Romance › Re: Every Woman Dating A Struggling Man Has A Timeframe (True Or False?) by fattprince(m): 3:19pm On May 11 |
PerfectStranger: Keep decieving your self buddy! No I'm not deceiving myself. With the statement you bolded, she will understand that we are getting somewhere, I just believe that maybe because she's still very young. Not yet twenty in fact. So she will know before she's ready to marry I would have progressed even further. |
Romance › Re: Every Woman Dating A Struggling Man Has A Timeframe (True Or False?) by fattprince(m): 2:59pm On May 11 |
I know this that's why the last time my smallie came over, we talked extensively on this and I had to instinctively give myself a timeline. I gave 12 months and a 10 million in my account as the target and told her she can leave guilty free if I don't meet this target. But I know she will stay even if I meet 2 million and an apartment of our own. |
Agriculture › Re: 140 Chickens Died From ‘Loud Wedding Music’ In India - Poultry Farmer Cries Out by fattprince(m): 12:24pm On May 09 |
IronCondemned: Yes, Africans are too loud especially Nigerians. A colleague of mine once said that Nigerians talk loudly without knowing. Same words that can be spoken softly is loudly shouted without knowing.
From today onwards, for those who are in doubt just watch our Hollywood. The movie are a reflection of our lives. They shout and make lots of noise unknowingly....this is cultural now. We can't change even if we live in America or Europe. I'm already thinking maybe it's me that's been mentally wanting. Because people are always complaining of me talking low when I feel if I raise the volume a little I'd be shouting. |
Education › Re: Popular Short Codes We Used In Secondary School To Remember Things by fattprince(m): 9:53pm On May 07 |
guobe: Wow quite magnificent My- Mercury Very- Venus English - Earth Master - Mars Just- Jupiter State- Saturn Us the - Uranus Nine - Neptune Planet - Pluto |
Family › Re: His Wife & Children Mistreated Him. He Secretly Sold His House & Left Them by fattprince(m): 12:00pm On May 07 |
Pootle: is that the man on blue or white?
it should be the man on blue because he refuse to drop his phone, e no wan hear say the phone loss them enter him account. he leave the phone for him chest pocket
he also take star ragler so him no go high come lose guard. very sharp man Lol!! All these from one picture. |
Family › Re: I Change Am For My Mama This Morning by fattprince(m): 1:51pm On May 04 |
Moneyyman: It's a common thing with mothers. They'll keep treating you like a kid until you make hem realize you're not longer one. Exactly, I could very well relate. Op's own still better, mine na when I don reach road she will start shouting my name to come back for additional information. And I'm sure it's because Op dey use car if na leg his mum will allow him reach outside get before calling him back for additional info |
TV/Movies › Re: The Best Nollywood Movies You’ve Ever Watched by fattprince(m): 2:51pm On Apr 30 |
Acehart: Hostages 1 and 2.
- Beautiful like old wine I loved hostages like mad then. I called it social studies then. I watched as series on TV before watching it as video cassette. Nostalgic |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgent Vacancy by fattprince(m): 9:00am On Apr 28 |
doneultimate: Urgent Vacancy An experienced kitchen assistant and a female marketer are urgently needed at Gabrison Grills and Kitchen for a weekend part-time job. LOCATION The restaurant is located at Takwabay Beach. Lagos. REMUNERATION & BENEFITS Kitchen Assistant Salary: ₦50,000 Marketer: Commission-Based Accommodation: There is accommodation provision for staff and transportation allowance for Marketers. Requirements Excellent communication and interpersonal relationships. Candidates with experience in the hospitality industry have an added advantage. How to Apply Forward your C.V to gabrisongrills@gmail.com Or WhatsApp no: 08123687285 Weekend part time job. Do you mean I have to work only on weekends, Friday to Sunday? |
Romance › Re: How Do I Discipline This Girl For Publicly Humiliating Me? by fattprince(m): 5:55pm On Apr 23 |
marcusverum: The humiliation stings. That is understandable but teaching her a lesson is the wrong move.
She was clearly going through something and handled it badly. That is on her. But the moment you retaliate, you make yourself look small in the same environment where you have built real social capital.
Your reputation on that campus is an asset. Do not burn it over one bad moment from a woman who was probably drowning in her own problems that day.
The lesson she needs is your indifference. Stop acknowledging her. Not with anger. Not with coldness. Just redirect your energy completely and let her live with what she did.
A man who walks away unbothered is far more powerful than a man who plots revenge.
Protect your peace. Protect your reputation. Move on.
HEED If I am to advise Op on revenge this the advice I will give. Ignore her permanently and completely as almost everyone already pointed out. |
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Phones › Re: How To Stop Okash Call Harassment by fattprince(m): 1:29pm On Apr 11 |
Houseofglam7: How about you just pay back the damn loan ?? Read again, he didn't take any loan. They are actually harassing him to come take the loan. Please read again and this time more carefully. |
Phones › Re: How To Stop Okash Call Harassment by fattprince(m): 9:47am On Apr 10 |
CJStarz: Thanks for the tips but do your best to pay back loans. It's the RIGHT thing to do. Are you blind or did he modify his post or you have comprehension problem?. He didn't take the loan, they are even harassing him to come and take loan. That's what his complaining about. |
Politics › Re: Some Percentage Of Nigerians Creeping Into The World Of The Homeless by fattprince(m): 9:42am On Apr 10 |
guobe: Hopefully God will do it for you. Keep fate. Amen, thanks. |
Politics › Re: Some Percentage Of Nigerians Creeping Into The World Of The Homeless by fattprince(m): 9:41am On Apr 10 |
OneCandleAway: Yes, I get. These old people can be stubborn at time. It's when you're gone they'll start missing you. Exactly. But then it'd be too late, cos it will be impossible to go back after I've left. But I still try to do the best I can with bills and all. |
Politics › Re: Some Percentage Of Nigerians Creeping Into The World Of The Homeless by fattprince(m): 1:15pm On Apr 09 |
OneCandleAway: If you pay the bills, it's your house as well. Especially if you have your own quarters. Because you have to consider distance to workplace before moving. Even if you're sharing the house with your grandparents or parents so far you take care of all associated bills it's your house. Yes, I know but it's still somehow. I work with my uncle that lives in Ikorodu. He's a computer science/accounting Consultant. But where I've lived for over 20 years. Okay recently my grandma (who is the only surviving parent I have) was complaining to my aunt that came to visit her that I invited a lady to the house, I've got my own room but because she went to church that day and asked my to help look after her own room, I have to ask the lady, my serious girlfriend o though I didn't let her know because I don't think it matters until maybe when we marry, to follow to our living room so she came back saw her didn't say anything o, till my Aunt came. It was my aunty that told me thank God my aunt refreshed her memory that if not for what's happening I'm old enough to marry so she doesn't know what she's complaining of, I'm over 30 o. You see why I need to leave her now. Even staying there is driving me back mentally. |
Politics › Re: Some Percentage Of Nigerians Creeping Into The World Of The Homeless by fattprince(m): 12:55pm On Apr 09 |
guobe: Alot of people are now technically homeless in Nigeria presently due to the astronomical increase in rents. Mere thinking about rent amount can drive one berserk. Thinking about it drives me especially berserk. I'm supposed to be on my own now with my small family but I don't want to think about rent at all yet. Thank God for my grandparents house that I'm managing but I definitely want to move out this year to my own place maybe Ikorodu or somewhere more outskirt sef |
Nairaland General › Re: This topic has been removed by fattprince(m): 10:05am On Apr 05 |
narite: On a serious note, life is more complex than what the OP is trying to lay out for us. No one alone can see the complete picture of reality. You can only grab just a very small, minute, tiny part. This is true for me, for you, and for everyone.
It's like having 20 ants staying on your body; each ant will see a different part of you. If care isn't taken, each ant might begin to pass what they see as the everything that is to see (due to their own limitations, physical or mental).
Note that each ant sees something, but what they each see is not everything, and they all see different things. I say it again: no ant can see the whole you because it's just too tiny, physically or mentally, to see the whole you. So the one standing on your finger sees your finger and goes on arguing, describing your existence and how you are, based on how the finger is. So it goes for every other ant.
If all were to give a description of you, these ants might begin to fight each other, wondering if the other ants were really on top of you.
This is how humans are: they think they have the greatest mind and can grasp everything or has finally grasp everything. Humans are yet to grasp 0.1% of the universe, yet with the so little information they have acquired along with their limitations, they still think the information they have is accurate. No wonder the passage of time always humbles us, showing us that what we use to believed to be true is not really true, and this won't stop now.
Christianity, Science, Judaism, Sango, Amadioha, and the OP dogmas etc., aren't lies; these are just fragments of reality that some people were able to see but tried to pass on as what the whole reality was built on. This your take make so much sense, that's why no matter where I am in spirituality, I still always believe and know that, all I know is still a fragments of the whole truth. That's why I feel irritated when my christian neighbor preach or invite me to one program or another and tell me that's where I can find the Truth and absolute Truth and that's the only way. Nigger your christian way is just one of the ways and it's even one of the most flawed ways. But I just agree and follow them, even though I know I've gone beyond them. I even try to play on level ground with them because even though it's flawed there are still some Truth in them, just like the ant analogy. And I believe I don't know up to 0.001% of the truth yet. Nobody can. |
Nairaland General › Re: This topic has been removed by fattprince(m): 9:48am On Apr 05 |
Omoawoke: You said don’t argue, who are you to determine that? Something about facts vs lie is that lie is always afraid to be challenged and questioned… the moment a lie sense scrutiny, it begins to console itself with words like “don’t argue, don’t debate, just ignore “ That’s a psychological play to avoid being questioned
One thing about the truth, “The truth is never ever afraid of being challenged “
And again, let me say it again.. Jesus is a scam.. How you an African black man think the whites love you so much, people who came to colonize you, torture you, steal from you and never in history regarded you as a human being will suddenly love you so much to give you Jesus to save you and take you to heaven to meet them is beyond words! I think this generation of black Africans are the dummmest set of dummmies to ever exist in the universe. You are all so dummm , like so super dummm I mean how dumb can the black man go to believe the white man love them so much to bring them salvation? Not after all the torture, discrimination and hatred. |
Nairaland General › Re: This topic has been removed by fattprince(m): 9:45am On Apr 05 |
ManknowThyself: You were making some sense till you said reject God our creator!!!!!!!
It’s only ignorance to say there’s is no God. Go with your fake ideology.
I’m done. Where did he write reject God our Creator? Creator is different from all these gods he wrote there. I'm trying my best to get used to calling my own God, The Source or I AM THAT I AM(just I AM is fine too) or my Creator. What we Yoruba call Eleda which sometimes could be your head because that's where your mind is, and your mind is the Portal in which the Creator used in experiencing this physical realm consciousness. |
Nairaland General › Re: This topic has been removed by fattprince(m): 9:40am On Apr 05 |
Ourtruth247: I deleted all my threads to protect myself, but I have all my deleted posts in multiple duplicated Microsoft documents I didn't doubt all what you have been writing. Infact I follow most of your message with other messages and decide on my own. I totally believe salvation is personal but christians don't even know what this means. The mistook it to mean your righteousness can't save your parents or children or vice versa when it's actually means your spirituality can only become through experience, it's inexplicable to other party unless they experience it themselves. You must find your own path to salvation or spiritual freedom nobody can find it for you because they are also finding their own path. It's not necessarily the same path but it's all lead to the same goal. And I think being open minded and not just thrashing your topics made me not to be surprised about Epstein file, I just felt I've known all along and it didn't even bother me at all. Infact it felt like what's all the fuse about it since it's common knowledge. I didn't know many people didn't know about it then. |
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Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 12:47pm On Apr 04 |
TheSourcerer: holla old friend I really can't believe you still remember me. I was so happy when I saw your moniker returned. Hope you are good. And why did you go on such a long hiatus. Please bring us more of your hardcore topics on serial killers and all. |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: JOB VACANCY: Cash Loader by fattprince(m): 8:40am On Mar 27 |
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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fattprince(m): 6:48pm On Mar 25 |
So my babe I talked about a few weeks ago came over this weekend. I was saying the last time she came we couldn't make out because she was on her period and she wanted to be sure of my commitment before she has sex with me. She didn't actually say that, it was what I assumed and deduce from all the questions I ask but I found out I couldn't be more wrong. Because we talked again after making out this time and she said it that she's literally scared of sex because she finds it painful and doesn't enjoy sex at all. I wanted to know why she now came and still made out with with. She said it was because I've helped her so much and she knew I was angry with her the last time because we didn't do the deed, which I explained to her that I wasn't angry because she didn't give me sex but was angry because I felt she didn't want us making out because of the guy in Edo that it made me felt she still emotionally attached to the guy, but if she had told me she was scared of sex I would have understood. I had to compromise by doing only 2 times since she told me she crossed her mind to give me once and I had 3 times in mind so we both settled for 2 which I realized was very hard for her. She literally shed tears. The only thing that put me off and which I told her was her coming to me because she feels she owes me and I wanted her to come because she loves me. Which she later said if she doesn't love me, she would not be traveling from Sango to Bariga considering the work and little time she had to rest. But I still find it unbelievable because even though I knew about her trauma of being raped, I felt she shouldn't find sex painful physically since we did it twice years before she now left to Edo. Though I told her sex is a deal breaker for me in a marriage because she said she can only try her best to have sex twice in a month and at most once in a week. And me we must constantly be doing it at least 3-4 times weekly. Now I'm thinking if therapy could be of any help to her because I don't think sex could be painful like that and the pain is only in her head due to the forced sex she had as her first sex. Because she told me then that she couldn't even report to her mum then, and that aside from the physical pain she came emotionally down for weeks because the guy was someone they trusted and she's putting the blame on herself. |
Romance › Re: You Ask A Girl Out And She Says NO! by fattprince(m): 6:13pm On Mar 25 |
Goo0dHardDick: You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.
Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive. I greeted a girl I liked one day she answered then I told her I'll like her to give me one minute, she said no. I said okay then left. She came the next day to buy something from my granny store I attended to her well, she even thanked me self I just acted like I've never met her before that day. That's all I do with other girls, if you reject my advance I face front and even greet you but never will I talk about anything romance again, to me you've lost your chance and I have always believe there's always girls out there who will like me so why should I waste time on someone who doesn't. |
Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 3:54pm On Mar 19 |
A4alpha: Oya show your pishure  If you can show yours, why not I would show mine. |
Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 3:54pm On Mar 19 |
shox: “This baby is not yours, go to court “ Wow, I don't think I can ever find myself in this situation. But I'm not judging you though. |
Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 3:53pm On Mar 19 |
shox: “This baby is not yours, go to court “ |
Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 3:48pm On Mar 19 |
Double0h7: I believe other people are your mirror and you are theirs so I listen out for harsh words because 9/10 the person is projecting and 1 time they’re giving you a clear picture of you.
My ex told me to pick a struggle because I can’t be old and broke. I laughed so hard that he was shocked. I laughed because he told the truth. I was broke and I was a year older.
Words don’t bother me as long as you don’t disturb my peace. Say what you have to say and then move on. I can’t be nagged though, you only get a small window to talk your talk and then I want my peace ✌️. True, this is me now, words hurt me until I learned that some people just want to put you down with words and their reward is your reaction now I don't react and from the little I've seen, I'm always the winner because I can see how upset they get when I don't let the words get to me. |
Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 3:46pm On Mar 19 |
brain54: So which of the words were more hurtful to you...
The No vex for this thing I wan talk ....or she accepting to date you?  It was the no vex for this thing I wan talk if she added a little insult as you don't have sense or you are stupid. I didn't say it was the most hurtful words, I said it definitely would have been if she added an insult. I have heard a lot of hurtful words but this would have trump all. The girl is still my babe and she still respects me. It's was just a matter of what could have been. |