European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Brighton: EFL Cup (2 (4) - (3) 2) On 28th October 2026 by femi4: 9:05pm On Oct 28 |
Good goal from the young player |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Chelsea: EFL Cup (1 (6) - (5) 1) On 28th October 2026 by femi4: 9:04pm On Oct 28 |
Lets go boyz...omo ologo oo |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia To Supply Indonesia With Electricity From Floating Nuclear Plant (Photos) by femi4: 8:01pm On Oct 28 |
No Country can solve naija light issue |
Music/Radio › Re: Davido, Kirk Franklin Set To Release ‘Hope In You’ by femi4: 7:59pm On Oct 28 |
OBO is everywhere you go |
Sports › Re: The Man Who Called Police On 3-Year-Old Football Star, Nevada Pierre by femi4: 7:57pm On Oct 28 |
Wrong info...police was called on the boy's parents |
Politics › Re: Man Pushes Seyi Tinubu Aside During The APC Campaign In Kaduna - Video by femi4: 7:56pm On Oct 28 |
PrinceOfLagos: man pushes Seyi Tinubu aside during the flop Kaduna campaign rally..
The rejection is crystal clear.
Watch video here
Nothing serious, hes a fan |
Romance › Re: New Couple Wedded In Church In A Low Key And Budget Friendly Way. Photos by femi4: 7:54pm On Oct 28 |
Low key |
Politics › Re: Rainbow Coalition Holds Mega Rally For President Bola Ahmed Tinubu In Rivers by femi4: 7:53pm On Oct 28 |
Bunch of jokers |
Politics › Re: FG Approves ₦70,000 Monthly Transport Allowance For Workers by femi4: 7:52pm On Oct 28 |
On your mandat Bola |
Celebrities › Re: Chris Brown Gets Eight-Month Suspended Sentence Over London Nightclub Fight by femi4: 7:50pm On Oct 28 |
Put him behind bars asap |
Health › Re: Humanitarian Disaster, Disease Looms In North-west IDP Camps — Peacepro by femi4: 7:49pm On Oct 28 |
The govt should move fast |
Politics › Re: ‘₦70,000 Can Just Buy 50 Litres Of Fuel’, Atiku Mocks Tinubu’s Relief To Workers by femi4: 7:47pm On Oct 28 |
MEGAWATCH: Who knows the kind of terrible suffering background you are coming from that you can just accept anything to support nonsense.
May God remember you abeg because this is not what you should be doing at this time of your life.
🥸 Better than producing fake cardigans |
Politics › Re: FG’s ₦70,000 Transport Allowance: 10 Things Public Servants Should Know by femi4: 7:35pm On Oct 28 |
70k Peppermint money |
Politics › Re: Akinwumi Adesina Tells Tinubu: "I Have A Duty To Serve Nigeria, And I Will" by femi4: 7:33pm On Oct 28 |
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Politics › Re: ‘₦70,000 Can Just Buy 50 Litres Of Fuel’, Atiku Mocks Tinubu’s Relief To Workers by femi4: 7:32pm On Oct 28 |
Its a privilege not a right |
Politics › Re: APC Youth Leadership: Mummy Boys Vs City Boy Movement Power Tussle by femi4: 7:31pm On Oct 28 |
They are all fighting for their pocket |
Politics › Re: No Justification For Fresh Borrowing Amid Revenue Gains — Senator Victor Umeh by femi4: 7:29pm On Oct 28 |
Borrowing is inevitable |
Romance › Re: Before You Envy Anyone's Relationship Status, Read This by femi4: 7:28pm On Oct 28 |
Lojical1: If you are married, face your marriage. If you are single, take your time. Nothing dey street, and nothing dey marriage wey you should enter blindly.
Some singles see married people posting anniversary pictures, travelling with their spouses, raising children and enjoying companionship. They begin to wonder when their own turn will come.
Meanwhile, some married people see their single friends travelling without seeking permission, spending their money as they please, making personal decisions freely and enjoying a level of independence they no longer have. They begin to wonder whether marriage was worth it.
But there is something both sides often forget: you are comparing your private struggles with somebody else's public appearance.
That married couple posting beautiful pictures may be dealing with financial pressure, family interference, trust issues or problems they would never discuss on social media. That single person enjoying freedom may be battling loneliness, financial responsibilities or the frustration of not finding a suitable partner.
Marriage comes with companionship, shared responsibilities and the opportunity to build a family with someone you love. It also comes with sacrifices, compromises, financial obligations and the responsibility of considering another person's needs when making decisions.
Singlehood offers independence, flexibility and time to develop yourself. However, it can also come with loneliness, pressure from family and society, and uncertainty about finding the right person.
Neither situation is automatically better. Your experience depends largely on the choices you make and the circumstances you find yourself in.
The real problem is not being single or married. The problem is entering a situation you are not prepared for, or remaining in one that is destroying you simply because you are afraid of what people will say.
Don't marry because your friends are getting married, your parents are pressuring you or you are tired of attending weddings alone. Marriage is not a competition, and a wedding ceremony is not proof that someone has made the right choice.
Likewise, don't condemn marriage because you have seen people suffer in bad relationships. There are couples who genuinely enjoy their marriages, support each other's ambitions, resolve disagreements with maturity and build beautiful lives together.
If you are single, use the time to understand yourself, develop your character, improve your finances and learn what you need in a life partner. Don't just look for someone to marry. Look for someone with whom you can build a healthy life.
If you are married, stop romanticising the freedom of singlehood whenever marriage becomes difficult. Work on your relationship, communicate honestly and appreciate what you have, provided the relationship is safe and healthy.
Of course, this is not an argument for staying in an abusive or dangerous marriage. Protecting yourself matters more than maintaining appearances.
At the end of the day, marriage is not an automatic upgrade, and singlehood is not a life sentence. Both have advantages, disadvantages and responsibilities that people on the other side may not fully understand.
Stop envying what you see from a distance. Understand what you are choosing before you choose it.
My question is this: For those who are married If you could go back in time, would you still choose marriage or singlehood? And for those who have experienced both, which do you honestly find more fulfilling, and why? loneliness kills...marriage is the cure |
Food › Re: How Much Do You Spend On Feeding As A Single Person In A Day? by femi4: 7:27pm On Oct 28 |
Ade1177: People who earn 250k should call themselves gainfully employed right?
So many people earn below 200, 150k monthly
Let's be realistic
Now let's even say you earn 300k monthly
If you eat morning. Afternoon and dinner
How much do you spend in a day?
Because spending 3k on each meal is roughly 9k
That's almost all the whole salary
So how do you pay rent. Bills. Other expenses
Now how many people earn above 300k ?? Just cook for house..it will save you this kain mathematical gymnastic |
Science/Technology › Re: DG-103: Nigeria's Indigenous Assault Rifle by femi4: 7:14pm On Oct 28 |
Low budget |
Health › Re: Man Alleges UPTH Denied His Brother Emergency Treatment Over Lack Of BP Monitor by femi4: 7:10pm On Oct 28 |
May Nigeria not happen to you |
Crime › Re: Ibadan Man Appears In Court For Beating Up Girlfriend Who Broke Up With Him by femi4: 7:09pm On Oct 28 |
Two fighting
Beans dey hungry am |
Politics › Re: Chaos At APC Door-To-Door Campaign Launch In Adamawa by femi4: 7:08pm On Oct 28 |
JealousCobra: His fall is emenient, oh, before I forgot, oga tulumbu where is our subsidy money?
He has a lot to answer in the dungeon The maestro has been undefeated...he doesnt know how to lose |
Career › Re: How Do You Cope With A Company That Owes Salary? by femi4: 7:07pm On Oct 28 |
DenreleDave: I really want to quit but I am applying to get one first before I quit Looking for job is a job...quit n face your fear |
Food › Re: Please Is This Vegetable Or Weed? (pictures) by femi4: 6:41pm On Oct 28 |
Bigsin: I wanted to cook some food with this but haven't seen it before. Is it eatable or poisonous? To be honest, I've used some of it to whip one wicked jollof rice. Just eat moderately |
Food › Re: 700 Naira Food Country by femi4: 6:40pm On Oct 28 |
gracias124: that was 300 naira including the meat during buhari. Not even attractive...smh |
Career › Re: How Do You Cope With A Company That Owes Salary? by femi4: 6:39pm On Oct 28 |
DenreleDave: Dear Nairalanders,
Have you ever had any experience working with a company thay owes salary for as much as 2 to 4 months?
If Yes, how did you scale through this issue pending when you are applying for other options?
To be sincere, this is my first experience and I must confess, it is affecting my mental health. I have never been known to borrow money but since I started working for this company, I have been borrowing to feed even as begging for data.....
Worst still, this happened to me when I have just rented a new apartment and I am basically exhausted.
Kindly share tips on how you basically survive this kind of experience especially when another job is yet to come. Quit and look for job elsewhere They dont deserve you |
Politics › Re: Court Dismisses Emeka Ike’s ₦10 Billion Damages Suit Against Wike’s Aide, INEC by femi4: 6:37pm On Oct 28 |
You ll learn the hard way..you want to criticise the system that made you |
Crime › Re: Kwara Police Arrest Hijab-Wearing Kidnapper (Photo) by femi4: 6:35pm On Oct 28 |
Ban hijab now |
Sports › Re: Josep Gené Garcia Withdraws From Proposed Wikki Tourists Deal by femi4: 6:35pm On Oct 28 |
Bad omen for the club n local league at large |
Politics › Re: 2027: ‘We’ll Rig Those Who Rig Elections,’ Peter Obi Talks Tough by femi4: 6:34pm On Oct 28 |
Talk is cheap...you did nothing in 2023 |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Arrives In Akwanga, Nasarawa State (Video) by femi4: 6:33pm On Oct 28 |
OK is POssible |