Autos › Re: NGK Spark Plugs and KYB Shock Absorber. by Fashdeejay(m): 11:37am On Dec 24, 2019 |
2010 Acura MDX, front shocks with comfort sensors... How much |
Politics › Re: ISWAP Loses Two Commanders, 30 Fighters In Damaturu Attack - Military Sources by Fashdeejay(m): 9:38am On Dec 24, 2019 |
BitCraftman: Under the new sharia push, the captured terrorist will be tried in sharia court because the Quran state that muslims should have their lives governed totally by Quranic laws. God help the Nigerian army. Nigeria is not an Islamic state, please be guided when talking Nigeria is a mixed religious country so no one religion should claim sole propriety of our rule of law... |
Politics › Re: CJN: ‘Sharia Law Is Not Islamisation Of Nigeria’ - Islamic Scholars by Fashdeejay(m): 7:08pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Nigerians stand against sharia law! |
Politics › Re: Danjuma: If I Talk About Nigeria, Nobody Will Sleep Again by Fashdeejay(m): 11:28am On Dec 20, 2019 |
The level of disunity even for this generation is astounding, someone speaks and the next thing is "Yoruba moslem" or "ipob".... What is the matter with u folks? We are facing a common enemy so we can move forward but instead u fight among yourselves, doing the work of the enemy for the enemy.... We are one country irrespective of tribe why is it so hard to let go off the past?? The Yoruba's have messed up in the past, the Igbo's have messed up in the past too... The Hausa's also.... But if we keep fighting ourselves, who will speak the truth? Tribalism is one of the weapons of the present government.... Pitching Yoruba's against Igbo's and like that.... If we don't speak with one voice... Then we are good as dead as a country |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump Reacts To Impeachment: They Are Not After Me, They Are After You by Fashdeejay(m): 11:33am On Dec 19, 2019 |
It is safe to say everyone who has commented on this topic is a Nigerian. If so, good! Now President Donald Trump has not done a third of what Gen. Buhari has done, yet he has been impeached by the American parliament, because they respect the rule of law.... Gen. Buhari has gone against court orders and rulings and should so have been impeached from his first tenure but then, Nigerians who are screaming about growth can't see beyond their blind love for party or the so called plain cloth dictator... The country is in a mess and while we see true democracy take shape in the United states, some are still clamouring for General Buhari to keep putting untold hardships on his citizenry... Nigeria is not a bad country, it's the people inhabiting this geographical location that have the problem.... Psychiatric cases all over the place.... It is only in Nigeria a Thug/killer is awarded with a doctorate... Nigeria can never move forward unless we change the mentality of tribe first... And actually put country first... After God.... |
Romance › Re: Am I Making A Mistake? by Fashdeejay(m): 10:46pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
dannyla: I opened a new account to remain anonymous. This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.
I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace. He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.
He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.
Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.
Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.
He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s. I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.
Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.
3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.
He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.
I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.
I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.
He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit? Thanks for reading and pardon any typos The biggest mistake you'll make is to marry a man who has hit you and who insults you because of his own complex issues... He doesn't love you, obsession does not count as love.... Quit that relationship because he will begin to starve u of funds the moment he succeeds in getting your business to crash... If your partner can't respect you, then he can't trust you, if he can't trust you, then he can't love you... Him insulting your sister is just a tip of the iceberg, that guy is bad news He is a serial LIAR, you just haven't caught him yet.... The only reason he thinks you are sleeping with everyone is because he is a serial womanizer and a male LovePeddler, they are the ones who feel everyone else is like them... If you love yourself, you'll run because that guy is your downfall... |
Politics › Re: Buhari: Mr. President, What Is Happening? By Gabriel Ogunjobi by Fashdeejay(m): 1:27pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
And some people don't see there is an agenda somewhere, trying to cripple the other regions of the country.... Asides all this, inciting violence and allowing the perpetrators to go free? Brutality of the military, brutality of the police force, lack of respect for the rule of law, sack of CJN on trumped up charges, CJN replaced by an sharia judge, courts being disrupted by secret police during a court session and so many more... Yet some people choose to be consciously blind to all these evils ? Until we are united with one voice and not allow money bring disunity, we will continue to be ruled by illiterates... And senile old men... NB... This is the kind of topic meant for the front page, but instead the mods would rather put Bob risky talk ahead of the nations present issue.... Guess Bob risky is another problem we have in Nigeria that should be dealt with too...  I'm just saying |
Politics › Re: A Man Jailed In Abuja For Killing A Cow - Femi Fani-kayode by Fashdeejay(m): 11:32am On Dec 15, 2019 |
It is quite appalling that the average Nigerian youth chooses to politicize everything.. So a vow wanders onto someone's property (trespass), he kills the animal on his property and he is sent to jail? Yet folks are saying all sorts because of the likes and shares... You can't come out and say it for what it is?? Then you are one of Nigeria's many problems. If it were to happen to a close relative or friend, you wouldn't be so blinded by politicking that a man would be languishing in a prison for killing a cow that trespassed on his land.... Now cows have more rights than humans.... Wake up and smell the coffee, Nigeria is nosediving into a free fall.... And we have no harness or string to pull us back... |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Returns Back To Nigeria, Dances & Shows Off Surgery Result by Fashdeejay(m): 12:35pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
Whoever let this get to the front page is quite dense.... Is this what should be promoted?? There are other pressing situations you are more interested in the life of a confused gay who doesn't understand what he wants in life... Sad... Mods |
Romance › Re: How Long Have You Been Celibate And Why? Share Your Experience by Fashdeejay(m): 12:54pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
MissGhosted: omar09. I will answer ya mail but talk rubbish an ill expose ur rubber as$ Blinking001 leave me alone bad mannered he goat. Ode! With ya bent teeth. If u like don go an delete dat ugly pic damn... U are brutal... I like... |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Senate Makes Case For Nuclear Energy by Fashdeejay(m): 4:04pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Nigeria isn't ripe for a nuclear reactor plant yet... We can't handle regular plants... We want to start using nuclear energy?? Misplaced priority .... Perfect the present system before moving higher |
Politics › Re: DSS: We Didn’t Arrest Sowore In Court — His Supporters Were Only Acting by Fashdeejay(m): 12:00am On Dec 08, 2019 |
GeoAfrikana: Lalasticlala, other side of the story.
Emotions and sentiments apart;
First, sincerely when I watched the video yesterday I was confused. I didn't see any persona that looked like a DSS officer. I've once had an 'encounter' with DSS officers. They escorted the corpse of a federal icon from Abuja to our village for burial. They arrived early in the night, witnessed the burial, shot guns in the air and drove off.
It was an intimidating experience. They were so organised and gallant. Their men were heavily built and their guns were sophisticated. No one in that video is similar to the typical DSS officer in my imagination.
Secondly, the word REVOLUTION that Sowore used is enough crime against him. I'm almost certain that if someone tried a tenth of such in the US he would be corpse in less than a month. Or at least be undead in Guantanamo.
Note: I'm opened to objective counter-arguments. If you rationally, objectively and politely debate my points then I'll listen to you. I'm willing to engage in intellectual debates.
But if all you have is insults and curses then expect no response from me.
Thanks for reading. They are called the secret police for a reason, they don't wear uniforms and can be anyone. Plain clothes. Buhari used the same word against Jonathan's government... Criticism will always arise in every government, even the strongest president in the world doesn't use the FBI to harass the citizens... Yet he is the most abused president... Buhari is a dictator, like it or not... He is what he is... He doesn't have a clue of what good governance is about... Very insensitive to the plight of the people. He can't even communicate with the people, he can't even rule over his own personal affairs... Let alone successfully lead a country. The truth, this is not about PDP, APC or any political party, seeing it for what it is, buhari is probably the worst president, Nigeria has had in the history of the country... Used to think it was one of those military dicks, but now, I know it is the man who calls himself a reformed democrat scratch that, a dictator in civilian clothes.... |
Autos › Re: Affordable Original Honda Car Parts. by Fashdeejay(m): 8:49pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
Linkage, linkage bushing, two front shocks, tyrod n socket for 2010 Acura Mdx |
Autos › Re: HONDA & ACURA Replacement Part's, We Got You Covered!. by Fashdeejay(m): 4:44am On Nov 30, 2019 |
2010 Acura MDX shock absorber, steering rack |
Family › Re: The Marriage List Given To A Man In Akwa Ibom State by Fashdeejay(m): 4:42pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
pocohantas: I doubt that list is complete.
I can't see the items for the men and women.
Umunna and Umuada.  Are they different from the youth  Abeg best thing na to give the babe belle before she Go meet her people, as dem no say na for sale... Nah who get good intentions... |
Computer Market › Re: Two Pieces Of 500gb External Hdd Fully Loaded With Movies And Tv Series-9k Each by Fashdeejay(m): 10:49pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Last price, can pick up at faaji lagos island tomorrow |
Health › Re: Ene, Emaciated Lady In Ajah Is Rehabilitated (New Photos) by Fashdeejay(m): 11:20am On Nov 19, 2019 |
klashe: Incredibly stupid supernaturally stupid |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Fashdeejay(m): 9:54am On Nov 19, 2019 |
She told you herself, you didn't force her, you didn't ask her, it shows, she has a conscience and she loves you.... If u can't see past her flaws, then you don't deserve her! Yes she lied because she wasn't sure you'd stay most likely the reason she told u a half truth, but she came out and told you on her own terms, forgive and move on, that's a woman with a sincere feeling for you... |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Fashdeejay(m): 1:17pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica: don't be surprised if she is still giving it up because certain people take advantage of her weakness.... You need to help her... Stop seeing her as just ur girlfriend or fiancée, see her as ur friend, sit her down and talk to her, make her understand what u are both doing, how it benefits her to be firm and more decisive in her actions.
only a psychologist can help her,it is not OP job,and you think normal talk will fix this?..she needs serious therapy!!..there are professionals for that When I say help, u can help build her self confidence, help her see how beautiful she really is in and out... Always be willing to listen even when she has messed up... Build her confidence and watch her bouce out of that LOW self esteem |
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by Fashdeejay(m): 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
I would say this to you, it's not what you want to read, but the reason she is soft with guys is because ur girl has got low self esteem, so she feels she has to give it up free, don't be surprised if she is still giving it up because certain people take advantage of her weakness.... You need to help her... Stop seeing her as just ur girlfriend or fiancée, see her as ur friend, sit her down and talk to her, make her understand what u are both doing, how it benefits her to be firm and more decisive in her actions.... Ask her, she may have been raped as when she was younger... Be gentle with her but be firm.... She needs you to be her strength |
Politics › Re: 3 Months Imprisonment For Social Media Offenders - Bill Passes First Reading by Fashdeejay(m): 2:12pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Even the government peddles fake news, who will arrest them then? The likes of Lai Mohamed, Adams Oshiomole and even the man from daura himself... Who will arrest them then? Nigerians, our freedom is being stripped away one step at a time, yet we can't even see that we are almost prisoners in our own country... |
Politics › Re: 3 Months Imprisonment For Social Media Offenders - Bill Passes First Reading by Fashdeejay(m): 2:08pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Well their excuse for this bill is just a cover up for the real reason, it is Nigeria, this is just a way of ensuring complete gag over free speech and opinions... Now the government has free reign to imprison anyone who criticize the government and when u complain they will quote this "bill"/ law..... Democracy has finally flown out the window |
Career › Re: How Do I Tell My Colleague She Has Mouth Odor? by Fashdeejay(m): 7:44am On Nov 06, 2019 |
Each time she is about to talk to you, offer her TomTom.... Eventually she'll catch the drift.... As for the BO, just tell her to stop using the soap she is using, it smells funny |
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Properties › Property Suitable For Warehouse, Shopping Mall Or Cinema For Sale by Fashdeejay(op): 2:12pm On Oct 31, 2019*. Modified: 2:30pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
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Autos › Re: 2012 Clean Toyota Avalon For Sale by Fashdeejay(op): 1:38pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Kidnaps Travellers From Highway_ Nigerians Reacts by Fashdeejay(m): 11:42am On Oct 28, 2019 |
Nuclear99: Mannabbgrills will not see this now, idiot Abeg leave that confused suya man |
Autos › 2012 Clean Toyota Avalon For Sale by Fashdeejay(op): 1:11pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Clean Luxury Toyota Avalon for sale 3.5 Litre V6 Engine.. Luxury and Power in one... 3.8 Asking Negotiable. Direct owner. Location- Lagos, Ajah. 08023817005
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Family › Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Fashdeejay(m): 5:44pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
BLEMOSEDU: What's is now the difference between you and the man? You both live and encourage violence. Mr. Blem, I abhor men who beat women, u should too. imagine the wife who is in the hospital as your sister, you wouldn't be so calm... so please, if I decide to be violent with a man who feels beating a woman makes him more of a man, that is my business... I don't encourage violence, but sometimes it's to be mentally violent than physically violent.... all I have suggested is psychological violence... leave him mentally scarred... he will never raise his hands against any woman.... you do not know how scarred the little child is, he beats his mom in his presence, what do u think? And u say I am encouraging violence...? Please cuz, touching a woman violently is a sign of weakness of mind and body of a man... he is less than a man, he is an animal and should be treated as such... |
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