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Phones › Re: How To Stop Okash Call Harassment by fattprince(m): 1:29pm On Apr 11

Houseofglam7:
How about you just pay back the damn loan??

Read again, he didn't take any loan. They are actually harassing him to come take the loan. Please read again and this time more carefully.

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Phones › Re: How To Stop Okash Call Harassment by fattprince(m): 9:47am On Apr 10

CJStarz:
Thanks for the tips but do your best to pay back loans. It's the RIGHT thing to do.

Are you blind or did he modify his post or you have comprehension problem?. He didn't take the loan, they are even harassing him to come and take loan. That's what his complaining about.

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Politics › Re: Some Percentage Of Nigerians Creeping Into The World Of The Homeless by fattprince(m): 9:42am On Apr 10

guobe:
Hopefully God will do it for you.
Keep fate.

Amen, thanks.

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Politics › Re: Some Percentage Of Nigerians Creeping Into The World Of The Homeless by fattprince(m): 9:41am On Apr 10

OneCandleAway:
Yes, I get. These old people can be stubborn at time. It's when you're gone they'll start missing you.

Exactly. But then it'd be too late, cos it will be impossible to go back after I've left. But I still try to do the best I can with bills and all.

Politics › Re: Some Percentage Of Nigerians Creeping Into The World Of The Homeless by fattprince(m): 1:15pm On Apr 09

OneCandleAway:
If you pay the bills, it's your house as well. Especially if you have your own quarters. Because you have to consider distance to workplace before moving. Even if you're sharing the house with your grandparents or parents so far you take care of all associated bills it's your house.

Yes, I know but it's still somehow. I work with my uncle that lives in Ikorodu. He's a computer science/accounting Consultant. But where I've lived for over 20 years. Okay recently my grandma (who is the only surviving parent I have) was complaining to my aunt that came to visit her that I invited a lady to the house, I've got my own room but because she went to church that day and asked my to help look after her own room, I have to ask the lady, my serious girlfriend o though I didn't let her know because I don't think it matters until maybe when we marry, to follow to our living room so she came back saw her didn't say anything o, till my Aunt came. It was my aunty that told me thank God my aunt refreshed her memory that if not for what's happening I'm old enough to marry so she doesn't know what she's complaining of, I'm over 30 o. You see why I need to leave her now. Even staying there is driving me back mentally.

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Politics › Re: Some Percentage Of Nigerians Creeping Into The World Of The Homeless by fattprince(m): 12:55pm On Apr 09

guobe:
Alot of people are now technically homeless in Nigeria presently due to the astronomical increase in rents.
Mere thinking about rent amount can drive one berserk.

Thinking about it drives me especially berserk. I'm supposed to be on my own now with my small family but I don't want to think about rent at all yet. Thank God for my grandparents house that I'm managing but I definitely want to move out this year to my own place maybe Ikorodu or somewhere more outskirt sef

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Nairaland General › Re: This topic has been removed by fattprince(m): 10:05am On Apr 05

narite:
On a serious note, life is more complex than what the OP is trying to lay out for us. No one alone can see the complete picture of reality. You can only grab just a very small, minute, tiny part. This is true for me, for you, and for everyone.

It's like having 20 ants staying on your body; each ant will see a different part of you. If care isn't taken, each ant might begin to pass what they see as the everything that is to see (due to their own limitations, physical or mental).

Note that each ant sees something, but what they each see is not everything, and they all see different things. I say it again: no ant can see the whole you because it's just too tiny, physically or mentally, to see the whole you. So the one standing on your finger sees your finger and goes on arguing, describing your existence and how you are, based on how the finger is. So it goes for every other ant.

If all were to give a description of you, these ants might begin to fight each other, wondering if the other ants were really on top of you.

This is how humans are: they think they have the greatest mind and can grasp everything or has finally grasp everything. Humans are yet to grasp 0.1% of the universe, yet with the so little information they have acquired along with their limitations, they still think the information they have is accurate. No wonder the passage of time always humbles us, showing us that what we use to believed to be true is not really true, and this won't stop now.

Christianity, Science, Judaism, Sango, Amadioha, and the OP dogmas etc., aren't lies; these are just fragments of reality that some people were able to see but tried to pass on as what the whole reality was built on.

This your take make so much sense, that's why no matter where I am in spirituality, I still always believe and know that, all I know is still a fragments of the whole truth. That's why I feel irritated when my christian neighbor preach or invite me to one program or another and tell me that's where I can find the Truth and absolute Truth and that's the only way. Nigger your christian way is just one of the ways and it's even one of the most flawed ways. But I just agree and follow them, even though I know I've gone beyond them. I even try to play on level ground with them because even though it's flawed there are still some Truth in them, just like the ant analogy. And I believe I don't know up to 0.001% of the truth yet. Nobody can.

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Nairaland General › Re: This topic has been removed by fattprince(m): 9:48am On Apr 05

Omoawoke:
You said don’t argue, who are you to determine that?
Something about facts vs lie is that lie is always afraid to be challenged and questioned… the moment a lie sense scrutiny, it begins to console itself with words like “don’t argue, don’t debate, just ignore “
That’s a psychological play to avoid being questioned

One thing about the truth, “The truth is never ever afraid of being challenged “

And again, let me say it again.. Jesus is a scam..
How you an African black man think the whites love you so much, people who came to colonize you, torture you, steal from you and never in history regarded you as a human being will suddenly love you so much to give you Jesus to save you and take you to heaven to meet them is beyond words!
I think this generation of black Africans are the dummmest set of dummmies to ever exist in the universe. You are all so dummm , like so super dummm

I mean how dumb can the black man go to believe the white man love them so much to bring them salvation? Not after all the torture, discrimination and hatred.

Nairaland General › Re: This topic has been removed by fattprince(m): 9:45am On Apr 05

ManknowThyself:
You were making some sense till you said reject God our creator!!!!!!!

It’s only ignorance to say there’s is no God.
Go with your fake ideology.

I’m done.

Where did he write reject God our Creator?
Creator is different from all these gods he wrote there. I'm trying my best to get used to calling my own God, The Source or I AM THAT I AM(just I AM is fine too) or my Creator. What we Yoruba call Eleda which sometimes could be your head because that's where your mind is, and your mind is the Portal in which the Creator used in experiencing this physical realm consciousness.

Nairaland General › Re: This topic has been removed by fattprince(m): 9:40am On Apr 05

Ourtruth247:
I deleted all my threads to protect myself, but I have all my deleted posts in multiple duplicated Microsoft documents

I didn't doubt all what you have been writing. Infact I follow most of your message with other messages and decide on my own. I totally believe salvation is personal but christians don't even know what this means. The mistook it to mean your righteousness can't save your parents or children or vice versa when it's actually means your spirituality can only become through experience, it's inexplicable to other party unless they experience it themselves. You must find your own path to salvation or spiritual freedom nobody can find it for you because they are also finding their own path. It's not necessarily the same path but it's all lead to the same goal. And I think being open minded and not just thrashing your topics made me not to be surprised about Epstein file, I just felt I've known all along and it didn't even bother me at all. Infact it felt like what's all the fuse about it since it's common knowledge. I didn't know many people didn't know about it then.

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Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 12:47pm On Apr 04

TheSourcerer:
holla old friend

I really can't believe you still remember me. I was so happy when I saw your moniker returned. Hope you are good. And why did you go on such a long hiatus. Please bring us more of your hardcore topics on serial killers and all.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: JOB VACANCY: Cash Loader by fattprince(m): 8:40am On Mar 27

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fattprince(m): 6:48pm On Mar 25

So my babe I talked about a few weeks ago came over this weekend. I was saying the last time she came we couldn't make out because she was on her period and she wanted to be sure of my commitment before she has sex with me. She didn't actually say that, it was what I assumed and deduce from all the questions I ask but I found out I couldn't be more wrong. Because we talked again after making out this time and she said it that she's literally scared of sex because she finds it painful and doesn't enjoy sex at all. I wanted to know why she now came and still made out with with. She said it was because I've helped her so much and she knew I was angry with her the last time because we didn't do the deed, which I explained to her that I wasn't angry because she didn't give me sex but was angry because I felt she didn't want us making out because of the guy in Edo that it made me felt she still emotionally attached to the guy, but if she had told me she was scared of sex I would have understood. I had to compromise by doing only 2 times since she told me she crossed her mind to give me once and I had 3 times in mind so we both settled for 2 which I realized was very hard for her. She literally shed tears. The only thing that put me off and which I told her was her coming to me because she feels she owes me and I wanted her to come because she loves me. Which she later said if she doesn't love me, she would not be traveling from Sango to Bariga considering the work and little time she had to rest. But I still find it unbelievable because even though I knew about her trauma of being raped, I felt she shouldn't find sex painful physically since we did it twice years before she now left to Edo. Though I told her sex is a deal breaker for me in a marriage because she said she can only try her best to have sex twice in a month and at most once in a week. And me we must constantly be doing it at least 3-4 times weekly. Now I'm thinking if therapy could be of any help to her because I don't think sex could be painful like that and the pain is only in her head due to the forced sex she had as her first sex. Because she told me then that she couldn't even report to her mum then, and that aside from the physical pain she came emotionally down for weeks because the guy was someone they trusted and she's putting the blame on herself.

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Romance › Re: You Ask A Girl Out And She Says NO! by fattprince(m): 6:13pm On Mar 25

Goo0dHardDick:
You ask a woman out, she says NO. As a man, don’t start thinking, “Maybe I need to try harder, maybe if I apply pressure, she’ll like me.” That’s a loser’s mentality. If she’s not interested, two things can happen: She’ll keep rejecting you and start hating you for disturbing her. She’ll use you since you won’t stop.

Understand this: the moment a woman meets you, she already knows if you’re her type. If she finds you attractive, she won’t play games, she’ll show interest. Women only play hard to get with men they don’t really want. Learn detachment. Walk away. Respect yourself. Desperation is unattractive.

I greeted a girl I liked one day she answered then I told her I'll like her to give me one minute, she said no. I said okay then left. She came the next day to buy something from my granny store I attended to her well, she even thanked me self I just acted like I've never met her before that day. That's all I do with other girls, if you reject my advance I face front and even greet you but never will I talk about anything romance again, to me you've lost your chance and I have always believe there's always girls out there who will like me so why should I waste time on someone who doesn't.

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Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 3:54pm On Mar 19

A4alpha:
Oya show your pishure

If you can show yours, why not I would show mine.

Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 3:54pm On Mar 19

shox:
“This baby is not yours, go to court “

Wow, I don't think I can ever find myself in this situation. But I'm not judging you though.

Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 3:53pm On Mar 19

shox:
“This baby is not yours, go to court “

Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 3:48pm On Mar 19

Double0h7:
I believe other people are your mirror and you are theirs so I listen out for harsh words because 9/10 the person is projecting and 1 time they’re giving you a clear picture of you.

My ex told me to pick a struggle because I can’t be old and broke. I laughed so hard that he was shocked. I laughed because he told the truth. I was broke and I was a year older.

Words don’t bother me as long as you don’t disturb my peace. Say what you have to say and then move on. I can’t be nagged though, you only get a small window to talk your talk and then I want my peace ✌️.

True, this is me now, words hurt me until I learned that some people just want to put you down with words and their reward is your reaction now I don't react and from the little I've seen, I'm always the winner because I can see how upset they get when I don't let the words get to me.

Romance › Re: What was the most painful/ hurtful words you ever heard from a loved one? by fattprince(op): 3:46pm On Mar 19

brain54:
So which of the words were more hurtful to you...

The No vex for this thing I wan talk ....or she accepting to date you?

It was the no vex for this thing I wan talk if she added a little insult as you don't have sense or you are stupid. I didn't say it was the most hurtful words, I said it definitely would have been if she added an insult. I have heard a lot of hurtful words but this would have trump all. The girl is still my babe and she still respects me. It's was just a matter of what could have been.

Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 3:42pm On Mar 19

Starboytwo:
Just marry 1 of them na shuoo

Remember, plenty talk nor dey full basket.

All of them are married or at least given birth. These situations are from years ago, the latest one was like 7 years ago. I'm just writing my experiences when it comes to relationship.

Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 3:36pm On Mar 19

stan4b:
Guy!!!
Go and look for something productive to do with your life.

As Tharmon said, I'm probably more productive than you. I'm actually trying to put my real life stories, both the ones from 20 years ago or ones I will experience later into content, that will fetch money amidst other things I'm doing, I'm just trying to use nairaland same way others use Twitter or IG.

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Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 3:36pm On Mar 19

A4alpha:
kiddo go inside, go and read your book

You are probably a gen z. I'm not so you don't call me kiddo it should be the other way round.

Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 3:35pm On Mar 19

helinues:
From all your reference cases, the ladies you have been meeting or so are from family that are not financially stable which is a red flag

Also any lady that can't make decisions on her own without her mother's input, that's another big red flag as all your family matter will be relayed to her mom

All these relationship I'm talking about are ages ago. I'm only using it to create content. And from my write up, they aren't seeking their mum's input. I'm just saying that, all their mum approve of me even though they are hiding the relationship from the mum or using them as excuse to break the relationship.

Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 3:30pm On Mar 19

NosyParrot:
The ladies he's interested in are all teenagers so definitely they need their mother's advise

From the write up, the point of my post is that the mom of all the ladies approved me for a long term relationship with their daughter which means I must have a very good personality.

Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 3:28pm On Mar 19

SpencerForbes:
Are you sure you actually have friends you talk to? Because I'm convinced only chronic loneliness can bring out this kind of "storytelling" talent. 😂

How do you even recall all these old escapades? Even my very first babe, I haven’t thought about her in ages. You be gee 🤜🏆🥇

No I don't have friends. And I'm writing this to probably keep here so as to use as content on other social platform I can monitor. I only just remember one, and the rest just came rolling in.

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Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 5:40pm On Mar 17

I just remembered this one too and I want to add it because it was funny. This one was an Igbo girl like the third one and we wer already in talking stage, funny thing is she gained admission to school and I should have left the chat earlier but I thought she liked me, you can't blame me for thinking such because I didn't go to toast her she came to meet me in my store and we started talking then later she started to come gist with me at the store so I felt we were good and started acting like boyfriend. But anytime I pass in front of her house and she's there with her mum I don't greet her because she specifically told me she doesn't want her mum to know she's dating. Until one day that I was going to store and I met her mum on the road, I just decided to greet her because she has come to patronize me once or twice herself, when she responded with, 'Good morning my in-law' I was so surprised that I had to tell my family at home. That in our mind we were hiding relationship when the person we were hiding it from has accepted me. Funny thing is another day when I saw the girl and the mum together,(she was already in school then so we already broke whatever situationship we were in) I greeted them and the woman still answered me by calling me her in-law in front of her daughter and even left us to catch up on the time she was in school. Even after I'm sure her daughter must have told her we were not dating or has stopped dating, she still continue to call me in-law till they all relocated.

Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 5:28pm On Mar 17

The third woman, the lady was my sister's friend when they arrive newly in our neighborhood and we later became good friends. Then the woman that's my friend mum, started a food canteen years later by then we are more or less family friends as we know the lady's mum and she knows ours too and also our mum now know each other but theirs wasn't deep friendship just normal neighbors. So when the woman started her canteen she was patronizing us, that's buying fish from us. She use to tell me that she likes how cool and we'll behaved that I am until one day she told me that she has told her daughter sef that she can never allow her to marry any Yoruba men as they are as they called us the Yoruba demons. She just said she told her daughter not to marry any Yoruba guy but if her daughter should bring me home to her that I'm the one she wants to marry that she would not only bless the union but she will be very happy.

Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 5:19pm On Mar 17

The second girl, I wooed her myself and we were already vibing and even her elder siblings know me and didn't mind. Until I was walking her home one day when she told me some streets gossip has told her mum about us and her mum already warned her never to see her with me. I took this in good faith that I was even accusing her sister of being the one telling her mum out off jealousy. Because somehow the way the lady act when I'm with this my girlfriend is somehow. So that was how our relationship cracked and started dying naturally. But before then this my girl used to come and patronize us in our frozen food store and I'm the one who mostly stay at the store then. I sell for her at very good prices and even when the mum started coming to buy fish by herself sometimes I still sell for her very well till she became fond of me (mind you I didn't know if she knew the guy she told her daughter to stop seeing was me or not) until a day I was on a bike passing in front of their shop, I saw this woman and I greeted her by bowing, this woman answered my greetings and immediately called the attention of that my girl (even though have removed my hand from her matter, because I started feeling she's the one not interested in me and was just wanted to use her mum as excuse) to look at me. That action just confirmed to me that this woman later knew that I am her daughter man and that she approves of me. But it was already late and we were not talking anymore. Let me just add this, I stopped seeing us being in a relationship when I met this girl coming from her VS and I escorted her home. Then when we wanted to part I asked this girl for a hug not even peck and she refused saying we were already in her street, but it's very dark already. I just said okay and from that night I removed my mind. When I see her after then, I only greet or respond to her greetings, laugh small and go my way. No more gisting or calling her, I mostly do the calling then even if it's not regularly.

Romance › Re: Am I A Nice Guy, Or Are These Women Seeing Things Beyond Reasoning? by fattprince(op): 5:01pm On Mar 17

First woman actually came to live in the church in front of our house. I think their house was sold or something and they had to love in this Calabar church before they will secure another place. She always come to our house then to sit in front of the building to see all that is going own and I use to greet her when I go to school or come back in the afternoon and I see her there. Sometimes she ask me to call someone for her on her phone or fix some settings on it. In all of this I always do whatever she asks of me and patiently at that. So one day she bought sachet water and because of her legs that isn't very strong I helped her carry the water to the church when her daughter came out from inside the church to collect it when women thanked me profusely and suddenly asked if I will like to marry her daughter, as she will be so happy since I'm a well behaved young man. I and the girl just laughed but the woman didn't find it funny as she was putting on a serious face.

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