----- Realize that men are not mind readers. If you want communication, then communicate-don't cry or pout or scream and expect your partner to divine your thoughts telepathically (and brand him as insensitive when he can't). If you have a problem, discuss it.

----- Learn that men are not your enemies, but your allies, as long as you treat them fairly and with respect. Men naturally love women.

----- Stop blaming men for your problems and your failures. Learn to depend on yourself, not men.

----- Be honest with yourself. If you are going to sell your body, then do so with integrity. There is nothing wrong with a good-looking woman prostituting herself to a wealthy man, as long as she doesn't deceive either herself or her partner-that is, as long as she realizes it's a business deal and she intends to keep her side of the bargain.

----- Refuse to judge men only by the level of their income. There are plenty of nice, "average" men out there who will be able to adore you for the person you really are, if you can rid yourself of your mask of deceit.

----- Begin to regard sex as the natural, pleasurable act that it is supposed to be. Quit using it as a bargaining chip in your devious game of male abuse.

----- Quit thinking with your vaginas. Learn that the world does not revolve around the crack between your legs. Refuse to rely on Pussy Power to scam drinks, meals, gifts, and vacations from men.
Unless your intention is to honestly trade sex for money, when you go out on a date, bring your own funds and pay your own way.

THE FEMALE TO DO LIST


----- Stop denying that you are whores.

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What Women Can Do


The Manipulated Man

- Vilar


An old fairy tale tells the story of a hapless woman who lived in misery and squalor in a wretched hovel. One day a wizard happened to be traveling past, and hearing the woman's moans of despair, took pity on her. With a wave of his magic wand, he transformed the but into a pleasant cottage.
The woman was overjoyed.
A few weeks went by and the wizard was once again passing along, and he decided to stop to see how the woman was faring. He found her complaining bitterly-the cottage was too small; it was drafty when the wind blew; and mice had gotten in. So the wizard waved his wand again and instantly changed the cottage into a house with a fireplace for warmth and a cat to chase away the rodents. Once again, the woman was delighted.
Some time went by and the wizard returned, only to find the woman grumbling and cursing. The house wasn't pretty enough; the fireplace was too hot; the cat demanded too much of her attention.
So the wizard remodeled the house into a mansion, and again came back for a visit. The woman was still complaining-the place was too big, to hard to keep clean, and the servants were lazy.
So the wizard changed the mansion back into a hovel. The story is a metaphor for female behavior.
Women always want what they don't have (or what some other woman has), and soon as they get it, they don't want it anymore. They want something better. And they expect a man to make it magically appear through no effort of their own. A hundred years ago, before the so-called "equal rights" movement, before women began to demand men's jobs, society was able to permit such a juvenile, self-serving philosophy. Men went off to work to put food on the table; women stayed home. But the world has changed. Contemporary women
want it both ways: they want to fulfill their potential, to make it in a "man's world", to have interesting careers and earn nice salaries, yet they still expect men to pay for them and take care of all their needs.
But it just won't work that way anymore, girls. You think you still have it made, flirting with men to con free drinks, luring men with the promise of sex to take you to expensive restaurants, arrogantly counting on the power of your vaginas to secure a lifestyle you couldn't possibly afford yourself.
You want to spend your money on clothes and pampering yourself at trendy salons, not on theater or plane tickets. Those you can fuckkk for, and then pretend you haven't. Your natural female hubris
blinds you into assuming that you will always be able to control men with your bodies.
But the tide is quickly-and inexorably-turning. As women demand more equality, male eyes are being opened. Men are beginning to ask for freedom from oppression as well, freedom from the
tyranny of Pussy Power. Men are waking up and clearly seeing the dishonest sexual marketplace which women have created, and they aren't willing to put up with it anymore. So they are asking women where their money is, and they aren't backing down when women try to belittle them as
"cheap". They are insisting on sharing dating expenses, even if sex is assumed, because lovemaking should be a shared pleasure, and courtship should not be a whoree john relationship. If a woman
insists that a man pay for her, then he expects her to fulfill her side of the contract.
Men and women are fundamentally different, and it is to their best advantage to meet each other somewhere in the middle. But it would not be too far-fetched to observe that women seem to view
the gap between the genders as an unbridgeable chasm, carved out by a river of testosterone. So males will always be "pigs" and "jerks" and "dirty old men". If only they could become "sensitive" and metamorphize into women with dicks! But this attitude is kept alive because women see sex as a tool, not as a natural act. Even though men are frustrated by women's hormonal thinking and parasitic ways, not one of them would ever dream of wanting a female to change her gender or to be anything less than a woman. Men view the gap between the sexes as akin to the invisible line which separates two countries-the language and customs may seem odd, but the inhabitants are still human beings sharing the same common desires and disappointments, hopes and fears. This point of view defines what men really want from women: that they be honest-about themselves, about their sexuality, about their relations with the opposite gender. This is what a man means when he says, "All I want is a nice girl who doesn't act like a cunt". What he really wants, in the end, is a woman who will be a friend as well as a lover, a woman in whom he can discover partnership and trust; not a self-centered bitch who cares only about how much money he has to spend on her.
This is why, when it comes to romance, women are slitting their own throats, because whoring is the greatest obstacle to true love. This is why the divorce rate is soaring in this country, and why men are traveling to Russia and the Philippines to look for brides, because they hope to find genuinely nice women there, not power cunts. This is why men and women have had such difficulties in relating to one another.
Male-female problems have spawned an entirely new industry of self-help and advice books, from the incurably inane "women who love too much" themes of the 1980's, to Men Are From Mars,
Women Are From Venus, to The Rules (which is nothing but a primer on dishonest prostitution)
Such efforts would be unnecessary if women would simply start acting like human beings. Women, if you are attracting abusive or uncaring men, this is entirely your fault. You are choosing these
lovers, more than likely for monetary gain. If you want a fun, positive, healthy relationship, start looking for character, not cash. If you want money, earn your own.
It has been said that money doesn't change people, it reveals them, and when women depersonalize men into success objects, when they rate men (and accept or reject them as mates) according to their earning power, not only do they reveal their own pathetic shallowness, but they set themselves up to be objectified as well. If a woman judges a man by the thickness of his wallet, then she shouldn't be surprised if he rates her by the size of her breasts. And if she acts like a whoree , how can she be shocked when she's treated like one?

----- I had just started a small business, so money was tight. It was hell trying to get a date, because the first words out of every woman's mouth was, "Do you have a house?", or "What kind of car do you
drive?". Potential to them was meaningless-all they cared about was what I was wearing on my back. That's when I learned that without cash, you do not get women. As soon as they found out I wasn't rolling in it, they were gone.
Finally, I ran into a woman who seemed very nice and down-to-earth. I told her that I was just starting a business and she said, "Oh, I don't care about money-I've got my own money". Well, pretty soon I found out that she thought I was playing things down-that I had more money than I was letting on. She was even quizzing my friends about my finances! But I was telling her the truth.
All of a sudden she stopped returning my phone calls, and later I found out that she had actually checked my credit report.

----- I know this guy who was killing himself on the job so his wife wouldn't have to work, and at the same time he was building a big addition on his house and putting in a pool-all by himself. She never lifted a finger. One day she told him that she was divorcing him because she was bored. She wound up getting the house and most of his cash, and he had to move in with his parents.

----- "Women lie. Women use sex to get money from men."

----- Dave is probably the nicest guy I've ever met. He really wanted to get married, so he was looking around, and finally he got set up on a blind date with Anne. They hit it off and pretty soon they're talking about marriage. And she was just a sexual animal, anything he wanted, and she's telling him that a man and wife should pool their money and save for the future-all the things a guy wants to hear.
So finally they get married and take off for the honeymoon. But she won't have sex with him on the wedding night. He asks her what's going on and she tells him that she hates sex and she only did it with him before so he'd marry her. And for the rest of the trip, it's buy me this and buy me that.
They move into an apartment, and every day she's screaming at him to make more money because she wants a house, and he works out a plan to put their paychecks together and start saving. Sorry, she says, you're the man, you're supposed to provide for everything. So he's paying his bills and her bills, and she's spending her money on clothes and gourmet food and going on ski trips with her girlfriends. And all the time she's ragging at him to get a better job.
So finally, he's so stressed out that he's having heart palpitations and the doctor gives him a prescription for medication, but he's so broke that he can't afford it. So he asks Anne for money for the medicine, and she says, "Sorry. That's your problem".
Women lie. Women use sex to get money from men. Women are spoiled brats. Women care only about themselves.

----- This guy I went to college with married the popular cheerleader-type girl, and he became pretty successful pretty quickly, and they had a couple of kids, and a house in the suburbs, the whole shot.
Then he got hit by a car, and got banged up really badly. So badly that he had to quit work and recuperate for a long time. His wife divorced him immediately, wouldn't let the kids see him, and cleaned him out financially. When she heard about the accident, her first comment was, "Oh great.
Now I'll never be able to get into the golf club."

----- We used to go this bar, and one of the guys in our group was Nick. Nick was a real party boy, but stupid-he'd spy a pretty girl and send a drink over to her, and of course she wouldn't even thank him. He had a good consulting job, but he would throw money around to attract women, and he got laid a lot, but pretty soon he was in the hole pretty deeply. So he borrowed some money and got out of that, and then he met this real knockout. They started going out and Nick, knowing that he had
no choice but to buy her, started spending and spending, buying her jewelry and taking her on trips.
Then they got engaged. She wanted a new car, so he gave her money to help her with that, but it was just too much of a drain. They'd been living together and one night he confessed to her that he was over his head financially and they were going to have to cut back. He had made the fatal
mistake of thinking that she was in love with him, instead of with his money. The next morning she was gone-car, diamond ring, everything she could take.
The next time I saw him, he looked crushed, like somebody had hit him over the head with a club.
But part of it was his fault. He understood that you have to buy love, but he didn't realize that love only stays as long as the money holds out.

----- I started talking to a woman and within about five minutes she asked me what I did for a living. I told her I was a waiter, and she said, "Oh, forget it," and walked away.

----- I was at a party and I started talking to a woman, and every other word out of her mouth was money, money, money. I like nice cars, I like to travel to nice places. Yawn. Another money bitch.
So when she asked what I did, I told her I was unemployed. You should have seen the look on her face-it looked like I said I just raped your grandmother. Within a minute she was "going to the bathroom". Now, I am not unemployed. I'm vice president of a big computer company and do pretty well. About half an hour later, this woman is back, all coy and smiles. "You lied to me," she said. "I know who you work for." And then she asked me out. I told her, "Sorry, I don't date whores." And I got the look again. She didn't get it! What a bitch! I wasn't good enough to talk to when I didn't have a job, but as soon as she finds out I'm doing well, she wants to go out with me. Fuckkk her!

----- My friend Steve is pretty well loaded, so when he decided it was time to get married, he was already tired of all the gold diggers and users, and he was looking for a girl-next-door type who wanted to have a family. So he found jenny, who was a librarian, and they'd have long, interesting
talks together, and he found himself really liking her, so after a while, he popped the question.
So they got married, and the sex got real indifferent real fast. Jenny decided she was tired of the library, so she quit, and made Steve join a country club, so she would have something to do during the day. Then she wanted some plastic surgery done on her mouth. Then she told him that she wanted a bigger house, so they bought a lot and arranged to have one built. So he's running his own company and still trying to oversee the construction, and all of a sudden she's complaining that he's neglecting her because he's working too much.
Finally, they moved into the new house, decorated it with expensive furniture and a few months later Steve came home to find the BMW gone, the furniture gone, and several bank accounts cleaned out. Later, he got a phone call from Oregon. It was jenny telling him that she was tired of him and she'd gone west to "find herself."
So much for the girl-next-door. So much for true love.

----- This friend of mine was having no luck meeting women. He's a nice-looking guy, but as soon as they found out he wasn't rolling in cash, they'd be gone. So he decided to try the personal ads. He wanted to be very honest and exact about his requirements-for example, he's not overly hung up on looks, but he's extremely athletic, so he was looking for a woman who really enjoys working out.
The responses came-I'm beautiful, I'm in great shape, etc. But when he met them, not only were they physically unappealing, but 30 or 40 pounds overweight, and what qualified them as "being athletic" was that they walked two blocks to work every day. He got so frustrated and so discouraged, he finally asked one of them, "Why did you say you were beautiful and in shape?"
And she told him, "Oh, because that's what men want to hear."

----- I was at a party and I noticed a woman across the room trying to catch my eye, so I smiled at her and she came over. We were talking for a little while, really hitting it off, so much so that I was feeling one of those weird connections that you so rarely get when you're in sync with somebody, like all of a sudden there's no one else in the room. And I could see that she was feeling it, too. She asked me what I did, and I told her, and then she asked me where I lived. I told her I was living in a really nice apartment complex about a mile away. She looked at me with this expression of total
disgust and said, "You rent?". Then she turned her back on me and walked away.

WHOREE-ROR STORIES

The Manipulated Man

-Vilar


----- When all of us were hanging out together at this nightclub, there was this squirrelly little guy who used to come around. He was a really nice guy, so everybody liked him, but he was a total nerd.
Dave was his name. He used to wear out of-date clothes, and his hair was always messed up, and he was so shy he could barely even say hi to a girl. Once in a while we'd try to get a girl to dance with him, but they'd always just laugh. Actually, they were pretty mean. They'd tease him, rub their tits against him, stuff like that. As I said, Dave was a nice guy, and I think he used to get very lonely and frustrated.
Then, out of the blue, he inherited over half a million dollars, and I swear, within a week, this guy had every beautiful woman in the place drooling over him, asking him to dance, giving him their phone numbers. They were just whores there's no other word for it. And poor Dave, he didn't get it.
He didn't realize that all they cared about was getting their hands on his cash. He was like a wounded fish in a sea full of sharks. About six months later, he married one of these bimbos. We tried to warn him, but it was the first time in his life any woman had really paid any attention to him, so he bit. She made him buy a Mercedes, and build her a house, and as soon as it was finished, she divorced him and cleaned him out. It's sad what women can get away with in this society, they should all be arrested for theft.

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----- "The problem is, there are too many men out there who are either brainwashed by women, or just willing to go along with the program. Sort of 'Well, what can you do, that's the way it is'. As long as men pay for pussy, women will keep using and abusing us."

----- "Women are manipulative".

----- "What all women need is a good fucking."

----- "Have you seen these soft drink ads where the women cluster around a window to see the hunk take his shirt off? Turn that around. What if it were men staring at a woman? It would be like World War III with these feminists. But don't they realize that the women's ad is incredibly sexist?"

----- "If a man gets a promotion ahead of a woman, it's favoritism. But if she gets ahead of a man, it's equal opportunity."

----- "If a woman lives off a man, she's a homemaker. If a man lives off a woman, he's a bum. Very sexist."

----- "Women should be walking around with an IV alcohol drip all day. It might make them sane."

----- "Women's biggest problem is growing up reading Cosmopolitan and all the other crap you see in the check-out line. Sometimes I'll read the covers of these things. It's, 'How To Find A Rich Man Who Isn't A Jerk' and 'How To Tell If Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You'. Just unbelievable. No wonder they're so screwed up!"

----- "Women scorn men as violent, as hunters. But you don't see them turning down the meat."

----- "I heard a feminist slogan that says, 'What part of 'no' don't you understand?' That's easy-the part that means 'yes'."

----- "I wish women would treat me as a sex object."