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PoliticsRe: Lo Ba Tan… Obasanjo Defects To APC: Photos Of Defection Party (photo News) by filiks(m): 1:54pm On Jan 29, 2015
Thief is finally gone to where he belongs.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Asked To Be Replaced? by filiks(op): 12:49pm On Jan 29, 2015
barcanista:
I can see that pdp e-trolls are going to the next level of insanity.
OP I sympathise with you, I assure you that President Buhari will pay special attention to our psychiatry hospitals.
I'm guessing you didn't observe the question mark that ended the topic I just posted but if you did, then you, my friend, need, as a matter of urgency, a psychiatric evaluation more than the 'pdp e-trolls'. And erm...it will be more appropriate to say your president in waiting. Thank you, little one.
PoliticsBuhari Asked To Be Replaced? by filiks(op):
Buhari has secretly asked his party chieftains to replace him with another candidate for the forthcoming Presidential election.

He acted on the advise of some APC stalwarts and founding fathers. The source has it that a very close associate to Buhari who pleaded for anonymity said the decision was in best interest of APC.

One of the reasons he gave for taking the painful decision is the certificate scandal in which the matter has been dragged to court and it is evident that buhari may not win the case which would lead to his disqualification at the eleventh hour.

Another reason is the way pdp has tarnished the name of buhari through the released documentary on buhari. He said the video is causing a massive decline in the number of buhari's admirers especially the youths as it was evident in the large turn out in pdp rally in rivers.

While the matter is being concluded, buhari has been given the free hand to name his substitute who must be from the north.

I wouldn't have taken this assertion seriously but for the fact that when everything was seemingly going good in Abia Pdp, my source also told me sometime ago that Alex Otti(an Abia governorship aspirant) would defect to APGA about a month before he actually did. Same source told me this one too so Please I need confirmation! No insults please, I just came across it.
PoliticsRe: My Assessment Of GEJ And Buhari by filiks(op): 5:27am On Jan 29, 2015
madone:
Good talk
am sure u re one of th beneficiaries of youwin and sure p. or u re one of those insulting the president and nothing has been down to u.thank u for the research. if u have done more research u ll also find out that some year back the rule of law had its place in Nigeria, and public office holder had respect for it.what happens to their image and character especially when it appears in the news was, the likes of Alameshia, Patricia ette, james ibori, where examples of a functional government discharging its duty.today we have mor thief stealing an paying bloggers like u to paint their image large for nigerians to read. Nigerian hate Atiku today becos he was exposed and people dont want to make same mistake of voting him into any office .Bode gorge and the rest thieves re asking for our vote. Odua (aviation) Alison (pet. mins) re swimming in the river created by their silent Oga. see sir tell jonathan to give us space we want him out. the painful tin for me is that there is no gud head challenging him. cos buhari is an eeeediot
Well, I am not a beneficiary of YOUWIN, I know a few beneficiaries of the programme though and I must say they'll be forever grateful for that initiative. I am not a paid blogger, these are my views, state yours.

Lol @ 'functional government discharging it's duties'. Permit me to laugh at your statement...Lmao. Ok, please while that 'functional government' was discharging it's duties, why did it not arrest everyone? Why was it only the people on his bad books?


I always disagree with the view that corruption is our major problem. If corruption is our major problem then nobody can amicably solve it as it is a behaviourial flaw. Its a reaction to an action. If a system works; and workers are paid salary, bus is at the bus stop all the time without touts(agbero) to obstruct, the power system is without flaws, school kids do not need to be on the teachers good side to excel, farmers are able to sell their food along side foreign processed food, hospitals are accessible and affordable, transportation is accessible and affordable, after school job expectancy rate is high, etc. Bet me corruption would be reduced. Then; would the stipulated laws guiding these areas of life be implemented. Corruption is a reaction of the people when all systems have been compromised and operated in the survival of the fittest mode.
PoliticsIssue Based Campaign by filiks(op): 5:11am On Jan 29, 2015
In this era of personality attacks, inciting of under-previledged minds and indirect promotion of violence as opposed to issue based campaigns, I dare to be different.

Facts should influence views or opinions and never the other way round. We are blessed to witness amazing technological advancements all over the world, as such, research has been simplified and information is readily available and accessible.

It is therefore disheartening and irritating to find a lot of people still holding onto hearsays and peddling false stories or statements when basic googling could help them.

There's been reports of tremendous economic growth in Nigeria recently,Nigeria became Africa's biggest economy, but so many people dismissed these reports by a wave of the hand saying it is all paper work and the common man is not feeling it. Well, I won't bother you with GDPs and professional terms.

Just look around you, production is peaking!
Importation of cement used to hit over a trillion, but
under GEJ's watch, we have become exporters of
the same product! The likes of Dangote Group,
Ibeto (who OBJ 'crippled' for no logical reason, has
bounced back and is employing Nigerians across
the nation) , Innoson has expanded greatly and
is now into motor production!(I've been to his
factory, Nigerians are employed there plenty!)
ANAMCO is also functional now, Nissan is here now too etc,
they all happened under GEJ's watch.

These companies have real products, real
Nigerian employees!

Now I don't want to bother
you with train transportation that he gave new life, or the HARVEST OF ENTREPRENEURS going
on in the name of YOUWIN program which will
create a multiplier effect that will out-live GEJ!

Nigerians did not experience the usual sky-rocketing of the price of rice during the festivities last year, even when dollar to naira exchange rate was high,rice was still sold at about 9000 naira per bag. Every Nigerian saw it, felt it, enjoyed it but not too many knew why it was so. It's because of the transformation in the agricultural sector, rice of same quality as the acclaimed foreign rice is now being produced in Ebony and other parts of Nigeria!

GEJ cut out the middle man and empowered farmers directly to move agriculture to the next level.

Need i mention more? ...wait, we can do this all day
and all night, the list is endless but there's more
to be done so we want more! As we go to the polls in a few weeks, vote wisely. #GEJ2015
PoliticsMy Assessment Of GEJ And Buhari by filiks(op): 4:17am On Jan 29, 2015
We Nigerians lack reading culture and have developed an attitude of swallowing things line, hook and sinker. I asked myself several questions before identifying with GEJ’s candidature. I took a stroll down the memory lane from 1983/85, I studied some high profile cases including Alex Ekwueme, Tai solarin, Sam Mbakwe. I studied Buhari’s economic strategies which later exacerbated our nation, I studied his intolerance to other religions,freedom of the press. I studied his decisions that bother on student unionism, corruption etc I studied his uprightness . Recently I have studied his speeches, a sharp reflection of his state of mind, have also studied the intents of his new found lovers in the likes of Atiku, Tinubu, Amaechi etc. Our problem is the doubt over the government we set over ourselves while thinking we are being critical of government. Our problem in Boko haram is not about the competence of Jonathan but our disunity of purpose. Johnsun wrote , while GEJ was comfortably on top of the situation in 2012/13, Mr Buhari and other Northern elders were accusing him of partiality against the North and recommended that GEJ should stop military offensive against the terrorists in favour of amnesty. Admiral Nyako termed it Ethnic cleansing. Jonathan acceded to the demands of this section of the country for unity but in the process the terrorists found time to regroup and become more formidable. Now, the same people who asked GEJ to soft pedal has now turned the atrocities of the terrorists to a campaign point, this is unfortunate. Its is treachery when a father asks a son to jump from a roof top that he will catch him and when he jumps , he not only fails to catch but set spikes for him. The fact that Buhari called for a lesser offensive against Boko haram and recommended amnesty as was done for the militants , should dis-entitle him claiming the government is not effective in the fight, citing non use of lethal force. In saner societies, he will be ashamed for blowing hot and cold at same time on same issue. He would’ve stock to his advice or apologise for wrong advice. He told us he borrowed #27.5 million for a nomination form but he did not tell us how he plans to pay back. The identity of the bank, manager, account officer has not been made public. It will interest you to know that he collects #2.3 million on monthly basis as his retirement benefits , yet no foundation for the poor, empowerment of any kind, no scholarship whatsoever has been recorded. He told us he has # 1millionin his account ,alas, his daughter pays €30000 yearly in a foreign university, equivalent of #8 million. He claimed to have fought corruption but under his nose Abacha emptied our treasury. I do not wish to remember the 52 cases, Ibrahim Awwal’s £14 million. He once argued that all ACN governors are corrupt, he said they award 1 kilometer road at # 1billion. He accused El-rufai , Atiku, Bisi Akande Tinubu etc of corrupt practices. The good news is, they are now change agents and their sins washed away. A thief and a beneficiary of a stolen product are culpable of same crime. Suffice it to say Buhari is corrupt. What economic decision has he made? Stopping Jakande Lagos mono rail at the detriment of $72 million tax payers money? Dismissing 30000 soldiers to cut cost, stopping of Ajaokuta steel?. Now he has promised #5000 to unemployed at least to encourage lack of creativity and idleness, he has promised to feed school children, help Ebonyi state produce more yams and stabilize price of oil in the foreign market . If any voter can employ the like of Buhari to head his organization especially on foreign engagements with experts , then the person mean no good for Nigeria. On GEJ, I have noticed a style, steady and noiseless transformations. I can remember what Shagari said over the weekend. We cant get it at once but we are getting it. Have you asked how many people Sure-P , youwin have employed? Have you noticed the decline in the importation of Agric produce? Have you seen the airports, railways and road networks? You believe your votes can count, any kudos for that? Have you studied the automobile policy that has allowed Innoson, kia, Nissan etc build and assemble cars in Nigeria aimed at employing citizens? Have you accessed the BOI, Agric and SME loans? Have you noticed the number of ghost workers detected through IPPS thereby saving #46 billion? What of fertilizer fraud , heard anything from that quarter? Use of technology. Have you tried to say thanks for the 12 universities built, over 130 Almajiri schools, over 60 healthcare facilities, improvement in power generation, gender equality etc? What has APC done in their various states? Which APC state is enjoying free education?. Yesterday Buhari complained of the 16 woeful years under PDP. Was he referring to Atiku, Amaechi, Gemade, Rochas, Tambuwal , Sylvia, Kwankwaso, Saraki,Ogbe etc? Buhari represents a change to dackness. ‪#‎GEJ2015‬# - Chijioke Uzomba
PoliticsRe: Premium Times, Punch, Others Withdraw News On Release Of Buhari Certificate. by filiks(m): 10:34am On Jan 22, 2015
Rilwayne001:
here is another link/site: www.tribune.com.ng/news/top-stories/item/27382-buhari-s-school-releases-his-wasc-results


http://saharareporters.com/2015/01/21/government-college-katsina-releases-buhari's-academic-credentials

Now what nexr? undecided
In a bid to argue, people lose their minds. Please read the post again and maybe, just maybe you will observe that the OP mentioned specific media companies, not sahara campaigners ...sorry, I meant sahara reporters ... woah! its so hard schooling these people.
PoliticsRe: Premium Times, Punch, Others Withdraw News On Release Of Buhari Certificate. by filiks(m): 12:03am On Jan 22, 2015
Rilwayne001:
http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/175384-breaking-katsina-college-releases-buharis-%E2%80%8Bwasc-results.html
Did you visit the site earlier when the news was published? So you did not notice the removal of the fake documents from the site unlike the way they flaunted it in the beginning? Nawao.
PoliticsRe: Katsina College Releases Buhari’s WASC Results by filiks(m): 11:32pm On Jan 21, 2015
Remarkable:
you used the right word, they're blind followers; desperate, I must add; because it seemed like they were just waiting for anything... even a leaf from the tree or tissue paper was making them hold their breath, and now this nonsense probably done by Tinubu is released, they are all running amurk...like there is something to celebrate? talk about celebrating mediocrity, celebrating falsifying of affidavits, as you noticed ... deception can sweep so easily, the minds of hundreds upon hundreds of people.

Well, by God's grace, the change we need will come, but (let me not swear by heaven,) it definitely is not Buhari that will usher that change, in.
Exactly! Real Change is a process that can only come through well articulated policies, implemented consistently over time!!
PoliticsRe: Katsina College Releases Buhari’s WASC Results by filiks(m): 9:43pm On Jan 21, 2015
sincerenigerian:
This shows Buhari is a man of honor. How can politics blind us to the extent where we question the profession of our military men and women who laid their lives to make Nigeria a sovereign country? Jonathan and his gangs have politicized the Nigerian military to the extent that politics is now the order of the day. This release of result should now put everything to bed.

Lest I forgot, Buhari was a student and a graduate of prestigious military colleges in UK, India, and USA. The man (Buhari) did not even list any of these feats in his quest for the position of presidency. That shows the humility of the man. If I were Buhari, I wouldn't hesitate to list my certificate from those three oversees military colleges. From my own understanding, Buhari never took this thing seriously because from the onset, he has always believed PDP and Jonathan are only up to mischief.

The question now is: why would anyone think Buhari was admitted into these oversees prestigious military colleges without graduating from secondary school? Any right thinking person should know that it is not possible to get into those prestigious schools without graduating from secondary school. Why would anyone call our military institution into question for the admittance of Buhari into military service? It is now obvious that Jonathan and his crew are only interested in ridiculing the general when they asked the military officer who addressed press conference yesterday to go public. Only the court is vested with such power.

Buhari is more than qualify to vie for the seat of presidency. He has satisfied the academic requirement for that position. Buhari will become the president by February 15. Buhari will reposition our military again and make it a professional military force that they were known for until about ten years ago.
Did you even take a look at that trash? And to observe 700 and something people liked your comment goes a long way to show how blind majority of our people are. Damn!
PoliticsRe: Buhari certificate scam busted. by filiks(m): 5:17pm On Jan 21, 2015
Ajiswaggs:
Yes, this is me mobilising votes for the Opposition, whoever your opposition is. 40 days to presidential elections. If you're votingremember this factors;1. The chibok Girls2. NNPC Scam3. Police pension fund4. Missing 20Billion5. $9million Arms deal6. Bomb Blasts7. Immigration job scam8. Petroleum pump price9. Devaluation of Naira10. Oil theft11. Power outage12. Selling of Nepa13. Selling of Refineries14. Skyrocketed Nepa Bills15. ASUU & poly Strike16. Doctors Strike17. National Assembly tragedy19. Stella's oduah Aviation Scam20. Kerosene subsidy--------------They Didn't Raise 21Billion for Ebola,They Didn't Raise 21Billion for dilapidated hospitals,They Did't raise 21Billion for Military Weapons againstBoko Haram,They Didn't raise 21Billion for flood Victims,They Didn't raise 21Billion for children dying of Vaccinepreventable disease,They didn't raise 21Billion for the homeless.BUT they all gathered to raise 21Billion for another 4 Years of INEPTITUDE, IMPUNITY AND BAD GOVERNANCE
Think about it.
Was Ebola not stopped even without your 21 billion?
PoliticsRe: Buhari's Certificate: Controversy Stayed Too Long-barcanista by filiks(m): 3:39pm On Jan 21, 2015
Sincerity? Integrity? And yet on the other hand, 'my certificates are with they army', then the army spoke about the content of his file, he then said; 'I assumed all along that my certificates were with the army'. Has the definition of sincerity CHANGED?
Christianity EtcRe: Understanding The Concept of Tithing by filiks(m): 6:34am On Nov 04, 2014
Zikkyy:
Tithe are not meant for the poor? What about Deuteronomy 14:28-29? You think God lied when he said the tithe should be shared with the poor?

Deuteronomy 14:28-29(KJV)
28 At the end of three years thou shalt bring forth all the tithe of thine increase the same year, and shalt lay it up within thy gates:
29 And the Levite, (because he hath no part nor inheritance with thee,) and the stranger, and the fatherless, and the widow, which are within thy gates, shall come, and shall eat and be satisfied; that the Lord thy God may bless thee in all the work of thine hand which thou doest.
Thank you for this. They conveniently omit this scripture whenever tithing is being discussed and stick to '...meat in my house ...' scripture cos only the 'keeper of the house' gains from that scripture. To me, that is dubious.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Took Bank Loan To Purchase APC Nomination Form by filiks(m): 8:10pm On Oct 17, 2014
I just hate foolish talk!

Please which bank gives loans like that without being very corrupt?
Under what category or product will the loan be documented?
What was the collathuh
Or did he take the loan for another purpose on paper but will use it for APC nomination form?
Yet some fools will comes here to tell how he is 'not corrupt'.

A lot of slow pokes in this damn country.
Music/RadioRe: On Psquare And Why Naija Artistes Will Never Break Into US Market. by filiks(m): 3:32pm On Oct 09, 2014
RedEboe:
Till date I have been unable to watch Psquare's Ejeajo music video from begining to end for no other reason than the fact that i find that video/song utterly disgraceful.

Most devoted/diehard Psquare fans feel the same way too, but many will not say a word; some keep on replaying Ejeajo, hoping the song will eventually grow on them...its not happening.

Psquare has released its first major flop and the inclusion of American rapper T.I will not save them this time around.

The Ejeajo song sounded below average, ordinary, nothing catchy, no rhythm and to sum it all up, totally tasteless. It seems as though the sole purpose of this song was just to feature T.I and break into the American market.

I can bet my very last kobo that any American (Black) who's opportuned to watch Ejeajo video will laugh off his seat saying, "Who are these African booty scratchers trying too hard to sound like us and dance better than Usher?"
I felt the same way watching Peter Okoye putting in so much "gra gra" into his dance moves.

But on a serious note, about Nigerian artistes wanting to break into the American market; do these Nigerian artistes think that the Jay Zs, P Diddys and Dr Dre's will sit back and watch Nigerian music break into US Hip hop market? Especially in an America where music and sports are the few things black Americans can really hold on to. So they (Black American artistes) will allow some black African musician to come in and steal their domestic market share?

Nigerian music is already big in many African countries like Kenya,Zambia,Ghana and even South Africa. Do we think indigenous artistes and music promoters in these African countries are happy with Nigerians dominating their respective music scenes?

Why will Black Americans not stay proactive and stop Nigerian music from gaining foothold in their market?

Now here's the truth,someone should tell Psquare that its time to go back to the drawing board and re-invent themselves. I don't know the duo's football age but i'm guessing they are in their mid thirties. When dancing musicians start growing older or maturing, they concentrate more on the quality of their music, where more matured dance steps are incorporated. 'Matured dance steps' here simply means slow but sleeker dance moves, just like USHER in GOOD KISSER. And definitely not the 'gra gra' Peter Okoye was showcasing in Ejeajo, epecially to a lousy song.

I think it's time the Okoye twins take a break from music for some time; perhaps they can go concentrate on their respective marriages or try to mentor younger musicians with the ability to sing and dance.

After a few years, Psquare can return with a new style and sound.

For now,Psquare has lost it and i hope their closest fans and admirers tell them this truth before it's too late.

Remember Dbanj?
Well, why didn't you use MJ to buttress your view? Ok, I know the answer to that; MJ kept going at it even in his fourties! But you think Psquare should rather emulate Usher right? Hilarious!

And talking about Usher, have you seen the video he did with Chris Brown? Usher still dances good! Usher still does stuff I watched him do when he was 18! He retained his style!

Peter did what he's been doing and you call that 'gra graa'? that sounded quite... Are you a sad person? or are you just trying hard to be a critic?

As for 'breaking into american market', Nigerian musicians are not worried about that, one can sell music on. itunes etc. check TuBaba's recent sales and you'll probably be able to project what the future holds for Nigerian music.
RomanceRe: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by filiks(m): 11:07am On Oct 06, 2014
josite:
the lady who call it a super story is right.almost everyone got married to someone they were sure its a friend.even in your own super story ,you need to remain prayerful as a stranger might even be delighting your spouse right now on whassap pr skype unknown to u.havent u heard of guys who are sure they have a great marriage and reached hom to find out that the wife has packed to an unknown destination.yes you can say the way it is in your marriage today,what about tomorrow.thas why the bible advise he that standeth to take heed lest he fall .people change,that is my point,for good,bad or no reason,they change and you have to move on or die worrying why they change.all the best
Well, I know what I know, so my 'super story' is mine. I still maintain that every story can never be the same. Yours is yours and mine is mine. I watched the best 'super story'(my parents) of all times play out. Until my father's demise, my parents still went out on dinner dates on valentines and exchange gifts just like when they were much younger. And my father died at 74! From mama's testimonies and as much as I witnessed, my papa never threatened to hit her, not even jokingly, so doing it was totally out of the question. Now that's a 'Super Story' to many but that's my foundation. In my worst behavior, I still cannot hit a lady not to talk of my lady. We are all products of our environments.
RomanceRe: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by filiks(m): 5:31am On Oct 06, 2014
Toks2008:
Abeg leave this super story of been married to a friend jare. People do change overnight.

I got married to my best friend too and now we are seperated and but for the legal wedding it would hav been an easy break without any possibly penalty.
First of all, I'm sorry about your situation.

But it's no 'super story', my friend. Every story cannot be the same.

And yea, people do change, change is constant so everyone should expect it. But it is also very possible to manage that change and if possible flow with it. And if you truly think you can't work it out, then...

But I've also observed that most times, people overlook certain behaviors their spouse exhibit before marriage hoping they'll magically disappear after walking down the aisle. I'm not saying it was the same in your case though.
RomanceRe: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by filiks(m): 4:54am On Oct 06, 2014
MadCow1:
Well.. I guess she did that to warn you about the implications of porting from customary marriage to Court marriage as the sanctions are harsher and carry heavier penalties than the former.

grin


O well.. I hope you followed through with it sha. All the best in your marriage sir and I wish above all things that your marriage is blissful.
Yea, I followed through. I was getting married to my friend and so whether it was court, trad, church or all the above, it really didn't matter to me. We are a few years into it already and loving every bit of it. Blessed with a beautiful daughter and another underway.

Thanks a billi for the good wishes. I pray same and more for you.
RomanceRe: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by filiks(m): 3:48am On Oct 06, 2014
MadCow1:
Hmmm!

They told you that at the registry? undecided Strange.. I say so because though both forms of marriages are legal in Nigeria, they are both governed by different sets of laws.
Yea they read out some laws that guide the whole thing before proceeding. The lady was very thorough with every single step. So its hard to forget anything that happened that day. She even read the punishment for going against any of the laws.
RomanceRe: The Growing Trend Of Men Shying Away From Court or White Wedding by filiks(m): 3:06am On Oct 06, 2014
Sweetlemon:
Lol!

Those Italians will not be recognized without an official document even in Nigerian courts not talk of their own country.

You missed the emphasis on the legal document and not necessarily the ceremony.
During my court marriage session some years ago, it was clearly stated that we had the chance to back out if either of us was already in any previous marriage contract/arrangement and that includes traditional. So I'm a little confused here when you say the court does not recognize traditional marriage.
PoliticsRe: U.S. Wants Ihejirika’s Sudden ‘Billions’ Probed by filiks(m):
So the US is now asking for probe of government officials in Nigeria? All of them or just Ihejirika?
Ok, it is ok for Israel to take innocent lives in numbers, repeatedly targeting women and children, UN buildings in Palestine but it is terrible for Ihejirika to take money, and 'absolutely terrible' for Nigerian army to re-take northeast aggressively?

US is the problem the world has today! A quick look around the world will prove it to you.
PoliticsRe: Why Is Fight Against Boko Haram Been won As We Get Close To 2015 by filiks(m): 9:26pm On Sep 24, 2014
olu77: Your guess is as good as mine. Remember Osama was killed close to Obama's re-election?
You are a thinker! You will live long!
It is normal for any leader who will be running for an election to make his subordinates work ten times over to achieve the 'impossible' within the shortest time so he can face the people.
Music/RadioRe: Miguel Is Under Rated by filiks(m): 10:14am On Sep 06, 2014
marieolae: well they don't seem "explicit" to me.
What? Seriously? Now I wonder if they changed the meaning of the word 'explicit'. lol
Music/RadioRe: Miguel Is Under Rated by filiks(m): 8:40am On Sep 06, 2014
marieolae: his lyrics don't seem so bad to me anyway
Never said his lyrics were 'bad'.
Music/RadioRe: Miguel Is Under Rated by filiks(m): 7:59am On Sep 05, 2014
marieolae: his music, his persona. The lyrics in his songs actually relate to a lot of personal issues. His voice is amazing and he is unique. He is not trying to be like usher, chris brown, trey songz etc. He is in a league of his own
He's most definitely a star! You are completely right to say he's in a league of his own. Amazing voice!

Btw you most be a naughty person to like his lyrics though...lol
FamilyRe: Dilemma--constructive Criticism Only. by filiks(m): 8:44am On Aug 27, 2014
joella1: He will rather die, he is a conservative/spirikoko person..I suggested that to him like I got varied research that if he works on "himself" about an hour or so before the main event he could maybe go the distanced. He was embarassed and begged me not to bring it up again cos he feels like a failure and at a loss on what to do.
I can't stand to see him hurt.. He isn't a selfish person,he just has control issues.
Please show him 1 Cor 7:3-5! His body belongs to you and yours belongs to him!
FamilyRe: Dilemma--constructive Criticism Only. by filiks(m): 3:26am On Aug 27, 2014
joella1: Don't get it twisted, he looooovvess to be on the receiving end(despite our church's teaching that its from the pit of hell),I used to give him till about 2-3years ago, the rationale behind me stopping is that if I aint getting, you will no longer receive!
Oh I get it.

I left one thing out; Touching himself

If he's doing a lot of it, he won't last in the real act.
FamilyRe: Dilemma--constructive Criticism Only. by filiks(m): 3:08am On Aug 27, 2014
joella1: You are both right and wrong. Wrong cos he is a good husband, right cos the intimacy is blah... I honestly thought it didn't really matter and I could get by.

@filiks,
Oralhuh You want him to go into cardiac arrest? He is an African man. wink

@soulglo,
We are in Nigeria, & I can't refuse his bribes cos they aint bribes in the real sense, its just that he goes above and beyond for the kids and I .. He treats me with respect & his mama claims I am her son's boss.
It's ok if he can't stand oral too but its definitely not an African thing not to do it! African men love MouthAction!
FamilyRe: Dilemma--constructive Criticism Only. by filiks(m): 2:45am On Aug 27, 2014
joella1: Seems I left out some things.
1.You won't catch my husband with any toys.
2.He can't do long pre-intimacy otherwise all will be lost en route.
3.He used de-sensitisers for a short period but he says it kills all sensations for him.
4.He says HE enjoys what we have and I should be more understanding.
5.I suggested hand job(research)to take the initial edge off but he says GOD FORBID.
6.He bribes me with stuffs.
He doesn't have to totally accept the use of toys. But through conversations (which is very necessary now) let him know you need it.
Fore play can help him, make him understand that too. And if he shoots in the process, it will make the actual round last longer.
He too should be understanding about the situation. You too should enjoy what you have!

I don't mean to judge but if he says 'God-forbid' to hand jobs, then I'm sure he'll also object to oral...erm...does he want to bore you to death?
FamilyRe: Dilemma--constructive Criticism Only. by filiks(m): 2:28am On Aug 27, 2014
Sad story.

First, I'd like to say sorry for your situation. Forget about the people say 'sex is not everything in marriage'. They are probably not married, the married ones say it will soon realize their spouse have diverse opinions about the matter.

But then there are ways to help him. He should talk to a doctor and get some help. I think you can give him a lil bit of massage(without getting down to the act), I heard it could help one get used to dealing with the overwhelming excitements that lead to early ..., also do a lot of fore play.

But I'd also suggest you do not go back to your ex. Cos at some point he'd want to stop, and focus on his young marriage, what will become of you then?
EntertainmentRe: Fat & Sexy, You Can Still Be Sexy Without Being Skinny (photos) by filiks(m): 8:46am On Aug 13, 2014
sexyseun: I see nothing wrong with these beautiful women, the lady in the middle is really pretty, nice body, nice face.
BTW: I thought African men loved them plus size and not broom stick? or am i on an European site?
You have a good heart!

And yea, they probably saw the statements here and decided to hide. A lot of african men like them big!
Foreign AffairsRe: Clinton Blames Islamic Militants Rise On Obama Policies by filiks(m): 8:20am On Aug 13, 2014
And she made her statement and opinion known without any childish name-calling. How I wish Nigerians can learn from these people.

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