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All i can say is that all these men knows everything about the Boko-Haram sect.

Why can't they come out boldly and say what they know, why ask for Amnesty to a group you know not, who will go and give them the amnesty?
Do you want them to kill the person as they did the same to Obasanjo's host in Maidugri last year?
Any way i think Tambuwal will go and deliver the amnesty package in their camp.

This man is lost, he is absolutely off.

All this are lies and nothing can be call a lie more than this.
They are so shameless.

To hell with all of them.

Bunch of looters, it shows they are all from poor homes, that's why they are stealing Nigerian money.
May all their bank account and pockets and vaults be damaged permanently in Jesus name.

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every Nigerian accept the fact that our politicians are some of the most corrupt minded species in the planet earth and some from another school of thought believe that the society has its own blame too.

A situation where corrupt minded men and women are elevated to prominent position both in the public and private sectors leaves a sour taste in the mouth.

thieves are celebrated in Nigeria, if you per adventure call any one of them thieves in the hearing of a fellow Nigerian who has benefited from this ill gotten money, you will definitely be label a failure and a lazy person by the folk.

A country where values means nothing, a country that care less about how you make money, provided money is made, the how is not in any way relevant.

A country where ethnicity is so pronounce, where the people are so much aware of their problems that it becomes a problem.

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The art of parenting is a skill that many lack; we assume it to be an easy task only to end up consumed by it.

Can you parent? If you are currently parenting how effective are you?

Can you score yourself above average, I don't do averages.

I am here going to expose the techniques in a simplified form that you need to get acquainted with in other to have a blissful home.

Parenting is the art of managing the home towards the growth and prosperity of the society.

The collective product of different homes within a geographical location is what determines the identity of that society.

Parenting is a subject that every well meaning government should take seriously; it goes beyond the family to the society and the world in general.

Habits, characters and other behaviors are learned first from home.

I will elaborate some parenting skills which i hope will be of great benefit to all.

1. Wisdom impartation: This requires skill and the most important skill in the art of parenting is wisdom.

A. Discipline: Both parents have to be very decisive toward discipline, you don’t have be too strict and too meek, cut the lines and be clear.

B. Education: Teach the children what you know and not otherwise, else you end up confusing them and delaying their quick manifestation in life.

Give them the best morel education that you can by your own conscience. This is very crucial, depending on your locality, what is generally accepted as right by the society may not be so right from your own personal view, don't compromise your believes in this regard.

Choose what you believe and stand for without violating the law.

C. financial capability: this is very important in maintaining the balance between the responsibility curve and the leisure rout.

Parenting is a noble profession; it has its own passion and feel. You have to be prepared for it to enjoy it; many are not having it funny with its attendant responsibilities.

It could be very stressful and frustrating, too much a burden to bear and so many other thing.

When you take a critical look at the benefit of parenting you will agree with me that it is such a pleasurable responsibility with so much to be learned.

Life is a learning curve and parenting is at the pinnacle of that curve. Whatever you do, your legacies are the best in preserving what you stand for.

The children through the union of marriage and family keep the hope for life real, it spark the desire to love and beloved inherent in us all, latent in some and active in others.

We are created to love and be love, let show this love to one another in a way that we will be proud of, by so doing our world will be a better place than it is right now. We just have to start from somewhere to get to somewhere.

On this note it is important for all of us to show one another some form of love, you can express it any how you want it.

We also have to have a broader view of the concept of family to be beyond our nuclear enclave to a broader unit that encompasses every human being, as long as you are a living soul you are a family kind of thing.

Togetherness is what we need at this point in time, division will do us no good, and so, every one is now a family.

All the same there is always hope in every situation that seams to have a semblance of hopelessness. It's all good in Nigeria.

God is a master of Unknown mysteries: he lives in eternity and every right thinking person knows that eternity is incomprehensible. Everything in life is in two dimensions; the significance of this wonder number is what we shall shed more light on.

Before proceeding any further, I'll like to enumerate some striking factors about the element known as 2.

- God and Satan

- Man and Woman

- Good and Evil

- + and -

- Action and Reaction

- Night and Day

- Boy and Girl

- She and He

- Heaven and Hell

- Live and Die

- Love and Hate

What’s the Question?

The question is, why this 2 dimension to almost every critical aspect of existence, and this inevitably bring us to a point many cannot simply understanding due to the complex nature of the subject.


Man’s Job Description:

Complimentary work: God created man to be the earthly replica of his being here on earth. He lives and dwell in the city far above our earthly imagination and comprehension, he is God and by his nature stand for good. There's no knowledge of good without evil, no one will know or understand the concept that God stand for without Evil, and that Evil is manifested in the personality known as Satan, with this, the mystery of God existence is solve without stress.

The Bible says the Devil or doer of Evil was the most powerful of all the angels in heaven, I see this as the complimentary presence of God existence because the work of Satan speaks volumes in God's scheme of things.

God and Satan

God is the creator; Satan is the Creation, The creator created the creation. He uses this to solve the mystery of completeness or fulfillment.

Satan opposes God in everything, God admonishes us to be obedient, while Satan tells us to be disobedient, God tells us that obedience is better than sacrifice; Satan says Sacrifices take care of Disobedient.

God mean, Good. He is so good, so wonderful and full of compassion, passionate, understanding and very caring, the Devil is the reverse of all this.

How can i be certain that following God will guarantee eternal life as promise in the Bible?

The Bible says, Let God be true and every one else be liars.

Man and Woman

Man and woman is another mysterious fact. Man and woman simply mean male and female, and this goes a lone way to tell us that, the existence equation of man is resolve by the nature of woman. Man is Suffering or stress; woman is stress reliever or tranquilizer.

Man dig, woman uproot, man plant, woman harvest, man ingest, woman digest, man penetrate, woman discharges, man impregnate, woman delivers.

Man builds, woman maintains, man work, woman spends, and man does the running without, woman do the running within. The list is simply endless, whatever man is, woman is the exact opposite, and the result is complimentary existence, Thanks to the wonder God.

Good and Evil

Evil is the opposite of good, Good bring happiness, evil bring sadness, take note of happiness and sadness, one is joy, the other is sorrow. God is a good God, Satan is an evil being. Without evil, no one will also understand the meaning of evil.

Many hearts are turn towards doing evil all the time, while others are bent on doing well no matter what's the circumstance the face. It is on record that despite the amount of evil being perpetuated daily, a corresponding measure of goodness is also in view.

+ And –

This is yet another mysterious concept, action and reaction, positive and negative is the symbol of good and evil respectively, the stand for 2 opposing school of thought with diverse meaning as possible, this 2 signs mean many things to different people. Whatever you plans and actions are, it can be broadly categorize into this two simple headlines.

Action and Reaction

This are also two opposing force working against one another in different direction, one direct, the other redirect, one is pointed, the other is design to neutralize the pointer. One starts the other start as a result of the action of the first. One act like a trigger, the other act to counteract the effect of the trigger-like action before it does any damage. Whatever way you look at it, you’ll clearly see opposition in it fullest strength.

Night and Day

This two are like husband and wife, the wait in turn to take their bounty, yes I said bounty. Life is so rich and full of riches, that’s why every factor is maintaining their status quo; it is also the manifestation of survival of the fittest even within the inanimate elements of life. The good thing about them is the creation is in perfect harmony with their action compare to humans.

Boy and Girl, The miniaturize version of man and woman, theirs is the beginning of the diversities that exist between the male and the female gender. Boy to explore and experiment, Girl to care and maintain the essence of livelihood.

She and He

This two stand for the dominant presence of all the living creatures in the universe, ranging from microscopic organism to giant organism. The diversity is endless understanding –wise.

She is motherly, He is fatherly.

Mothers are tender, Fathers are rigid.

Heaven and Hell

The Abode where the good doers and the Evil doers, it is a matter of choice for the living humans to choose any of this destination while they yet live, no one can escape either of the two, another wonderful mystery, it doesn’t matter weather you believe it or not, the truth is one of this place will be your everlasting abode for all eternity.

Live and Die

Choose heaven to live and hell to die but still live in pain everlasting.

To live make sense, to die is to loose sense, one of this fate await everyone…where do you stand?

Love and Hate, God is love, Satan is Hate. Love brings happiness and pleasure, hate brings bitterness and displeasure, choose love and you’ll appreciate the essence of living. There is nothing that is more powerful in this world than love.

Peace and War

Peace is Godly; War times can be Godly, because the Bible says that God is a God of war

There will be so much peace in heaven while there will so much war in hell, where will you be?

I choose heaven and I hope you make the right choice. It is your life-yes, follow your heart desire.

God Bless you.

They have not rejected you; it is me they have rejected. God told Samuel in 1st Samuel 8:7 when he was still in grief about the choice of the Israelite demanding for a king to be appointed for them by the Judge Samuel as he was growing older by years and with no responsible fellow in sight to take over the mantle of leadership and judge the people after the eventual demise of Samuel.

That was not the original plan God has for them as a people, they lured Samuel to appoint them a King therefore renouncing God as their ultimate King and Ruler.

This was another stab at the back by the people against their Lord and God. God responded by telling Samuel to yield to their desire.


Saul: a Benjamite was appointed as the first King of Israel to the delight of all the people. They accepted the King to be Lord over them, to have dominion and authority over, they were simply trying to filled the void that usually exist whenever there is no one in a position of authority within a group of people or society.

Saul was befitting of a King. Tall and the people were proud of their new king against the plan of God. The antecedent of King Saul shows clearly that the people's choice for an earthly King in place of God as their ruler was an error, but was they aware of this flaw?

Not at all, much the same way as we have it now in our modern society where people will choose to lay blame on something else rather than face reality by standing up for the truth.

Saul's blunder was not his own making; he was simply sitting on a throne that came to him unexpectedly.

David: David on the other hand was carefully chosen by God himself after the failure of King Saul's reign and the subsequent disobedient to the instruction given to him by God through his prophet and messenger Samuel.

The nation fare better under the ruler ship and leadership of King David. David took the Kingdom to a peak that references are still being made today regarding his reign and antecedents.

Solomon: He too continued from where his father stop and during his reign Israel witness unprecedented growth and expansion much to the surprise of surrounding nations.

During his time Israel new peace for the first time in their life there was no war for almost forty year. Wow, what a miracle. That was simply the hand work of God. And it clearly demonstrates the difference between those chosen by God and those people desire.

The Fall of Monarchy in Israel, The kingdom was divided after the death of Solomon and the Northern kingdom was rule by Jeroboam: In his time Israel went into idolatry with new vigor and enthusiasm.

Cultism multiplies and the people went astray to worshiping Gods their fore fathers knew not. Idolatry multiplied in the land and Judah though still continuing in the mosaic tradition and culture soon join their Northern brothers to infiltrate their ranks with idol worship and the practice of sorcery, magic, witchcraft and every manner of demon-ism.

The lesson in all this is the fact that, man being a creation of God can not possibly live his life outside God ordained precept and guidelines. Failure to adhere to this principle is the beginning of a downfall.

God is a patient God, his all knowing knowledge is the reason he is not bothered about what is going around us, he is in charge and he sees and knows about everything.


He is our Ebenezer and the source of our joy, the reason for living and the greatest inspiration any one can ever hope for. God is always near.

Anger management is a fundamental principle in the marriage institution. Perhaps the best weapon to defeat anger is logic. Anger is emotional and when it is allow and outcome is always destructive in many ways.

Anger is a process, much like every other thin in life, it starts like a seemingly harmless thing to do, with the hope of achieving result which in most cases is personally motivated or interest based, until it mature into as monster within seconds.

The following are some of the ways to keep anger under check in any marriage, because cumulative anger over a given period is detrimental to the overall physical and emotional health of any individual.

Dignity: Whenever you are angered by your spouse, try and consider the dignity of the family that is at stake if the monster is not curtailed.

Superior argument: Another useful tool for battling anger is superior argument. The audacity of superior arguments cannot be over emphasizing in conflict resolution between couples. E very relationship is bound to have it own ups and down. Yours is not peculiar, others have gone through the same path and came out stronger, s there is no justification why yours should be otherwise.

Peaceful mindset: a soft reply is antithetical to the growth of anger. Nothing suppresses anger the way a soft response does. It is very frustrating when the person intends to frustrate you in any way they can by getting you on the anger gear.

Preview the outcome of the fiasco before involving yourself more: This is a discerning creativity; you do that by seeing the outcome of the problem with the third mind eyes. Except you are violent prone, otherwise no right thinking person will continue with n action that the outcome is definitely going to be unpleasant in many ways.

Mood control: The last thing to do is to h=be in control of your mood, this is very important because anger is very contagious.





Anger is a way by which some people thrive, they are use to violence and to them violence and anger is the only way they know how to.

That is why some spouse intentional get the mate in the anger highway of destruction, it is important for every one especially those in marriage to understand the way transfer aggression s having impact in their relationship.

Mr. Anderson is the husband of Lillian, Lillian is a hot tempered woman while

Anderson is a cool headed gentle man, the wife is not very comfortable with the way her husband is taking care of things, while in actual fact Mr. Anderson is very open and broad minded about his wife and their marriage.

One day the woman gets hold of the man preventing him from going to the office until he gives the wife an outrageous amount that she doesn’t need after all.

All because she wants to get the husband angry, maybe she enjoys the anger mood and for her that is just ok to prove whatever point there is.

Or she is in another instance exploiting the vulnerability of the husband to torment him, she knows quite well the husband doesn’t do well with anger, and getting angry is the last thing he hopes to get into.


Anderson responded by keeping his cool, he control himself and never allowed the rant of his wife to get into his head despite rough handling of the man by the woman, he said nothing.

Reason: Anderson hates to be manipulated, because when people get you to do what you don't want or like, you have been manipulated. Like getting angry when you know very well that doing that is against you ethics.

What to do

Build your core values: core values are fundamental principle that couples can adopt as way of dealing with their marital problems.

Build Trust: One major cause of problem in marriage is lack of trust, trust is very crucial o every marriage and marriages are advice to make rust one of their cardinal point.

Commitment: Every committed marriage is bound to succeed, commitment does not require finance, and hence it is not a criterion to be use as an excuse.

Couples ought to be very dedicated and committed in making their marriage work. Without commitment, a marriage is sour, without love and fun.'

Intimacy: intimacy is a block builder; it is the main thing in every marriage and must be treated as such. It is such a wonderful thing to know when couples are so intimate with one another.

Going to functions together, to churches, mosque and other religious group’s together, going n a vacation as a family and couples is a wonderful thing.

Applying this little principle is worth more than what you can imagine.

Save that marriage now, by swallowing pride and ego, make it work by working harder.

Sex is not the best way to express love: Rather it is the best way to express feelings of love. It is best between a man and a woman, a husband and a wife.

Love in Marriage: Love is the foundation of every union, can two work together: Except they agree. Love is best demonstrated between a man and a woman who are in holly matrimony through the instrumentality of love making otherwise known as sex.

Need For Love:

Love brings peace and harmony

Love brings unity and togetherness

Love is not selfish

Love is selfless

Love is power

Love is a gift

Love knows no evil and abhors non

Love is passionate and kind

Love is merciful and tender

Love is fruitful

Love binds couples together

Love is a bond in family, organization, country, groups and the society

Love is a beautiful virgin in the arms of an handsome man

Love is a jewel that makes life meaningful

Love is a rare gem found several miles beneath the earth

Love is a precious ornament

Love is what every one want.

Need for Sex:

Sex defines intimacy beyond description

Sex is adorable under the premise of marriage

Sex expresses desire in a special way

Sex is mind fulfilling when made with the right fellow

Sex renews the mental alertness of people

Sex is what over 95 of people engages in before the die

Sex is a game

Sex is a fictional reality

Sex is bait

Sex is temptation

Sex is dreaded by the religious zealot in a bid to satisfy their creator


Why?

Sex involves the spirit of the people involve

Sex is not only a physical activity, rather it mostly a spiritual unification of two souls.

Sex can destroy your personality if you are having it with the wrong person

Sex has brought many noble men on their knees

Sex has mess men up, both in high and low place

Sex is addictive

Sex can be a trap to get you

Sex can be a tool to lift you up

Sex can change ones life on a pathway to success

What's Best in Marriage?

Sex and love can not go without one another in marriage, sex is not love and love is not sex.

The above Fact and truth about love and sex is known to us already, the way and manner we handle them is a different thing entirely.

While it is true love can not operate in isolation when marriage is in vogue, it is also true that sex is a vital path of every marriage union, the absent of which makes the marriage salt less.

It is a difficult thing for any marriage to thrive without the issue of love and sex.

It is not ok for one of these two factors to be omitted in any marriage.

Spouses feel hot when they are not love by their heartthrobs, similarly the feel hurt too when they don’t have sex as at when due except on mutual consent or geographical displacement.

Sexless marriage is a terrible marriage in the sense that one of the fundamental requirement in every marriage is missing.

Sex is a tool to build a home, love is a home stabilizer. Love brings tranquility and serenity to every home.

A perfect home is a home where love is at the peak of the list of priorities.

Love is service oriented, it looks for what to do, whom to help, problems to solve, it is not self serving, and rather it is interested in the welfare of others.

The way you build your home is the way you will have it, you can plant orange to reap mango, and a word is enough for the wise.

God Bless you as you build your home strongly.

i think it is more than that, they hope to take over the mantle of leadership.

Many Nigerians suffer from memory lost or short memory, and this has become a problem, because the way and manner we tend to analyze issues shows the depth of this problem.

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