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See where boko haram or bandits or even unknown gun men for go strike wey we for get unending joy and celebrations fa. 2 wicked, useless and evil people on earth.
I have just handed over a 22 years old son to the mother, whom by birth was not my biological child as claimed by his mother. Raymond's mother mrs Helmina made this open confession in the presence of my family elders, & her cousin sister mrs Mercy Ogounga, she claimed. 'I was impregnated by my father's next door neighbour somewhere in port harcourt'. The man is from Nembe & not Peremabiri in Southern Ijaw Lga.
Though the boy's mother insisted that I adopt him as my child since she had not mentioned any other name as his father from birth. But I declined the offer & insisted the boy be taken to his real father. I took the child when the mother abandoned him to my relatives in small village called Onyoma at the age of 11 months. He had grown to be a man under my watch & went to one of the most expensive schools (Lead British International Schools) in Abuja, from primary to secondary.
Raymond school fees alone was N970,000.00 as of when he finished from secondary school. But that wasn't the most painful side of the story, the most painful side of the story was losing someone you onced shared as family, not because death took him away, but that you can not retain him because of birthrights that he is no long your child. In 2018, i have built a 4 bedroom flat in the village for Helmina's family as Raymond's mother. Though I did out of free will & I do not regret my desire & share of goodwill. Though, it is painful.
You know what it means to bring up a child like a king, in the kind of comfort every poor or rich father will wish for his kids, only to end up that the child was another person's own & not yours, this is painful. But just like I cannot share the love of my children with anyone, so equally I will not mix up my bloodline with another person's blood as mine when God knows he is not, no I can't. Imagine when the elders of the family asked, 'how old was the pregnancy when you took steps to change the father from your father's next door neighbour to Paul Eris'? '4 months old' she replied. Are you saying one can just wake up to accept a 4 months old pregnancy without proper investigations to ascertain the true nature of the child', the elders asked again?
No sir, I once had an abortion for him, 9 months after, I came back with this very one & tell him it was not properly removed, so the belly floated up', Helmina answered.So what was his react -ions, they asked? He argued that the child was not his own right from birth, but I abandoned the child with his far relatives at Onyoma community when the boy was 7 months old & ran to port harcourt, that was how he went back to carry the child' .. Helmina replied. Well, I have tried to keep the pain since then, knowing life is pain, & pains are signs of courage in every beautiful life you intend to make. Don't get angry, don't fight or rush pain, as long as pain van teach you gently as it can do to the other person.
Just like no one will say to hold a permanent empty heart is easy, I also don't want to confront it. This pain is my privilege, I don't want to continue to get a grip on it. The worst is to get killed by silence, some pains hurt but silence kills. I have tried to turn cold after asking the mother to return the boy to his biological father, & that will give me an immense pleasure, but people still keep the feelings like he is my son, this is why am turning up. Please Raymond is no more my son, accept it & let's move on. To me, he looks very irritating because i cannot adopt him as his mother wished. We shared all the love for 22 years, we can't continue boy, bye!!!
Where EreluRoz dey? Because na her type of one sided supported story wey she dey like be this.
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[quote author=EreluRoz post=130161368]I don't even believe all these DNA issues everywhere again, it's beginning to look so unreal. Do DNA in Nigeria at your own peril.[/quote
But, your believe in our Nigeria panadol and paracetamol??
EreluRoz: As much as I love asiwaju he is not impressing me yet, he needs to do better. His appointees are wash and incompetent, there's no good governance if the citizens are crying daily in hardship. Meanwhile this doesn't mean Obi is the solution, he's another big pretentious thief.
It won't be tough, some cur"sed people will still follow him
You can say that again. E.g that yeye guy name reno, Him dey another country dey enjoy their government and from there dey praise this evil thinking,wicked and devilish government of Nigeria.
Ohh, how I wish he can be bundled and return back to Nigeria.
EreluRoz: I didn't read but there's nothing wrong in rejecting a broke guy and later accept him if he becomes rich, women and all other female creatures are designed to go for the highest bidder, even fowl won't let cock climb unless he feeds her.
EreluRoz: Sometimes seperation or divorce is the best and only way out, some women die young because they are ashamed of being called a divorcee.
Take a look at May Edochie Yul's ex wife, would she have stayed in a union with that toxic yul who is always oppressing her or she should remain in a situation that brought mysterious death to his healthy son?
So sometimes it's best to just walk away and live a peaceful life. I don't even see divorce as anything.
When I get married and my husband starts to misbehave thinking I'll stay and be praying and fasting to remain miserable, he go just go work come back to meet me no more, God knows I can't endure foolishness all in the name of marriage and I won't be ashamed of anything sef. I kuku love my father's house, so any slight opportunity I don japa run go back to my father's house where I would be loved without being miserable. Make that my mother no sha pursue me back kos kolework.
, . Madam make you kuku no marry ooo ,just remain for that your papa house wey you say you like so much. Because marriage no be moi, moi or zee world
Dcass: I lost everyone and everything dearest to me I lost my husband I lost my kid I lost my phone And am suffering too harsh the condition is going to end me too. I Don't want to die in silence that is why I said I should talk to somebody. Am starving help me.
nifemi25: Honestly I thought of wiping my phone off this morning...... Imagine having almost 150 contacts on phone and no one among them can send you just 2k when in need of it... What's the advantages of having many contact on phone whereby none can assist you when in need.....
FarSide: Hello fam, after my last year's ordeal, I decided to settle down. I asked my girl to move in with me. We've been together for like 4 months now but the problem is that she doesn't want me to talk to any lady whatsoever
I mean she charges at lady that comes close to me, no matter who. First was the day I met my married sister with her son close to our compound; my girl doesn't know she's my sister cos she doesn't stay around and they never met. She almost pounced on my sister. I told her she's my sister but she still doubted. I got angry because her action was embarrassing to me.
This week I saw a friend close to our gate on a very busy road, I stopped to say hi. We greeted and parted. I never knew my girl was watching us; she charged at the girl and demanded to know what business she has with me. The girl told her she has no business with me and my girl warned her to stay away from me or she will naked her next time she sees her around me. She me inside and started a fight. Took my phones switched it off and I lost a contract cos my client called while my phone was off.
The worst part is that she knows all the guys on our street, both married and single are her friends. So even buy her stuffs/gifts but I can't talk to anyone for any reason
I've been thinking it's a terrible mistake having this girl in my life. I have never been happy that she's around, I prefer staying outside to coming home. I've gone to see her people once but ever since she started all these drama, I've lost the zeal to continue anything with her.
Can anyone advise me on how to handle this issue please
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Chei, Wetin make me even read this kind topic sef. Honestly, I don dey vex for myself
Electricity has greatly improved. The major current problem now is pricing. The subsidy keeps mounting and FG knows it's not sustainable to keep the subsidies. If people price electricity well and pay for it they will demand for the best service but if FG keeps subsidising it there will be too much wastages and inefficiency like predominates before now.
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I know. It's only you that will always compliment and see positive reasons with all and any pains inflicted on the poor masses by this government.
Pls, let me ask you, how much are you been paid, or how much are you given to always paint the government floop as good?.
Where did the power improved and how did it improved??
Honestly, I am so bitter and always angry with your comments. I don't know you, but you are making me hate you with my all.
Companies are folding up, you are telling me its fine and due to competition,
Insecurity and killings in every part of the country and you are telling me ,fine.
Inflation is bitting deeper and you are telling me government is bringing good policies,
Standard of education has fallen and not affordable for most families and you telling me its good
Good and affordable Health system has died and you are happy
Do you agree with acclaimed kickboxer, businessman, philosopher and influencer Andrew Tate?
always thought sex was kinda gay, all this feel good shit always felt weird to me. Same as dating a girl, you literally have to humiliate yourself and pretend to be all nice and kind and soft when you have a gf, that's gay as Bleep.
If it were for me I would just choose some inteligent girl, smack her in the head with a rock and lock her in my basement where I would have sex wiith her once every 9 months, soon after her giving birth, my penis would be inside that pussy, cumming and making another baby, sex is for procreation, not recreation.
RickyJesus: Black people need to learn how to take pride in things because they are good, not just because they are old.
African languages are regressive, primitive and backwards. They serve no purpose but to divide African nations and cause hostility between peoples who are essentially the same. This is 2024 what the hell is the value of a language that doesn't even have a word for yellow, or have any measure of degree or even a vocabulary beyond a 10 year old level? Language is the fabric of thoughts and one who has a primitive, backwards language will have primitive and backwards thoughts.
This is why all pointless African tribes on this maps should be eliminated and formed into a few major groups; Lingala, Hausa, Swahili, Amharic, Somali, Arabic, Yoruba and Igbo. The only other language used in Africa should be English.
What the hell is so good about these "African cultures and traditions" anyway? Where these not the same cultures and traditions that left us 600 years behind the rest of the world? Wake the hell up and cut away this silly degenerate nonsense. It is only a hindrance to our development. We can start new cultures and new traditions, this trash doesn't have value just because its old.
GistMedia0: At a wedding party, everyone was having fun until the bride shocked everyone by firing a gun into the air. She was good at shooting, which surprised everyone.
The groom was also surprised. He didn't know his bride could handle a gun so well. At first, he smiled, but then he looked confused.
Even though he was confused, he tried to smile again. But you could tell he was thinking about something.
Na all those yeye boyfriends dey use midnight calls disturb person. I hate that thing? Me that likes my sleep.
I never really engaged in midnight calls cos I would have done all my calls with the office landline during the day. So I avoid midnight calls.
Na student boyfriends de use that thing pass and me I was already a working class then and only deal with working class men that we talk on phone during official hours. With my chairman landline o...
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! By the time they're through with Palestine ehn, Palestinians would wish they never had a problem with Israel 
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