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This is the reason why you need to come back to church and begin to receive Gods word which would help you to briddle your own tongue..But its unfortunate that you have become so so foolish and naieve with lots of stupidity running through your veins to have the courage not to attend any church for over 3 years..Its quite obvious your are now dining with the devil and pls don't come here and convert souls into the kingdom of darkness with ur useless testiomony..No one wants to hear it.Peopel are running to God while a fool like you is running away frm God..Smh!!.

saasala:
Fool, You insulted me first. In fact thats more than insult. You are a very big fool. I just quoted you.... And dont you dare quote me again... Idiot

This is the reason why you need to come back to church and begin to receive Gods word which would help you to briddle your own tongue..But its unfortunate that you have become so so foolish and naive with lots of stupidity running through your veins to have the courage not to attend any church for over 3 years..Its quite obvious you are now dining with the devil and pls don't come here and convert souls into the kingdom of darkness with ur useless testimony..No one wants to hear it.People are running to God while a fool like you is running away frm God..Smh!!.Even the bible refers to people like you as fools so I am not mistaken.

saasala:
Fool, You insulted me first. In fact thats more than insult. You are a very big fool. I just quoted you.... And dont you dare quote me again... Idiot

Yes he is the younger brother to kingsley Ike..His name is victor ike.You probably must be right about he being a former member of cpm.But now he is a dedicated member of christ embassy and infact one of pastor chris's favourite praise singers along with frank edwards,sinach,joe praize,Tsharp,Buchi,eben who are also in d ministry..

ifeanyi83:
Sounds like Kingsley Ike's younger brother. I know one Victor Ike who used to play the drums at the C.P.M headquarters back then.

Thank you..Although I feel like insulting u back but I won't..Its your choice live your life just the way you want it..but don't forget we would alll give account of every decision we take here on earth of the last day..Don't quote me again.

saasala:
What gibberish are you spitting. Devil rejoicing over my soul cos I dont go to church? Are you kidding me? You are a big fool...

My broda don't mind all those hypocrites.Nothing that one does is good enough..Peopl must always talk.Its best ignoring the opinion of fools who are too blinded to see the light.Funny enough there are so many empty people walking the streets with no God factor in their lives..That's why some peoples lives are so miserable..For this course we must continue to preach the gospel..

zionmade:
No 1 Pastor Chris is fake yet you who is holy cannot go to ur holy church for one service and they dnt sing sons by sinach or frank edward or eben etc. those songs na ur pastor inspire dem to write am abi na ur papa
No 2. Inner city mission picks more dan 1000 street children every year feed dem and send dem to school, hope say dat one no follow for helping d poor
No 3. All those Doctor's report healing school students present before they are healed na fake abi and nigerian police never come arrest Pst Chris because na u knw pass dem
NO 4. Na pastor Chris write d portion of the bible wey God say Silver and Gold belongs to me. Abi God go give d silver and gold to wizkid, Olamide, etc den his own sons no go get any
No 5. Pastor Chris don divorce im wife, na u divorce am for am na d wife divorce am, both of dem do remarry? oga abeg teach me better where is the sin and divorcing and living separately without remarrying
See how d thing dey pain all of una. Person give pastor car, wahala pastor give person wahala, NAWA OOOOO

You have backslided from the faith it is time to return to God who owns ur existence..And who is the reason why ur alive today.Repent and be converted..Cos you really need Jesus.The devil is rejoicing over you cos he has won d battle over your life..All I can say in pastor chris's voice is I feel sorry for you.[quote author=saasala post=41598661][/quote]

@ saasala You have backslided from the faith it is time to return to God who owns ur existence..And who is the reason why ur alive today.Repent and be converted..Cos you really need jesus.The devil is rejoicing over you cos he has won d battle over your life..All I can say in pastor chris's voice is I feel sorry for you.[quote author=saasala post=41598661][/quote]

With the new decision you have taken you are in trouble.. (quote author=saasala post=41592273]Where Are my drumsticks

I know Victor very well. He is very loved by LCC3 members under pastor Deola. The only guy in Christ Embassy that leads praise and worship with local dialects. He has always been pastor Chris' boy and a very close friend of Frank Edwards. Apart from being a drummer, he sings and dances well. If you want to see pastor Chris dance to traditional Xtian music, call bro Ike. He has always been dedicated. He deserves it. Well, pastor Chris is just pulling some stunts, perhaps to gain or maintain the trust of the tithe payers.

I used to be a Christ Embassy member, in fact I was a choir master, drummer and cell leader until God opened my eyes to see that the 21st century church is scam and sham.... I love my life more now. Been 3 years since I last stepped on the floor of a church and I am loving it.

Oya, Tithe payers association of Nigeria, quote me.[/quote]

U attreact broke ass niggas and would continue to attract them cos your a broke ass girl..If you were a classy babe with a career and something doing,classy guys would come your way..marriage is not a contract to help you solve all your problems its a relationship btwn people of like minds coming together to make things work..You cannot be a broke ass hole and be expecting classy guys to come your way..Ur just a gold digger and even if the big boys come ur way they would just chop ur somting and run cos no man wants a liability like u who has nothing to offer for a wife.no matter how rich he is..Go and get a life abeg..Cheap gold diggers every where

lifeisabitch:
some want to put a ring on it, but I havn't said yes because it has to be Arabian gold ring.


Bottom line is, if it were so hard, I wouldn't even had people interested in my hand. If I Reallly want to marry, I will just marry one of the broke as niggas.

U attreact broke ass niggas and would continue to attract them cos your a broke ass girl..If you were a classy babe with a career and something doing,classy guys would come your way..marriage is not a contract to help you solve all your problems its a relationship btwn people of like minds coming together to make things work..You cannot be a broke ass hole and be expecting classy guys to come your way..Ur just a gold digger and even if the big boys come ur way they would just chop ur somting and run cos no man wants a liability like u who has nothing to offer for a wife.no matter how rich he is..Go and get a life abeg..

lifeisabitch:
some want to put a ring on it, but I havn't said yes because it has to be Arabian gold ring.


Bottom line is, if it were so hard, I wouldn't even had people interested in my hand. If I Reallly want to marry, I will just marry one of the broke as niggas.

U attreact broke ass niggas and would continue to attract them cos your a broke ass girl..If you were a classy babe with a career and something doing,classy guys would come your way..marriage is not a contract to help you solve all your problems its a relationship btwn people of like minds coming together to make things work..You cannot be a broke ass hole and be expecting classy guys to come your way..Ur just a gold digger and even if the big boys come ur way they would just chop ur somting and run cos no man wants a liability like u for a wife..no matter how rich he is..Go and get a life abeg..

lifeisabitch:
some want to put a ring on it, but I havn't said yes because it has to be Arabian gold ring.


Bottom line is, if it were so hard, I wouldn't even had people interested in my hand. If I Reallly want to marry, I will just marry one of the broke as niggas.

Na ugly girls like you dey sabi person wey fine or no fine..Who asked for your opinion?? Why not just congratulate the couple??SMH!!quote author=petkruz post=41500355]The groom is very handsome but the bride is quite ugly no offence.[/quote]

You are mad..Who called d baby a mistake?? The mistake is he having the baby with a woman he is not married to and the wrong girl for dat matter..So what d hell are u saying..An unwanted pregnancy is an unwanted pregnancy. But as long as the baby is born God has a purpose for bringing her into the world..But it doesn't change the fact that they both made a mistake by having a baby 2geda..As u can see d result clearly..

sukkot:
a baby is not a mistake. what kinda demonic person are you ?

My dear havnt u heard dat konji is a bastard?? D beating will not stop konji from holding d wife na..Abi ur sounding like she is doing him a favour by having sex with him..As if she doesn't enjoy it as well..My dear forget

dovelike:
Just four years?
After beating me up, you'll then do what?? Start poking me when am sleeping? When my body still hurts?? Lie.

I don't think I will ever let any man touch me after hitting me. That's one of the reasons marriage puzzles me. He beat you today, nine months later, you're in the labor room, giving birth?? Odiegwu.

Guy she is just a baby mama and not his wife or girlfriend..And as it is they are not even friends.The mistake has been made and they had a baby together it doesn't the entitle her to all his wealth..For christ sake this guy is doing all dis cos of d baby and not this bitch ur supporting..She doesn't have any special right to more than what she is getting already frm him..does he pluck his money frm tree?? What are u even saying..Can u husstle 1million naira easil? So what right do you have to tell a successful nigga who has husstled for his millions how to spend his money??abeg park well joor!! Na person wey no sabi d value of money dey talk like you..if ur a real man and u have ever husstled for money and seen how difficult it is you wouldn't be talking like dis..U talk like a kid who has no value for moeny and is been fed by parents

sukkot:
,only 300 k ? really ? and uses the rest of the money to buy cars and post on instagram ? you niggas are crazy

Bros what is wrong with you sef?? Abi em go kill himself because the girl had a child for him?? For christ sake he pays the bitch a wooping 300k every fucking month plus her apartment in lekki which he payed for..all these am very sure u wldnt dare do for a babymama if u had one..What is she doing with all the money..Do you think if she was responsible he wouldn't have considered givin her all she desires..For christ sake we all have heard of the so called bitches escapades as an olosho in abuja and she intentionally took in for him so as to continue miking him dry..Yes she succeeded so what else does she want from d dude..Abeg stop talking like someone who is insensitive..You can't make even a quarter sacrifice of what he has made for the bitch so just calm down and stop spewing trash..Even if he drives all d cars in d world its his hard earned money,if she wants a car she can save her allowances and get one for her fucking self.Period.She didn't follow him to husstle d money.And he is doin enuf already.Abi d bitch na ur sister?? Tell us make we know..

sukkot:
the question here is did you read the whole thing ? you missed the part where she said she wanted a car to carry her baby around but he has refused to buy her a car. but everyday he here posting pictures of all the cars he has bought for himself. but will not buy the mother of his kid a car to carry the baby around ? you and davido need to be flogged. you for this post and davido for being a nuisance to society

Bros what is wrong with you sef?? Abi em go kill himself because the girl had a child for him?? For christ sake he pays the bithc 300k every fucking month,which am sure u wldnt dare pay a babymama if u had one..What is she doing with all the money..Do you thinks if she was responsible he wouldn't have considered givin her all she desires..For christ sake we all have heard of the so called bitches escapades as an olosho in abuja and she intentionally took him for him so as to continue miking him dry..Yes she succeeded so what else does she want from d dude..Abeg stop talking like someone who is insensitive..You can't make even a quarter sacrifice of what he has made for the bitch so just calm down and stop spewing trash..Even if he drives all d cars in d world its his hard earned money,if she wants a car she can save her allowances and get one for her fucking self.Period.She didn't follow him to husstle d money.And he is doin enuf already..

sukkot:
the question here is did you read the whole thing ? you missed the part where she said she wanted a car to carry her baby around but he has refused to buy her a car. but everyday he here posting pictures of all the cars he has bought for himself. but will not buy the mother of his kid a car to carry the baby around ? you and davido need to be flogged. you for this post and davido for being a nuisance to society

Bros what is wrong with you sef?? Abi em go kill himself because the girl had a child for him?? For christ sake he pays the bithc 300k every fucking month,which am sure u wldnt dare pay a babymama if u had one..What is she doing with all the money..Do you thinks if she was responsible he wouldn't have considered givin her all she desires..For christ sake we all have heard of the so called bitches escapades as an olosho in abuja and she intentionally took him for him so as to continue miking him dry..Yes she succeeded so what else does she want from d dude..Abeg stop talking like someone who is insensitive..You can't make even a quarter sacrifice of what he has made for the bitch so just calm down and stop spewing trash..Even if he drives all d cars in d world its his hard earned money,if she wants a car she can save her allowances and get one for her fucking self.Period.

sukkot:
the question here is did you read the whole thing ? you missed the part where she said she wanted a car to carry her baby around but he has refused to buy her a car. but everyday he here posting pictures of all the cars he has bought for himself. but will not buy the mother of his kid a car to carry the baby around ? you and davido need to be flogged. you for this post and davido for being a nuisance to society

Laveda:
Are you a virgin Oya slap see my ear..I think some guys are just stup!d and confused ..... One random guy walks up to you and ask if you're a virgin..seriously what for? wanna eat my virginity? Even when you say yes...some would start arguing they be like " you virgin? with all these packaging ? " seriously what was he expecting? Ask me that stupid question and i' ll slap madness out of your head

Are you a virgin?? Oya slap see my ear

The ops name is lienus,mohammed Ngbojikwe,Am very sure he is the younger brother of lie mohammed

firstolalekan:



Bros

You can lie o

Is it the only Dangote we know today you're referring to

Lieanus na him be your second name
Person wey come from a rich home.

The ops name is lienus,mohammed Ngbojikwe

firstolalekan:



Bros

You can lie o

Is it the only Dangote we know today you're referring to

Lieanus na him be your second name
Person wey come from a rich home.

Are. You a lawyer?? If your not I recommend you go read law as you would make a good counsel to a guilty offendant..BTW thanks for the advice you don't know how much of an impact your making in som1's life.Let's pray they overlook those flaws and give her a second chance..

MRBrownJ:
but she was for close to 15yrs?! how can you dismiss that so casually?



its all about making sure that the kids are ok, whether with daddy or mummy... and in this instance, they were better off with daddy. i know gazillions of unfit mothers out there that are raising their kids even though they SHOULDNT. sometimes daddy is the best option.



have an open mind and hear her side of the story before assuming that she "fled" or that she abandoned them willingly for greener pastures



yes it is a complex situation with possible repercussions bigger than just these people here (think about what is best for the grandkids too). at this stage, this lady certainly doesnt want to be treated and cherished as a caring and loving mother (as if she never left), but she possibly only want to be part of their lives and share some kind of friendship 1st, and possibly a stronger bond later... depending on what happens. of course, she will never be able to erase what happened, and i doubt this is what she wants, but maybe to try to overlook it and enjoy the present in some ways.

Ok thanks for the advice.Quite taughtful!!Me thinks a woman is supposed to be a role model to her children..Even when the man is going astray which is more common the woman is usually there to pray for him and guide her children right..But amazingly the mother fled when the kids needed her the most and funny enug the kids were not too little not to see all that was happening around them..The height of it is having a baby with another man outside her matrimony which was what made their father to have a rethink and marry another wife..Its a very complex situation my brother.To me I believe the forgiveness is inevitable but she would not enjoy as much as what a mother who stood by her children all tru would enjoy..There should be a consequence to every action..Cos that bond btwn mother and son which exists among many mothers and their male children would not just be there.

MRBrownJ:
as a father, i also feel that it is not right to do so, but these kids need to A) remain open minded and hear her side of the story before they can judge her and B) take a decision not solely based on them, but also their whole family (aka grandkids etc)
most people here are selfish and only think about themselves, and not about their immediate family. sometimes life isnt just about you, and you have to be the bigger person.

btw here is a simple answer that mama could give: i was married off too young, i was immature in my head, i couldnt cope, i was losing it and because i didnt want to hurt you guys with my inabilities, i had to leave in order to find myself and become a better person.... then life happened!

@fexyrich
just because the father is "now" good, doesnt mean that their mother is automatically bad, have an open mind and listen to HER story, instead of being narrow minded about this issue.

Thanks everyone for your sincere contributions..We have learnt a lot so far..Just tot to share this to give people an idea of what some people go through.Thanks a lot sincerely for your honest contributions..Maybe now I would talk to him in d direction of reconciling reconciling with their mum..But prior to creating this thread I honestly was in support of my friends bitterness cos I know what it was like all those years and suddenly from nowhere the woman shows up again probably co they have grown and started doing well.

Bro funny enough I know my friends father too well he is a perfect gentle man who cannot hurt a fly..His father for one day never laid a hand on his mother,I mean he never for once did dat.I believe she took advantage of his gentle nature to do whatever she liked..Infact to the extent that even the womans relatives and mother condemned her for her deeds and they all came back to apologise to my guys father for the evil their daughter did..Cos they know he is a good man.still she had no remorse till date..Me believes some women are possessed cos no woman with her right senses would do such

fem29:
Fair enough you are right people always deserve a second chance. But there are some things you do that there is no coming back from. OP said he remembers going with his father to beg her to come back but she refused. I can just imagine what that would have done to him.

Why didn't she take her kids with her?. Fair enough, maybe the father used to beat her but I think OP would know about that. OP hear her out, forgive her to avoid bitterness in your heart, but keep her at arms length

My dear if only people where in those shoes they would realise its easier said than done..Do you know all the risks those kids passed thru while growing up..Even at some point would fall sick with no mother to take care of them?? If not for the wife their father married who stood by him to raise those kids it wouldn't have been too easy for the man alone..Dis woman never cared all those years.From primary even to the university level she was no where around to chestise,encourage,support or guide her children..It is very easy to forgive such woman just as the bible has askd us to but to accept such woman into their lives is where it is near impossible..The amazing thing is that there was no remorse from her at all,Rather trying to buy the children over and blackmail their dad in front of the children just to buy their favour..When dis guys werethough kids then but were fully aware of all that was happening befor she left..The only crime the man really commited was that as some point his business was challenged..And because her own business whic he himself opened for her was doing well she rather than standing by him dumped him and the kids and went to enjoy her life out there..My dear their accepting that woman back is really really difficult.

CallmeKola:
All these ones saying forgive don't know the pain and anguish!

I have a friend who's mum abandoned them when they were still children..This friend of mine has 3 other siblings and they are four in number all guys..According to him because of some financial challenge the father had at some point during the marriage,the mother who was doing well in a restaurant business set up by the father to help her catering career abandoned the father and d four kidsfor other men when he was passing through some financial challenge at some point in the marriage..This my frien was just 10 years and he was the third child,while their eldest was just 15 years old..They went back severally begging with their father begging their mother to come back home all to no avail she refused bluntly..After 5 years of waiting for God to touch this womans heart to return to her matrimonial home,she never did all they later heard was that she was pregnant for another man who wasn't even married to her..This discouraged their father completely and then he began to pray for another wife,The mother of this my friend never for one day through out all the years contributed a penny after she left to their education or well being..She never even called to keep in touch with them all those years..Fast forward to now my friend who was 10 years then is now 26 years now,all them grown up,working and doing their thing in life..Suddenly this woman who dumped them all these years shows up and is trying to warm her way into their hearts again..But funny enough these grown men don't want to be associated with her again..Note when dis happened their father single handedly trained all of them alongside support of his new wife up to the university level and they are now all graduates..What would you do in this situation if you we're in the shoes of my guy..Would u accept this woman back who doesn't even till today have an atom of remorse for all she has done rather giving excuses to justify her evil deeds and still hates on the father..pls matured contribution pls!!

Yea playing football is much more fun than watching.

Chizzyozi:
same here too..... prefer playing than watching.... the thrill of chasing a ball.. kicking and catching.... and also hitting peoples head with it

Am a guy but trust me I hate football with passion..I mean it bores the hell out of me..I only manage to watch serious matches like world cups only and only when nigeria is playing..Can't seat wasting my time on watching football..I wld rather watch a wrestling or a movie.I wonder how guys fell so in love with the whole tin..I still can't comprehend d fun attached to it.Spits

Zambux:
Engaged since 5yrs

Oh Lawd!!Am sure your surname is lord of the rings

I hope you are proud of them?? That's exactly what you were supporting in my thread..Bunch of shameless ladies everywhere..

missKiffy:
Wonders shall never end, no shame at all, 3some, 4some, 5some I hate dat shii

You that are matured I hope you would congratulate your daughter 2moro if she tells you she fvcked a guy she just met on first date?? Hypocrite!!No wonder many of u find it hard to settle down cos no man wants to marry a cheap LovePeddler..

missKiffy:
Bye bye child, ain't nobody stalking ur dumb ass