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Bolarge had said it all. always keep the word of Hebrew 13: 4 as your watchword if u are a believe.
if u have sex as a single u disappoint 3 person.
1. God- because he has given u sufficient grace to keep urself
2.Your partner & friend- your partner: he will lose confidence in u, friends :they trust and believe in u.
3.yourself- because u fail the very self promise.
U have the self -will ability to say no even if ur partner demand. if he/she really love u , he will wait.
SEX IS NEVER FOR SINGLE

Thank u

lafile:
ah ah Fadenike, you didnt answer TV01's questions.

what was Tv10 question?

@Tv10, bible says'let not sin rule in your mortal body . it means that u have will power to control sin.

want to know ur question @lafile.
more light to ur point pls

Child rearing should be given full attention, right? Thus some believes it is only wife responsibility. Some men restrict their wives from working no matter the qualifications or vision she may have prior marriage in other to take adequate care of the children. Is it the best way in marriage? Can you sell your certificate to your husband?

child rearing should be given full attention .right? thus some believes it is only wife responsibility. some men restrict their wives from working no matter the qualifications or visionshe may have prior marriage in other to take adequate care of the children. is it the best way in marriage ?
can you sell your certificate to your husband?

@lafile & tv10,
can u pls explain your points?
thanks

what an interesting story at Gen.24 but the fact still remain that Rebecca  did not knew the servant neither Isaac from ancient . my understand about the question is that it not matter whether u love the person from onset or not. i want u to understand that u dont love people at first contact but continues interraction breed love and u may not have any reason to love someone except u give time to prove it.
if it is of God it will definitely stand b/c He knows how to bring people together.only need to be sure of His voice for he will speak peace.

A True Male is a person of His Word.The one who encourage the strenght of her lady, help to strenghten her weakness,correct in love, care, respect her opinion in any matter and give attention

ah! ah! u pple r wonderful.

@mrpataki,
u surprise o. well i learnt that xtain relationship is based on scripiture dt matrimonial bed should be undefile.

@ lafile,
i mean who should be blame for breaking d rule(as above) i.e in luring to or accepting sex or related causes.


@TV01
let me just elucidate my point , xtains believe is that at courtship there should be no kissing, hugging, pecking or sex till d joining day. for those dt engage in doing such, who is to be blame?

hope to get unbiase facts.
thank u.

Many thanks to all that has contributed to this topic, also i want to say a big sorry to as many that does not understand the question. i didnt expect d question to generate arguement as contain in most replies. my question is directly to christians "that as christ's desciples do u need to curse or fight to convince unbeliever about christ's death and resurrection? i think as a beleivers while preaching, your words should state FACTS about Jesus death and resurrection with reference to scripture. Conversion is of the Lord. u need not to argue the truth.
i will also say that " u can not change a truth'' nothing can be done against the truth either u believe it or not. FACT NEEDS NOT TO BE DEFENDED BECAUSE IT HAS IT PROVE.
I WILL SUBMIT HERE THAT WHETHER U BELIEVE IT OR NOT JESUS CHRIST WAS DEATH, RESURRECTED AND WILL SOON COME BACK, IT IS A FACT. YOUR BELEIVE CANNOT CHANGE IT.
MAY GOD ENLIGHT US ALL ON THIS TRUTH.
STAY BLESSED.

I will say YES, once u are sure that the voice is of God . He is not a confusionist and was fully aware that love does not exist between two of you before he reveals his desire to u.
Love is not an accident occurence it works with process. it is not all love that is at first sight but many grow with time and if its God he will speak with the other party also.
All u need to do is to go back to God and tell him to confirm his word. Aslo you need the counsel and pray of man of God for more confirmation do not be a monoplist of holyspirit.
stay blessed

The sexual abuse in chrisatin relationship among the singles which is against the rule of courtship according to bible is rampant today. who is to be blame for the act?

GODLY, RESERVE, DILIGENT, DISCILPE, TRUST AND TALLER

Nysc as a compulsory service is not to seek for plesure but to sacrifice. it is  called 'servce' .At nysc orientation we learnt about  adaptation and all such which is to prapare every corp member on expectation. Then i made up my mind that its not where i served that matters but what i do with the service year. i served in shanga local govt of kebbi state where there is no light neither any means of communication. infact none of the social amenties were available.  Thence i have a whole year to spend as a must. The most funny part of it is that d local govt i was posted to have no vacancy for coppers but yet need them.
A question came to my mind as i stepped  into that village,'  why did these people requested for a corper? then i have the answer same way that every community need a change that they cannot effect by themselves, they need  people to encourage them ofcouse they are nigerian and need to fell among. Then i search for what i can offer d village for d period to make it convinent for myself. i have to create my world.
There is two pry schl in d village, one is purely for islamic study and d other is normal but d pupil didnt understand english b/c they were not taught, yet i wanted to make impart. all i do is to employ one of their teacher to interprete and before d end of d year  dir was a serious change which challenged their teachers and the community. The villagers appreciated us though there was no electricity yet a generator were provided for us.
It is a team work of all corp members that were posted in my set.
IF U ARE GOING FOR NYSC HAVE A MIND TO SERVE. ITS ALL ABOUT SHARING OTHERS BURDEN FOR A STATED PERIOD.
I STRONGLY ENCOURAGE IT CONTINUITY BECAUSE IT WILL SURELY PREPARE U IN ALL ASPECT.

interesting!!! i read insurance (HND)

I WANT TO ANNOUNCE TO U THAT UR NO BELIEVE CANNOT CHANGE WHO GOD HIS, IF U DO NOT YET BELIEVE IN GOD,
HE REMAIN LORD OF ALL. THE EARY U BELIEVE D BETTER U BECOME.

do christian need to curse anyone in other to defend jesus death and resoraction ? many curse.

yes. guy can be a just friend to a girl. i belive every relationship should be define from inception. Though emotion may dictate at times, but if u are discipline enough u ll stand the test period .also what brouhgt u together is another factor that can strenghten ur friendship.
it just a simple discipline.

Riches is not a function of been beauty or ugly. it is a divine heritage which u either choose or ignore. whichever way, its ur responsibilty to activate it. for both insight matters.

i ve more friends, and if i know my enemies i will add them to my friends list.

if i knew i'm going to die tommorrow, i wil consider and reconcile my way before God and man. my last word would be 'Accept Jesus as your Lord and saviour'