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Romance / Why Chasing Girls Is A Losing Game by Facts101: 11:04am On Jun 27
If you’re an aspiring seducer, you’ve probably been advised to chase women. But, don’t do it! Chasing girls may seem like the right thing to do at first glance, but there are plenty of reasons why you should never chase a girl. Here are just some of the reasons why girls may not want to be chased after.

You make her feel like she needs to prove something

Women are beautiful creatures, and although that’s something you already know, she already knows it as well. That said, when you chase her around constantly trying to get her attention, she thinks you must not have any other women to pick from. She feels like she has to prove herself in order for you to love her. Even if she ends up with you in the end, it won’t be because of your persistence—it will be because of her decision to stay. If you want to make a woman fall in love with you, let her come to you naturally. Don’t pressure her into giving herself away just because she can’t resist your charm.

You Give Her Power

As men, we spend an inordinate amount of time trying to get women to like us. We’re constantly looking for new ways to make them swoon. But when you’re focused on getting her attention, it inadvertently gives her more power in your relationship. And what do you think happens when a woman has more power? That’s right: she won’t want you around anymore. So stop chasing girls and start focusing on yourself instead. It’ll be much easier to attract high-quality women when you aren’t so desperate for their approval.

You Force Her Hand

When you chase after girls, you force them to choose between you and whatever else they’re doing at that moment—whether it’s hanging out with friends or spending time on their interests. And if she opts for whatever else she was doing, you feel rejected, which sucks for everyone involved. The key to winning over women is removing that pressure from her, letting her know you have other options (because chances are good that you do), and letting her come to you when she’s ready. You can’t control another person’s emotions, but you can give yourself an advantage by not putting her in a position where she has to choose.

The Fear of Rejection is Killing You

Getting over your fear of rejection isn’t about getting over your fear at all. Instead, it’s about focusing on why you want to do something and focusing on that alone.
If you stop thinking about how scared you are about getting rejected, you will be able to focus on why you wanted to talk with those girls in the first place.

Building Confidence Gives You All the Power

Believe it or not, women are more turned on by confidence than looks. That’s right: whether you have a few extra pounds or you’re sporting an unconventional hairstyle, your image isn’t nearly as important as your attitude. In fact, studies show that women tend to rank physical attractiveness as less important in men than they do in other women. Your opinion of yourself is all that really matters here—not hers. So if you can learn to love yourself and feel confident about who you are, then anyone else’s opinion will seem insignificant. You won’t need to chase after girls because they will come running after you!

Women are simple creatures

They love being chased. It makes them feel special, wanted, and appreciated. The problem with chasing women, however, is that it puts you in an inferior position as soon as you begin pursuing her. This means that every time you chase a girl and show interest in her, she feels like she has control over your emotions; she’s now making you jump through hoops for her affections when she could be doing better elsewhere. If you want to keep your options open and have many more girls available to you, don’t chase after one. Instead, let her come to you once she realizes how great of a guy you are!

The Opposite of Love Isn’t Hate...It’s Indifference

In romantic relationships, there are two types of people: those who chase their partner and those who choose to be chased. The truth is that most women don’t actually want to be chased; rather, they enjoy playing hard-to-get. Why? Because it builds sexual tension and increases their self-esteem. It shows them you really do care about them (when most men have just given up). It also makes them feel desired and in control—and everyone likes being in control. So if you’re looking for love, try doing something different than what your friends might suggest. Instead of chasing after girls, make yourself seem unattainable by not returning her calls or texts right away and by not showing interest in her too quickly.

Stop Fixating On One Woman, Become Interesting To Many Women.

Not only will you need to stop fixating on one woman, but you'll also have to put in effort to become interesting to many women. To do that, you'll need to know how to be interesting and learn some basic seduction skills. Being interesting requires being authentic, honest, and unafraid of who you are and what your opinions are. It also means developing your unique personality - something that cannot be faked. The best way to develop yourself as an individual is by doing things you enjoy.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Leeds Vs Chelsea (0 - 3) On 11th May 2022 by Facts101: 4:43pm On May 11
Go Chelsea.
Romance / Re: A THREAD FOR REDPILLERS - The Manipulated Man (Vilar) - A Must Read [Guys Only] by Facts101: 11:51am On May 08
———- The average woman is a whorë , her vagina is a business . And the business is extortion , her most cherished goal is to live at a mans expense , to luxuriate in a life without work or responsibility . To this end she deliberately seek out men with large income or resources adequate enough to warrant exploitation while all other males are rejected as losers or friends.
Romance / Re: Prostitution Abroad by Facts101: 9:00pm On Feb 06
ednut1:
A fine babe chatted me on Instagram yesterday, and we dey vibe. She followed and I requested to follow. When she finally granted request to follow back naso i see dubai as part of the highlights. I stopped talking to her. Avoid those babes o. Cos they are mostly olosho and sh1t eaters

Run away from girls that can’t explain why they traveled abroad most especially girls that have traveled to countries like UAE(Dubai), Italy, Cyprus, Ghana, Kenya, South Africa, Turkey, Philippines, Malaysia, Kuwait, any South Asian country, any Middle East country(Arabic countries) etc.

Always use your head Alphas.

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Romance / Re: Whorè-Ror Stories - The Manipulated Man (Vilar) A REDPILLER THREAD (GUYS ONLY) by Facts101: 1:03pm On Feb 06
——- In the Bible, God created man and made him in charge of everything he created include his woman. He was supposed to be the one leading Eve but Adam was a SIMP, the moment Eve got the slightest chance to manipulate Adam and control the situation, Adam became worthless in the eye of God and the society.

Moral of the lesson, don’t allow your woman to lead you, you are the man and you are the man for a reason and the reason is to lead her.

Know this and know happiness!!!
Romance / Re: A THREAD FOR REDPILLERS - The Manipulated Man (Vilar) - A Must Read [Guys Only] by Facts101: 1:02pm On Feb 06
——- In the Bible, God created man and made him in charge of everything he created including his woman. He was supposed to be the one leading Eve but Adam was a SIMP, the moment Eve got the slightest chance to manipulate Adam and control the situation, Adam became worthless in the eye of God and the society.

Moral of the lesson, don’t allow your woman to lead you, you are the man and you are the man for a reason and the reason is to lead her.

Know this and know happiness!!!

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Romance / Prostitution Abroad by Facts101: 12:54pm On Feb 06
Prostitution abroad

Lemme take the Middle East ( Dubai ) as example

Girls from across the globe come here to prostitute for money

If 100girls from Nigeria came to Dubai
-5 came for work
-3 came for hook up ( the big celebrity girls )
-2 came as tourist ( they came and in few weeks they gone )
-3 came for vacation and shows( dj cuppy kind of girls )

-The remaining 87 came for prostitution .

Mind you this statistics is just for Nigerian females .

And in Dubai here .. the highest amount a guy pays for sex 100aed ( 10k naira ) ..

that’s if the girls is a sharp girl and her sexual appeal is the one shining most at the moment when the customer needed a hooker

The average amount ( which is common and mostly the main amount is 50aed (5k naira )

Some even collect as less as 30aed (3k naira )

You know why ? … competition is mad . ( a Nigerian prostitute cannot compete in the business market here with Ethiopian / South African / Sudan/ .. these Africans are damn sexy .. and madly pretty

And to make things worst . The market have foreigners like Philippines/ Japan / Morocco / turkey / Indian /Ukrainian / Jordanese / americans & few Europeans

You need to be chilling wit the big boys to have money to afford those kinds of hookers.. cos they range from 1000 aed (100k naira) to 5000aed (500k naira) and above )

Now hear this

Out of this 87 Nigerian females .. ( they all came in through a love-vendor whom they call “my boss “ or “my madam “ ) … That’s the tradition and how it goes .

And they have to pay this love-vendor at least 50k aed (5million naira ) before they are set free to go .

These girls pay up .. regardless how tough and high the competition is .. they pay up every dime and penny )

The pussy business is making em rich . .. many are retiring .. and more are coming .

Now imagine a girl… let’s say Pamela paying up (50kaed) 5million with her vagina .

Let do quick maths . ( let’s assume she’s a sexy sharp girl who get to charge 10k)

If Pamela charges 10,000 naira for a shot .. how many times would she have her vagina penetrated before she pay up 5 million naira

The answer is .. she will be fuxked 500 times (to pay up 5 million )

And when she’s finally set free .. she would wanna make her own money now

So she repeat the same thing twice as more .. come on who am I kidding .. ( if she go through it and make 5mill for someone .. she would wanna make double for her self or more )

So Pamela now would repeat the same thing raised to power 2 .. to make her self 10million )

.. that means Pamela have been fvcked 1500 times

Higher body count
High Pucci mileage

And den for every man who fuxkes a lady .. the lady Carries her dna �

Imagine Pamela .. damaged

Then retired … travels back to Nigeria ��

Start a business wit huge capital ..

And a simp .. ..a beta male with no idea of a woman’s past would wife her up

.—a beta male who believes in (her past don’t matter ) would carry on the dna of other crazy men

—A beta male who believes in ( hoes makes good wife ) would settle for Pamela

—A simpleton who believes in (not all women are like that ) would carry on the baggage .

Lol and the truth is .. many women / girls roaming .. are carrying with them ( more or atleast half the body count Pamela is carrying even without prostituting )

GENTLE MEN .. if a girl ever say to you .. I was in abroad before .. and you can’t make sense of what she was doing ..
be it schooling .. or what kind of job she’s was into ni66a run

.. FOLKS .. if you feel a girls past don’t matter .. I feel a swole or pity for you .. because the society and morals telling you .. “it’s the heart that count ..and HŒs makes good wife “ is the same society that will be absent when the female’s past must have killed you slowly and buried you !

Stay woke brothers .

- Emediong Sunday


Happy Sunday Alphas

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Romance / Advice To Simps, Beta Males, White Knights, Cuckolds And Feminists ( Thread ) by Facts101: 9:08pm On Jan 26
Greetings, ladies!

You're repelling nice men with your half-naked Instagram photos.


Happy New Year Alphas

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Romance / LET’S TALK!! What Is The Usefulness Of Eve To Adam? (See This) by Facts101: 6:09pm On Jan 10
The Lord, after creating Adam, saw that he was alone in the garden, and declared,
“It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” (Gen. 2:18.)
God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. Then the Lord God made a woman from the ribs he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

The man said,

“This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman,’ for she was taken out of man.
MY OPINION:
First of all, God took Adam’s rib without his consent, to create Eve for a reason best known to him. Adam didn’t ask for it, Adam never complained of being lonely..what’s the usefulness of Eve?

Okay Eve was created to help Adam but what did she do instead? She brought curse, suffering and death upon man(Adam). Till this very moment men are still paying for a crime they never directly committed.

The funny and annoying part is men still pay money to have what was created with their rib. You can’t tell a girl to take off her clothes without paying for it. WHY? Are we suppose to pay for it? Are we suppose to pay brideprice?

What is the usefulness of a woman to man?

Across national and cultural boundaries, men die an average of seven years earlier than women. Women outlive men in almost every society. In more developed countries, the average life expectancy at birth is 79 years for women, 72 years for men.

So what do men stand to gain? NOTHING! Absolutely nothing. So as a man, kick out any woman who tryna make life unbearable and harder for you.

We have given everything even from the beginning of the world and still giving till date. Enough is enough. My two cents.

What Is The Usefulness Of Eve To Adam?


- by Richard Idasenibo

Romance / Re: How To Win The Heart Of Your Crush Through Text (Redpillers) by Facts101: 3:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
I am trying to send pictures to the platform but it seems not to be working.
Romance / How To Win The Heart Of Your Crush Through Text (Redpillers) by Facts101: 3:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
Can you sense the difference?
Romance / Women Can’t Love Men Unconditionally by Facts101: 7:08pm On Nov 15, 2021
This is a simple fact but simps and feminist wannabe won’t agree.

Women CAN NEVER love a man unconditionally, a woman’s love comes with conditions.

Use this piece of information any way you seem fit.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:51pm On Nov 10, 2021
mediainc:

Are you Will Smith, you be redpiller na wink

Just stating a fact that why all men should get their shit together, have clear cut vision, build a good personality and earn enough money but never to simp on ladies and spend money on women in the hope that the said “lady/ladies” will stay with them.

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Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 2:41pm On Nov 10, 2021
When a lady threatens to end your relationship

DO THE FOLLOWING:

Do not pay attention to them.
Make fun of them.
They should never be taken seriously.

Alternatively, TRY THIS:

Tell her this,

Please end our relationship.

That'd be fantastic. I could go out and meet new women, spend more time with my pals, or take a solo trip.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:37pm On Nov 10, 2021
mediainc:
Try getting money, it works grin

Yes, money is important, but even if you have it, you will regret it later in life if you don't know how to lead a woman.

Ask Will Smith.

Never use money to entice a lady, it will never end well!

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Romance / Re: She Won't Fuckkk You For These 5 Reasons by Facts101: 2:34pm On Nov 10, 2021
When a woman believes she has been heard and understood:

Her legs are spread wide.

In the event that she doesn't:

Her legs close.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:31pm On Nov 10, 2021
The difference between being kind vs nice guy:

Kindness is a choice with no expectation of an outcome.

Being Mr. nice guy entails doing something that you believe would please her in order to obtain what you desire from her.

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Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 2:28pm On Nov 10, 2021
If a female ghosted you.

Don't get in touch with her again.

If she ever contacts you with anything other than a heartfelt apology and a promise to make amends:

Keep your conversation brief and professional.

"Nice to hear from you blah blah, I have to get going"

You're not a wuss.

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Romance / Re: Things To Do And Not To Do On First Dates (REDPILLER ZONE) by Facts101: 2:26pm On Nov 10, 2021
DO NOT invite her out on a second date while you are still on the first.

DO THIS:

- make her desire more

- make her question how you feel

- make her wonder when/if you'll call

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Romance / Re: Things To Do And Not To Do On First Dates (REDPILLER ZONE) by Facts101: 2:22pm On Nov 10, 2021
Texting girls tip for newbies:

Don’t.

The more you text, the more likely you are to mess up.

Keep it brief and sweet, be direct, and set a date.

This makes her giddy with anticipation for the moment she sees you.

The goal of messaging is to get her out of here.

That's the end of it.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:17pm On Nov 10, 2021
A conundrum:

Women accuse nice males of being self-centered.

Women compliment self-centered males by calling them great.
Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 2:14pm On Nov 10, 2021
If she abandons her belongings at your house after sex:

She's delineating her turf.

She has no idea that I'm exploiting the items she leaves behind to instill competition anxiety in the other girls.

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Romance / Re: Things To Do And Not To Do On First Dates (REDPILLER ZONE) by Facts101: 2:10pm On Nov 10, 2021
Allow her to do the most of the talking.

By asking questions, you can direct the discourse.

You gain two things as a result of this:

- You're still a mystery to her.

- She's introducing herself to you.

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Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 2:06pm On Nov 10, 2021
To keep a relationship alive, men cheat.

When they want out, women cheat.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:04pm On Nov 10, 2021
Have you ever seen a woman fall head over heels for a super nice guy?

I haven’t seen one.

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Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 2:01pm On Nov 10, 2021
COMMITMENT SHOULD NEVER BE SOUGHT AFTER.

That's an feminine energy.

Pursuing commitment makes you appear vulnerable and reliant.

She desires to pursue you.
She wants to bind you.

Allow her to do so.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 1:58pm On Nov 10, 2021
The following are some of the reasons why women adore bad boys:

- They can guard her
- They're unique and fascinating
- They go after what they want
- She won't be able to control them
- They march to the beat of their own drum
- They're mysterious and unexpected

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Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 1:56pm On Nov 10, 2021
If you receive a one-word reply.

Put it on read mode.

Don't send another text.

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Romance / Re: 5 Signs He Only Wants To Have Sex With You by Facts101: 1:20am On Nov 09, 2021
Ladies despises having authority over a man.

It demonstrates to her that when the going gets rough, this man will be unable to protect her and her children.

The true epidemic is males who are weak.

Stay in control of your relationship.

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Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 1:03am On Nov 09, 2021
Don't be surprised if she breaks up with you and the next day starts dating someone else.

She is constantly surrounded by males. She always has a backup plan.

Because of her hypergamy, she will always move on to the next best choice.

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Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 1:01am On Nov 09, 2021
She despises having authority over a man.

It demonstrates to her that when the going gets rough, this man will be unable to protect her and her children.

The true epidemic is males who are weak.

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Romance / Re: The Redpill Truths by Facts101: 12:56am On Nov 09, 2021
Don't over-compliment her.

8 out of 10 times, tease her, and the other two times, really compliment her

She enjoys the push and pull.

After all the teasing, she will be deeply moved when you actually compliment her.

You must use emotions to your advantage.

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