₦airaland Forum

Vivere:
They have started playing the victim card again. Don't these people ever think? Do they feel the current fuel scarcity is not affecting people from other ethnic groups as well? I know people who spent 5 hours on the queue today, just to be able to get fuel for their cars. And no, they were NOT Igbo! So what is Ohaneze talking about? What kind of thing is this, for goodness sake?

jobaltol:
Thank God no life was lost...
I pray that as the year goes to an end...may any of us or our relatives die before the year runs out in Jesus name

kenex4ever:
it's so sad
I feel your pain
She must have been sleeping with d man either in nigeria or in d US.
It's sad, yes you cheated but i think it was most likely a fling but women cheat with feelings and love.

It's hard to trust her

My opinion
Give her distance but don't chase her out
Tell her you are not connected to her again
Make her suffer
Take care of d baby n provide for them as usual but with no physical contact with her.
Let dis happen for at least six6 months.


She will regret her actions
She will need u
Then let her tell you d truth of what really happened both nigeria and in d US
If she is honest enough
Then forgive her.

dingbang:
But you cheated on her...even had sex with a girl...

And now your wife is just only chatting with someone else you are here boiling like molten magma ....


See God is not stupid ok... He has allowed the devil to come into your marriage which you started the adultery.. You are the one that needs to seek for mercy

hayfay:
you getting what you desire is not impossible with God. how are you sure you won't end up getting MR LEFT with your demand.tell it to God and forego some attributes for later.

StPete:
Do you have a house and a car yourself? How about all the other perfections that guys like myself will look out for like big boobs, straight legs, beautiful accent, high iq and the list is endless.

Better to marry a man who's got prospects, at least a graduate and build things together than a man who has already acquired most of these things. Lemme tell you, any guy who has those things you mentioned can practically get any girl he wants on the street without needing to come online. Speaking from experience

hayfay:
also,a lady does not do the searching, rather she waits for her man.

Tosinex:
What she wants is what she asked for, the bible says ask and it shall be given unto you, and I don't think she's asking for much and probably she may get it because she's a young lady with good prospect. Guys also have their own preferences too in a lady but the most important is how helpful will she be as an helpmate, if she can scale through that then I don't think she has any issue. And I think she might also want to pull down her ego that keeps making her not seeing what she wants in a guy. All the same best of luck.

yhemster:
Really? you go wait tired.
@OP, in opinion @24, enjoy ur singleness. Don't be hard on urself finding a Mr.

majekoam:
Looking at the criteria I only lack two things.

So close.

Lover of God- Check
Caring- Check (I believe so)
Yoruba- Check
Presentable- I believe so
Car - Have one but technically not my own.
Good house- As above
Good income- Check
Good prospects- For you to decide
Height- 6 foot
Lover of Music - Good music.
Age - 28

Just one point. God never gives the finished article... We are all seeds. we grow at different rates, we flourish at different times and produce different fruit. If your search ejects prospective suitors based on things that can change so quickly then the search is probably flawed.

Larrey:
Hmm. I pay my tithe and Not supporting or opposing daddy freeze, but the pastors should explain more to us about tithe with Bible verses.

dayo2me:
the probability of you getting a suitor or a good prospect as it were in the next 10years is 0.000000001 if you don't open your eyes to the reality on ground you might end up like aunty kemi olunloyo. if you don't swallow your pride and lower your standard even the guy that has what you want will just see you as someone who is bereft of wife material in which it is obvious in your post. look beyond those things you are looking for and make the most out of the man your heart goes for. don't end up in the hands of players. don't think you are smart enough to know the intent of all the guys that come to you.


wake up sis.


expatiated??

good.

enjoy your search while it last.

dayo2me:
you had better lower your standard, i sense a very bad omen for ya if you don't.

Hi guys,

I am a 25-years old white male who will be relocating to Lagos in a while because of my work. I will be spending some time in the city and naturally I am interested to meet some new people. As I am single, I will also be interested to establish a relationship with a lady on my or around my age.

I have never dated a black lady before, but I feel excited to try that as the Nigerian ladies look quite sweet, charming and athletic.

In your opinion, do Nigerian girls like white guys and are they open to date them? Should I have any concerns regarding dating a Nigerian lady or virtually could you give me some useful tips how to date a Nigerian girl?

I am quite new in this forum, so I am asking out of interest and curiosity only. Please do not interpret my question as a provocative or meant to offend - this is of course not the case. I just would like to orientate myself as I come from the other end of the world and I am anything but aware of the local thinking in Nigeria.

Best regards,
Peter