang her. Please my friend, your feelings should not be to bala. Have some respect.
Well another thing you can do is to wait for her till she graduated from college - if you truly believes she is God's choice for you.
But to bala only, I beg you o to kick such thought and impulses out. Do you want some dude to bala you sisters and cousins for sport?

Hahahha, u guys are funny, but she don bala before na? And she wan dey bala dey go? Make I come dey dull? @ d person that says I gonna go to hell, are we not all sinners? I know am wrong, but two wrongs cant make a right cos she self don bala before. Besides it aint only bala that is on my mind, I love her but as a guyman that has invested my whole feelings into this gurl, I am entitled to a balala, please feel me.

Nothing wrong with balalaing, but even if she has done it before, you play the big dawg by showing true love and respect.
See pple think sey the guys who dey keep quiet are suwegbes.  But what pple dont know nah sey, there is power in quietness and in submission.
Consider a snake for example! Remember also that empty vessels make the most sounds.

@ OP

Ur case really is pathetic and disturbing to say the least!!!

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ TOYOSI, Its not a surprise that any lady that comes on here would blast me, please visit another thread.

eyonigger:

@ TOYOSI, Its not a surprise that any lady that comes on here would blast me, please visit another thread.

ROFLMGBO!!!

U better be kidding me, this is an open forum fortunately, and i gave ma two cents as such, so WTF are ya on about!!

The difference BTW us is that I don't come and spill ma guts, and misery on a public forum!!!

Anyways take it easy I trust this would be the last I'd be hearing from ya!!!

Wait, pull back she is SIXTEEN years of age!!! You should be ashamed of yourself. *dials child protective services*

If i were the girl's brother you shld be worrying about your freedom more than whether she will leave you or not.

Foolish boy go and make something out of your life instead of worrying a person who shld still be hugging teddy bears. Allow her to grow my friend.

I no fit shout

the grammar, vocabulary and sentence structure of the poster leaves one wondering
what attracted the 16 year old to him in the first instance

You are an abuser fool.

24 Year old man and a 16 year old girl dont go together!!

**~~Find someone your age~~**