₦airaland Forum

sioniboy:
I rate Kanu above Jay Jay; anytime any day.

Same with me. Kanu is my Nigerian goat.

MetalJigsaw:
Bros don't you have seeexx? You're talking as if uou're one 95 year old man. Inter gender relationship is biological and is a necessary phenomenon for passing on your genes.

Are you comparing female attention to sex. They are both different things, even if they are both intimacy. Moreover e.g Martinez here doesn't want to have sex that does not mean he's going to fall sick and die from lack of sex, and for someone who doesn't want sex what's female attention to such person? I'm just telling you in excess is that sex to some extent maybe called a need(due to overwhelming natural urge to copulate and pass gene) but female attention isn't nobody will die from lack of the other gender touch or attention.

MetalJigsaw:
Saying you don't need female attention is a big lie bro, tell yourself the truth.

There's the bitch that belongs to our next house neighbor, every time she sees me house whether with food or without she's always running towards me, I used to rub her head and all but recently I just don't want to but she still comes in fact there was a time she had to licked my hand trying to force me to give her just a little attention. So wanting the opposite gender attention is only natural but the other guy(philosopher) is correct, Nobody needs the other gender attention we only wants it. It's a want not a need, which makes you technically correct too. Though our needs are important but people generally prioritize wants over needs, that's why no man needs female attention because it isn't important as philosopher said but we at least most wants it. Because even though most prioritize their wants over their needs it's still doesn't make female attention important or need.

Example to know people prioritize wants over needs is comparing a beer parlor to a bukka, even though beer parlor serves wants(pepper soup and alcohol and maybe football game and AC) they still gets more patronage on the average than local bukka that serves needs(food and water)

You asked for male housekeeper and in the requirements say must be female. Which do you want? Make or female?

agrifam:
Are you still Interested ?

Interested, I've got all.

Interested 2348106932248

savanto:
This is quite unnecessary brotherly, it's a recipe for high blood pressure and eventual stroke.

Just learn to live one day at a time and you'd be just fine.
Game wey go cut...go cut las las....

One love bro!

I actually understand you Boss, that's exactly how I'm taking it a day at a time but this time I'm actually just aiming at something. I'm actually doing this more for myself than her, I just want her to be there when I achieve as she's there for me now. I'm not doing anything dangerous or desperate. I just want to become focused and consistent.

PerfectStranger:
Keep decieving your self buddy!

No I'm not deceiving myself. With the statement you bolded, she will understand that we are getting somewhere, I just believe that maybe because she's still very young. Not yet twenty in fact. So she will know before she's ready to marry I would have progressed even further.

I know this that's why the last time my smallie came over, we talked extensively on this and I had to instinctively give myself a timeline. I gave 12 months and a 10 million in my account as the target and told her she can leave guilty free if I don't meet this target. But I know she will stay even if I meet 2 million and an apartment of our own.

IronCondemned:
Yes, Africans are too loud especially Nigerians.
A colleague of mine once said that Nigerians talk loudly without knowing. Same words that can be spoken softly is loudly shouted without knowing.

From today onwards, for those who are in doubt just watch our Hollywood. The movie are a reflection of our lives. They shout and make lots of noise unknowingly....this is cultural now. We can't change even if we live in America or Europe.

I'm already thinking maybe it's me that's been mentally wanting. Because people are always complaining of me talking low when I feel if I raise the volume a little I'd be shouting.

guobe:
Wow quite magnificent

My- Mercury
Very- Venus
English - Earth
Master - Mars
Just- Jupiter
State- Saturn
Us the - Uranus
Nine - Neptune
Planet - Pluto

Pootle:
is that the man on blue or white?

it should be the man on blue because he refuse to drop his phone, e no wan hear say the phone loss them enter him account. he leave the phone for him chest pocket

he also take star ragler so him no go high come lose guard. very sharp man

Lol!! All these from one picture.

Moneyyman:
It's a common thing with mothers. They'll keep treating you like a kid until you make hem realize you're not longer one.

Exactly, I could very well relate. Op's own still better, mine na when I don reach road she will start shouting my name to come back for additional information. And I'm sure it's because Op dey use car if na leg his mum will allow him reach outside get before calling him back for additional info

Acehart:
Hostages 1 and 2.

- Beautiful like old wine

I loved hostages like mad then. I called it social studies then. I watched as series on TV before watching it as video cassette. Nostalgic

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Weekend part time job. Do you mean I have to work only on weekends, Friday to Sunday?

marcusverum:
The humiliation stings. That is understandable but teaching her a lesson is the wrong move.

She was clearly going through something and handled it badly. That is on her. But the moment you retaliate, you make yourself look small in the same environment where you have built real social capital.

Your reputation on that campus is an asset. Do not burn it over one bad moment from a woman who was probably drowning in her own problems that day.

The lesson she needs is your indifference. Stop acknowledging her. Not with anger. Not with coldness. Just redirect your energy completely and let her live with what she did.

A man who walks away unbothered is far more powerful than a man who plots revenge.

Protect your peace. Protect your reputation. Move on.

HEED

If I am to advise Op on revenge this the advice I will give. Ignore her permanently and completely as almost everyone already pointed out.

Houseofglam7:
How about you just pay back the damn loan??

Read again, he didn't take any loan. They are actually harassing him to come take the loan. Please read again and this time more carefully.

CJStarz:
Thanks for the tips but do your best to pay back loans. It's the RIGHT thing to do.

Are you blind or did he modify his post or you have comprehension problem?. He didn't take the loan, they are even harassing him to come and take loan. That's what his complaining about.

guobe:
Hopefully God will do it for you.
Keep fate.

Amen, thanks.

OneCandleAway:
Yes, I get. These old people can be stubborn at time. It's when you're gone they'll start missing you.

Exactly. But then it'd be too late, cos it will be impossible to go back after I've left. But I still try to do the best I can with bills and all.

OneCandleAway:
If you pay the bills, it's your house as well. Especially if you have your own quarters. Because you have to consider distance to workplace before moving. Even if you're sharing the house with your grandparents or parents so far you take care of all associated bills it's your house.

Yes, I know but it's still somehow. I work with my uncle that lives in Ikorodu. He's a computer science/accounting Consultant. But where I've lived for over 20 years. Okay recently my grandma (who is the only surviving parent I have) was complaining to my aunt that came to visit her that I invited a lady to the house, I've got my own room but because she went to church that day and asked my to help look after her own room, I have to ask the lady, my serious girlfriend o though I didn't let her know because I don't think it matters until maybe when we marry, to follow to our living room so she came back saw her didn't say anything o, till my Aunt came. It was my aunty that told me thank God my aunt refreshed her memory that if not for what's happening I'm old enough to marry so she doesn't know what she's complaining of, I'm over 30 o. You see why I need to leave her now. Even staying there is driving me back mentally.

guobe:
Alot of people are now technically homeless in Nigeria presently due to the astronomical increase in rents.
Mere thinking about rent amount can drive one berserk.

Thinking about it drives me especially berserk. I'm supposed to be on my own now with my small family but I don't want to think about rent at all yet. Thank God for my grandparents house that I'm managing but I definitely want to move out this year to my own place maybe Ikorodu or somewhere more outskirt sef

narite:
On a serious note, life is more complex than what the OP is trying to lay out for us. No one alone can see the complete picture of reality. You can only grab just a very small, minute, tiny part. This is true for me, for you, and for everyone.


It's like having 20 ants staying on your body; each ant will see a different part of you. If care isn't taken, each ant might begin to pass what they see as the everything that is to see (due to their own limitations, physical or mental).

Note that each ant sees something, but what they each see is not everything, and they all see different things. I say it again: no ant can see the whole you because it's just too tiny, physically or mentally, to see the whole you. So the one standing on your finger sees your finger and goes on arguing, describing your existence and how you are, based on how the finger is. So it goes for every other ant.


If all were to give a description of you, these ants might begin to fight each other, wondering if the other ants were really on top of you.

This is how humans are: they think they have the greatest mind and can grasp everything or has finally grasp everything. Humans are yet to grasp 0.1% of the universe, yet with the so little information they have acquired along with their limitations, they still think the information they have is accurate. No wonder the passage of time always humbles us, showing us that what we use to believed to be true is not really true, and this won't stop now.


Christianity, Science, Judaism, Sango, Amadioha, and the OP dogmas etc., aren't lies; these are just fragments of reality that some people were able to see but tried to pass on as what the whole reality was built on.

This your take make so much sense, that's why no matter where I am in spirituality, I still always believe and know that, all I know is still a fragments of the whole truth. That's why I feel irritated when my christian neighbor preach or invite me to one program or another and tell me that's where I can find the Truth and absolute Truth and that's the only way. Nigger your christian way is just one of the ways and it's even one of the most flawed ways. But I just agree and follow them, even though I know I've gone beyond them. I even try to play on level ground with them because even though it's flawed there are still some Truth in them, just like the ant analogy. And I believe I don't know up to 0.001% of the truth yet. Nobody can.

Omoawoke:
You said don’t argue, who are you to determine that?
Something about facts vs lie is that lie is always afraid to be challenged and questioned… the moment a lie sense scrutiny, it begins to console itself with words like “don’t argue, don’t debate, just ignore “
That’s a psychological play to avoid being questioned

One thing about the truth, “The truth is never ever afraid of being challenged “

And again, let me say it again.. Jesus is a scam..
How you an African black man think the whites love you so much, people who came to colonize you, torture you, steal from you and never in history regarded you as a human being will suddenly love you so much to give you Jesus to save you and take you to heaven to meet them is beyond words!
I think this generation of black Africans are the dummmest set of dummmies to ever exist in the universe. You are all so dummm , like so super dummm

I mean how dumb can the black man go to believe the white man love them so much to bring them salvation? Not after all the torture, discrimination and hatred.

ManknowThyself:
You were making some sense till you said reject God our creator!!!!!!!

It’s only ignorance to say there’s is no God.
Go with your fake ideology.

I’m done.

Where did he write reject God our Creator?
Creator is different from all these gods he wrote there. I'm trying my best to get used to calling my own God, The Source or I AM THAT I AM(just I AM is fine too) or my Creator. What we Yoruba call Eleda which sometimes could be your head because that's where your mind is, and your mind is the Portal in which the Creator used in experiencing this physical realm consciousness.

Ourtruth247:
I deleted all my threads to protect myself, but I have all my deleted posts in multiple duplicated Microsoft documents

I didn't doubt all what you have been writing. Infact I follow most of your message with other messages and decide on my own. I totally believe salvation is personal but christians don't even know what this means. The mistook it to mean your righteousness can't save your parents or children or vice versa when it's actually means your spirituality can only become through experience, it's inexplicable to other party unless they experience it themselves. You must find your own path to salvation or spiritual freedom nobody can find it for you because they are also finding their own path. It's not necessarily the same path but it's all lead to the same goal. And I think being open minded and not just thrashing your topics made me not to be surprised about Epstein file, I just felt I've known all along and it didn't even bother me at all. Infact it felt like what's all the fuse about it since it's common knowledge. I didn't know many people didn't know about it then.

TheSourcerer:
holla old friend

I really can't believe you still remember me. I was so happy when I saw your moniker returned. Hope you are good. And why did you go on such a long hiatus. Please bring us more of your hardcore topics on serial killers and all.

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