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allboyz:
see your sef. . .na him b say u no even love ur GF? i fear u o0o. . .

Nop I love her, I am just trying to quote an example in difference to what he said.

gabrywyl:
Ok I wanted to say something but I think I better pass. . .

Gab, u dnt need to cease spitting on my thread, no matter what, coz u dey make sense pass some mumu, if its possible for personal invites to be made for comments with strict restrictions , It wud be much more better than having clowns and cloned souls coming here to sprout.

bluespice:
u are both selfish n unrealistic
u dont love her yet u dont want to let her go cos ur trying to secure ur situation
nansense!

Who are the selfish ones? Yes I know I am obviously one of them, so who is the other person ur referring to? My number 1 or 2? Plz be specific so u dnt sound dumb.

tobadof:
Guy,

if she's boring and you feel you always have to complain about it then one would like to think you're also boring. if you're not boring then you should liven up the relationship.

if you want to fall in love with this girl then start by calling her all the time and replying her messages. try to think about her good traits and character. think about her all day long and take her out frequently and involve her in some of your personal life and endeavours. if after trying this you can't boast that you love her or that you have any feelings for her then i think you should call it quits.

I am not boring my guy, no be sey mouth, I know I can work on trying to get us clicked in every way possible, the main issue is my number 1, I am still putting my actions on pending whether to end it with her, I cannot do that until I knw for sure why she's changed, cutting it short, I cannot jump fully into a onesided relationship when the main one has not been called quits. You have got some good advise on what I shud do in order to fal in love with her, however all plan is made, bt time I wait.

allboyz:
your GF would be happy. . . at least,she would be sure that her friends would laff and won't take u from her (that's if she loves u anyway).

Cheers

Lol, u are also wrong though apart from being funny, what if any of her friend's are of the same height or even shorter than I am, wont that be a problem if I am attracted to her?

I am travelling to owerri to spend vals with my girlfriend, she's like an inch and the half taller than I am, now I am scared about what are friends might be saying regarding the height difference, I dnt have a problem on my own with the difference, I am just falling my own hand thinking of what her friends might say, Lol.

What do u guys think?

agbala, why u dey cast now? Leave that one to the sexuality section.

gabrywyl:
2 lovers WHAT?? Na waa ooo. . . U said you have no hummer how you fit have 2 lovers naw?

Did you not read my post from the start? Yes 2 of them. one I love, one I dont.

alfchye:
My Friend get her to contact me asap.Don't waste her time.If you don't know how to show love, allow her rest.
I sorry for u.A bird in hand is worth two in the bush.It is obvious ur real girlfriend has found another date and you urself was really boring to her.
So find sum1 who will like you and u would also like.I think that is kinda hard.Try Hard

I was never a bore to my real gurl, she is used to me and Im used to her when she was around, we click in every way possible. She is only drawn away becoz of change of environment and pressure.

agaba123:
You said she is kinda caged, that could be the reason why she does not know what to say. It is possible she answers you phone at an ear shot from her parents. What do you expect her to say?

She is new in the game, you should give her time. From the what you have been saying, I even think you as a guy cannot stimulate a convo. That could be why your other sharp babe stopped calling you.

You ask her about herself and that's it . You then wait for her to start from where you stopped?

Finally, have also considered it is possible your presence or voice takes away her breath that she feels wrapped in your presence and cannot think out a word?

Be careful before you lose. She can learn to talk as she get more used to you but if you get someone who does not love you and knows how to talk . . . . hehe

It is easier to learn how to talk than how to love.

If you think you have a better option, you can leave her. Badly enough you don't even know how to go about toasting a girl.

First thing first, I have never seen some1 that can stir up convo, I mean sweet and entertaining convo like I do, be u with known or unknown person. I guess am just selfish not trying to step her up into having a good convo with me. And who told u I dnt know how to toast a gurl?

gabrywyl:
Ok, on second thought, I was thinking. . . Do you spend alot of time with her? Cause if you dont, I suggest you start ooo cause than you both can get to know more of each other but if you have and you still dont find any click with her maybe you could ask her on how does she feels about you and ask her about her mind about you.

I hardly go to see her, lets say once in a month, before I can start anything to the fullest with her, I wud have to see the way things go with my real lover when I go to see her, thats when i'll know her real feelings if it has changed or not.

Guy, I am in the same shoes with u, my gurl just resumed school in owerri as a jambite, and ever since she left, she has been acting anyhow, I am adhering to her negative behaviour, which is the key to still stick on to the one u love, thats if u love her. So jst keep playing along, she'll get back to her senses.

Inferiority complex is probably her problem. As for me, whenever I catch any butter gurl, instead of carrying her to a posh restaurant, i go first carry am go ukwobi joint to let her know sey i be creamboy/streetboy, na that one go make girl dey die for u the more. That gurl na yau yau.

My guy, it depends on ur friend, if ur friend is the type that does not show stuff, I mean one that keeps secret very tight, then he has probably been giving your woman doggy somewhere in the office toilet or woeva. He be lyk sey u never know some women. What I'll advise is just to keep watching, if she is truly cheating, I swear u go catch them.

This section of nairaland is poorly visited.

gabrywyl:
I mean like since you and her do not click and theres no spark, yeah, you should leave her. Just tell her the truth that you dont feel that theres any spark.

Well, Imagine this! Although I come from malaysia but the thing is that I am born in one of the tiniest island on earth where theres no opportunities here, even hardly we have tourist visiting unless if its the oil and gas sector and also hardly anyone around the world or hardly anyone in other parts of Malaysia knows my location. Most of them dont e ven know it exist!

Yet my bf is a Nigerian. I mean like how did that happen?

So what Im just trying to say is that when its time for you to find your partner, so shall it be. Theres always a way and God will always make a way for each and everyone of us. Havent you heard the phrase?

God will make a way, when it seems to be no way, He workd in ways, we cannot see, He will make a way for me, . . . . .

P/S: Besides, you look like a very cute handsome guy. Im sure you will find your mate one way or another

You are such an inspiration, I mean, cnt even say much, i dey feel u die, Although I jst dnt know how to tell her, I jst do not know.

gabrywyl:
There are so many fishes in the sea. Once its not meant to be, so its not meant to be. Why force yourself to engage in something which your heart is not up to?

True there are so many fishes out there, I have a problem though, I have never gone out searching for Mrs right, I come across gurls that I date by chance, maybe on the street or woeva. Are you saying that I shud leave her? If I have to, that wud be diplomatically, wont throw the bullet straight.

cvibe:
@poster,

Try to stimulate her interests and encourage her to get out of her cocoon.

How can I do that?

Sisi Jinx:
Exactly!!

Besides, I'd rather you left her alone (You two timing pansy  ) to find someone else than advice you on ways to make yourself feel the same way.

I hate to hurt people's feelings, most especially in a relationship, a young girl like that cannot be heartbroken by me, talkless of the fact that my breaking up with her is not by infidelity.

allboyz:
its hard to believe that girls this days are boring. . .

you can't force her too.

Maybe,you make your self boring too.

Hen!!?? How would it take u a hard time to believe that? As for this gurl, this is her first relationship ever, she rarely comes out of the house unless she's going with her folks, I mean her conversation is so boring, to be frank enough, if I call and say hello, she say's whats up, then i go , whats happening, u cool, and bla bla bla, yes yes yes is all she answers, if i ask her a question, mehn i can even go on, she is just too boring.
maybe i did not get what you meant by BORING.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Boring is subjective.  What one finds boring, another finds interesting.
She is boring to him because he probably doesn't find much interesting or exciting about her - mentally and emotionally they are on different planes.[/color]

Iice, I understand what ur tryna say, trust me, we both share almost the same emotional feelings, but the factor remains she is a boring gurl in terms of conversation, and conversation in any relationship I am in is always a key thingy!!

Tupac shakur!

ekong0514:
"With all given respectively 4rmwat they individually want 4rm a man,they'll still end up cheating!!"


Of course my Brother,

But U dnt specify if twas ladies still cheating or The guys

Both ofcourse, I am going to create a thread about who is more favored to cheat, man or woman.

go to warri, u'll find a stonehearted lady that matches ur kind.

JJYOU:
boring. why is she boring? she maybe shy definately not boring. work on her you may bring the best out of her

you see the church Christ is carrying along dont know how to do right yet He continously love, teach and train her.

you have opportunity to influence a life for good do it or leave her alone.

I think I might have to work on that.

With all given respectively 4rmwat they individually want 4rm a man,they'll still end up cheating!!

Ben20001:
Try and make yourself boring too

Boring advise

ariblaze:
guy this is very simple

you are hurting the girl

you really cant maintain two meaningful relationships

if you leave the gurl sometime in the future you would bitterly regret it

if you find her boring, what attracted you to her in the first place?

i am sure, she would have strong points and i am quite sure that as long as she isnt dumb

there would always be a common ground for conversation,you just need to work hard at it








ps: don't think she doesn't know she isn't the only one,

remember r:kelly's song. . . .when a woman is fed up, well fate has a way of playing cruel tricks , when she gets fed up would be when you discover you actually have more than a passing thing for her



think dude

Well I can I think she knows that she aint the only one, bt she just dnt mind, what actually attracted me to her was her beauty and most especially her hazel eyes, and she's damn humble. But I never knew she would be that boring at the end of the day, and the gurl is still a virgin. U actually did not give me advise on what I need to do in order to feel the same way she does and ignore that fact that she's boring.

pipmaster:
Go 4 d one U Love!!!
Wen U are torn in between two options U don usually get any.

Bt the one I love is drifting away, I do not want to invest my time and heart on a gurl that seems to be unsure, my next move is to develop feelings for this Ghanian/nija gurl. Heard its better u go for a gurl that loves u more than u do for her.

I have been dating this gurl for almost a year and the half now. She calls me and I hardly call her, she sends txt and I find it hard to reply. She complains about my negligence, but not too much, although she's half Ghanian half Nigerian, thats why I feel she is still tolerating me unlike any other normal Nija gurl go don quit.


The koko here is that, I have 2 gurls, in which the one am in love with has gone to school, and perfectly drifting away since she does not call or send txt again, so I am trying to like move closer to this other Ghanian/Nigerian girl in order to maintain my emotional status. But the more reason why I dnt feel this girl is because she is just too boring, and conversation , I mean good conversation matters alot to me in a relationship. She is fine, young and charming, bt too boring for me.


Beyond every doubt, the girl loves me, bt I still dnt feel the same, but I really want to feel the same, is there anthing yall think I can do to feel the same way she does disregarding the fact that she's boring?

Makavelli: can i sleep like ur slow ass? Eyo is on the hustle day and night, if u need money u gast to shine ur eye bright
looking4mate12: cunt
looking4mate12: good thing u doing that
looking4mate12: cause i just got paid fool
looking4mate12: while u were sleeping
looking4mate12: guess u aint hussling like u ought to
looking4mate12: u just hussle pussy meanwhile i got mine
Makavelli: You are the CUNT, cos u fake urself too much and u over-STUNT
looking4mate12: dnt blame u maybe i blame the BLUNT thats what has got u acting all SKUNKED
Makavelli: pussy why r u stealing rhymes from my LINES, Dnt u know doing that could result you paying some FINES
Makavelli: Im a fine boy but I act like a FRANKESTINE/ I'll blow ur head up with rhyme like Israel bomb gaza in PALESTINE
Makavelli: I drop lyrics that hits up ur brain to ur INTESTINE/ Dnt let me act upon u cos its gonna be a needless CRIME/
looking4mate12: well i guess you the one with weak as rhymes,cuase in time you will realize i get my money on time
looking4mate12: oleeeee
Makavelli: I get the money on time b4 u start realising YOUR'S, Cos all ur minus is Eyoniggers PLUS/
Makavelli: Trying to get in the battle with me is not by FORCE/ But at the end i rather prove to you that am tha BOSS/
looking4mate12: yeah wait for my minus to be your plus soon u will realise your life is a senseless clause,by then it would be too late cause yo boi studd d boss is just gonna floss at your loss
Makavelli: Guy ur finger dey CHOKE? U no fit freestyle-type rhymes, u dey claim sey eyo dey SMOKE/
Makavelli: anyway if u wana take the freestyle into a personal Floss, I blind u leaving u to DISTORTt, I take the money and end up in a RESORT
looking4mate12: i see u short of words well thats what u get for tryin to mess think from your balls, cus STUDD he aint got time for yo bluff , im d shit so get that to ur fuked up skull
looking4mate12: WORD
Makavelli: Im not under-estimating ur freestyle BATTLE Bt I can pull more lines than u just like a Kenyan CATTLE/
looking4mate12: where u meet me with yo bitch sucking on ma balls, and u be like dang STUDD u da boss
Makavelli: Suck ur balls? I think ur talking about me and ur gurl MARIAM/ She know me but I still bleeped her coz am an ALIEN/
looking4mate12: not shocked u rare cattle, but baby i aint gonna sit here and rattle, 18304830303 see ma digits now sit down and hussle,
looking4mate12: and as for mariam i got her on lock down so go fuk some porn pussy u clown
looking4mate12: u don send d leads? hurry cause i am chilling on u with ease
looking4mate12: hope u aint siting there smoking weed, or else when i see you bitch i will be giving her boob a hard squeez u dig?
Makavelli: My nigger better step up ur digits to 16 DIGITS/ They call me Eyo the short money man, they still cant compare me to a MIDGIT/ Like YOU, Im on the verge of getting riches like JEWS/ They say some wanabe MC wana wana mess with me example the stud is one of them FEW
looking4mate12: lol
Makavelli: Claiming them wana Tackle me/ wana freestyle Battle me/ they aint got calculator tryna CALCUE me.
Makavelli: /
looking4mate12: well u midgit ma money long so that means i got all your bitches, so step up ur game and quit wishin you was me or else i come around and slap yo face 360 degreez
looking4mate12: do quick man battery wan die,
looking4mate12: u sent it to the address ?
Makavelli: ur leads upload is on 86 Percent/ ur rhymes depicts ur false Pretence/
looking4mate12: what fuked up server u got upgrade man and quit dealing with frost or else ur money is gonna rust
Makavelli: I browse on Cobranet while ur on razz MULTILINKS/ Claiming ur a big big boy but this nigger stud I dnt know what HE MEANS/
looking4mate12: well bitch as snake i am on EVDOO speed, so watch ma PC DOO shit

Im gona go to his crip today and get the video of the streestyle he did in soundsnatch studio, that would do as a proof.

Pple need to read SUBJECT of a thread first b4 they start spitting, most are just posting rubbish on here, poster only asked who is the best now, my own answer is M.I, My car deck can testify to that.

Shank is the best freestyler yall have not yet known about. He might be rapping patua now, but that dude mehn, he is lost in freestyle!!!

Well perpetrate like you could handle my team
So merciless in mind try to take command of your dreams
Leavin muthafuckas drowin in they own blood
Clown and taking pictures
Later, laugh about the punk bitches
That turn snitches
Regulate my area the terror I represent
Make your people disappear, your wonderin' where they went
Am I cold, or is it just I sold my soul?
Addicted to the streets
Never find true peace I'm told
Come take my body, God
Don't let me suffer any longer
Smoke a pound of marijuana so I know it ain't long
Where is the end to all my misery?
Is there a close?
I suppose that's why I murder my foes
When Thugz Cry


Tupac,

I have so many fav songs I can categorize as my best, there are some I dnt even remember, but as for the one I can remember and select as at least my number 1 is, Do you remember by phillcollins, its nt just the lyrics per say, the instrumental sends me away into emotional an pool.

Which Nigerian Hip Hop artist do u think is gonna blow up into the limelight this year? And who do you think is hot @ present.