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Lexusgs430:
Separation leads to divorce...... Divorce is the next step.......

hope you know that separation is different from divorce. The bible permits separation at worst case but not divorce (which is not Gods will for marriage)

Lexusgs430:
Unbelieving could also mean, not believing in the relationship........

Man and wife must not separate for any other cause than what Christ allows. Divorce, at that time, was very common among both Jews and Gentiles, on very slight pretexts. Marriage is a Divine institution; and is an engagement for life, by God's appointment. We are bound, as much as in us lies, to live peaceably with all men, Ro 12:18, therefore to promote the peace and comfort of our nearest relatives, though unbelievers. It should be the labour and study of those who are married, to make each other as easy and happy as possible. Should a Christian desert a husband or wife, when there is opportunity to give the greatest proof of love? Stay, and labour heartily for the conversion of thy relative. In every state and relation the Lord has called us to peace; and every thing should be done to promote harmony, as far as truth and holiness will permit.

Lexusgs430:
Kindly explain.....

1 Corinthians 7:15-17 - :

Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace. For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife? Only, as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, in this manner let him walk. And so I direct in all the churches.

this is making reference and talking about separation not "divorce", and also about an unbelieving partner.

Lexusgs430:
Exactly..... Which is why he should chop his marriage off......

Divorce itself is not Gods will. so "chopping" it off is wrong.

Lexusgs430:
Are you saying you would chop it off?....

is it not better to enter heaven with one hand than burn in hell with complete body.

Lexusgs430:
So if your left hand always finds its way into your neighbours pot of soup, would you chop it off?.....

Matthew 5:29-30

Lexusgs430:
Which both? She has a special way of showing it.......

Can you force her to remain married?

Adultery.
Unreasonable behavior
Desertion.
2 years separation


Divorce can be commenced on all the aforementioned grounds.........

Divorce is not the answer to all marital issues.

Lexusgs430:
Agreed...... But a MOG got divorced..... So what's the big deal........

MOG can commit sin or divorce and that those not make it right. it only what the Bible and Christ says that as a believer we should uphold

Lexusgs430:
By the time she has not returned in 2 years, the marriage is technically Over....

Tunagee...........

I have observed that most marital issues been discussed here on NL, more than 70% of the suggestions and advises are always DIVORCE. some people may divorce more than 20 times if they keep divorcing at any slightest provocation.

Lexusgs430:
What would you do, if your wife (assuming you're married), shuts the door behind her and goes to camp with her mother.............

Both parties want the marriage to continue. And this issue can be sorted out. Divorce is not the answer to every marriage problems. Dialogue and understands is the key

Lexusgs430:
Are you more spiritual than Oyakhilome?......

the Christian race is personal, Bible and Christ is the standard not any pastor.

Lexusgs430:
Ever heard of a word called 'Divorce'?......

Are you married? why do you people keep advising divorce at any slitest issue. nawao. the rate of which divorce is rampant in the society these days, its uncalled for. there are some things that can be settled.

mgh2:
Will google map clear off the traffic

it will give you the best route and time estimate

USE GOOGLE MAP WHILE DRIVING. SIMPLE

medexico:
.

I have seen the advert for it before.

Kalapizim,

I have the backpack, its over rated and fancy, i bought it when it first came out, ordered it from Germany or so at a very expensive rate (more than 20k), now part of the hand is already not in good shape even though i dont use it regularly. its too fragile and just fancy.

simonlee:
i thought the show is aired on a single channel on DSTV... is anyone forced to watch it?

instead of them to fight for El Zakzaki's release...ow, he's shiite and not sunnah!

When DSTV wanted to air a show/series about gays why did people protest then?

WHY DO BLOGGERS ABUSE THE "SPOTTED" SOMEBODY POSE FOR A SELFIE YOU SAID SPOTTED. WHAT IS SPOTTED IN THAT.

WHEN PASTOR ADEBOYE SAID THE SAME THING, NIGERIANS WERE ATTACKING HIM.

Daboomb:
You mean the same "Hausa North" where the highest rate of the ten most deadly diseases are prevalent?
Place were they f*uc*k their Camels, sniff Petrol and Adhesice gum, gobble up Tramadol and all the children of their poor are left to roam the streets begging for food and then used as suicide bombers or killers during a religious riot?

Abeg, tell us something we dont already know, because you retend to be pious does not mean others dont know you for exactly who you are.

***Dont point fingers, if you dont want to be pointed at****

my point is on decency, mind you there are lots of vices and diseases that are more prevalent in the south, like Yahoo yahoo, rape, HIV, ritualist, etc.

For decency, give it to the North.

you can see how Hausas are decently dressed. not like the southerners that will expose their boobs up and down.

THAT POLICE ON camouflage HAS NOT CHANGE HIS TROUSERS SINCE YESTERDAY

Solidkay:
If Nigerians put the same effort they put in pock nosing into other people's affairs, we won't be tagged poverty headquarters.

Cho Cho cho Cho Cho everytime....

if people are to mind their business, then should not condemn/criticize Fatoyinbo and Senator Elisha. Even Freez is not minding his own business.

deafeyez:
And some people won't mind their business. They go about asking for the father of the yet to born kid.
.Nigeria eh.

if people are to mind their business, then should not condemn/criticize Fatoyinbo and Senator Elisha

Badabada:
I think ppl should develop the habit of minding their business.

if people are to mind their business, then should not condemn/criticize Fatoyinbo and Senator Elisha

[quote author= post=80103467]Good point raised if she slapped a man.

But that still doesn't mean this woman beater should not go to prison.

Nigerians and their wahala sha!

Na so dem go take style push this serious issue under the carpet![/quote]On other issues, you will hear "do not judge", " he who that is without sin...", "no one is perfect".
But now, you are shouting " crucify him". Nigerians and double standard

backnbeta:
Why did Mr Abbo do that self, I just wonder...abi na devil? See the nansense he brought upon PDP now! Let him take the appropriate punishment, bi ko...no mercy

On other issues, you will hear "do not judge", " he who that is without sin...", "no one is perfect".
But now, you are shouting " crucify him". Nigerians and double standard

Nigerians and double standards, now always everybody is shouting crucify him! crucify him! but if it other issues, you will here things like "Do not judge", "he who is without sin should cast the first stone", etc.

It is well! im dumb folded. God will take control.

Lekan1o1:
Ur number pls, do u mind?

Sorry, i cant give you my number because i dont know you. you can send me a dm

Lekan1o1:
Bro Pls I need to ask you something

Go ahead please

This is a good initiative from the church

its well