₦airaland Forum

Ezedon:
OP you never tell us ur problem

my question is stated there

ATMC:
No defence really. I think it goes to prove that we are not created for equality but for complement.


Also, you know it's easier to give money than to have sex. If I ask a guy for money, his whole person may not be involved when he wants to respond but when a guy asks me for sex, a whole lot will have to go down. And I may not be ready for that.

a whole lot will go dwn asin, pls expatiate sweery??

Op na our way, leave am for us

Owk, was with a female colleague this morning and she was like, ud i'm hungry can you buy me food...well, i assisted her in the lil way i could...




Now, question of the day...



Why do most girls easily ask guys for favour and they don't expect we [guys] to just walk up to them and ask them of sex or even ordinary kiss or perking sef...cos if we wanna analyze it, it will be a 50/50 affair...you said you are not a sex tool and you hallow your body jealously but yet you have the guts and boldness to ask your male friends for money and most of the time we out of generousity render help with no "ulterior motive"...




Pls note, i'm not saying we must have sex with you anytime we assist you for money or anykinda favour...i'm just thinking out loud here...




Why is it so easy for girls to ask guys for financial assistance but it's absurd or forbiden or uncalled for in our society today for a guy to just walk up to a girl he has been admiring and ask her, hey, see i wanna have sex with you without you having to go through the usual wooing proceesses and having to be friendzoned most times for weeks/months and sometimes years before she will say yes...




The problem with we nairalanders is we no dey just wan talk truth, i know almost every girl is guilty of this act, and i also know all of we guys have been encountering this both @home, school, church and etc...




Well, as far as it is nairaland, i'm expecting the "change the kinda friends " crew and the i dnt ask guys for money crew and the crew of when you render help expect nothing in return which i too i'm an advocate of showing "love" unconditional but i think most girls are taking this as an advantage to undo us the meek guys knowing that we must help....




So, girls come defend yourself, and guys, share your experience.

Hehehehehe....so you later go against your vow, you later creat thread abi

Strahovski1:
Gf is fornication. I thought you a pastor preaching to me the other day when I talk gay and lesbian

Besides not all gf permit sex without marriage.

lolx, pastor ke...abeg i no wan laff

Strahovski1:
Yup.. you have said it all. Hypocrisy.

Anyway guys should get married. If you are married all you need to do is put her down, open her legs and boom! Anytime, anywhere, For FREEEE!

So go and marry

is it not the same thing as having a gf?

True

Which sane guy accepts a girl who dumps him for no just cause, and overnight she wants you back...abegi move on

Monalisa185:
...so what's the motive behind this your post?

Monalisa, warreva you think

And why would you give a hoot if you really don't care?

Monalisa185:

caman, dnt give me that holier than thou attitude

slyIsaac:
Been around o.... Been on observe mode since

abi lalasticlala sidelined you

Monalisa185:
lol, happy indeed..I'm good jare...and you?

i'm sweet for you to handle ...

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DemiGoddess:
I'm afraid I don't understand the question

lolx...ok, tell me bout ya social life

DemiGoddess:
Just fine...you?

am ok...hws life with you socially??

DemiGoddess:
Thats my other moniker.

oh, so, hw are you?

Call her and ask her na...which advice do you want again

More like two ss2 students who are in their school bus going home after school

Using jolof rice to cover up your heartbreak asif you didn't feel hurt.

Should i call you??

halfricanadian:
They are fine
How are ur parents?

cool

This writing woulda made sense if only the writer knows what paragraphing is...

It will depend on how serious we are in our relationship...and more over, social media as it is today is form of getting information and staying updated in happenings around the world, so, considering this fact, how would one cope without social media??,,,for Godsake this is jet age and not stone age...we gotta move on.

slyIsaac:
Somehow I don't see yhu "shedding tears"










Dnt worry I know yhu were speaking metaphorically
Just wanted to say hi .... Oh n by the way.....

hahahahaha, run away soldier, wer you shook head since

halfricanadian:
Good yours?

hws ur parents?

halfricanadian:
Good yours?

it's going tugele tugele

DemiGoddess:
_Persephene is it.

recapitulate in plain english pls

halfricanadian:
people dont see d good in me sha
bt its ok
Tank u

yua welcome...hws d dae goin

Ayauche:
Well me dnt like to exchange words with Nairalanders like u but so u knw am a married woman and plz learn to talk cos u kids nowadays think u ve arrived and grown. Be careful.

Oh, sorry...but next time indicate you are married...and also, that you are married doesn't mean you are older than me...btw, as a married woman, why would you support young girls to enduldge in sex...what are you gonna teach your dora??