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Romance / Re: Please Guys What Advice Do You Have To Give On This Issue by Fidecoo(m): 9:17pm On Feb 12
Meektunz:
you spoke well brother.... Do you know that I told her to pack her things so I could return her to her parents house but she refused. Since morning I've been trying. What do you think is the next option?
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At this level, my advice for you will be, no matter how head strong/ adamant she will be, definitely she must have someone who she listens to or have regards for, so I will advice you invite that person, make your final stand or decision known to them.
And inform them of your next line of actions.
I believe by this, something positive will be achieved.
Atimes in life, we need to let go of somethings.
Romance / Re: Please Guys What Advice Do You Have To Give On This Issue by Fidecoo(m): 11:11am On Feb 12
Meektunz:
I've been living with my wife for over five years with the ups and downs of marriage, we are blessed with 2 children. Right now it has gotten to a stage where i really need us to part ways for my mental health because she has been a torn on my flesh. Insulting me when she likes, lack of respect, insult my dead parents etc... Just yesterday there is nothing she didn't do just so i can raise my hand to beat her, but i warned her to please avoid me and she said she won't avoid me and the highest i can do is to kill her and if i do, prison is waiting for me.... Anytime i make attempt to divorce her, people keep on begging and advising me saying for the sake of the children growing up in a broken home we shouldn't separate, but my question is, will i sacrifice my mental health and keep a marriage that torments and frustrates me just because i don't want my children to grow with the trauma of a broken home? I am taking her back to her parent tomorrow... Please I need honest advice. Thank you!
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So, you want them to grow with dead or in prisoned parents??

Since option of dead and prison has been mentioned in the marriage, I think a thorough solution/decision should be considered b4 it becomes too late.

From the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh.
My advice/opinion though.

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Romance / Re: Please Guys What Advice Do You Have To Give On This Issue by Fidecoo(m): 11:11am On Feb 12
Meektunz:
I've been living with my wife for over five years with the ups and downs of marriage, we are blessed with 2 children. Right now it has gotten to a stage where i really need us to part ways for my mental health because she has been a torn on my flesh. Insulting me when she likes, lack of respect, insult my dead parents etc... Just yesterday there is nothing she didn't do just so i can raise my hand to beat her, but i warned her to please avoid me and she said she won't avoid me and the highest i can do is to kill her and if i do, prison is waiting for me.... Anytime i make attempt to divorce her, people keep on begging and advising me saying for the sake of the children growing up in a broken home we shouldn't separate, but my question is, will i sacrifice my mental health and keep a marriage that torments and frustrates me just because i don't want my children to grow with the trauma of a broken home? I am taking her back to her parent tomorrow... Please I need honest advice. Thank you!
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So, you want them to grow with dead or in prisoned parents??

Since option of dead and prison has been mentioned in the marriage, I think a thorough solution/decision should be considered b4 I becomes too late.

From the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh.
My advice/opinion though.

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi, Atiku Swimming In Wealth, Yet Nigerians Drown In Poverty - APC Group by Fidecoo(m): 9:53pm On Feb 10
Politics / Re: Protests: FG Mulls Food Import If Hunger Persists by Fidecoo(m): 9:56am On Feb 09
Islie:
•Orders release of 102,000 metric tonnes of rice and maize •Threatens hoarders of foodstuffs



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/02/protests-fg-mulls-food-import-if-hunger-persists/

Mumu and wicked government.
Robbing Peter,to pay Paul.

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Politics / Re: Voters Protest In Enugu As Inec Commissioner Replaces Original Result Sheets by Fidecoo(m): 10:07pm On Feb 03
deavicky:
no worry as you like the state of this country. continue to support evil, if the bad government is not affecting you, I'm confident it affecting people in ur Village. Very soon it will hit you in a way u never imagined.


God bless you my brother.
I had wanted to answer him, but you just spoke everything I wanted to say.
Only time will tell,
Ask the people of Ekiti and kwara.

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Vs Angola: Peter Obi With Nigeria Supporters Club (pics) by Fidecoo(m): 8:09pm On Feb 02
yemmight:
You don carry your bad luck go meet our Eagles abi?
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Shame, shame, shame,

Sheeeeeeeme!!.

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Vs Angola: Peter Obi With Nigeria Supporters Club (pics) by Fidecoo(m): 8:07pm On Feb 02
yarimo:
Peter obi has carried his badluck to them undecided undecided undecided he must be arrested if Angola win the match undecided undecided
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Shame ,shame ,shame,
Sheeeeeeme!!.

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Visits Nabeeha's family, Condoles With Folashade Ariyo (Photos) by Fidecoo(m): 9:51pm On Jan 30
ElSudani:


40 people, mostly Ibos were massacred in Owo, he never went there, not even a condolence message.
I am not fooled by his recent shenanigans.
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Hahaha,
Oga rest na, the way you just carry this Peter obi matter for head like gala enn.

Let's be honest for once, please and please, just tell me the truth, what are you/we enjoying in the government you are seriously defending?
Business / Re: Unilever Nigeria Stops Production, Sales Of Omo, Lux by Fidecoo(m): 10:16pm On Jan 19
RingRoadCartel:
According to FreeStuffsNG and his co-travellers, Nigeria will turn into Switzerland in a matter of days now. Food is cheap and the naira is stronger than ever at an all time low price of 1360/$

Dangote will sell us fuel at the price of #50/lt soon and a bag of rice will go back to the 8k it was selling for when Jonathan was intimidated out of office barely 9 years ago.
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My brother.
I hope she will still come and praise this situation too. And paint it as a very massive opportunity for the growth of the economy.

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Business / Re: Naira Under-valued In Official, Parallel Forex Markets – Bismarck Rewane by Fidecoo(m): 12:24am On Jan 18
FreeStuffsNG:
His words, “The naira is undervalued by 33.58 percent at the parallel market rate of N1,285 per dollar and 4.16 percent at the NAFEM rate of N890.54 percent.”


He shut down the opinion of some analysts that the country needs to spend less, arguing that what the nation needs to do is to spend efficiently and not less.

Brilliant economic analysis by Mr Bismarck Rewane that many will still fail or struggle to comprehend. Smh.

Keep your naira! Naira is currently undervalued. If you exchange your naira for a USD, you are actually exchanging your wealth for poverty by overpaying for the overvalued US dollar.

Expect a boon in the economy and a massive leap in our national aggregate output. Subsidy removal alone will fetch us about N4 Trillion while free float of the naira fetches Nigeria another N4 trillion, this total N8 trillion would have been converted to US dollars and exported overseas but for the brilliant and patriotic leadership of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu.
May God bless Nigeria for ever! Check my signature for free stuffs!
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I talk am.
Na you go be the number 1 applauder👏 on this kind topic.
Wish you can tell me how much your are been paid to always paint the wrong doings of this government as right.
Smh.
Romance / Re: Sadness Every Evening!!! by Fidecoo(m): 8:48pm On Jan 15
Omowoolata:
Please help I'm always confused and depressed. And this happen to me almost every evening .

Your suggestions and advise I'll appreciate sad angry
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And you still get strength 💪 to dey type and drop topic for social media.

I hail ooo,
Depression king/Queen.

If I tell you my situation this evening enn how driver take fall my hand you go just mellow.

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Food / Re: Will You Accept This Gift From A Neighbor by Fidecoo(m): 8:03pm On Jan 15
SavageResponse:


Go ahead and accept it, she's merely extending a hand of friendship to you.

Just know that you will have to reciprocate the gesture one way or another cos nothing is free in this life grin


My brother,
Even in Freetown ooo(nothing is free).
Crime / Re: Abuja Kidnappers Kill Three Of 10 Victims, Jerk Ransom To N700m(picture) by Fidecoo(m): 7:44pm On Jan 15
[quote author=madridguy post=127953736]Useless bastards with black hearts. Killing innocent children over money.

President Tinubu should come out and rescue them all. Give the bastards the 100 million and let the remain children go back home to their parent..

Shame on the FG for not being able to protect Nigerians. ,





Kai,
Walahi ta lahi,
I am very very happy that this comment is coming from you.
I remember, how you usually praise and support, this government those days no matter their "I don't care for the masses attitude." On handling issues.
My heart aches for the families whose children, siblings and relatives are in captivaty and have been killed.
But, this was what we were trying to be against with our comments and mentions.
Rather, you usually choose to be biased and support wrongly.
God help all of us in from the wicked and just leaders governing us and our country.
Romance / Re: Any Priests That Blesses Sodomy Are Going To Hell All gays Will Burn by Fidecoo(m): 9:24am On Jan 13
mekus15:
Stop misrepresenting the Pope! You created a thread about this same issue earlier. I tried to educated you on what the Pope meant. You still held on to your earlier view. I don't think I will keep teaching you what the Pope meant. But misrepresenting the Pope is not really cool. And I really wonder why you seem to be so obsessed with this issue.
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No need to come here and rant, or expect explanations.
Me i just jejely withdraw myself from catholic.

You can't sweet preach what I know and see that is bad and expect me to agree or accept.

I am against sodomy and will always be against it.

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Politics / Re: Tse Jikina: Gunmen Raze Benue Village, Food, Houses, Valuables Destroyed (Photo) by Fidecoo(m): 2:23pm On Jan 12
fidelmarshal199:
Their governor is busy fighting Benue ApC instead of focusing on securing the lives and properties of his people
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Can the governor be everywhere??
Romance / Re: What Will You Do, If You Discover That Your Only Child Is Gay? by Fidecoo(m): 8:39pm On Jan 10
SocialJustice:
Nothing, there is nothing wrong in being gay.
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God forbids

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Romance / Re: Ladies Which Will You Choose From The Two by Fidecoo(m): 9:28pm On Jan 09
Jeon:
handsome not broken guys.
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You sef need guys??

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Crime / Re: Police Arrest 43-Year-Old Man For Killing His Wife In Yobe by Fidecoo(m): 9:14pm On Jan 07
EreluRoz:
You will start using your fist after shouting, it's a gradual process
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To start with it, I don't have such strength to come and waste on fist actions.
I am too busy and over occupied, to have time for fist actions.

I will just simply walk away after I have poured out my anger and made myself clear.
Religion / Re: CAC Members Join The Tiktok Challenge (Video) by Fidecoo(m): 11:07am On Jan 07
Truths9ja:
Bible forbid it in the Old Testament now.

Deuteronomy 22:5 says: "A woman shall not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman's garment, for all who do so are an abomination to the Lord your God."

So, help me reason "T shirt" matter na
Who suppose dey run am?

Male abi female
Or
Both??
Crime / Re: Police Arrest 43-Year-Old Man For Killing His Wife In Yobe by Fidecoo(m): 11:01am On Jan 07
EreluRoz:
The rate men kill their wives these days is alarming.

All these stems up from hitting a woman, I'll always advise men never to hit a woman no matter the provocation, even if she hits you don't retaliate, just warn her never to try it again but if she continues then you can simply walk out of the relationship or marriage.

Also if a man shouts at you in a relationship please leave him because he'll go further to hitting you in marriage, men's punches are deadly and they are prone to using harmful objects. Agression is a bold sign of physical abuse, be very careful out there. 😢
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Make I no raise voice /shout if I am provoked or angry atimes??
Then what makes me a man or masculine??

Abi, I be kuruma ne??
Family / Re: 2 Spoons: Wife Who Demonstrated Loyalty To Husband Gets Over ₦2M Cash Gift by Fidecoo(m): 10:54am On Jan 07
bukatyne:


What has equality got to do with this?

Or how is the woman 'inferior because she wakes up early to cook for her husband?
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Ok I will tell you.

Can you pls, try and go through comments of some ladies who claim feminist here on nairaland.
They try sending messages that women doing their duties are like "inferior" .

I really don't want to mention names though ,if not.
Family / Re: 2 Spoons: Wife Who Demonstrated Loyalty To Husband Gets Over ₦2M Cash Gift by Fidecoo(m): 9:54pm On Jan 06
I don search up and down this post to see jeon comment.
Men and women can never be equals.
A man is a man
And a woman should be a woman.

It pays to know your stand and status.

Humbleness pays.
Romance / Re: I'm Dying Slowly Because Of Cohabitation by Fidecoo(m): 8:05am On Jan 04
PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we stared living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will her say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please
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You Don go carry tiv lady ba?
The sex will be very very good,
But, the character ,,,,,,,,hmmmmm.
Sorry en.

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Politics / Re: Gov Alia Replies Benue NASS Lawmakers, Says He Helped APC Win In 2023 by Fidecoo(m): 9:35am On Dec 23, 2023
Antoeni:
This Rev Fr is Too Sluggish to Run a Volatile State Like Benue State.
Running a Parish is Different From Governing a State

Pls can you define "sluggish" better ??

Because, a governor paying salaries and pension, constructing roads and discouraging touts in not more than 6months should be applauded and praise.

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Romance / Re: I Don't Want To Be A Feminist Anymore! by Fidecoo(m): 9:58pm On Dec 17, 2023
Animegirl:
I no longer wish to identify as a feminist. Instead, I desire to embrace a more traditional role, focusing on being a wife, taking care of the household, and maintaining my beauty.

I believe in embracing my feminine qualities rather than conforming to masculine traits, drawing inspiration from the creation story in the book of Genesis where Eve was created after everything else in the garden of Eden.

I seek a more nurturing and feminine way of life, desiring to be treated with the care and tenderness as a baby girl that I am.

Signed
Former Feminist.



Hahaha.
Funny you.


Business / Re: Shoprite To Cease Operation In Kano From January 14, 2024 by Fidecoo(m): 6:35am On Dec 15, 2023
Nemere2020:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/nairametrics.com/2023/12/14/shoprite-to-cease-operation-in-kano-from-january-2024/%3famp=1



free stuff NG. Where you dey?oya
Come and praise, paint and glorify this situation as heaven again.
My prayers for you is, may you have a taste of this unfavourable and hellish situation people are going through in this country.
May you see frustration,
Hardship,
Business / Re: Jumia Food To Shutdown In Nigeria From December 2023 by Fidecoo(m): 10:27am On Dec 14, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
Competition is beating them silly! Nigerians are increasingly price-sensitive and not brand sensitive. Why buy Jumia food when you can get it cheaper?


Over a thousand Chinese have built factories worth billions across Nigeria, producing almost all consumer items.

America started its LARGEST consulate globally in Lagos

Chinese investors are building a plant for mining Lithium in Kaduna

Indian Investors are set to complete Nigeria's first steel plant and one of the few on the continent

Local and foreign investors have just built a new seaport and the most significant the nation has ever had

Portuguese investors are funding the high-speed rail link from Nigeria to Niger

A Gambian investor has built the biggest estate in Port Harcourt

An Indian investor has built the biggest Cassava plant in the country

Elon Musks Starlink has launched one of its first continental projects in Nigeria

Microsoft, Facebook, Google, etc have all launched new mega projects in Nigeria.

South Koreans have grown their business with Nigeria to over a billion dollars.

Germans funded the first national comprehensive electricity usage mapping app in Nigeria.

German Siemens are revamping Nigeria's electricity sector.

Spanish companies just recently signed agreements to develop the Gas sector.

Etc etc etc...


NIGERIA IS ON TRACK TO BECOMING A GLOBAL MANUFACTURING HUB BY 2025.

God bless Nigeria for ever!Check my signature for free stuffs!
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I talk am.
Na only you go ever paint this degenerating scenario as a golden opportunity and way forward.

Wait ooo,
Like how much were you or are you been given to glorify this hell fire conditionds this government is putting us in, as a heaven?

Do you even have conscience at all??

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Politics / Re: Agbese Removes Alia's Official Portrait from his Office by Fidecoo(m): 11:11pm On Dec 05, 2023
Machinegun91:
Alia is the the wrong person for Benue state.

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How pls??
Travel / Re: Governor Alia Delivers 100 Buses For Transport In Benue State [Photos] by Fidecoo(m): 12:37pm On Dec 01, 2023
OgaRico:
I think paying State workers every month and when due is better than buying of Bus at least for now especially considering the hunger in the State and knowing fully well that the State is a Civil Servant State.
I'm still wondering how someone like ex-Governor Akume was able to pay workers regularly, establish a company like BL and after him no other Governor of the State has been able to do anything close to what he did.
But that notwithstanding, Suswam is a better Governor than the thief that came after him claiming in 'God We Trust'.


Honestly, alia has really been trying in the area of salary payments.

I was even at the pension board and no pensioner was complaining.

I was really happy seeing smiles on almost everybody's face.

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