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So, he learnt it from a book, so what?

The main question is: Does he love you?

I'm sure there are many guys out there hoping they can learn how to woo and satisfy someone like you

So stop complaining and buy him more books to make him even better

To those saying the guy didn't keep to his words, that's just thrash

So, he should be happy his gf cheated on him with her ex?

Joke or not, that's not the type of thing any guy wants to hear

The first responders got it right.

This is the type of story even a retard won't believe
The OP must be high on some Austrian weed or 'shrooms
She needs to stop tripping.

@OP

correct analysis.

Travelista:


To be fair, I'm not the type to do such a thing but I'm [i]capable [/i]of doing so; most women are but you know that, don't you?

What I don't understand is if you are looking to spend money for cooch, why not just go to a hooker? You save money in the long, still add a notch to your bedpost and don't have to worry about a girl crying that you used her for some play.

Quote of the day, haha
You could have added one night stands or flings to that also. They save you money and time in the long run too.
One would need some class and style to pull it off regularly, but I prefer that to relationships when I'm in a really busy phase of my life or a bit broke.

Travelista:
Wow, there are a lot of low-life men and loose women on the prowl! So, because a man spends money on me, I'm expected to give up the goods? I'll let a man spend his whole paycheck on me and THEN ignore his phone calls. Know why? Because I can. If you feel that spending money on a woman equals getting your rocks off, you aren't dating but soliciting. Looking through this thread. . .so many people are exposing themselves for the world to see. Just a mess.

OP, the guy isn't serious. He wants to plow but hasn't purchased the field; na by force? Either his balls will burst from frustration or he'll respect your beliefs and wife you; if he can't do the latter, be on your way, my dear. The man is beyond barbaric and not worth the energy it took for you to create this thread; listen to your mother.

The words in bold aren't new. Your type prowl the whole Nigeria looking for mugus. I hope you don't come across a guy looking for vengeance. You'll vomit his paycheck by force.

This is the funniest sh1t I've read in weeks 

As sweet as this story is, Gloria is only getting worse.
I can only see an anticlimax ending for this

^^^ I respect yours too. Keep being yourself
Take care

Elpieda:
@harakiri then[b] i guess i should just conclude that every guy is a gold digger since all the men i dated previously sucked me dry, [/b]strange aint it, but am a go-getter which always made me financially independent and every guy i was with made me spend so much on them cos i am a strong and independent woman, and i know a lot of ladies have the same story to tell at some point,

I guess you can say every man you've met was a gold digger, but you won't find many ladies saying the same.

This character of women (preferring the rich or comfortable) is one of the few things in life that is certain.
I don't even know why there's a debate on it.

It's the equivalent of saying: Almost all (>99%) people like to eat. That's a sure fact
If you've read related books and carried out surveys on your own, you'll understand what I'm saying

^^^ More Like Matt 6:33

But seek ye first the kingdom of Money, and its associates (e.g Car, House etc); and all these women shall be added unto you.

Guys, I'm not trying to blaspheme or anything like that. Just having fun, God forgive me

@Elpieda

I respect your stance. but trust me, we're not making hasty generalizations.
Almost every guy has the same story about women, so what else do you want us to believe?
Btw, <1% could be anything from 0 - 1%

Many of us hope to meet your type but have never had the luck
And trust me, it's not because we flashed our cash first.
Some guys dress well, act well, look handsome and have good prospects,
but have been robbed of girlfriends by richer guys.

So what do you expect us to do? lie about it?

Stop looking only through your glasses, you're probably the only owner of that brand
Please put your foot in our NIKEs and see how it feels.

@Elpieda

It's either you don't live in Nigeria,
or you are in Nigeria but very oblivious of the things going on around you.

At least, you can see from all the responses so far, that you're the only one with a different view.
If what you say is true, then you deserve praise.
But at least you can see you're part of the less than 1% of women around.
The majority situation is what we're trying to discuss, not some rare case like yours

@Harakiri

Keep the flag flying. Tell them as it is.

I've been slapped before. it wasn't funny though.

But I just let it go because it was after I said I was breaking up with her.

Nowadays, I anticipate it and just dodge.

Really funny story.

You lost either way, but at least you've taught her an important lesson.
Problem is, she might not learn.

olusolami:
THIS IS SIMPEL,
MINE IS:

younger, fiesty, manly, funny, not too tall, a 6inch disk and knows how to use it, rich, very rich, mature in all ways,

Finally, a lady that knows the meaning of 6 inches
Some deluded ones think 6inch is small as if inch = cm

^^^ Your type is very rare. I've never met one.

So, we're saying it as we see it. 99% of Naija ladies will never spend their cash for their men
They expect a rich guy to sweep them off their feet.
And they wonder why we date other nationalities?
They really need to change.

FBS:
All the above is over the bar.  

What you are saying is that a girl who works in a bank will only marry someone from her own "class"?

Class is in the mind. Forget that one.

If you think she'll marry someone less, then you must be in deep sleep.
Even if that happens, she'll most likely look up to someone else and disrespect her guy.
That's why you find them sleeping with their bosses. Afterall, the husband's level is lower.

^^^ Don't try to oversimplify it.

The scenario I've been trying to point out is this: Money makes it easier for you.

Brownteeth:
But wait ooo!!! I just reasoned that the number of guys that are rich CANNOT go round all the many POOR girls. Therefore the excess poor girls will still need an "anyhow" man whether riich or poor. Hope dey for the poor guys wella.

What's the meaning of poor girls? Do you mean wowo girls?

If a girl is beautiful, that's her wealth.

FBS:
What you guys are posting aint nothing but comedy. Sorry but I just had to laugh. No be my fault.

But on a more serious note, my question is this, what are you looking for? A wife or a hit and run?

What's the difference? Most wives have been hit and run victims many times before.

The rules apply whether you're looking for a wife or a hit and run.  Get your money.

Pretty wives are extremely hard to get without good cash

joanana:
Funny posts!!!!!!! I laff most guys   Not all gurls r materialistic as most guys conclude!!!!!!!!! Some chicks r interested in security n what u ve to offer. It doesnt end with cash n posh ride!!!!!!!!! Common guysss. We no be crayfish oooooo . Treat us with respect. Yeah toastin still works, to me its outdated n childish. If u gurl u like walk up to her n start a nice conversion , if u r smart enuf or interestin, or get lucky u will get her contact n then u start from there!!!!!!!!!! Plzzzz guys not all women n LovePeddler!!!!!!!!!!  

So she said.

At least you've confirmed that the guy has to be smart and interesting
What this means is: The guy has to be rich or comfortable.

Tell me, out of all the guys that have been interesting to you, how many of them were poor? Be sincere

^^^ Haha, they're much more than 10, but I get your point.

Redman44:
While I agree with all what you've said so far, I still believe toasting works these days. I agree that most ladies go after guys with a lot of money. I also agree that dressing well and having a nice car can bring the girls to you like ants are attracted to sugar. However, there are some exceptions to the rule. There are some women that are not moved by what you've got or the designer clothes you've got. These ladies still want you to declare your honest intentions to them. It is not all women that can be gotten by flashy things. Some years ago, there was this girl in journalism school back in Lagos. She was really pretty and light skinned and the guys were scrambling to date her. [b]However, this lady rebuffed their attention and got close to a guy that was considered a geek and a nobody. [/b]What I'm trying to say is that some women [ about 5% of women ] see beyond the glittering cars, cash and clothes. Honestly, I've come across such women. And it is not all of this species of women that are Spiri-Konko people o They are just lovable ladies. Cheers.

www.vibes-extra..com

You're still getting it wrong. She got close to him because he was brainy. And I'll bet she got her 2.1 by sticking close to him
After that, you'd see her next with an Alhaji

I think the concept of getting women is being misunderstood

If all you have is swagga and good way of talking, you'll surely get girls but only at a slow rate. You might only get the low-level ones too

If you've got the dough and car, you'll be getting them in droves without talking much. You'll surely get the prettiest ones.
This doesn't mean you have to spend on them. In most cases, your money becomes the attraction.
Many girls can f3ck you in a posh car or posh apartment in exchange for a ride and some tasty lunch. That way, you lose nothing.

^^^ Okay

Wow, it's all gone awry. The devil wears prada

This is why I can't marry a lady richer than me, ever.

^^^ Haha, So they're Benin girls? Now I understand.

@OP, this same thing has happened to me twice.
And you know what I did? I ended the relationship there and then

It's just empty threats jare. Besides I can bet she's most likely a Benin girl.

By all means tell your mum, Pastor, etc to pray for you.
But don't be scared at all. Nothing dey happen.

That's if your whole story is true

Gabry:
Long time chairman!

My Nigerian bf has turned to chinko naaa

Abeg! U are not suppose to be on 190 of a rodent side!

Chinko, how? You've turned the poor boy into a malaysian?
Abeg o, don't let him forget his people. Don't let his mother cry.