₦airaland Forum

I saw her picture on a poster in port harcourt for a church programme too.....no dulling, money must enter whichever way man (woman) must whack!

Someone said anything Ooni makes FP, I hope dat comment has not jeopardized d chance of a FP for dis post..... OP pray hard!

Biafra!

Lemme go and brush......I jus dey wake up

Wow!

Trustyd1:
yes there's a device that allow u 2 mirror ur phone but not every phone. I've used note2. It broadcast every activities going on in ur phone. Check me by moro let me send u de pic i'm away from home now

Aight boss!

Hw can I connect my android device to my TV? What kind of cable should I buy and where can I get it.....Ps I live in portharcourt

They sound same to me......seems like someone paraphrasing a previously made statement....they both have elements of heartbreak, time, distance and an attempt to reconciliation.

Hmmmmm

So I took out of my expensive data bundle to check ya picshur n I see dat OP, yoa are very beautiful. Sorry there is no advice that will work for you, he has gone kolomental. The only option is for you to travel abroad to overseas like Togo, Benin republic or niger.....he will leave you den....
Op is fyn sha

We break up to make up......why am I awake by tis time sef

Interesting......"I can't explain it eeehhh"

Lie.....spoof!

2-0 Nigeria leads!!!

RuuDie:
"start seeing someone as family" is not the same as "family" - I rest my case!

You start seeing him/her as family because that is who he/she is....and ur spouse is gonna be more family than ur biological family for a longer part of your life (the rest of it) should all things go well.

Johnkantius97:
The Catholic Church has it's laws which has been passed down for more than a thousand years.

NO means NO!

And do this catholic laws guarantee you going to heaven?......My people perish for lack of knowledge.....Christ came so that we will be redeemed from the curse of the law...buh the church decides to add more laws to the ones already in the bible......how can you claim to be redeemed and still leave under Do's and Dont's.....that is totally against the Christianity we are professing. Christians Read your bible!

RuuDie:
Sample question... Your friends or family, who has more influence on you?

Family of course.....and if u can't start seeing someone you are about to get married to as Family even before the "I do" then there is a problem. I influenced my Fiancee more than her family members because she already considers me more family than her biological family.....its that simple! Don't wait till you marry somebody before you start changing the things you don't like and can't live with, cos if u wait till then you are only gonna cause trouble, sadness and problems in the marriage

RuuDie:
Before you marry, she doesn't "belong" to you; after you marry, she does!

A woman who can't practice total submission as required b4 marriage will hardly do when you finally are together. This is the problem of many marriages in the world, accepting certain characters and conditions from a spouse before marriage even though you don't like them thinking you can change them when you finally tie the knot. Don't make the mistake of falling for such! The house of unhappiness, strife, quarrels it leads to, where divorce is the next door neighbour....A car dat didn't run 200km/h for you b4 you bought it won't do so after cash exchange hands! cheers

RuuDie:
Very simple... go with the flow, marry the woman FIRST! After she enters HIS HOUSE, then HE TAKES CHARGE!

What you can't take charge of before you marry, you will only cause problem with if you attempt to do it after d wedding ceremony....make your stand known on time

Drfinn:
I have read with rapt attention all the replies. No reply is absolutely foolish. Thanks everyone for your comments. Sometimes its good you share a personal experience. Someone out there will learn a thing or two from it. Surprisingly, this personal experience graced the front page!!!lol!

Thanks Fammo, you seem to understand my reasoning. In the Old man's thought, he wants to continue giving his children spiritual nourishment. And that is irrespective of conjugal ties. He has been and still is a marriage counselor in the Catholic church. You can imagine the burden of doing the opposite of what you preach. As regards my ex she got me the more confused. She had once told me that should I accept the terms of mixed marriage, it will be impossible of her to renege.

I'm glad you found my advice helpful, the truth of this issue is that ur Father-in-Law-to-be has probably chaired some of the meetings where parents who allowed their children marry from outside the church was condemned, it really is not about his principles but more about the fear of being condemned and mocked the way he must have done to other people who allowed their children marry from outside the church. Pls don't let urself be dragged into what does not concern you, if your fiancee truely loves you she'll come around and wake up from her sleep, just stay strong, be a man of principle, don't do anything that will make you less of a man in the name of love......and Pray, I'm sure God will see you through....

Opetech:
This really got me.

Buh that is the truth my brother, all this crazy rules attached to marriage that don't even guarantee the success of the thing are crazy. The gal's father obviously does not know how hard it is for men to decide to settle down and marry women nowadays. He should continue chasing men away with crazy rules....

My brother, if the man is not ready to accept to your own terms please move on, love and marriage is not a do or die affair. It will be a failure on your part for your family to be ran based on the dictates of another man, what is d guarantee that principle imposition will only be limited to the church your wife and children will attend? Your fiancee too is not helping matters, when she is truely ready to marry you she will take her stand and face her parent......gals plenty out dia, marry the one dat does not come with terms and conditions.....wish you the best in life

Hahahahahahahahhaha......the mother should be Questioned, she has probably been complaining bout daddy's "slowpoke slowpoke"

Hmmmmm....good morning Nairalanders, it's 5 o'clock in the morning just woke up to drink water, will be going back to bed now, see y'all later.

Potential hoodlums for tomorrow been bred....what they need is Life coaching, Counselling, good role models. they need to understand that they are just village champions who become nobody when they enter the city.....sad...really sad

No pictures kwagi!

Get well soon boss!

Eleyi gidi gan!....2000 what?....dats almost twice daily if my calculations are correct. chai!

Is dis a joking sturv??

Click like if u think Ibori is still nursing the intention of coming back to Nigerian Politics and click share if u think otherwise......#YamAndGoats #StealingNotCorruption #AmericaWillKnow