My girlfriend is having an affair with her cousin.
What do I do?

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Good day all, I wouldn't wanna bore you all with a long story.
I've been dating this girl for 2years and we stay in different towns but I normally visit her at any given opportunity.

On Thursday after Easter, I decided to travel down to her place and see her, I'm close to her family so I just went straight to their home instead of staying in a hotel.

When I got to the house I met one of her aunt who doesn't know me,she was scolding her brother and asking him how he'll allow such abomination happen under his nose,that my girlfriend and her cousin have been having an affair for almost a year now and they just kept quiet about it.

Later in the day,I decided to talk to my girlfriend.
I didn't want to go ask her about the incest stuff because it seems the family don't want people to know about it and I don't want her to know that I have an idea, so I just asked her if she's seeing someone else to which she replied NO.

I also asked her when last she had sex, and she just laughed and said that its not necessary.

I left for my place the next day and I've not called her or picked her call, I'm so confused and need lots of advice.

Please I'll appreciate matured comments.

cc lalasticlala

Konji na bastard

Approach her about the issue and see her reaction. From her reaction you would know if what you heard is true or not. If it's true, trust me, you'd notice embarrassment and a terrified surprise in her facial expression and she would try to be defensive.

If she admits it, then, well, it's up to you if you want to still be in a relationship with her. But if she denies it, then you can inquire from her brother, albeit discretely, and if he confirms it, and provides proof, then you know that your girlfriend is a liar, a cheat and a shameless woman who doesn't respect you. Because let's face it, having sex with your cousin is a shameful thing, especially when it's labelled an abomination in your culture. As for me, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with such person, because if she can cheat on you with her cousin, she can cheat on you with anyone.

And she will come to Nairaland land and Bash people talking about sex,

Claim #TeamVirgin

Insult boys who tries to woo her

See anybody who talks about sex as a pervet

Then she will go back home and Bleep her cousin!!

God help all this Girls!!

WaZoBia2015:
My girlfriend is having an affair with her cousin.
What do I do?

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Good day all, I wouldn't wanna bore you all with a long story.
I've been dating this girl for 2years and we stay in different towns but I normally visit her at any given opportunity.

On Thursday after Easter, I decided to travel down to her place and see her, I'm close to her family so I just went straight to their home instead of staying in a hotel.

When I got to the house I met one of her aunt who doesn't know me,she was scolding her brother and asking him how he'll allow such abomination happen under his nose,that my girlfriend and her cousin have been having an affair for almost a year now and they just kept quiet about it.

Later in the day,I decided to talk to my girlfriend.
I didn't want to go ask her about the incest stuff because it seems the family don't want people to know about it and I don't want her to know that I have an idea, so I just asked her if she's seeing someone else to which she replied NO.

I also asked her when last she had sex, and she just laughed and said that its not necessary.

I left for my place the next day and I've not called her or picked her call, I'm so confused and need lots of advice.

Please I'll appreciate matured comments.

1.mistake: why did you go home without confronting her with what you heard or were you scared of her reaction?
2.mistake: why did you ask her the last time she had sex, were you expecting her to say the previous day?

you can make up for all this mistakes by confronting her with what you heard and it should be a one on one conversation with no smile on your face. if she ends up denying it then ask the brother cus obviously since he knows you both are dating and you where present the day he was being scolded, he won't deny it and you can use that as evidence.

BiafraBushBoy:
And she will come to Nairaland land and Bash people talking about sex,

Claim #TeamVirgin

Insult boys who tries to woo her

See anybody who talks about sex as a pervet

Then she will go back home and Bleep her cousin!!

God help all this Girls!!

smh..

*in2faceVoice*
Nobody holy pass eee
Look in2 my eye nd tel me say u pass eehhh

ur gf is possessed..

she's not normal

Call her and ask her na...which advice do you want again

Pref:
Konji na bastard

Konji indeed is a bastard

She can kill you

End time thread !!

I don't think you need anymore advice. You're done with her sorry ass. If you go ahead with her, she would shag ur sons. Trust me on that

well I guessed you dodged a bullet. now would be the right time to thank God or the gods or your ancestors or your lucky star (whatever you believe in) and run for dear life.

you know, you could have married her and all your kids would have resembled her cousin.

Are you for real? You're still asking us what to do about the sex maniac? Walahi, your own case worse than Oga Jonah's confusion

Hmmm

You'll have to ask her again and hear what she has to say. In doing this, you'll have to use a lie detector on her as this is a very delicate issue.

If you can't buy one, I shall teach you how to make one locally.

- Women are known to have itchy anus when they begin to lie. (Women and Science, CNN facts 2006)
This will help you in nabbing her.

- Connect a ray-deferred wired cord into your cushion, and insert the red end potential into your phone charging port, and makes sure she sits on that cushion.

This cord is known to detect itchy vibrations, and it will send a red notification signal to your device.

This has been proven, scientifically. Good luck, bro.

The spectator can never know nothing of the truth. So, get in there yourself.

naughtynaughty:
smh..
*in2faceVoice* Nobody holy pass eee Look in2 my eye nd tel me say u pass eehhh

OP, nah she be dis?

please tell me its not true

Demallcrazy:
OP, nah she be dis?

haha! Bros! I cn sue u for wrong accusation o

Thank God I chose to be a priest. Imagine the stress in relationships!!!

Eemo re, me dat I want to bleep my uncles wife sister and they be telling me is taboo, wetin I go call dis one?

Report her to police

Abomination.



cc lalasticlala biko do something

love can make one ask end time questions op, op, op . how many time time have I called you ?

kazyhm:
love can make one ask end time questions
op, op, op . how many time time have I called you ?

wetin happen?

CARLOSZ:
wetin happen?

op should love without questioning