BiafraBushBoy:


Nice comment...

on a side note , can I know you?

@Signature. lol

mummy will beat me.

deepwater:
My kind of wedding!!!

No go use your mouth confess bad thing ooo
Seems you don't know Nigerians, once they attend a wedding and food isn't sufficient, you'd become the gossip of the town. hahahaha. I can never forget Iya Sukurat in my school. She's a pro in that.

Lol, this would have been very possible in the last century.
Anybody who budgets less than 100K for a wedding in Nigeria right now isn't ready for marriage and should go and sleep.
BTW
nice joke OP, it made me smile.
Economy Naija no go gimme heart attack.

emorse:

For a second, I thought you were the CNN reporter. kudos to you.

thanks

BobbyDean:
what? 120 urologist? A little over 600 paediatrician?(altho those ones fail residents like it's nothing). These figures are damn scary & unfortunately it's gonna get worse cos medical folks out here dont even want residency again or @least not in 9ja cos they feel it's waste of life. BTW, how come you have these facts & figures?

I read wild.

but on a serious note, we have really Good doctors here.
we are our own problem.
most hospitals are short-staffed and the doctors are overworked. With Nigeria taking the negative lead in several global health indicators, health personnel who should help reverse the tide are in short supply across the country with training and recruitment increasingly ebbing.
Currently, the country has a little above 600 paediatricians to care for its over 40 million children, compared to the United Kingdom’s over 5,000 for 20 million children. The figures are more depressing in other areas of medical specialisation. With the rising cases of cancer across the country, there are only a little above 15 oncologists; 10 neurosurgeons to attend to issues related to the nervous system; and 120 urologists to manage conditions related to the male urinary tract and reproductive organs such as prostate, kidney, bladder cancers, prostate cancer, testicular cancers, infertility in men, sexual dysfunction etc.
There's no motivation at all for these doctors, causing them to handle their work with less care.
many of them are underpaid, less widely appreciated and undergo professionalism with tears.
When those in power learn to start doing the right thing, then we'd start getting the right appraisals.

nothing surprises me anymore.

why did you blur that thing na??

crackhouse:
will u date me if I tell u mine?.
It is legit.

hahaha. lol

harizonal123:

Op, as a guy I have lots of yahoo friends doing fraudulent business and they never disclose their source of income. When u ask them what they are into, they can't come up with anything tangible. At that point I know who I am dealing with. I distance myself from such. I don't call them or pay personal visit to them. I have never admired their wealth. I only greet them when I see them on the way. How can a responsible person spends 80k at a sitting. That tells u all. You needed no fb verification to know he was into yeye stuff.. I believe u went to his place severally. If u had given that guy another one month he would have had his way. You tried sha but my advice to you is that u should be more careful of what u desire cos u were almost carried away

thank you

odinga1of:


Please ignore some people.................thats Naija for u, they will tell u dey smell rat, cat and dog.


Those who have ears let them hear.

Even if you have 7 cars, explain ur source with backup claims to that girl u love (my 2 cents)

very few are wise, you're one of them. thank you

Billyonaire:
I spend more time on laptop too mostly researching and nairaland, and I wear a ring with a skull. Sometimes I spend far more than what you mentioned there for just anyone, girl oh, boy oh, lesbian oh, etc, just depends on how I feel. And if you ask me what I do, I am very sure I do not have time to discuss my businesses with some tramp I met on the streets. This is basically the life style of an average American, European and few Nigerians who are no longer suffering the 9-5 slave trend. So what does that qualify me for ? I think you should date the politicians, they are better thieves than Yahoo Boys. Sorry, I meant Pastors. Their jets are fruits of their hardworks. I know Yahoo boys will rejoice that I support them. When dem catch una, na me go laugh pass.

Judge not. I used to, now I dont. No one is qualified to judge, not even God judges. We judge ourselves.

true

taylor88:


u shouldn't have brought this online precious
chaiii see gal wey i love been bashed
no wonder u made the statement"" this is the best way to get ride of people like u""
I talk am chaiii

lmao. gerrout joor

Kowalskiq:

Madame first and foremost, refuse to be showered with gifts and money.
You can reject them from the onset.

But I guess no, you want to eat your cake and have it..

You chop the guy money, but when it's time for you to open your leg, you'll start asking him for his Curriculum Vitae..
Keep deceiving yourself.
Girls and their funny mentality, wen fuvk reach you remember say dey guy Na Yahoo boy

But you nd your fellow hungry girls went to eat 80K what of food.
That's just a little lower than my Salary .
Una chop nearly my whole salary in one sitting

Poverty it shall never be well with you

You sound like a poor man. sorry about your predicament

doris4u:
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.

No sis, I ain't supporting that. I only noticed that most girls would happily open their legs when showered with cash and material gifts. some of these are unclean, that's the point I'm trying to prove

PrinceCEE:



This concludes ironically how sensible you are.


I'm just trying to point out the crappy thought people conjectured on this post.

She was just tryna advise other ladies out there and you guys took it personal.


I won't reply your quotes again, 'cause they seem like a result of dead brain cells.

I tire ooh. I ain't even replying most of them because they ain't making sense.

OrestesDante:






Can you see that you are the one with problem not the guy?


Leave God out your filthiness

Read carefully please. I didn't ask him to do all that. He did it willingly and when I tried to talk, he began asking me if I was the one spending the money. Abeg, a responsible man who worked hard for his money can't spend it foolishly. These things don't get to me. I've seen other people's experience and I've learnt to be wise.

subtlemee:
Why am I having this strange feeling about this thread? And OP got registered just last month and her signature and personal text is suggesting something her topic too is eye catching...


I smell rat

I'm not new on NL abeg.

Ab025:
But how come you only date these guys that are well to do financially, have Bentleys, 7cars etc, then leave them when you discover they are 419ers?

Can't you hook up with that young guy in ur street or out there that has an average job, doesn't have a car, is responsible and will really love you for who you are...

I think the financial worth of the kind of guy you date is also a reflection of your financial taste.

#Lady, reduce your taste...

I didn't say I only date rich guys. I'm talking about my experience with guys who have asked me out whose source of income is unknown.

I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

Fabulocity:
Shurrup how is she nude? And FYI, she's married

ode. maybe na for your dream she marry

Nudity will never bring a good man.
Person wey go market no dey buy goods wey the cover don open.
*****
so I'm STC...interesting.

mtcchhhew. reacting over nothing.
who else saw the topic and thought it was something more controversial?

SMH. liars from hell. Nigerian Senators earn peanuts, Yet a fellow senator has made it known that some worker's salary can't feed their dogs.

A woman who's beautiful outside but ugly inside.
she should have celebrated her husband today too.
but no!!
You can't change a ho, A HO is always a HO.

it isn't easy to just stop, especially if you're addicted.
what I'll advise is that you start by reducing the quantity you take per day. If you smoke 5 cigarettes everyday, reduce it to 3. from that 3, make a decision that you won't smoke more than 1 or 2. Gradually, it would be easy to stop.

Beautiful. she's very beautiful
but if I were Rita and still unmarried at that age, then I need to start asking myself what is wrong with me.

themonk:

hello dear
you no longer check your emails?

been long I did. would check it soon

Papiikush:
See as babe set. My wife must be as sexy as this, even when she is 50. Chai... Just imagine me giving her from behind

Just look at the simplicity of the wedding. I bet those in attendance are not more than 40

Here in Nigeria, a broke ass Nigga will wanna have a flamboyant wedding then run into debts

Oya come

if I were that girl, I'd deactivate my account fast.

I don't accept gifts from guys I don't love. if I don't love I simply ask you to take your gifts back. don't extort people because they love you, Karma will surely come back and haunt you.