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Dygeasy: All of this for me?

I'm thrilled.

Thing is I'm having a good enough day. I wouldn't get so sensitive on Nairaland and ruin my day.

Never mind though, continue flexing your muscles. It's your time to shine.

Cheers!

Having a fantastic day too...wouldn't let jonzers gimme tthe puke today...na..na....I see you went bck to read!...hilarious....confused little you...you don't even knw where to stand...lmao...young boi...get a life, a self and much more a good sense of reasoning and comprehension...you gonna need it growing into a man...not movies and popcorn...btw...the other foolish satements you put up there @ matrimony not being the reason for such things as name being discussed...bla bla bla....
you further proved your folly...you can't even deduce points from a summary/ post...

Go back to the op's first post...the distance and void has been there..communication break down from the onset...resistance of the lady in question to. Commit....a huge wall @ crossing the simple bridge of "yeah I'lld like to settle with you"...and you expect her to ever think of names?...

The op even quoted my post @ names/ house etc explanation fully understanding me....you are here as a third party talking rubbish like an authority when all evidences points you out as TOTALLY NAÏVE.....smallie..mtschewwww.....


Bck to my TGIF....

Johnpaul88: 1. Try to be more articulate next time please. I found it some how tough to grab what you really are saying.

2. If priests are negligible in population, then so too are gay! Gays only make up not more than 10% of any population. Thus their union or absence of it, wouldn't affect the quest for procreation that you and/ or Nigeria desperately need. There are always other 90% others to do that.

3. Procreation is not the main aim for marriages because children are also being born outside wedluck.

4. Be civil with your choice of words too. You're not as base as you make people see.

So you can can talk civil! Interesting! Next time stay on your lane if you are going to respond to a comment with derogatory words such as "daft" particularly when a sum-up of your statements easily give you away as "daft"...that aside, let's get to the point...it seems you loaned some element of reasoning ..(Still very shallow even when you borrowed.lol)
1. Catholic Priests do not contribute up to 10percent of the nigerian populace. Get your facts right....that's approximately 18million you saying...neither are gays 10percent. You can't even put a figure on it yet considering their mode of development. But volume comparism to catholic priests ; total down play of facts and wrong items of comparism.. A way of life( everyday act) to a "profession" / training required status.
2. Legalizing an act/ idea/ mode of expression; sexual in this case...okays it. That means:
I. People who are into it can practise the act freely and publicly.
II. People who do not presently practice it are free to come on board for a trial and much more.
III. It becomes anacceptable way of life open to all sexes from age of consent
Do you have any idea the ripple effect of these points above?...
Not only will legalizing be accommodating people with such sexuality a present, it will be creating the platform for full participation thus making it a way of life...now compare that to the myopic disposition of yours in context of minimal percentile participation...10percent indeed...

Let me further help you unlock your reasoning..
The process factor of any organization or group is a chalenge that ensures that only persons of extreme/ genuine interests ever make it to the actualiztion as members.....to be a priest takes years, determination and sacrifices....many fall out during the process as they realize that perhaps, being a priest isn't their thing.....

What's the process for being gay?...or becoming certified as one....simply bend over...verysimple....and when you realize that maybe it isn't your thn....can you opt out?...hell no not like that....its apermanent alteration of the psyce....how do you resolve that....howmany sexual groups would we have genearated...can we define the fertile percent of the population any longer?...can we predict the reproduction rate....which inturn decides the further breakdown of the production core of the economy?....ripple effects I tell you....you can't keep up...most of it you might not comprehend judging by your previous posts....

And pls note. the developed societies whom you want to blind-lift the "gay acceptance" idea from...have loads of social and economic chushions to cater for the shift it'll cause....even more health structures to adequately combat its side-eefects...for God sake america's laborforce isnt determined by its indegenous reproduction...y'all goona keep migrating......etc.....

I'm sorry but mehn....you are really stewpid to think gay leglization does nigeria more good than harm......I just got irritated as ityped.....stewpid in this case isn't an insult pls....its a logical conclusion if you can't see these things........gay mode maybe right for other nations...not for nigeria at least not in my generation....y'all can try at the next generation...not mine.

Dygeasy: The bolded parts summarizes how sensible you are. I wasn't spurred to read your post further.

Who's this nit-wit pls?...I put the d hyphen cause urs is a compund case.it should be pronounced with emphasies stretching the bi-sylabic nature of the word...the longer it can be stretched, the better...hopefully the extent can encompass the totality of ur stewpidity...the peson who is in the circumstance and needs the advice grabs the point... Can you just hug a transfromer already?...or dive into kanji ...quoting me and making no sensible deductions even from such simple clear cut sentences that others could easily relate to....you need me to explain with a crelac bottle in your mouth?... @ bolded...I repeat it again with much more assertion this time and with the prefix "damn"......you are "DAMN NAÏVE"....and face your books...shouldn't you be trying to get more educated to comprehend simple posts as this?...and pls not the gabbage u've been studying pre-foly display as u have done here mtschewwwww.

Dygeasy: Seriously that's all you could make of the story?
We all have priorities and hers is her education while his is marriage. Marriage for a guy is different from that of a lady. A lady's marriage depends wholly on her family while for a guy you could just tell your family you want to get married and then go ahead. You could propose to a lady for all anybody cares, if her parents don't consent, it's either you leave her or elope or wait. So the girl here might be considering many things. Ask the OP here if he knows if the girl has any other plans after her Bsc. I doubt it. There's proposal stage after getting a yes then you plan the wedding. One step at a time.
_Bullshit and shut the F up!

Some ladies are really not desperate for marriage.

Sily you...who said she should be desperate....if she wants you she'll show commitment....e.g okay hw about our parents meet for now!...don't be shallow in your reasoning...the mentality of a woman transcends beyond all this 1+1 you putting up here...you obviously naïve and reading up loads of junk ...junk data affecting your reasoning.....as you get more enlightened, you'll realize. no need to bash words with you....

The toality of a woman's mind consists of numerous elements that you won't believe can all sum up into just one decission making...it can range from socio-economic tots to emotional to idealogies,peronality, family believes norms and perceptions, environment , life experiences and much more...but one thing a woman is never confused about is if she wants you...trust me..if she realy wants you and you are not some alernative or some dude with loads of vices she's delibrating on...as regards coping with them,she'lld hv commitied...infct you'll hv an idea of wt names she'll like to call your kids...or what she wants your home to look like even if its in the nearest futture.......all in all....move mehn...you most likely are not the one..c'estfini...don't be patchn some bullshit that will tear-open under the pressures of life after a compelled /"he sha won't go" marriage...

Johnpaul88: Continuation of life in Nigeria? What a daft way to reason !
What happens to catholic priests that live celibate life or their monks? Should they be stopped because you want Nigeria's life to continue?
Watch it, Nigeria's population is exponentially exploding daily and the government seems not to give a damn what happens or how to control a possible over explosion which is in the offing already. They should welcome gay unions with open hands cos of this singular reason - population control. To hell with kids!!

Be aware too that procreation is not the sole aim of marriages. It's people like you that would cast away their wives because they couldn't conceive.

You are indeed the daffy-duck here....so when you legalize an act as such, you think the percentile difference will be intune with the extremely negligible totality the catholic priests contribute...jesus!...could your brain be gay too? and possibly attrcted to a simmilar other like itself which has folly as its core element?....procreation isn't the only objective of marriage but a core fundamental to why marriage exists itself....all other factors are social....not key to existence/survival andcontinuation of mankind as a race.. You knw wht?...ur brain is gay...this wouldn't make sense to you....let me type what it can understand "gay is the essence of life"...how about that?....freakn....empty headed he-goat

Was chatting with a friend and he was just whyning about girlfriend issues....so when he asked me a question, I tried to make a joke of it by saying "lemme ask google for you"....and lo and behold....google knows. I typed in"find a true wife in nigeria" into google search and it came back with "find your true foreign bride"...I laughed so hard I sent him a munch...a few friends checked too and got the same...lol.....are nigerian girls so messed up even google advices to find a foreign bride?..lol!....

When you search again with the same fone/ connection/ I.p address, google begins to lie for them...by bringing up all sorts....but google isn't programmed to lie..close the browser...let it rest for like 10 minutes....research again and there you have it again!!!!!!........result: "find your perfect foreign bride"

Jesus! nigerian girls!!!!!! "How far na"? Is this how we'll go on.....damn! 80percent of our next generation might just all be half-casts.....lol

I'll take it even though its an add!

Symphony007: there are limits. If you commit murder, you loose those rights. If you commit atrocities that affect the state or the well being of other citizens you loose those rights. Let the government prove how a consexual relationship among two adults of sound mind is a threat to the state or other citizens.

Heediot...the consextual homosexual relationship between two adults is a threat to the continuation of life of the Nigerian people and a great demise for the sustainability of an identity as a people for the next generation. This furthermore can lead to a population shift, growth halt and decline, thus man power/ human resource alteration which could transcend beyond mere moral decadence / ideas of a sick bunch to great economic collapse endangering the quality of life of the next generation....a platform that took generations to build to be nullified by the barbaric pleasures of a minute percentile of one? How about that freakn gay!

okparaugo: We met since 2011, we got serious 6 months ago..
I am not a new person to her... She even reminded me tasks we undertook together in 2012 which i have totally forgotten.
Are you okay now ?
Nah una dey keep man make him dey cater for your needs, tomorrow you stop picking his calls because you have seen another person.. seriously she is asking me to wait till December 2015.
Let her face her books, let me face my future wife.
Do you know that when you are talking to an understanding person, you know deep down in your mind ? Not someone who says to you, " I have given you date nah "..

Young man...she doesn't want you or she has her eye on some guy whom incase he doesn't take her, she'll fall back to you....If she really wants you and education really is her headache, she'll suggest introduction or family introduction.....so all intentions are known and made clear.....If you ask any woman for marriage @ this time despite all odds of Economic meltdown, moral disregard, marital difficulties and your will is met with some frivolous date pick in the future...better move.. And find someone who's ready and better....there's always someone out there with better to offer when chicken heads begin to feel fly with themselves.

Kinkybraids: lol Very funny. Ill be honest I had a sneak peak at his pro pic and he doesnt meet one of my requirements...He is overly handsome lol...he sounds very smart but his pic gives off the image of being a player but yet again I could be wrong

Lmao.....I knew it....why do you all make the mistake dt handsomeness equates player character....aren't you beautiful...if you are does that equate you to be every-body's target....?....you are even single which prooves me right...lol....give your self a chance babe...if a man truely loves you..he's yours as long as you dnt screw it up wf excess woman wahala....ugly boiz are even the serial players now...cause you all gulking thinking they r d husband materials....#berra recognize.... ....give your kids a good shot @ good looks...lol

fijiano202: thanks bro..thats a wonderful advice

You are welcome #true story..trust me...I knw the feeling @ loving her real much...but lemme tell you the plain truth...you'll get a better prettier one that won't stress you a bit...and you'll bless GOd . Am a living example...just tk dt step...save yourself the trauma of such a woman..that mindset transcends beyond money and you'll findout the other forms of its manifestations in pain when you have invested all....just tell yourself in your mind that you are single ....live life , be happy , go out, hang out nicely ..try gbogobiri on the island...you'll meet damsels that will light up your world and help improve you..not drain you..wish you the best bro.

fijiano202: Guy,am working and my salary is ok for me atm..giving her 20k a month would be the end of me

My ex asked for 60k minus the regular outings and petty bills of needs....freakn ibo girl from imo...grown in calabar....when I declined she yarbed my life...a six year relationship...I was even saving to buy her a ring....God saved my life!...lol...saw her recently....she saw my nu wag and all...boi upgrade....shame catch am as she dey broke like bonga fish .....point keep no such woman...( She's even in your qualification range o...not a far lower smallie...thief.if it was that easy why can she earn too?).theyare pests an the orientation/ mindset is a disastrous one....dnt gt me wrong spoil ur woman when u hv cash...but the moment she constructs an alowance demand...delete her!...its a petty personell structured around the thought that she's doing you a favor by dating you ( sex, attention and all)...and demands to be paid....thus...you an item she's coping with.....delete the idiot....there are wonderfuly nigerian girls out there...whom will love you and plan life with you

Lenzz: Hi ma'am. Sorry I've been busy.

Before I go on, I'd like to on a lighter note request that a trophy similar to that given to d German world cup winning team be extended to me too. I got you singing lady . And that's a lot of song up there I have to say

Going forward, I'll like to thank you for opening up as much as you did. In an ideal world, you should have no quams dating and eventually marrying your dream man. Dating you even with all its 'complications' should be quite easy nd refreshing I reckon. You should have taken complete charge of this situation from your days in school. For me that's d best place to meet like minds

I say ds because you're a woman of considerable character; independent to a degree, roundly smart nd strong willed, extraordinarily attractive to men but yet, oddly enough, sensitive in her feelings. But hey its never late at any time to make hay. If anything its very refreshing to find a woman set such distinct bounderies of her expectations from life. That's dop£ girl. Very dop£.

Also I think I get where you're coming from in terms of your push to get d man earn more money than d woman. Young folks like us might not understand it now, but I do know we will someday. Otherwise that's a recipe for disaster.

Thanks for your excellent compliment/appraisal of Nigerians even though I find some of them excessive and unmerited. Its unfortunate that d rivalry blw SA nd 9ja has just refused to dip, no thanks to d ever ready confrontational positions of both Govts. I was in Rustenburg for d Super Eagles 1/4 finals match against Ivory Coast at d Royal Bafokeng Stadium last year nd went on to stay another 2days in that city. I must say I met really cool nd hospitable friends some of whom I'm stil in touch with. So I think d whole SA/9ja beef is just on paper.

Well what more can I say? Just take care, follow your heart, don't rush your decision. Overall I think you'll do just fine. Like any pure metallic object in a magnetic field, I'm drawn to d explicit brilliance of your submissions. You're obviously of the smart stock.

Goodluck nd keep us posted.

Kinkybraids: lol I think you are overly complimenting me but Thank you. You sound very articulate and mature...must say best response so far All the best with your plans as well.

Look at these two o...you both better quit the fronting and gehn gehn...just hook up already....I can tell he's single....via the long post on a romantic thread.....married dude will most likely not have the time for such long writings outside the business section...#plenty bills...lmao

GentleMimi: Intelligent woman all the way,no argument there.
I'll choose intelligence over gentility. Gentle peeps could be wickedly dangerous,you know? The intelligent woman knows how to handle situations as it deems fit. The man can go out and confidently leave his home in the intelligent woman's care.
The intelligent woman influences the children too. Makes them smart and active.
God forbid,but if the man passes away,the intelligence of the woman is needed for her children to make it in life with the few available resources.
The intelligent woman is not necessarily bossy or arrogant,just a lady who knows what she wants and then goes about achieving it in the easiest ways possible.
The man cannot be at his peak at all times in terms of mental capability. Sometimes,he needs a mentally strong woman to give him the required push.
Note: it is only strong men that take up the challange of an intelligent woman. Weak men want ''gentle'' pushovers,whom they can control like puppets on strings.

You have no idea how bliss it is tto be in my shoes...got a woman who's intelligent and gentle....gentility here is a strand of character and enquestionable element for all round success in any life endeavour...just because your wife is intelligent does not mean she cannot take rash decissions emmotionally driven as the core of a woman is...the scorn of an intelligent woman is sure murder.....neat and untraceable...you need one that can take that last minute pause before taking aactions when present circumstances should on a default throw her gaga.....that extra pause, calmness, all embeded in gentility might be the difference between life and death of a husband....deatth here myt not be physical death...it could be expressed in any form....financial, emotional, e.t.c.....all these a woman can influence in marriage....I'm Damn lucky....will advice fellow guys to get such women...enough intelligent women out there who will wear you out with bs. Particularly those ones that just wanna prove to you that they are intelligent. You go taya.

This is no news.....@ my office in obanikoro lagoss, the bill just sat @ 25-30,000...I.T company running only laptops....and the power aint even regular......so we stopped paying....nepa officials came and were threathening to disconnecting us....I remeber our neighbour begging then I asked:mr, please when last did u have light....we looked at each other and told them to go to hell... just walked back into our offices slamming the doors on them......you'll pay 30,000 and still run generaor for about 6hrs outta the day's working hours....what's the point.....gen all the way pls....to hell wf nepa.

Cutejay: Av done so many silly tinz in d name of luv even with all my beauty and brains love made me a fool,

like using my last 1500 to send him card not knowing he wanted to subscribe for his BIS, I even had to borrow money severally just to send him airtime while i starved even at that I was the one doing the calling everyday while the r/ship lasted without him calling even for a day, i traveled to see him and he said he didnt have money i gave him my last 17,500 paid for the hotel bills 5k with my money for 2days and even bought the food we ate, and him still chop pu*ny on top o,i wast left with just 1k which i paid back from asaba to enugu,the next day he sent me a text saying he is bethroted to someone that we can't continue i almost died. This 1 sef na preamble the next r/shp was hell i can't say all but i have really been a fool for love,now my eye don clear.

That his bethroted idiot will kill him last last....useless hrtless fool..this is why I don't pity some guys when their marriages rain fire on them courtesy that wicked karma blessing they get in form of a wife

MissOpe: How can i sacrifice for a man.....chaiiii....well for me any gurl wey sacrifice for man na wowo girlllll.....
As for me I cheated on my guy...three times and he still begged to have me back...dat is true love.......ladies if u really wanna know how much a guy loves u let him pray and fast abeg...let him go thru helll...if he doesnt give up believe he is ur man...
I LOVE MY MAN

What a low self esteem idiot u dating...shior..

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