Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Travels With Senior Wife And Husband In Preparation To Give Birth by ezep(m): 1:08am On Jun 21, 2020 |
Onyi22: Regina Daniel is a Bea, she dumps her ex boyfriend and got married to a Multi billionaire, that's exactly what a wise lady would do.. Dump him!! I repeat, dump his useless ugly broke ass when u see a richer guy/man than him.. Don't be deceive that "things will get better" he's a bloody lier. Don't die before ur death with a miserable, frustrated guy that has refused to make money. Finally my sister, Marry money because Love na scam.. it's not always rosy. remember the rich also cry.. don't be moved by millions.. the source of the wealth matters.. character matters also. Many have been blinded by wealth and end up regretting.. Somethings money cannot buy.. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by ezep(m): 5:45pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
mrfranky: Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...
Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.
Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.
To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.
Please I need advice. Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...
Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill. Several abortions for who ?! Is it you or someone else .. if it's you then do the right thing for once. But if it's not you then ur babe getting babies aborted At 22 ?! Can u trust someone like that to be with for the rest of your life ?! |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend & I Ended Our Relationship Because Of Reno Omokri's Tweets, Advice by ezep(m): 10:16pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Petyprincess: You are obviously still pained hence you brought it here! If most people that preaches online practice what they say it would have been better,bt stupid guys will take them serious nd even destroy their relationship because of what someone posted online,shior. You d be surprised Reno is practising opposite of what he preaches  there is sense it what Reno is saying... Ultimately if he has not married you he is not obligated to take care of all ur needs.. There is just this thing with ladies and that sense of entitlement. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend & I Ended Our Relationship Because Of Reno Omokri's Tweets, Advice by ezep(m): 10:16pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Petyprincess: You are obviously still pained hence you brought it here! If most people that preaches online practice what they say it would have been better,bt stupid guys will take them serious nd even destroy their relationship because of what someone posted online,shior. You d be surprised Reno is practising opposite of what he preaches  there is sense it what Reno is saying... Ultimately if he has not married you he is not obligated to take care of all ur needs.. There is just this thing with ladies and that sense of entitlement |
Politics › Re: Obaseki: We Will Deal With Imported Thugs And Their Sponsors by ezep(m): 7:31am On Jun 12, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by ezep(m): 4:37am On Jun 11, 2020 |
[quote author=Confusedgirl869 post=90526874]Hello everyone. This account is created for this .
This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.
We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.
I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.
So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.
Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.
Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.
I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.
I need your opinions please.
.[every body will say their own as they see it.. ur boyfriend may be having comittement phobia probably because of issues he may have had with women in the past. Just try and talk to him once more this time through a friend of his or someone he respects. He just might come around and most importantly pray] |
Romance › Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by ezep(m): 9:32pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
cynosuree: Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.
But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.
He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.
I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?
The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .
I'd like to know what you think Honestly this relationship and women thing tire me... E no get were man go good pass.. U just want to spoil something because of conversation... Y don't u just focus on his good points. Conversation no dey put food for table.. Get sense |
Politics › Re: Bodejo: The Fulani Will Rule Nigeria Forever Because They Own It – Miyetti Allah by ezep(m): 7:47pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
MyopicMods: You mean Tinubu won't rule again in 2023?
That aside...
Gowon in a bid and zeal to win the war, signed a disastrous documents and handed parts of nigeria to fulani.
How can he handover what doesn't belong to him You can't invite people to help you fight and then not keep the agreement you signed with them. |
Pets › Re: Finally Got A Wild Bird As Pet (Photos) by ezep(m): 10:10pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
saintbillion: I saw this bird on the field yesterday after my football training, they were fighting on the air and suddenly this one dropped down and was very weak to fly. I have removed the feather sha. some people said it's an owl but I dont think it is.
Please come and tell me what the bird eats oo obviously a falcon |
Career › Re: Should I Resign My Good Bank Job And Start A Business? by ezep(m): 10:20pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
tosinntoyin: Dear all,
I really need an advice. I currently work with one of the Nigerian banks. My monthly take home is about 450k and quite good. My major problem right now is that I have just been transferred from a Branch at one end of Lagos to another end of Lagos. All efforts to convince my boss to deploy me to a closer branch has proved abortive.
Going to work daily right now is a very difficult especially during this raining season and covid 19th period. I spend roughly 3-4 hours on the road when going to work and back home.
I am currently raising my kids on my own right now and dont know how I would manage when school resumes. Before now I drop them off on my way to work in the morning and my friend picks them up to her house in the afternoon till I get back.
I currently have a savings of 2million and would love to start a biz( I dont know what kind) as am comptemplating resigning and start a biz instead so that I can have time for my kids and not die due to stress Please i really need advice for you all. Advice: since you are biz inclined, plan ur exit strategy properly .. 2 milion is not really much for you to start with. Seek help e.g like a nanny for ur kids in the meantime Also remember biz takes time to mature. Knowing the sought of biz u want to do is necessary before u move over |
Autos › Re: 2008 Ford F150 Leather Seats Automatic Driving by ezep(m): 10:36am On May 31, 2020 |
Eddee: Because it is a Jap! He probably made a mistake and uploaded a wrong picture. This F150 is powered by either an Essex v6 or a Triton v8. Thought Triton was the v10..those engines were discontinued.. |
Politics › Re: Senator Shehu Sani Summarises Buhari's 5 Years In Office With A Proverb by ezep(m): 7:53pm On May 30, 2020 |
He wasted four Good years fighting the opposition for his friends. And now karma has caught up with his allies aka subjects.
That's all in summary..
Mr sani is a very intelligent man.. I can see this from his proverb |
Celebrities › Re: Pregnant Regina Daniels And Ned Nwoko Are Expecting A Baby by ezep(m): 7:41pm On May 30, 2020 |
[quote author=made4naijamusic post=90127444]Teen Nollywood star, Regina Daniels is expecting a baby with her husband, Ned Nwoko. The news was announced on Instagram by her husband, Prince Ned Nwoko.
He shared photos of the heavily pregnant star and captioned it;
Congrats but is the photoshoot necessary ?! |
Food › Re: Strange And Ugly Animal Killed Today By A Nairalander. (pics) by ezep(m): 7:29pm On May 30, 2020 |
saintbillion: Was about going out today to chill due to this lock down ooo. loo and behold I saw this pig-like wild animal trying to attack one of my chicken. Then quickly I use a stick and hit the head. Natural palliative send from above.
Don't even know the name sha. can anyone help? lalasticl.ala come here let's settle the matter for area now. Looks like a specie of a ferret or weasel... |