₦airaland Forum

Bobbyjay001:
Agrrrrrrhhhh! This neither happened to me nor my sister. I culled it from naija news(a website) and decided to share with my fellow nairalanders.

meimoks:
The relationship is just two months and you cant give her attention, so when will the attention come? You're not caring joor, wake up before is too late i.e if you really love her. Don't follow all this fake show of 'machoism' here

texanomaly:
Op...It's a long distance relationship. What else is there but to talk. That's the problem with this kind of relationship. They seldom work out. It's too hard to keep it going.

cybug:
As an introvert myself, I'm facing this challenge. And it get even worse if you're in a distance relationship...

I'm very sure I'll have a separate room from my wife.

ronald4lif:
You should set your own standards, hers seems untenable.

Calling once a day is not bad, especially at nights. And if it's at night and at one time call per day rate 30-40mins is not equally bad. Other times, you can just ring early in the morning or during breaks at work for 5minutes, that won't hurt either.

No one can call people every minute of the day. This you have to tell her that it's not possible, and it's up to you to make her understand why its not possible, that should be easy to convince.

When watching football mehn, mesef no dey want any disturbance when Man United dey play game ohh, my phones self na silent e go dey lol. What you should do on this is tell her you don't joke with football and it doesn't affect your love for her. And just maybe if you both are chatting on bbm or whichever media platform you can just drop a message like 'hey love, I am about watching a football now, you know our club is the baddest and pray we win kisses or love you', I believe this won't hurt either.

Every woman loves getting attention from their man, some go overboard about theirs, some are moderate but they all want attention, assurance, and want to feel wanted every time. You may not like this and may even contemplate of quiting for this reason but your next girlfriend may be no different. As a guy one it's really up to you to bring her to your standard and what you can do and what not but notwithstanding the fact that you must give her the needed attention

stan241:
In my opinion @op she's expecting you to do things her ex used to do its simple...by the 2nd month she should have known the kinda person you are especially the call thingy so unless you sit her down and explain stuff to her she will keep expecting you to do these things which I think her ex was good at...you also need to get spontaneous if she expects you to not talk for more than 30mins surprise her and call and talk to her for like an hour yes or pay her a surprise visit once in a while... good luck

stan241:
In my opinion @op she's expecting you to do things her ex used to do its simple...by the 2nd month she should have known the kinda person you are especially the call thingy so unless you sit her down and explain stuff to her she will keep expecting you to do these things which I think her ex was good at...you also need to get spontaneous if she expects you to not talk for more than 30mins surprise her and call and talk to her for like an hour yes or pay her a surprise visit once in a while... good luck

eleko1:
u started dating 2 mnts ago abi? Within dat 2 mnts she dey sick every week,rite ? Must u call her everytime without doing something else abi nah d call/talk go put food for table? That girl nah ogbanje(winch )

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hifaif:
English is a serious problem for you, mofo.

It is 'Shut the (not YOUR) crap

It is 'Uncircumcised (not uncircumcise) fool'

Then, learn to punctuate correctly.

Humblebloke:
Yeah u do.... I hav got one too!!!


U wanna get to know someone.... lil' bit of details from the past could help ur* future* if u r plannin on havin one.



There is a slight difference between attention and time.....

hifaif:
It is called trap, sir. Trap, you mofo!!!

Humblebloke:
Read dat part again.... Lemme rephrase it;


Dig into her previous relationships*...... Dat way,she ll know you care.

Qhal:
You too?
I'm disappointed in you!

Vikky014:
Epic!!!