JayB11:

I work with an Intl NGO here in Mubi, Adamawa State. I am in the system, so u cant tell me nay. That corruption ideology u've got is only bt a cliché. So d sooner u bliv dat not all ur perspectives are true or right, d better for ur future.

iwatch:
why should you even be laughing over this? Like what do you ladies gain doing this every time?

djjosh:
Yes i am dear, i expected it that's why am taking cool!

djjosh:
Lol...i'm laughing right? This is cos same tin is happenin to me nw, & u knw wt i did? I gave her option to go and console him so he'll not do something stupid. Guess what? They are now together, just last week the guy is talking of coming to visit the lady's family. I was not in town, i came in on saturday night, saw her on sunday & she said i shd 4gv her dt she sti lov d guy. I js wishd her wel & am nw movin on...i xpected it anyways, dtz y im tkin it cul. So nigga, jus try lil effort n push her to him n c, dr'll js blend at once n u'l b a collateral damage as u said. Ds hoes, dr aint worth it.

MRSoftapples:
Hmm my brother,, you have to really asked yourself if this girl really loves you or not..
From the look of things, her ex really loves her and still loves her, so it's best for you to let the lady go,, advice her to go back to her ex..
its not like he cheated or he is a woman beater,, just smoking and bad friends didn't stop him from loving her..
What she should have done, was to report him to his mom and family members, so that they can advice him to dump the dangerous lifestyle and be focus on life..

The lady overreacted by going into another relationship with you because her ex had done nothing wrong,, all he needed was an elderly advice..

So my brother, let go of the girl, tell her to go back to her ex,, wish her well in life, advice her to talk to elders in her family and move on with your life..

enemyofprogress:
Rubbish. Very ugly couple, very very ugly children 95 loading

rottennaija:
That reminds me of a wedding get together I attended about a year ago. The brother didn't really have enough cash so he did something simple. No kingdom hall, no traditional marriage, just paying the bride price, court registration and a simple get together to announce the new couple.

Of course, some among there though not saying it, wondered if they had engaged in primarital sex and are not allowed to use the kingdom hall... Well, the elders, chairing the get together dispel such notion publicly, that nothing is wrong.

Fast forward to about 8 months after the marriage, the wife had delivered. I went home, discussed with some who were there. Again, it didn't concern me, why should it? I had realized that almost everything was about putting up a good appearance.

If these two are to be investigated properly, they have had it probably more than 2 times. But of course, keeping with the appearance would mean as the opposite said it " they maintained a very healthy relationship in accordance with our bible-based principles regarding courtship"

Again, how does that concern me. Everything is about keeping appearances.

Lucid1:



Cowardice in what way? Suicide is the highest level of bravery; taking a giant step into the unknown isn’t cowardice young man.

She must have gone through hell, I hope she’s found peace.


Some humans are so heartless.

Dami12345:


Yes , insisted.

What's even rape sef.?

Just because a girl wasn't in the mood for sex a man should lose his life or precious years because he insisted.

Sex is sex whether the girl says yes or no.
The only thing I would say is different is discomfort for the lady for a few mins because she wasn't ready or given enough money or lies to lie down on her back.


So is humanity saying that a man should die or spend precious years wasting away the best parts of his life which could be used to promote humanity just because some woman said so?

Do women rule men now? That a simple discomfort of a girl become a matter for men to die.

The only strict offense should come of a guy who disvirgins a girl because the lady could chose to be a virgin all her life, however for a girl having sex regularly what is rape?
Just another sessions where she felt like saying no?

While we are all being stupid Can prositutes be raped?

What rubbish.

Humblesam:


Are you sure she is your wife or you're telling us a story here... what's the meaning of "after one"?
Forgive me,you sound childish here.
And I hate stuff like " my family this, my family that" in marriage issues.
For me...My marriage is fucking my business and the woman am married to...NO THIRD PARTY.
NO one sent me.

luminouz:

Come in here deareie....I wanna tell u something!!

Nedfed:
Every good mother deserve that,
Wish my mum was alive

RexTramadol1:
I've faked almost everything in church




Fell down to remove isolenu




Spoke in tongues to collect Winners' certificate




Buh I bliv some r real.

Austema:
There is no limit to what alcohol can do, a man came home drunk and he looked at his wife and said; you look familiar

mimimile93:


Hello how are you doing?

Dami12345:


Be lying to yourself, you that the only topics you have on nairaland in block letters are your search for MR RIGHT.

You will always find guys, even " engagement" but no husband. Trust me its not a curse. Shilo awaits you.

Dami12345:



I disagreed.
Violence is the root of law,
Violence brings fear, fear makes everyone walk in line or face the consequences,

The fear of the lord is the beginning of wisdom.
God supports isreal, isreal uses violence freely.

A husband should be able to correct his wife, a wife should walk away should she believe the husband is overdoing it.

benfluleck:


If that was my daughter and I saw that post the broda is getting locked up, by posting it on social media you have only made the evidence stronger maybe then he would learn some sense. This is how someone's daughter will die and start from a small slap.

Adesolomon2014:


At least two trousers is berra dan one naw
Haba, i no vex...lets try it when we marry naw. marry me, will u?���

Dami12345:



Sometimes I wonder if you girls have brains?
I mean can anyone be this stupid.
Lemme humor you.

In what situation can a guy lay his hands on a girl.

In what situation can a husband to the same.

Adesolomon2014:


Uhmmm, you started making sense from your 1st sentence. The remaining sentences made me realise i quoted a d**k sucker. As if you know me, moroms like you possess head with no brain. Am sure you are one of those chanting small gal big god slogan, destiny stealers are on the lookout for ya...lets meetup so you can confirm if i possess just one trousers

Dami12345:



Lol, YOU WILL SEARCH FOR MY RIGHT TILL YOU DIE!!!

NA ONLY MY LEFT YOU GO SEE...

milemimi93:


shut the F up!
What he said is the truth.
Y'all ho.es are useless and detestful

Adesolomon2014:


It will gradually not immediately.
People like Dangote, Bill Gates are very prudent in their way of spending, they believe every money spent must usher in money not the oda way round.



Its either you are the 'said' gal or probably you are friends with the 'said' gal. Be sensible for once plus am sure you are still in ur fada's aus...keep up with this altitude and trust me you go rot fr ya papa aus.
When you are done dreaming, den u will know 'this is nigeria' not some 'organised countries' as you may call it....even though Nigeria is bad, we still got etiquette to imbibe

benfluleck:
What happened to just talking to each other like human beings instead you resulted to animalistic behaviour and strike a fellow human being. I'm sorry I can not defend this at all. Waste or no waste, if someone does you wrong you talk to tell them and severely warn them you don't hit them as this will only lead to disaster down the road

alignacademy:


Thankfully he is still fit and not reaching us from a hospital bed, begging for donations for an expensive surgery

With his wealth of experience, he could comment on boxing matches on a sports channel

Now this does NOT justify depriving him of remuneration for services rendered. Pay the man his dues.

Best comment on this thread! I like your angle. Very true and reasonable

But in the mean time, he can still avoid going hungry...