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You're mad, Lalasticlala. The opinion of one "woke" Indian now represents the entire India? Why don't you bring up other Indian tweets in support of the twitter ban and push it to FP?

Forthispost:
Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.


There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated.
Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship.
I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.

After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.

Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation .
Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.

The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.

Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.

I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"

Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.

The fact that you work there should be enough motivation not to recommend her. At the end of the day, she'll start fucking your boss and eventually get you sacked.

Richdee1:
did you say over 200 pages??
Joke bro��

I'm damn serious. Took me three days though

Just reread this entire thread again. FrankNetter, we still dey wait you.

movado19:
Ramadan/ Jumma Mubarak, Firefox01 !!!

Thank you, and I hope you are doing well, InshaAllah?

Alhamdulillah, I still remember you. (S.O.), abi?

Yes! I am Good to see you.

movado19:
Wa Alaikum Salam and Ramadan Mubarak, Hkana.

I am terribly sorry for just replying to you since last year.
I haven't been on NL for some time now.

Yes, please do send me a PM, InshaAllah.

Welcome back Movado! I hope you still remember me

ORAFA:
Enter C130 fess.

I see you're a military blood. C130 Hercules wey we cruise for All Air force games/Mathematics and Debating competition that year. Chai. C130 will make you confess your sins

lionlee216:
Last Post.

1. Someone here been telling my family back home about my dealings over here and it has not been cool. All I do here is just for fun and nothing else. I'm just doing my thing not to impress anybody or oppress anybody but telling my people what I do on nairaland is not cool at all.

2. Someone alleged(furiously) one of my friend that we are using their pickup fee(money) to enjoy life but even at that, I'll like to point some things out ;

If we do, its none of your business, you pay me for a service, I render to you. Whatever I do with the money is not your business the same way how you spend your profit is not my concern too. I once posted how much I earn from my main jobs

When I go on a trip with my friends, these are collaborative efforts moneywise. So whatever the price is will be shared equally and at the end of the day, you really dont pay much unless women are involved.

Most of these trips are funded with my credit card and not cash and I will have a whole 30 days(billing cycle) to pay back and not as if I'm spending cash to finance all these trips.

Like I once said, I dont smoke, I dont drink and the only thing I do as enjoyment is travelling.

Lastly, travelling within the US is also like travelling within states in Nigeria, nothing special. So it's unreasonable thinking we are "chopping" life. So what happens when you see people making international trips for vacation but it's all for good.

I wont let people gossip put me into mess. I'm out of here and this is my last post on this thread. I'll like to keep my remaining stuffs private and limit it to my FB and IG, after all, im not faceless over there

It's fun while it lasted..

Gracias

Ahh boss. Please change your mind please

jaxxy:
That is what Nigeria needs. Everyone knows it, honest people say it bt who will do it is the question. Lol

In other words, no other region or tribe has capable persons to rule Nigeria than the East?

jaxxy:
Tinubu hasn’t said he’s running for any political post/office yet. When he says so he will get his reply. Why are u guy rushing urselves na.

The best and fair thing tinubu can do is give Apc an Igbo President. By that alone he will be remembered as a father of democracy.

Kindly explain why he should do that. I want to learn from you.

ityP:
I can swear with my life that TINUBU would not even aspire to run for presidency. If you know TINUBU well, you'd know he is a great tactician. He will outsmart all of you

This man! Are you for Jagaban or against?

Topmaike007:
thanks God bless.. I and jagaban sharing same month and day is just awesome

You'll grow up to be as relevant and powerful as Jagaban brother. Happy birthday to you boss.

Asgard13:
Pls forget

Tinubu don’t have any contender ... he’s the Nigeria kingmaker and master strategist

He will make himself king in 2023

Which kind talk say he has enemies with capacity.. capa wetin?

Like you don’t know apc leader is the leader of Apc

Tinubu wey don get 20 million votes in bag already.. Plua Buhari 15 million votes all for Tinubu

Your sarcasm no gel well boss

Akpeyi better pass this Okoye!

isthatso:
how do you give birth to a child and decide to name him Mascot? It's about time we had a national conversation with you people of the SE/SS about some of your names!!!

Don't forget Honorable Heineken Lokpobiri from Bayelsa

Normal experience in military schools. Tuale to all Ex-Boys, Ex JAMS, Ex Commandos and Ex Naval Men. E no easy to survive wetin we survive. Many were called, few were chosen but only the fittest survived. I rep AFCS