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Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 9:46pm On Nov 08, 2021
- A large number of women are drawn to Alphas

- Alphas possess a number of attractive qualities that women adore like:

Good looks, Humor, Creativity, Charisma, Humor, Confidence, High-intensity, Social abilities.


-Alphas appeal to women because they appear to be self-assured.

Women are innately drawn to males with good genes to pass down (like those positive traits that alphas have).

-Men who are too kind and aren't alphas will bore a female.

Alphas are typically the ones who bring the fun, drama, and action that women crave.

A woman can detect an alpha’s vibe and knows he'll turn her world upside down.

-Arrogance is mistaken for confidence by women.

As a result, an arrogant man has a higher chance with a lady than a good guy.

Kind guys can come out as needy if they are acting too nice. Women despise people who are in need.

Alphas don't need anything.


-Alphas give out a vibe that says, "You're not good enough for me."

As a result, a woman will naturally WANT to be good enough for him.

She then begins chasing him.

That's exactly how an alpha wants her to act.

-An alpha will ignore a woman.

That's why she'll feel special and one of the "fortunate ones" when he does.

Women, on the other hand, desire guys who will make them feel unique.

A nice gentleman will always pay attention to a woman.

-Women are drawn to men who can attract a large number of women.

It's almost as if it's "proof" that he has something that other (nice) guys don't.

When an alpha sleeps with a woman, she feels special once more.

She was the one who had been picked.

He had a strong desire to sleep with HER.

-Alphas are usually more fascinating in bed.

Imagine how he performs in the bed if he behaves like that outside of it!

A kind guy will force her to finish, while an alpha will force her to recall the entire encounter.

-Nice guys treat everyone the same way, and a woman gets the impression he treats her and everyone else the same way.

An alpha will occasionally treat her well, and she will feel special once again for being treated differently.

It will be regarded as a triumph in her eyes.

-Women prefer to be rewarded rather than gifted.

She doesn't have to work up a sweat to obtain a nice guy, and that's simply dull.

However, she wants to struggle for an alpha (because it's entertaining and theatrical) so that she can be rewarded once she has him.

-"If you shower a female with flowers, romantic dinners, and phone calls before you've known her for more than 22 minutes, she'll conclude you're trying to buy her love."


———Lovers’ Guide
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 11:51pm On Nov 08, 2021
You have to be a little cruel occasionally to attract a female.

You must push her away and then pull her back in at your leisure.

In other words, you're having her chase you, which is always a good thing.

There would be no more "nice guys" if every male learned this tactic.

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Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 11:59pm On Nov 08, 2021
Mr. Nice Guy (1 month into a relationship)

"Let me buy her a present to keep her happy."

Alphas:

"She'll have to put forth a lot of effort to have me."

Gentlemen, mentality is everything.
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 12:04am On Nov 09, 2021
The fear of rejection is the basis of the Nice Guy disease.

There is nothing to be afraid of when it comes to rejection.

If anything, it reveals what you need to work on.

Stop being a pussyfoot. If you're rejected, the world doesn't end.
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 12:07am On Nov 09, 2021
"You may call me anytime, baby," says the nice guy.

"Don't bother me when I'm on my grind," Alphas says.

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Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 12:10am On Nov 09, 2021
"I'll go to any length to be with you," Nice Guy.

"What are you going to do for me?" Alpha Male.
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 12:18am On Nov 09, 2021
“Tell me where you want to go tonight, baby, When are you available?” Nice guy.

"I'll be free at 9 a.m., so come over," Alpha male.



You don't have to ask her; you just have to tell her.

You don't ask for her permission; she asks for it.

You don't compel her to follow you; she chooses to do so on her own.



REMEMBER THIS!
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 12:21am On Nov 09, 2021
Mr. Nice Guy:

"Why don't you choose between these two clothes, baby?"

Alpha male:

"I'll pick you up at 7 p.m." "Put on that black gown I like."
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 12:41am On Nov 09, 2021
Setting boundaries, saying no, and prioritizing your needs are all terrific ways to break free from the nice guy stereotype.
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 12:43am On Nov 09, 2021
Alpha male:

"She is fortunate to have me; her life is extraordinary as a result of my presence."

Nice guy:

“She makes me whole; she is everything to me.”
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 12:52am On Nov 09, 2021
Alpha males:

"She's incredibly fortunate to receive an hour or two of my time."

Nice guys:

"I'd best respond to her right now or she'll lose interest."
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 1:58pm On Nov 10, 2021
The following are some of the reasons why women adore bad boys:

- They can guard her
- They're unique and fascinating
- They go after what they want
- She won't be able to control them
- They march to the beat of their own drum
- They're mysterious and unexpected

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Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:04pm On Nov 10, 2021
Have you ever seen a woman fall head over heels for a super nice guy?

I haven’t seen one.

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Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:17pm On Nov 10, 2021
A conundrum:

Women accuse nice males of being self-centered.

Women compliment self-centered males by calling them great.
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:31pm On Nov 10, 2021
The difference between being kind vs nice guy:

Kindness is a choice with no expectation of an outcome.

Being Mr. nice guy entails doing something that you believe would please her in order to obtain what you desire from her.

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Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by mediainc: 2:32pm On Nov 10, 2021
Try getting money, it works grin
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:37pm On Nov 10, 2021
mediainc:
Try getting money, it works grin

Yes, money is important, but even if you have it, you will regret it later in life if you don't know how to lead a woman.

Ask Will Smith.

Never use money to entice a lady, it will never end well!

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Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by mediainc: 2:43pm On Nov 10, 2021
Facts101:


Yes, money is important, but even if you have it, you will regret it later in life if you don't know how to lead a woman.

Ask Will Smith.

Never use money to entice a lady, it will never end well!
Are you Will Smith, you be redpiller na wink
Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by Facts101: 2:51pm On Nov 10, 2021
mediainc:

Are you Will Smith, you be redpiller na wink

Just stating a fact that why all men should get their shit together, have clear cut vision, build a good personality and earn enough money but never to simp on ladies and spend money on women in the hope that the said “lady/ladies” will stay with them.

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Re: Why Do Women Despise Nice Guys? by mediainc: 2:57pm On Nov 10, 2021
Facts101:


Just stating a fact that why all men should get their shit together, have clear cut vision, build a good personality and earn enough money but never to simp on ladies and spend money on women in the hope that the said “lady/ladies” will stay with them.
Na economic problem brother, hungry dey the land cheesy

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