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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by castrokins(m): 11:47pm On Jun 27, 2017
I Bet This OP Dragged Tboss When She Said Her Toasters Are PeeJet Owners
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by networkrecharg: 11:47pm On Jun 27, 2017
PLEASE TRY AND REFUND YOUR QUOTA OF THE 80K U ATE...

OF WHAT USE ARE YOU IF U EAT HIS MONEY AND CLOSE YOUR FISVIRGTINED....

Careless thought s
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Amarabae(f): 11:47pm On Jun 27, 2017
Looks like a cooked up story.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Sleyanya1(m): 11:47pm On Jun 27, 2017
You have given your piece of advice.

It is left for anyone to make sense out of it or

Criticize everything about it.

Grace ain't the same, I wish there's a way to get the signatures from afar, the handwriting on the wall or passive messages, before going on a date to the guy's crib or in the guys ride.

This is because some won't make it back alive to tell the tale.

...Engage a good guy intellectually, logically & psychologically on meaningful discussion topics (online, via personal chats or phone calls)

After a long while you'll get the signs you're looking for before going out with the dude.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by martinlooter(m): 11:48pm On Jun 27, 2017
Op, you can be very foolish,but who am I to query your stupidity. Its your god given right to be a fool

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by piagetskinner(m): 11:49pm On Jun 27, 2017
and some so called good girls fall for these very bad boys...and they never learn.. all thanks to their fish brain
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by lenghtinny(m): 11:49pm On Jun 27, 2017
So you enter a dating relationship to open your legs for a guy while he spends for you in return as long as he's legit...

Now tell me what is the difference between you and those girls at Allen angry

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by SweetyZinta(f): 11:49pm On Jun 27, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
well said, God help us

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by UbChapter(m): 11:49pm On Jun 27, 2017
hemartins:
Let me call lala.....

On a serious note, some ladies love material things and wouldn't even mind as long as the source doesn't have a direct negative implication on them.
You will definitely find true love for your sincerity soon.

You think women still don't want their men as rich as EVANS? Most women careless about what a man does for a living as long as money keeps flying in. SMH!
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Theblackstalln: 11:50pm On Jun 27, 2017
Oyindidi:
what's the reason?
I just felt like Pissing u off
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by poweredcom(m): 11:50pm On Jun 27, 2017
super story to dem gals

a nation where there is immense poverty what do u expect ladies to do

Na where money de dem de o dem. o send any body

I know of one babe wey de tell me how Evans d kidnapper de lavish .money for the bar ahr works before at festac area

had it been dem no catch Evans anybody go know his job one may think he is a legit business man

omo Na gals wahala be DAT after all almost all Naija babe Na olosho

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Theblackstalln: 11:51pm On Jun 27, 2017
SweetyZinta:

well said, God help us
Amen to that sista

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by PrinceCEE(m): 11:51pm On Jun 27, 2017
Fabulocity:
Many pained broke asses on this thread grin grin grin
The girl is just simply giving good advise but their balls dey hot because they can never be in that category of rich guys that girls should be wary of grin grin grin
Watch as they quote me to run their dustbin mouths. But I no go reply grin grin grin

Do you drink orijin?


I could buy a plate of nkwobi for you. I wonder why people are just dyslexic.
How do they even pass comprehension in English language?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Beejayx: 11:51pm On Jun 27, 2017
Fabulocity:
Many pained broke asses on this thread grin grin grin
The girl is just simply giving good advise but their balls dey hot because they can never be in that category of rich guys that girls should be wary of grin grin grin
Watch as they quote me to run their dustbin mouths. But I no go reply grin grin grin
As a winner....?
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by smashad(m): 11:54pm On Jun 27, 2017
So finding out he does a genuine job is the secret ingredients to unlocking the legs Abbi...wehdone

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Oriyt1(m): 11:54pm On Jun 27, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
Nice, but you didn't tell us if those men chook you shukushuku Na,
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Bigfellas(m): 11:56pm On Jun 27, 2017
The OP is correct. Ladies need to be extra careful and they should try not to get too carried away with material things..... It is a dangerous world out there. Please can someone enlighten me on how to create a thread here. I am new to this. Thanks

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Ishilove: 11:57pm On Jun 27, 2017
VargasVee:
Shady Story Op


Your thinking spirit refused him but your monetary spirit did not mind


So after you've been enjoying the money and gave it to him, you're now here giving advice

Are you sure there's not other women in the equation that made you ran? Cause I know the lifestyle this people live.
*Run*

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by technicallyrich(m): 11:58pm On Jun 27, 2017
They should use them for ritual almost all of them are dogs.i don't see anything wrong with it.always sleeping with rich guys and cracking sense for broke dude.
In management we have what we call occupation hazard so since they have chosen to open their legs for big boys let them also bear the consequnces.
I don't pity them.
Na wetin they sweet person they killing.
The truth is rarely heard but clearly seen.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by 2shure: 11:58pm On Jun 27, 2017
Gold digin bich
Yeah
Gold dighin bich
Runnin afta streets niggis
Fuc u stupid bich
Soon ud run into ritualist.
U giving advice
Wen u yurself is jobless
Hopeless
Cashless
Bich shut your ugly ass up
No go find work.
Oh u be one of those ugly ass biches
Hanging around at shoprite.
Opo don too many.
Street boiz don wise.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by PrinceCEE(m): 11:58pm On Jun 27, 2017
MrMcJay:


Wehdone, Mr PRO. Worthless azzlicker, when a lady posts, you lose your limited sense.

Someone spent 80K on chow for she and her hungry friend, paid for her UBER fares and all, she's now talking long turenchi. Done more than that for those who need it, but they don't come back to type trash about me online.

You better keep your low IQ to yourself and stop disgracing yourself here.


This concludes ironically how sensible you are.


I'm just trying to point out the crappy thought people conjectured on this post.

She was just tryna advise other ladies out there and you guys took it personal.


I won't reply your quotes again, 'cause they seem like a result of dead brain cells.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by CocaineSniffer: 12:00am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
You look like someone I've _fucked before. Na you _fuck me some weeks ago?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:00am On Jun 28, 2017
You don't deserve a good man @Op you deserve to be treated like trash.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nickymezor(f): 12:03am On Jun 28, 2017
Here to read comments.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by PrinceCEE(m): 12:09am On Jun 28, 2017
Hotshawarma:


show me where she said so.........mumu asslicker


Don't tell me that your cognitive domain is faulty...


Sometimes, we look beyond literal meanings and delve into the implied meaning. Read again, I say, read through her post again and come up with a better argument.

You can better still, go through the page to see where she replied someone affirmatively to my conjecture.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:10am On Jun 28, 2017
I guess the OP is encouraging her fellow girls to be professional and have high standards in their 'oloshoism'. Once you know what he does and he earns well, open your legs as wide as you can right?? .

You shouldn't have used 'open legs'. You made it seem that sex was the gift you give when you meet a guy who has a legit source of income. You could have said, " know what a guy does or his source of income before dating him"

Well, out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. OP spoke from the heart.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Hotshawarma(m): 12:13am On Jun 28, 2017
PrinceCEE:



Don't tell me that your cognitive domain is faulty...


Sometimes, we look beyond literal meanings and delve into the implied meaning. Read again, I say, read through her post again and come up with a better argument.

You can better still, go through the page to see where she replied someone affirmatively to my conjecture.
would she have jumped into fire if the guy asked her to do so and he insisted??what happened to "no thank you"??
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by MrMcJay(m): 12:15am On Jun 28, 2017
PrinceCEE:


This concludes ironically how sensible you are.

I'm just trying to point out the crappy thought people conjectured on this post.

She was just tryna advise other ladies out there and you guys took it personal.

I won't reply your quotes again, 'cause they seem like a result of dead brain cells.

You lack the morals to understand the foundation behind the misplaced advise the OP gave. I won't blame you tho, you can't give what you lack.

I'll advise that you give my initial post to someone with an IQ higher than single-digit IQ to read and explain to you. When done, go and sit in a corner and think about your life.

Sayonara!

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by brightgreat(m): 12:17am On Jun 28, 2017
But why so this sir


DanXplore:


There is a reason why u keep attracting such calibre of guys. There is something you should correct about your lifestyle and mindset.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by smackazi(m): 12:20am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.


When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

Aunty what did the first do for a living gan gan

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by fastgyal(f): 12:20am On Jun 28, 2017
PrinceCEE:



This concludes ironically how sensible you are.


I'm just trying to point out the crappy thought people conjectured on this post.

She was just tryna advise other ladies out there and you guys took it personal.


I won't reply your quotes again, 'cause they seem like a result of dead brain cells.
I tire ooh. I ain't even replying most of them because they ain't making sense.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by debspauly(f): 12:23am On Jun 28, 2017
Ajicold:
Three 50 Naira
abeg is too much ...can't you give me three 30 naira ...the recession dey too much..

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