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zenithgroup:
Forget the face and body all dat are faded shit.
what does she do for a living?
What financial prospect and values do you see in her?

Oh! She's got financial prospects. I think, which I'm not sure, she owns a laundromat or she probably works there. Of course financial capability is very important. There was a day I went to see someone at her house, I met her washing rug. I absentmindedly greeted her well done, it was like she wasn't expecting due to the way she replied very excitedly "good afternoon, thank you" that it brought back my mind. After doing what I went there to do I should have seized the opportunity to play or even slightly flirt with her but I snoozed it. Just "should I assist you" would have made us closer and in talking terms.

JESHAL007:
When you see an attractive girl, you might loose your redpill frame and be intimidated by her beauty, you start thinking why am I not rich to chase these babe that's when simping starts, by default she becomes the prize, one thing that should slap you back to your sense is that someone has seen her naked and is fuccing her like person wey no send

There's this pretty lady in my street. In fact they are 3 sisters, each of them very pretty that I could randomly pick one and be satisfied if the criterium is just physical beauty. To make matters worse(I mean no excuse to hold them to, to warrant me snoozing on their matter)they are all humble and friendly including their brothers and mum. So why I'm writing this was what happened when I went to buy something in a small mart(just a small shop) when she also came to buy something. She greeted me I replied when she told the shop owner what she wanted. The owner asked her to cut what she wanted when she said she can't as she doesn't have nails. I volunteered to help her cut it gave it to her, while I continue to call all I want to buy. She was outside of the shop while I was inside the shop when she was saying what she wanted to buy but after I helped her and went back inside, she entered after me but I didn't know until I wanted to look outside and I saw her beside me, I mean very close that the space between us was like 3 inches. I became very nervous and couldn't even look past her. No lady has made me nervous so I was shocked by the effect she had on me.

I've always wanted to write something about this. That's why I don't believe a girl that is single buts desperately want to marry or be in a relationship. To get a guy to be in a relationship with you as a lady is very easy. Just give him attention and show him care and you guys start dating. Then don't change after achieving his commitment. That's the difference between a girl and a guy. A guy will feel he owes you and will try to repay you if you show him love but a lady will feel she owes you nothing even if you gives her all you worth, and feels entitled on top

kiddaz:
There's a million different words for sex already to name a few:

Doke
pipe
zurg
beans
scri
swife
whip
wipe
zomburz
blast
hammer
pound
tear
disgbam-gbam
chop
hang
sword
change oil
dagger
plank
pianaka
burst the vandross
blow the kannor
blow
pop

And when she mentioned this: "she said "is sex now" but we didn't fuxk o" it means the blasting was boring to her. These girls like wild things in real life

How can you not put staff. Isn't that the official language for sex at high institutions level?

Goo0dHardDick:
As for, 1 day Max! By the next day I expect you gone!

My privacy is the most important thing to me.

Married people, how do you cope waking up every morning seeing the same face all the time? I'll lose interest even faster!

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

My babe used to come on Saturday and leave on Sunday evening due to work on Monday. I usually don't always want her to go so I don't know maybe the 2 days isn't my limit. But when she was my neighbour, we used to see everyday for like 6 months and I don't get tired. Though once in a while you will need space or give her one I think that's where detachment comes in.

zenithgroup:
Dear brother, the truth is every woman you start relationship with will makes demands from you now or later, they all makes demands.
Which is why you don't get into relationship cos you're a man, you do because you need help with different aspects of your personal purpose in life.
Now any lady who fill that roles excellently well and she's helping you upgrade should be called your woman, girlfriend or lover.
Seriously I Don't see anything wrong in taking care of such lady/woman emotional and physical needs.
Pls stop asking random woman for relationship what have they done in your life to deserve such juicy spot and commitment? Young men should learn this things.....

You are very correct. But I don't go about asking random ladies for relationship. I make sure we interact first and I see signs of she liking me before I move to the next phase. And I don't go into another relationship while I'm in one, because I really can't keep up with calling or talking and all other whatnots of a relationship now talk more of being in multiple ones.

LordReed:
I space out most of the time but sometimes they say something good like helping others.

I also listen to their talks and choose the ones that align with me and discard the rest. But I'm a believer but irreligious only that just like you, I'm being forced or should I say persuaded I only go to church just so I wouldn't have to explain to people multiple times why didn't go.

iamjavadem:
There are different kind of atheists, i believe God exists but not with any religion because I dont know what they up to, I and God have a relationship that no religion can match.

You are not an atheist, though I fall into this category too. An atheist doesn't believe God exists.

CanadaOrBust:
But that's just human nature- we don't appreciate things too easily given. We appreciate things that are scarce. That’s why some people play hard to get.
Also, women generally don't know what they want. So all these your Church girls like me na lie. Women generally want what other women want or have

True, but it's something you can control. Like I use to say, I don't fall in love, I only love because that's what I choose to do. It's my choice, and I only love girls that love me. I don't know or even care if they fell in love with me or chose to love me too because that's not in my own control. That's why when I see a girl that loves me stopped loving me, I also stop loving her and move on. When I was talking about my girlfriend, and some were like I'm only simping. I later stopped trying to explain and concluded you guys don't know me so won't understand. Because she loves me now doesn't mean I don't know she can stop tomorrow and I'm only invested emotionally, physically or financially as much as the relationship can end today, and I've moved on tomorrow.

MamaFryo:
Is it not this same Awolowo that justified the killing of women and children in their thousands during the Biafra civil war, saying that “all is fair in war”… is it not the same man?






Wetin I even know sef? I'm just an ordinary Nigerian Policewoman.

He isn't the one who said it. He only quoted it. So are we saying "All is fair in war" wrong? Or is it because he a Yoruba said it that made it wrong or he's just wrong? I mean what's the wrong thing he said or quoted as I'll like to put it. Have you ever seen adults fight? You know it's the law that limits some fights leading into murder which many even ends in such, because when you fight all you think about is survival and when you want to survive you sometimes kill. That's why I see all these rules of war as nonsense. Don't kill citizens, don't kill women etc. I'm not saying it's not right but when it's comes to survival, nothing is right or wrong. We only have the weak and the strong. And when it's comes to survival, the strong is the one standing while the weak is the one lying on the ground after the fight. That's why 100% of the time a living dog is better than a dead lion.

Bojackk:
See a doctor, early signs of psychosis. Giving your self main character syndrome

It's not main character syndrome at least I can say it's not for me. In fact, that's actually how I have been able to cope, i take it as admiration when I see people stare and me and I just move on with my life because I feel they don't mean any harm since I've tried to be of my best behaviour. Though like someone commented that they can't be annoyed by someone they don't know as mostly people that stared are strangers. I even had to follow up on a lady after greeting one time to ask her if she knows me since I can't recognise her but she told me she does not and she is just greeting me. Toh! I said okay, thanks and turn back going my way.

Samueltemi337:
From this screenshot it seems the person cash out before the game came
0.10 cash out are usually given during suspension timeout
So probably the person clicked on that

No o. You can't cash out when the cash out is on suspension. I've clicked it many times but it will tell me cash out is available now because a game as been suspended. And it's always 0.10 that's the suspended cash out value. It's a glitch which will be corrected if their attention are called to it. That's why from next year I wan promote go foreign bookmakers, to dey stake for dollars. At least before they say I've been winning too much and start restricting my stakes or winning I go don cash out in totals of 20-50k dollars. That's approximately 22 million to 60+ millions in Naira.

WhiteIverson:
Drop

I know you have done the giveaways you can do. And you really tried. If this long ticket you played today plays out as expected please remember me in your next giveaway o.

Elena243:
I have noticed that people stare at me a lot when I am outside. And no, I am not overacting. Sometimes, I consciously observe others around me and notice that they barely get stared at the way I do. These stares sometimes come with flashes of benevolent smiles from random strangers. Sometimes, the smiles are those types someone give when they have something to say but choose not to say it.

I sometimes think it is because of my height, because I am about 6’2-6’3 (I’ve never measured my height by the way). But the trend continues even when I’m seated, and hard to measure my height. A teen girl and her friend were staring at me the other day, while I was walking, that one almost got hit by a keke napep.

Even children walking by stare at me. Sometimes with a smile, and other times, with eyes of curiosity. I have no physical disability or defect by the way.

I am male, dark-skinned in complexion, and 28 years old. Is this normal? Does anyone experience same? Any possible reason why it happens?

I've got such experiences and always wants to bring it to nairaland but I'm too lazy to write sometimes. Mine, some even greet me. I don't know if it has been happening long ago because I'm shortsighted but I always feel someone staring at me but when I look I really don't see if they were staring but when I started using my glasses, I see them clearly staring at me. And it's also both male and female, young and matured people. I really don't know what to make of it too.

Antwan99:
Fortunately, the voiding made me won.

Spatak Moscow was the last game on my ticket with a home win but they drew.

Game cut and I saw it labelled lost and account went flat. Wanted to show someone later and saw a balance. Was confused but after verifying, the match was voided and ticket reversed to won.

Omo same with me. Mine was spartak too. Saw scores on Facebook enter sporty to play another ticket saw cash out of 4k. I didn't believe it till I withdrew it on Monday o.

WhiteIverson:
Make benfica run over 2.5 today
30k Giveaway go dey for 10 people

Congratulations boss

I've always thought I was a secs addict or at least I love sex so much, in fact my brother told me I was just probably sex starved that I don't actually love sex. I was like illustrating to him and even implying that he can't know me more than myself. Turns out he was actually right, like 2 weeks to that discussion I actually found a girl around, when we started making our, I'd do 1 round today and don't feel like doing anything anymore, then she'd come the next day we will just chat and then 3rd or 4th day I will just do it not because I feel like but because either i just want to utilise opportunity or feel she wants it. So at most I do 3-4 rounds in a week you know with a girl I only need to ask her and is ever ready to give me whenever I ask. Then I had to report back to my brother that he actually knows me more than myself. I was only sex starved and not an addict or a nympho or even love it as I've always thought.

Goo0dHardDick:
Have you ever dated a control freak before? Wether a guy or a girl. Kindly share your experience with us

Control freaks are extremely difficult and highly manipulative. They are emotionally draining and annoying too. For those who have had experiences with them, Kindly Share it with use below

I've not, and I always try not to be controlling on the person I'm dating no matter the age, but I try to make them not over do things due to the liberty I give them. But the reason why I comment is I have a control freak uncle, God the OP has said all it's there to say. I'm over 30 and he still wants to control me and my siblings. He's always frustrated by me because anytime he asks to come see him I go, he says all he wants to say and I just listen calmly and only say as little as I want him to know, that's what actually cause his frustration because before you can control someone you have to know the person well so as to know how to manipulate him for control. Sometimes he even add some discreet insults but I just nod and give answer to barest minimum even sometimes when he assumes something that is wrong I don't correct him so as not to give out info so that's where he gets frustrated. Even when he insult to make me angry so as to voice out, I don't because I know If he can make me angry then he can control so me remaining calm worsen the case. I just pick what aligns with me and leave what the rest. And sometimes I give him body heating like when he orders me to come(not ordering per say but not asking and not saying please and it's text sha) I just tell him I'm busy or doing something. And I've also told him severally that I don't want to tell him what's going on in my life or my plans, so he assumes I don't have any plans and I just leave him to his thoughts.

guobe:
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We now have several away wins currently.
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Kipaji:
And it's getting worse every day.

When I saw this comment, I wanted to agree with it maybe because it was a new observation for me, you know different from the female gatekeeper of sex and males gatekeepers of commitment but after absorbing it my experience came to disagree and this is coming from experience unless you are going to say I'm part of the 10% exception. First before Ubunja and redpill I usually believe if I truly love a lady that the lady will surely love me back, it worked then because I was young so I didn't get burnt, if I cut eye for you and you don't reciprocate, I believe what i had for you isn't love but lust and i move on fast. That's because I believe in soulmate. Then redpill and Ubunja post on the chosen and being the prize, then I just laid back and stopped hunting. Again before then when I'm not attracted to a lady that's is flirting, I go uncomfortable and when a very attractive lady flirts with me, so I go uncomfortable too but don't even see it as flirting sef. Sorry for diversion, then after chosen concept I went for a semina, somewhere far away from home. After 1 week, a lady wanted to join the training and I was the only male in midst of few ladies that stay in training hostel. We were like just 3 males but on that particular day I was only male outside gisting with female housemates outside, this lady came to make inquiry about the training, we talked till training started for the day and after training we just continued to talk till evening that she wanted to go home, didn't think much of it even when she asked for my number and texted me on WhatsApp before going and even when she got home. It was after then my mind went to maybe she likes me and not just wanting to know more about the training because by then we stopped talking about training and now about ourselves. Then 3 months and 3 rounds of after, I just remember randomly about that first day she came and how she smirk and smile and hints in her eyes when I was explaining training to her and I bet she was already thinking about us on bed. So tell me she doesn't want relationship from me that day, if I had offered? Doesn't that make me gatekeeper for commitment. Like Ubunja said then, men don't see when this ladies are flirting or choose them. And it really not that hard if you are in the right or should I say healthy mindset about yourself. And it's really not one time experience, I've had like 4 and this particular lady once told me if I find her worthy enough to have my child, when I joked with her about giving me one child. You can say all these doesn't prove they want commitments only if 80% of them didn't ask for exclusive relationship when we started dating, I think that's asking for commitment enough.

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Visit assigned addresses, confirm the person/business is genuinely located there, capture GPS location and live photos via our mobile app, and submit the report — all from your phone.

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Top agents earn up to ₦300,000/month, which breaks down to roughly ₦10,000/day for consistent daily verifications, plus weekly performance bonuses on top.

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Resident in Lagos or Ogun State
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luminouz:
Omoh...you guys are trying sha.

I just imagine a girl constantly asking me money for hair and then she gets angry and cuts the call on me...

No girl ever asked me that...the notion of a woman who thinks it's your responsibility to give her all these things as a girlfriend never left first base with me.

That's the issue, she wasn't like that before. When she started insinuating it I told her directly she's being influenced but she denied it, but I told her as I've always told her whether she's being influenced or not and whether me choosing to do it or not is basically going to be down to our decisions and we all are going to face the consequences or not. I love you doesn't mean I'm in love because I do it with my head not my heart.

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