₦airaland Forum

motymop:
You want me to understand white people but then can not understand our culture.

Does prostrating once, mean you are gonna join the tribe.

What stops you from prostrating is it because they are black?? Or do you feel superior over their culture.

That was a figure of speech

Do see what I mean about cultural greed?
You are incapable of compromising

As men you are too greedy
You get unlimited respect in the whole process

And the grooms family only ask for Kneeling or prostration removed so they feel respected

And you think that's the end of the world and they are scum

You want to take their women and not respect their culture

Stick to your white women

NAME 1 WHITE TRADITION YOU DO WHEN YOU MARRY WHITE IN OUR COUNTRIES

motymop:
You and I know, it is not true, I have to bow before the king or I won't be allowed to see him next time.

You did respect our culture even though you are a fucking guest here

😊 just got dual citizenship

Seems I do something valuable for your country
And military experience
Your government has always loved that

motymop:
You and I know, it is not true, I have to bow before the king or I won't be allowed to see him next time.

You did respect our culture even though you are a fucking guest here

No mate you don't
The kings of Sweden and Norway respected that I can't Kneel for a knighthood

Because cultural domination is illegal king or begger

No king is above the law anymore
They are all figurehead
Yes you can get in trouble for some things but a king cannot abuse you
He's representing his people

motymop:
Got it now.

Well. It is because you believe you can use money to buy your way.

Who sends 15m naira for a pride price

Only a fool does that.

Do you understand white people at all?
We would contribute to the family we are marrying into
Not joining the fucking tribe

When one of your families actually respects us and values as people in that marriage we go above and beyond for you to be included in the family not take the woman out of it

Her dad has a heart attack or stroke then we would come running because the way we see it he's a second dad to us not an inlaw

But you value your ego and pride over loyalty and added value

You think short term not long term
Compromise now and be adored later

motymop:
How is it cultural greed to prostrate to your family of your wife. It is a one time stuff

Just curious, is it cultural greed if the king of your country wants me to bow my head in his presence?

If you truly cannot do it and you explain that to my king respectfully he will never ask you to do

That's the difference between Scandinavians men and Nigerian men

We will honour a request you ignore it and demand

motymop:
How is it cultural greed to prostrate to your family of your wife. It is a one time stuff

Just curious, is it cultural greed if the king of your country wants me to bow my head in his presence?

BECAUSE ITS FORBIDDEN IN MY CULTURE

SHOULD I BE EXPECT TO VIOLATE MY OWN PEOPLE WHILE THEY FUCKING WATCH MULTIPLE TIMES AND VIOLATE MYSELF FOR YOUR PRIDE BECAUSE YOU WERE RAISE THATS NORMAL AND NOTHING BUT ASKING US TO DO IS BASICALLY AN ACT OF WAR

And how the Bleep is it 1 time? You expect all the fucking groomsmen to do it as well

motymop:
If she doesn't need your money

Then why did she allow you to send 15m naira to her family.

A woman that loves you will prevent that from happening.

You are dumb.

Can you read mate?

Behind her back that's what said, she went Ballistic when she found out

I'm dyslexic so I have trouble writing but I can read perfectly, what's your excuse?

motymop:
If that family gets greedy because they see you as a meal ticket.

Why generalise and point fingers at every Nigerian for the greediness of that family

Not greedy for money

Why is it all about money to you!!

I can't prostrate or Kneel to a family it's cultural greed I'm talking about

But all you think is cash

motymop:
Shut up.

You are not getting married to 3800 culture but 1 single culture from Nigeria

I feel like you just prey on desperate and poor Nigerian women whose parents will sell them for a pot of soup

Mate my Mrs now makes just as much as I do

Well a tiny bit less
She doesn't need me for money

motymop:
You obviously don't respect your woman with what you wrote down.

It is not your culture to potrate but you are going to get a wife from another culture but you can not obey their culture.

It is obvious that the family of your ex wife are not serious people.

If you are marrying into a well respected home, you will have to potrate whether you like it or not, whether it is your tradition or not.

CULTURE AND TRADITIONS ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS

I DONT ACTUALLY HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH YOUR CULTURE

I LOVE NIGERIA YOU ARE FUN, RICH AND DYNAMIC PEOPLE

THE PROBLEM IS YOU GET CULTURALLY GREEDY WITH YOUR TRADITIONS AT WEDDINGS

IF A MAN TRULY CANNOT ONE OR TWO PARTS AS LONG AS THE BRIDE PRICE IS PAID YOU SHOULD BE RESPECTFUL AND ACCEPT 90% TRADITIONS

NOT EXPECT HIM TO BETRAY HIS PEOPLE OVER KNEELING TO YOU OR PROSTRATION WHEN STANDING AND BOWING IS RESPECTFUL TO BOTH FAMILIES AND BOTH CULTURES

BLEND DONT DOMINATE!!!

Read what I'm saying I have never once said anything bad about a bride price because it's nothing

The actual traditions are where you get greedy

motymop:
when you marry from a poor home, you become the meal.

Your culture isn't superior to mine and your culture is underneath me.

You don't respect our culture how then will you respect your woman, I pity for her

This is a message to those who don't respect people's culture.

Another truth is this, you have no access to high quality Nigerian women. They won't give you their daughter for you to disrespect them.

The only women you will ever get are those from hungry families m

3800 cultures in the world AND NONE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THEN ANY OTHER THATS FUCKING POINT

I CANT DO 2 PARTS KNEEL TO THE FAMILIES OR PROSTRATE

THATS NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO 99% OF YOU
SO THOUGHT Bleep IT YOU CANT COMPROMISE ON ONE PART SO YOU DESERVE NONE OF IT

motymop:
It is tradition to pay a bride price to the family.

Fyi, dowry practices are largely governed by cultural norms rather than legal requirements. However, it's important to note that the legal system recognizes marriage based on civil, customary, or religious laws.

If the father wasn't alive or a dead beat, the bride price will be paid to a respected family member from the father side. Since they are giving their daughter to you.

You don't respect African culture, I feel like you are an hypocrite, you want us to respect your culture but you are not respecting ours.

For instance, if you really respect our culture, you would have gone to see the family member and obey their marriage rites, rather than sending 15m naira to the family.

The reality is this, no respected family will accept that money if you are not going to do the rites.

The rites is everything not the money.

Personally, I don't trust people like you who think money can buy their way, I will be so wary to give a family member out to you for marriage

You don't respect your traditions stop listening to your elders

Go to a fucking library in your country and read a book written by your ancestors

If a woman isn't a fucking virgin on her wedding day then her father doesn't deserve full fucking traditions in all tribe definitions from your ancestors that started it so it's not a fucking traditions anymore

You can't stop your daughter having sex so you can't demand full traditions

You accept what are comfy with and be grateful or you deserve none

When I married yoruba wife I respectfully explained that I cannot prostrate because it's forbidden in my culture and if offered to do everything else but that's not good enough for yoruba men and even offered to stand and bow as a compromised

The greedy and selfish man still wasn't respectful so Bleep yoruba culture

Nope not all of us

He's an example of our race we should be proud of though

Look at what he's doing to the UK covering up the Muslim grooming gangs and brought it to the world's attention so now it will hopefully get sorted and we get to kill all Muslims

motymop:
Imagine calling our culture crap..that is not cool at all

But I do have my thoughts about you.

I believe you are a Nigerian

Bleep you, that's biggest insult ever, my race is superior to all Nigerian men, not all men and not all African men but definitely all Nigerian

And Bleep yoruba culture it's not a culture anymore it's a fucking lie

Any one that believes love and marriage come with the condition of a man getting on his stomach and begging deserves to die alone

If your man's opinion on the wedding he's paying for means less then your fathers ego then marry your fucking father you inbred cock sucker

motymop:
You are actually dumb.

Imagine being scammed for a bride price and you are proud of it

Not scammed
My first wife didn't want me to pay at all because her father was an abusive asshole

So for no issues later I researched it behind her back
There is no law on which side it goes to because there is no law saying you have pay one

And I actually respect women not Nigerian men and sent a letter to her grandmother explaining the issue and just told her I'm sending this so please distribute it how you see fit

caye:
So, it's not empire or scheming to rule the world?

Tell me, why is it that after 200 yrs, America never deemed it right to pay reparations to Black Americans, but send money to everyone else, & also paid reparations to everyone else?
So, when they make you poor through IMF/ World bank; it's love Kwa?

Nigerians don't know how the world works

Ridiculous

More white people were taken as slaves by Muslims and Arabs through history then were ever taken from Africa to America but you never admit that because you don't research it

You want reparations from the Americans and British

Then get the Muslims to pay us so we can pay you

Make it fair and blame who started it

Learn why the word slave exists you fucking idiots

It's a slavic word because they were slaves
Or shut up about it

Your great great grandparents deserve reparations no one alive today that bitches about it was ever in a cotton or tobacco field

And no one alive today did it to you

AngelicBeing:
WOW 😳, 15 million Naira, Bride price, Huh, thanks for your detailed explanation

I'm Scandinavian but my income is pounds and naira is monopoly money

15 million is a lot to you nothing to us

Just an estimate

£5,000 is like 70,000 nok and around 9,500,000 naira

Lady the bride price is the traditional wedding as simple as that

Everything else is optional so it's just sheer greed for a woman's family to demand or expect anything else in a wedding

So stop being greedy and a make choice
The humiliating shit and a man being a dancing monkey for a family to marry

Or a bride price

Neither are legal so a couple can just say Bleep you and just do neither

And you can get married a 4th way here because I've done it

Traditional
Court
White
Personalised

As long as court official attends for the legal bit and it's done between certain hours then you can get married in any kind of ceremony you want

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, you seem to be an easy going , fun loving guy though, and you also seem to be a family oriented person

You mentioned that you have a daughter in your last post, is your daughter from your late wife or your current wife?

Secondly, from your last post, it seems like you met your current wife in the Scandinavian territory and prior to her meeting you, she dated someone else before, and then she met you, and you brought her to Nigeria to marry her traditionally but in the process, you got pissed off with shenanigans of her family, who tried to suck your finances


Kindly correct me if the above information above is correct, thanks

Lady it was a Nigerian man that was abusing her in my country

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, you seem to be an easy going , fun loving guy though, and you also seem to be a family oriented person

You mentioned that you have a daughter in your last post, is your daughter from your late wife or your current wife?

Secondly, from your last post, it seems like you met your current wife in the Scandinavian territory and prior to her meeting you, she dated someone else before, and then she met you, and you brought her to Nigeria to marry her traditionally but in the process, you got pissed off with shenanigans of her family, who tried to suck your finances


Kindly correct me if the above information above is correct, thanks

From my first yoruba wife
And I have no problem with the bride price I think that should be legally mandatory worldwide it's wonderful idea but should be drastically changed

More expensive, a man should have to prove he can provide for marriage not do bullshit traditions that mean nothing

Igbo have it right fucking monetise traditions if a man truly doesn't want to do them

It's respectful to both sides
He doesn't have to suffer humiliation and you get compensated over something you're willing to lie about

And no I didn't prostrate to marry her
I sent 15 million naira to her mothers family as a bride price because Bleep her dad and just took her
She died of cancer shortly after our girl was born
This wonderful woman now is igbo and a much more reasonable people however the igbo in imo have the same lying attitude as yoruba so no people are 100% perfect

AngelicBeing:
Ok, thanks for your response

You're welcome min kjaere

Dtruthspeaker:
See mad response oo. Clearly you are a mad person not to talk of the madness of your change of Post to Fgm.

Secondly, and thank God you said technically which should reasonably tell you that therefore there is a big opening in punishing an evil husband who was stupid enough to rape his wife.

And for you to react like this, you must be a mad Muslim and you set me up to see what I would have said, hence your display of madness.

Ooh I see now, you are a cursed, bitter, frustrated mad woman whose clitoris has obviously been cut, so you are dying and wailing like a mad person out of frustration.

Woman? Mate I'm a vikingr man
A draugr

What you call a tribe we call a clan and we are a lot more tribal then you fools and madness is forged into us

Dtruthspeaker:
See mad response oo. Clearly you are a mad person not to talk of the madness of your change of Post to Fgm.

Secondly, and thank God you said technically which should reasonably tell you that therefore there is a big opening in punishing an evil husband who was stupid enough to rape his wife.

And for you to react like this, you must be a mad Muslim and you set me up to see what I would have said, hence your display of madness.

IM WHITE AND SCANDINAVIAN WE KNOW THE TRUTH, ISLAM IS THREAT TO THE WORLD AND THE ONLY PEOPLE THAT SHOULD BE WIPED OUT

and I'm an atheist like I've said many time and fought in the Afghanistan wars against Muslims

I would kill every last Muslim alive if that was in my power but only Muslim and admitted that on here

They worship a man that raped a 9 year old girl
Actually read the quran mate

Allah is baal not a God but a devil

AngelicBeing:
It seems like the thread you opened yesterday, asking for guys to come over and bang your wife has been deleted.

Let me ask you this question, does your wife really want to be fuc..k.ed by several guys?

Has your wife ever been fuc.ked by several guys before getting married to you ,

Or is it a fetish desire on her path to please you sexually

And if your wife is eventually fuc.ked by several guys, don't you think, she might develop interest in any of the guys that fu.cks her better than you and abandons you?

Just thinking out loud 😅

Oh darling do think a secure man will take that bait? You circumcise dicks In Nigeria

We tattoo them 😊 doesn't that give you on the size difference? What Nigerian man is confident enough to whip it out in a tattoo parlour

The truth is she had 1 man before me and that man beat the shit out of her in my country so beat the crap out of him in return, from that day we were just a couple

I asked her to do something for me to experiment and she was delighted

She had accepted that she had to be faithful like a good African woman and we were both honest that's

I have no fear or worries about this, that woman is mine through and through

And this is only for 3 three years until my daughter has learned the yoruba crap and bullshit because it's not my right to steal 50% of her heritage from her no matter how much yoruba men disgust me and then we go back to Norway or maybe Sweden

Dtruthspeaker:
This is where you see that every legal law you know eg criminal and penal codes are still subject and dictated by the preferences of the people who made them. And the people who made them are the ones who direct whether Law should be enforced or not.

And see the mere fact that we have criminal code for the south and penal code for the north already tells you that wayo has begun.

So, if Mohammed rules in the north, then you should expect that rape of foreigners and not-muslims and paedophilia won't be punished like India.

Have you seen the mad judgement which Indian high court just gave even on this topic for a man who raped his wife to death?

Forced unnatural s3x with wife without her consent not offence - Indian High Court rules after man s0domised his wife to d3ath -
Linda ikeji

Shut up mate your just as bad in the south, east and west

Until 10 years ago Until we told you stop you were still mutilating innocent girls with fgm

AND MOST OF YOU BLAME THE VICTIMS FOR THE VIOLATION MENTALLY OF YOU MEN


Mate on a technically in your legal system no Nigerian husband will be punished for raping his wife at all it can only be used as a reason for separation and divorce

Someone would point out how I'm wrong if I was

I've been all over the world and no country on earth treats traditions the way you do and shouts you respect them but doesn't offer what their origins are for And you cherry pick not value and not respect them

AngelicBeing:
Hmmmmm

Can't say I'm wrong though, can you ma'am?

What about dirty Muslims? Their quran basically says they can rape any woman that's not a good woman in their opinion

Does a bullshit blasphemy law come before a human rights law?

All other countries on Earth that still practice traditions

Acknowledge why those traditions started the actual origins
They practice the origins
They offer what the traditions are for in the origins

You men ignore it all, scream I want it so do it and it's all bullshit

Even the father of a runs girl will expect prostration if she quits or finds a mug and lies to him

That bloke yesterday that said my adorable wife was an abomination of your African has seriously pissed me off

So explain to me how you men deserve to be worshipped at a wedding and how you value your traditions when you don't offer what they originally for

What law yours say they were for in your constitution under consummation sex after the wedding

As it clearly says what traditional weddings are for And the only time they should be done making the abomination you call your traditional weddings today a complete fucking lie because you have no control over your daughters bodies like no man should and are not traditional weddings at all anymore they are cherry picked, I want this part but refused to acknowledge that just big shows to look like big

All African countries on earth that have traditional wedding don't demand respect for a virginity traditional which all Nigerian traditions were for if a daughter is not a virgin

All other African cultures remove shit about virginity if the daughter is not one as they actually fucking respect their traditions

As fathers you don't even make effort with your daughters just doing the bare fucking minimum

The second I learned I was having a daughter I immediately went out learned braid hair as a bonding thing with her, we all know little mixed race girls obsessed with braids

FYI Fellas not that hard, same process as making rope in survival situations, just more effort and elaborate

Fenrir:
You are only nationality of men that lie about your fucking traditions in the entire world and scream mandatory and they must be respected yet ignore the reasons you started doing them, ignore what they originally for and don't offer what they are for in all tribe origins

You don't deserve your traditions respected if you don't actually respect themselves and uphold what they are for

And not one of you will tell me I'm wrong because you can't do it

You don't want your traditions respected, you want domination, you want worship, you want praise for raising your own children and doing your fucking duty as men

Fellas I live in your fucking country, how many of you when you get divorced just abandon your ex, don't pay child support or maintenance or see the kids yet when your daughters get married You come crawling back for the bride price and for your egos stroke for the tingly feeling in your tiny todgers