MrsBreezy:


Hahahhahaha noooo. I am not 20 and some change *rolls eyes*

Lol I won't flip out I promise

Hmmm...ok.... Hold...u sayn u way over 20? Or younger!...can't place that on the display image....interesting..you somehow got the totality of the looks advantageously placed....coolies....if its under 20, matured persona and disposition transcending into the composition of the look...if way over 20, then that's some good skin-care and radiance .....help me out o...this is a riddle I'd love to knw d answer...#winks

MrsBreezy:


Hahaha no thanks. I'm not about that life hehe

Lol...scared u....its cool though...hbd in advance btw...lemme guess d age... "20 and some change"!....not reached by content estimate but young look ok?....before you flip on me...lol..tk care

MrsBreezy:


What kind of trial.... Lol should I be scared?

Scared?....hell no. And @ trial,...I meant an attempt at playing "hitch"...I'll grant u an opportunity to flex ur trial muscles with moi...I.e play hitch wf me and a friend of ur choice...lol

missstella:
But seriously it seems like our healthiness depends on men first it was breast sucking prevents cancer and now swallowing sper*m.....

God is a great God....he knew women will try to kill us wf their troubles....so, he put the key to their naturall wellness within us...perfect architect.....kill us all (men)...y'all eventually die too..lol...come to think of it...only a healthy man can produce such quality sperm o...#what a twist.....a naggn wife/ gf is a source of sicknesss....chai!..

So she has to be happy...thus keep me happy to get the good stuff!....lwkmh...GOd can so intertwine thns ehn.....lol

MrsBreezy:


Haha I'm no grand hitch oo

Funny you..u never knw...it could be innate....a trial wld clarify..lol...

MrsBreezy:


Lol as in my friend in the picture?

Hmm well maybe you should let the right girl come to you..

Nope...didn't view ur profile ...I will now though and I was talking generally btw......u just myt be a grand "hitch"...lol

MrsBreezy:


Lol don't worry the right girl is there somewhere

Introduce me to ur friend then...#winks...'Lld be grateful if she turns out decent....am a decent dude btw...lol.....tired of the searching...even google myt fail @ dis search in naija....lmao

MrsBreezy:


Haha why would you have to pay for any of that. She has her own money. I but my boyfriends gifts all the time and they do the same. Lol my best friend bought her boyfriend an iPhone for his birthday and I got mine a Rolex. I honestly don't see the big deal. Money isn't that huge of a thing.

Oh no!....I have been dating the wrong girls so far o...lmao

ShirelleBaby:
yeah,I Exist-nothing gives me greater joy than seeing my man smile. T-shirts,polos,perfumes....

Oh my God. I have been surfering....when will I meet such?...

Yeah

Yeah

Uyi

Uyi

back

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In

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purplish: Apples! Yum Yum

Eyah!....poor apple....you still @ the infant stage and smone here is already salivating on munching you tyt....lol!....they really don't care abt u....just d "yum yum" you gonna be about...lmao

firstEVA:

Eva eva eva...onirugbon lets u smile @ oda dudes?.. ....totally shocked....lol tought the "irugbon" was the lock down code on you....thus u made him first-adam......lmao.....yeah u badht like dt

NairaMode:

Yeah Mister.
Sometimes we may have to pay people back in their own coin. I get you.
I don't know till today why he just let go. He loved the girl then anyway.
I "feel" my bro and his friend were powerful people in school if you get so they just let it lie.
Brewing anger I suppose that ended up in the fridge.

@ powerful...I decode....it was just a pass round..@ girl.....he prob didn't let u in on the later parts of d gist....it wasn't considered important I suppose....those are the kinddda girls dt gt boiling ring inserted down dere...girls been tryn shit since 19BC....shit dt can get their lives totally screwed up...yet they r so ignorant about it....all in d name of fun and being smart...#foly of life....for some its too late and they pay dearly, others the effect catches up with them in their adult life and dey suffer silently in pain and regret...a minute percentage beat all d odds...unfortunately, they become d role models and the new generation of girls fool themselves to think they are that minute few...when truthfully,80percent are still gonna get their heads crushed.....a cycle that keeps shrinking in percentile success rate yet increases in followership...what a damn contrast!...lol.....#girls

NairaMode:

I totally get you.
Trust me with every phase in life we get to we tend to have a different perspective about things.
You may react totally different from what you have written when such happens to you especially when you have had a reasonable number of relationships and understanding about how girls think and all.

But well that's what happened to him.
He didn't beat himself up. He remained light friends with the guy till they graduated and moved on with life.
As for the girl, they cut ties.

If it were me, well I'd just be battered about it, cut ties with them and move on.

I get you...but really...if its the same definition of best friends we both have....damn!...that's some killer act. Ur bro perhaps sensed his bs nature long before then....or probably wasn't that attached /in-love with the girl in question..cause really, I don't knw how any could get such double cut on the spot and cool it all off there and forever...yeah you might and may not act crazy @ d spot but to never act on it even afterwards?...mehn, dt level of grace God needs to grant me....cause ryt nw o....if some dude runs such a move with me, he just deeped himself in hot oil.....:e even had the guts to say he was busy...lol!....." Dem neva born the friend".....well, my friends are never close to my gf...I make sure of that...not even bbm contacts...call it wht u like....I just don't like to hear the "it was d devil" phrase...cause amma devil up myself.....and please myself....I need that grace though...I really pray for it.

NairaMode: Guys can be crazy.
This happened to my elder brother wayyyyyy back.

He has a very good friend who he went to the same secondary school with and proceeded to the same higher institution.
They got separate rooms in a private hostel and they were both comfortable.
My bro had this pretty girl back then. Very chilling looking girl. Quite decent though (Well girls fool us all the time).
They were in love.

So my bro came back home from school one day because he had an outing with his friend.
Quickly got freshened up, opened his friends room and met him doing press up on his girl (Both completely naked).
That was his best friend.

So he called out to him and said let's go bro. You would be baffled with the reply he got.
My brothers friend to him that he is busy and he will be with him shortly. Lol...
He didn't quarrel with him and the girl.
They all just moved on and remained light friends with the guy back then till after school.

Most of the time, all the events of the world, our surroundings, experiences whether good or bad. The way people approach us and what we get out of life or relationships are not to be blamed on others. We are often times the architect of what happens to us. Think about it.

Mehn.......ah!....I can't imagine this......am a simple easy guy...but you don't want to bring out the monster in me...I'll go to any length to treat such mess up...not necessarily violence....but mehn dt guy will weep @ my pay back..the max I've ever had is a silly friend tryn to chyke the same lady I was trying to get blue with....- I stepped up the game and he couldn't keep up...won the lady and then got close to his sister...just to warn him of the havoc I can wreck for such nonsense acts...he begged ....I freed his sister...had nothn to do with her...the truth is any guy who can do that to you can kill you....simple truth....thus, never let them in your life beyond the point your eyes can fully see.

onirugbon1:

Boo boo.
When it happened to you did you tell?

These two sha$....lol....

Yeah

Yeah

safarigirl: this has to do with the insecurities of the Nigerian man. He happens to be a confused fellow who doesn't know what he wants between a dependent and an independent woman. They curse you out for being a leech and curse you out for being better than men. What a Nigerian man really wants is a woman who has aspirations, but not any higher than theirs. It's okay to want to be somebody, but make sure the spotlight remains on the man of the house

Bloody lie....doesn't cut accross all......trust me most are just lazy and their priority is fun fun fun while in schl and den marry a rich guy afterwards. Was datn an underrgrad and she always complained abt nt hvn enuf money and being weighed down...decided to set up abuiz for her just for her to monitor and manage on-line...delivery, online payments, payment on delivery, everything, I set it all up...even up to buiz card....all she had to do was verify market prices for the goods so we decide on the pricing online( I already checked these prices on my own before importation)....three months now, she hasn't checked nada...but has attended at least 20 parties....lol..I just gave the entire thn out to another lady yesterday.....and just told myself she aint the one I wanna build a life with..morale: they really are lazy....even if you did all for them, spoon feed them in the line of financial liberation as indidviduals....they won't do d only lil thn the should; swallow......and decide to grow.....smh...wht a lost generation of ladies( large percentile)

Used to be "my love"....but since I noticed some "ish" in d last 3 months, its just been miss+name....like every other lady on ma fone...u don't wanna knw d feeling when u sencing uncertainty in a lady and her call comes in with a "my love" display name.....it gives me d creeps..like cold fever..it just had to go bck to miss+name...aswear

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And yeah she can get down with ur enemy just to gt @ you....sex often times, has lost its bond-feature beyond repair in such persons...just too much stress...painfully these factors will not stare u in the face. They play-out in the background...eating out the life of ur union...slowly but surely....when the results get in ur face, the damage is already done...mostly killer results that you don't get until years down the lane.....its like sleepn with ur roof on candle light fire...its just more time before crashn..lol

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u ve a point dia. Buh stil is a gradual process[/quote

That means you want to become a rehabilitation center....u have any idea wht that really takes?...wht for?....let me give u instances where u'll suffer d residual effects....a past runz girl can fight ur inlaw or pick a deep grudge on 10k differences u chose to ignore on erands (she had to lay her back to earn that...intepretes it as too much to letgo)...a past runz girl will never see your secretary's innocent gestures as plain (she runzed and will believe any girl can f**k her way to gt anythn)...u generaly may find these examples in other women, but the depth and hold is of greater magnitude in a past runz-girl...its just stress abeg....I cn be her friend nt marry her.....

great289:
u mean dey cn neva change?

I mean u cannot overhaul the totality of the person...unfortunately most people define the decision not to perhaps "runz/prostitute" as change.. But what they miss-out are the character faults that led to the decision to runz in the first place or the effects runz leaves them with afterwards...often times, settling with such puts you at a spot where u gat to deal with these vices and their paly-outs for life....avoidable stress.

great289: bro pls dnt leave her, if u can change her pls try as much as u can. And she wil neva frgt u. Care for her. she is stil young, nt too mch into d game fr nw(so u cn stil make her change).

You really have no idea who a runz girl is...the ideology to life, greed, perception and d loss of self...you can't revive these things.....some will always trail and unforunately, the manifestations are like ripple effects...you advising him to play with his death...be it physical, emotional, financial or. Resultant bs circumstances........mehn u aint jesus...waste no time on such....even a normal descentt girl can be work not tto mention a WHOLE runz residdual....mschewww