Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Date & Go Out With This Kind Of Guy In The Public? (Graphic Pix) by Fidecoo(m): 9:00pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
Blood of God!!. What?? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Are Nigerian Men Becoming Unromantic? by Fidecoo(m): 1:33pm On Jan 14, 2022 |
With the way the country and the economy of the country dey, man fit get remaining space for mind for romance at all so?? |
Politics / Re: New Year Celebration By Nigerian Christians Unjust To Muslims --MURIC by Fidecoo(m): 9:46pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: Man She Met And Made Love With On Same Day Left Her To Get Married The Next Day by Fidecoo(m): 8:17am On Jan 03, 2022 |
Lol!!. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Man She Met And Made Love With On Same Day Left Her To Get Married The Next Day by Fidecoo(m): 8:11am On Jan 03, 2022 |
MissionaryArchi: Lady laments after man she met and made love with on same day left to get married next day A young lady identified with the Twitter handle @Nonhly4 has narrated how she remains heartbroken after a man whom she met on the 26th of December left her on a hotel bed to get married the following day.
Narrating her sad experience to her followers, the young lady disclosed that she was already in love with the young man who had promised to love her forever.
On Twitter, she wrote, “He invited me on the 26th after Christmas booked a room for me, we made love and he told me he loves me and wants to be with me forever.
“On the 27 he disappeared the whole day reason why is that he was getting married, he came back to the hotel and told me to get dressed and go to a party together. I just saw the wedding pictures today, I don’t know what to say or do, I’m just shuttered, I feel like in 2022 I just need to focus on me graduating I can’t breathe, I’m done.” Lol!!. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: There Are No Big Boys On Nairaland,let's All Be Truthful To Ourselves. by Fidecoo(m): 7:03am On Jan 03, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Someone that's Rich, successful and has no business with hardship , If that's all from your above statement ,then we thank God . But, you would have added Good health too. |
Romance / Re: There Are No Big Boys On Nairaland,let's All Be Truthful To Ourselves. by Fidecoo(m): 10:52pm On Jan 02, 2022 |
Pls, what's your definition of "Big boys " ?? 1 Like |
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Romance / Re: Man Who Came From Abroad To Surprise Girlfriend Finds Another Man ‘eating’ Her by Fidecoo(m): 9:46am On Jan 01, 2022 |
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Family / Re: Is It Right For A Married Person To Have A Celebrity Crush? by Fidecoo(m): 6:59am On Dec 30, 2021 |
Let me hear that my wife has a crush in my house, She will just be crushed out of my house.
Yeye. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Should I Ask Her For A Relationship Or Maintain Our Friendship. Pls Help! by Fidecoo(m): 9:48pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
((NL's, I have been living in my area for almost 2 years now. .)) Thought you said you relocated to a new area and you were bored in your Dec 14th topic 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I'm Single And My New Bank Employers Don't Know I'm Pregnant by Fidecoo(m): 9:27pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Dilemma00: Hi guys, I'm in a dilemma right now and since I didn't have anyone to ask or confide in, I had to post this here. I couldn't post this in the job section because my account is new. Kindly read to the end before commenting.
So I just got a job offer from one of the top 3 banks in Nigeria, I've been given documents to print and fill and also given a resumption date. But I'm a bit worried it may end badly. My CV states that I'm single, but I'll be showing up to this job 3 months pregnant. I submitted months notice at my present job because if didn't resign and they found out about my pregnancy, I'd have been fired eventually (missionary org).
My dad coerced me to apply for this banking job last month (I didn't want to because of the pregnancy and single mum tag), but I had to because I didn't want to seem like I was lazy and not making efforts to assist my family (he would have known if I didn't apply), also wasn't hopeful about the job or expecting an offer so I just applied.
So you could imagine my shock when I got a job offer email days ago.
I currently live and work in a different state from my parents so I've not told them about the pregnancy because I'm in a messed up situation. I had the opportunity to abort but my conscience and conviction wouldn't let me, so I insisted on keeping the baby even when my so called boyfriend warned and threatened me to get rid of him/her. Anyway, summary is that he's not going to be part of our lives. Imagine telling my parents this cr@p. That's not the major issue because I know I'd eventually tell me parents.
I'm happy about this job, I'm not worried about my competency as a pregnant lady, I'm good at what I do and I adapt swiftly to any job role no matter the conditions. I'm just worried about how the bank will react. A single and pregnant lady showing up for a new position, the controversy and all that.
Please advise me on what to do from your experience as a bank staff or someone who's witnessed such a situation. Also, do banks have rules concerning things like that?
Thanks. Dear, just find 1 guy do arrangee marriage with him ,and pray for luck 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ibrahim Husseina, Is She A Scammer Or She's Real? by Fidecoo(m): 9:49am On Mar 21, 2021 |
DenreleDave: I agree that the country is truly bad but it wunt be good if some people take advantage of the kindness of people to scam them if at all they are scammers......
Husseina I am not here to call u a scammer but just to be sure that you are not duping and taking advantage of kind people with your story for help.......
We might need someone in makurdi or eve kogi incase she changes location again.... Anyone wiling to help? , Try get her address in makurdi and send it to me. I was also willing to help, But I am still not truly convinced by her stories. Every part of mkd is within my reach. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: The Amount Of Money I Withdrew This Morning For Love (picture) by Fidecoo(m): 6:13pm On Mar 20, 2021 |
Hmmmm, Small pikin wey never start market,don begin say gain want kill am.
You want to show off, abi??
(Shaking my head for you) 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Female Simps Get In Here by Fidecoo(m): 11:51pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
You try,
Oya clap for yourself!! 13 Likes |
Romance / Re: Evil That Men Do : How Desperation Made Woman Snatch My 42 Year Old Spouse - _UK by Fidecoo(m): 5:55pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
mailerange: A business woman from South Africa living in the UK with her spouse, is currently in a dilemma after one Blessing Ejike Anigbogu who runs "Omazara Salon" near World bank, has allegedly snatched her spouse and has cast a spell on him. But unknowing to her UK Is far from her [Read till the end].
I have lived with my spouse for over seven years in UK. We have been living together happily in Europe until one day I noticed a woman flirting with him on the social network -Facebook. She persistently calls my partner’s phone with different numbers every morning 6.00am, chatting him up. When I confronted him, he said there is no relationship. I believed my spouse because he rarely visits (once a year) Nigeria and the communication with Blessing has only been on phone. Prior to the lockdown, I travelled to South Africa while my partner travelled to Nigeria. Apparently, Blessing Ejike Anigbogu retrieved my phone number from Spouse’s phone while he is Nigeria and started calling and insulting me, telling me how she “formatted my mans brain that all that is in his head is her name”. After the lockdown was relaxed, my partner and I returned back to Europe. Blessing Ejike continued calling us, if my partner doesn’t answer she would call me and asking me to leave my man and my home for her. Blessing Ejike persisted on breaking my home. She continued sending nudes and enticing my man further into a relationship with her until eventually he struggled to please me in bed, all he could think about was this girl. Since my Spouse arrived to Europe from Nigeria, he’s never been the same. He no longer socializes with friends, having nightmares all the time. He even thinks I want to kill him. He now isolates himself from friends and family. Blessing Ejike told me that she will deal with me personally, sending me messages threatening that she would certainly take my position as she must reside in UK. She swore to break my home as “she don’t F*** sense commot his brain”. It was revealed by some great men of God, that a spell was indeed cast on Spouse while he was Nigeria. His behavioural pattern is also very clear that a certain influence has been placed on him. I made frantic efforts to contact Blessing’s family & friends in Nigeria to let them know how Blessing Ejike is about to break my home. It was further revealed by Blessings close friend that she dates a lot of men, only from Europe. She is in desperate need to marry a man residing in Europe so she can be able to relocate to Europe. Blessing’s mother specifically apologized for her daughter’s attitude; saying “she wasn’t aware this rubbish is going on” her friends and family are disappointed at her selfish concerns. But there is no stopping Blessing. In September, Blessing called me to apologize and pleaded that she would desist from any form of relationship with my Spouse. Unfortunately, In November, I discovered that Blessing is still secretly communicating with my spouse teasing out private information about our home so she can use it against me. She has also coerced my Spouse into fixing a wedding on the 09th of January 2021 in Nigeria. My spouse family is not happy but now at a point of surrendering. The way the girl don’t have shame she even sent me the wedding pre photos and a copy of the wedding card. Desperate is a understatement in this situation with regards to this girl’s actions. As for my spouse, there is nothing you can tell him, he only listens to Blessing, not even his own family and close friends. We all have spoken, prayed, we are tired. This desperate young girl have actually made a bad bargain because unknowing to her with the status of my spouse he cannot bring her to UK. In this case, when he returns to UK for another 12 months will she remain house girl in the family home or continue to cause drama in my home and I will not have peace? Will she continue with her numerous boyfriends whilst manipulating my man? Does it mean there are no young men that can suit this girl in Nigeria or is this a case of extorting money and surviving her lifestyle? With the information her mother knows why is she not stopping this charade? Dear readers, this is one really complicated matter and surely advice is needed on how to handle the delicate issue. What do you think she should do?
, This matter strong ooo!! |
Romance / Re: Reply As His Friend by Fidecoo(m): 7:21am On Dec 19, 2020 |
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I think she's trying to play a fast one here, she wants a new phone and d guy has to pay, that's if he still wants to b communicating with r, so dumb , Nope. She wants to use the not having a charger as excuse to spend time with another . Because, girls I know for sure won't spend days without phone 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Who Has Tried Jelqing Before? by Fidecoo(m): 6:31am On Dec 19, 2020 |
tobechi74: All forcsex , My dear, you can say that again!!. |
Family / Re: I Dislike My Small Stature by Fidecoo(m): 7:28am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Chei, honestly you are really small ooo!!. Mtchewww!!. If only you know what is bothering us in this country . |
Romance / Re: Me And Babymama, How Its Started by Fidecoo(m): 12:10pm On Nov 21, 2020 |
Phenomenal16: ..lai Muhammad... Abegiii . Confirmento! ! You just understand sharp sharp |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Sends Lady He Has Never Met Lady N300k After She Tweeted “abuja” by Fidecoo(m): 9:29am On Nov 21, 2020 |
No be chidinma, wey live for highlevel be this?? |
Romance / Re: Worst Biscuit by Fidecoo(m): 11:17pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
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Nairaland / General / Re: See The Snake I Killed In My Trousers Pocket!! by Fidecoo(m): 9:05pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
I sure say na female snake. Because of their love for money.
Make una no mind me ooo!!, Na just my observation and opinion oo |
Romance / Re: Worst Biscuit by Fidecoo(m): 8:52am On Oct 23, 2020 |
fati2001: CABIN
BAKERS
,,, You want hungry to kill me, abi? ? |
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Properties / Re: NERC: A Landlord's outstanding Electricity Bills Cannot Be Enforced On A Tenant by Fidecoo(m): 11:24pm On Sep 25, 2020 |
[quote author=Ecne post=94010113]
You mean you didn't add utility bills in your due diligence checks before paying for the house you claim to buy? Well, just get in touch with the Agent with a legal action. It's not too late.[/quote,
Where do I even have that time and strength. For legal stress. |
Politics / Re: INEC Declares Obaseki Winner Of Edo Governorship Election 2020 by Fidecoo(m): 2:55pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Yes oooooo! !!!! EDO NO BE LAGOS OOOO!! 2 Likes |
Properties / Re: NERC: A Landlord's outstanding Electricity Bills Cannot Be Enforced On A Tenant by Fidecoo(m): 6:24am On Sep 17, 2020 |
[quote author=GloShare post=94004181]Nonsense tweet.
Is there anyone who would normally inherit another person's bill?
Maybe Ozo would. Not me.
If NERC wants to show that they are working, they should focus on more relevant matters.
This particular matter is DOA. Only applies to dumb people.[/quote,
My dear they want to force it on me ooo. I bought a house ,and the previous owner is owing JEDC. Now they are insisting I clear it up since they assume I am capable. 329k |
Romance / Re: What Can We Call This? by Fidecoo(m): 11:42pm On Sep 06, 2020 |
I just dey flabbergasted! ! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: An Obnoxious Cultural Practice Is About To Tear Our Relationship Apart by Fidecoo(m): 11:06pm On Sep 06, 2020 |
Give to Ceasar, what belongs to Ceasar! !.
It's their daughter (from that community)you are getting married to and not your daughter.
So respect their customs & traditions since you want to take 1 of their own!!.
Hand wey carry himself go palm oil, Na him palm oil go stain. Unless if you are been force to marry her , Which is never to late to back off.
My little advice and opinion, sha |
Romance / Re: I Need A Girlfriend by Fidecoo(m): 1:11pm On Sep 06, 2020 |
[quote author=fati2001 post=93431314]I need a boy friend . . 6feet with this body shape, not to big.. not to small. [/quote,
Hahaha! !! Hmmmm. |
Romance / Re: How A Nigerian Super Star Proposed To His Fiancee At The Middle Of A Main Road by Fidecoo(m): 11:12am On Aug 16, 2020 |
See as some guys dey take fall our hands ooo. Na by force or must. Public stupidity at it highest!!. 1 Like |