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Quality20:
pls who can get me d details of ds op and his family, I wanna make some money and name as a new lawyer

Send him a Dm or reply him.

shindymum:
Hello
Trust you had a great day, Sequel to your Test,Training for the DSA Role, this is to inform you that your Resumption will commence soonest, therefore you are advised to carryout all necessary documentation before resumption date. Regards. Anyone with useful information should please help.

happy birthday

we are here. happy birthday to us

lahizak:
Where you are wrong is that a school first and foremost supposed to protect the student and either you like it or not the girl is a victim. She may be stupid but she is a victim and as far as we are concerned, she did not break the rules of the school. Sex between adult outside a school is not a crime, is not like she steal or kill someone. A video meant for there eyes that got leaked is a violation of her privacy. And either you like it or not her action have no effect whatsoever on the school.
And how will you compare school institution, a place for teaching and learning to work place that pays you salary. So u saying if you and your guy have sex and stupidly make a video and it got leaked, ur office and any other association you know should disown u. Just 4 making a stupid mistake. Na wa oo

You got it wrong, we all praised Four Square Church when they suspended the cold room lecturer. whereas the action and activity was not committed in the church.

ursullalinda:
Ah.....expelling a girl because of sex is wrong.....that is a school not a church.....I'm just feeling for her parents

You can write or protest to the school on her behalf

Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.

your conscience is telling you its wrong to sleep with her. fornication is also a sin. back off bro.

even Higher institutions have codes and rules, and if you dont dress to the standard, you wont be allowed to enter the school compound, how much more a secondary school.

helinues:
Wailers, we are expecting more propaganda relating to Kogi and Bayelsa elections

So with all this epistles not even a video or picture to back this claim up?

Okay, how about the picture of the house burnt?

Tell me something different

Modified: Don't get your self banned by attacking me.. If a major newspaper like Sun newspaper can carry this news without any pictorial evidence, then something is fishy meaty.

Are you telling me that Sun news did not cover the just concluded Kogi election ? Or probably their journalists are still having election fatigue.

Radarada

here is the link for the photo:

https://www.nairaland.com/5537185/photos-acheju-abuh-burnt-home

importantperson:
so will you dash me the mi8, if you understand the iphome x?

beggi beggi

midehi2:
Yea, sex is sweet sha, like the one I ........

the tweet is for married couples

skelewu404:
why u dey fear now pls no fear o.
Remember
We come in peace but we mean business

Awon data bois

Elder0001:
Ladies on twitter kick against them and their kids taking up their husband's name in marriage.

Why are women always competing with men?

solablings:
Our African brothers The Kenyans have just invented what is called SUSU CUP which is mainly used by ladies that wishes to pee like man.

Isn't this great?

Source: https://www./groupkenya/permalink/3341595582601980/

Wear clothes like men, shoes like men, walk like men, underwear like men (boxers and singlets) tie like men, work like men, traditional attire like men, now pee like men. Are women competing with men?

abumaryam012:
The Ahmadu Bello University Zaria, has reviewed the University's dress code policy.

this is a good thing, i must commend ABU, if its private University, they will keep shouting glorified secondary.

IF THIS HAPPENED IN NIGERIA, PEOPLE WILL START CRITICIZING THE BAN, ASKING IF THE COMMITED ANY OFFENSE, HOW NIGERIA IS NOT CIVILIZED, ETC. THANK GOD THERE IS STILL SOME LEVEL OF SANITY OVRR THERE.

eddy1234:
OK friends ...I have a lot in my hands and I need matured advice not to make mistakes please... I lost my rich aunt last year ....she handed over her properties and two kids to me to take care ...(adopted.the girl is 20yrs .just finished jamb .the boy is 12yrs .just going into js1)

now I'm 39. not married.and lost my job 2months ago....no liquid cash left but I have in my custody 4 units of 3bedroom flats ....also a 6 bedroom duplex not yet finished so no tenant yet... since my aunt was so secretive I had to start looking for other houses she didn't say...I have found two in an estate .....somewhere...nobody knows about it but me.I'm yet to find out more properties about 4. I have a new kia sport age jeep too in my possession ....


now d demand for upkeep and school fees from these two kids is really eating me up...have to borrow pending wen tenants pay .late payment most times....

now I'm turn in between selling one of the houses I found out on code. 10million.just a small apartment....I know I can start life wit it.love most of the problems,look for more properties and complete the 6 bedroom duplex.... my question and fear is that should I sell it and start life or keep managing with tenant fee and late payment ..?

The girl is 20 years and not a kid anymore, once you start with selling one, i bet you, you will lavishly spend the money and finish it within 5 years (max) and then you will want to sell another and then another, because it is not your sweat. handover the properties to the children and only guide them, looks like there is more to this story.

IT IS GOOD TO STAND FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE.

AdeeT:
Thanks to all for trying to help.

I'm just more confused now than ever. I'll keep this to myself till we meet in December, by then, I pray that God will forgive me, and help me keep this that have nurtured for a long time.

I've learnt my lessons now. Again, thank you all.

Sometimes bringing personal issues to NL will leave you more confused. An average and ungodly person sees nothing wrong with what you did, some already have dead conscience, but you know in your heart what you did was wrong, your conscience is pricking you, which is a good thing. You don't have peace of mind also, you need to free your mind by asking for forgiveness from God and your fiancee.
Also remember when some of the advises backfires you are on your own. DO THE RIGHT THING ADE.

funmisticqueen:
keep your mouth shut

Some people's conscience is DEAD.

AdeeT:
Abuse and curse me all you wished, the did is already done, the one I am not proud of, and never wished for to happen. I took all the blame, and only wanted a best idea/advice to safe landing.

My mind is pushing me towards visiting her to relate with her all that has happened. And again, another mind is telling me that all would be lost afterwards. I don't want to loose her, she's already an integral part of my life.

How best can I confront her without loosing her?

My brother I will advise you from my heart to free your mind, be sincere and tell her. For your heart and mind to be free, open up to her for the sake of your future.

netpro:
With most PDP supporters urging Akpabio to resign as minister and contest, I will definitely insist Akpabio sit tight as minister and work for the whole of Niger Delta.

The fact remains that the cabals who have squandered the resources of NDDC wants Akpabio out of the Ministry.

Akpabio as minister will serve all of Niger Delta. Being a senator will only serve his constituency.

Was it the cabals that influenced the judgement in his favour?

GODPUNISHALABI:
Nnaa which kain boring pictures be this naa ...una dey go deeper life?

It's their choice. Obviously you are still single

Kwanza:
https://m.guardian.ng/news/ghanaians-enraged-over-border-closure/

Why are Africans like this? In Europe, there is strong link and collaboration between and within EU nations.

UncleGist:
A beautiful bride wears massive cleavage baring dress on wedding day, has gone viral on social media. Gistmore reports

The lady opens her chest in a matching traditional attires with her husband at the event.

BY GISTMORE : http://gistmore.com/bride-rocks-massive-cleavage-baring-dress-on-wedding-day

The irony of it all is that the men are well dressed without "cleavage " bearing outfit

TrendingGist:
Senator Dino Melaye was spotted in Lokoja for a rally campaign ahead of the forthcoming senatorial and governorship elections. Some youths were seen climbing his convoy.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B4i6_I0ny5r

What is "spotted" here? Are you the one that spotted him? He uploaded the picture himself and you spotting him.

Threebear:
This is why private universities are called glorified secondary schools .

Can you imagine the rubbish ?

I heard in Madonna, people get permission to leave the school premises .

Pass your jamb and post UME so you won't be monitored like a criminal in a federal prison

Do you know that some companies have CCTV installed in offices and halls.

The man's chest is covered while the woman's chest is opened

wow. but can today shoes be preserved for that long? quality has reduced

setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.

Go to the nearest police station and report her.

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

My wife kept hers. So its possible