₦airaland Forum

Sexycleopatra:
nope

owk

Maxi112:
nairaland is the cause..
qoute me any day any time

my brother how??

Greene66:
My 3 years old relationship is standing strong. We have never quarelled. Oh yes we have. We quarell on who gets to make tea every morning

good for you, but i hope it'd exceed just 3years.

Sexycleopatra:
CuteT stop bein daft na

you a northerner??

cuteT:
Blame PMB @op

and why

Hmmm, this thing funny me die...Owk, start this way, try to know her family background, her friends, her parents....pls ensure you know her deep before making any serious resolution or commitment with her.

Lagos i don come, i don hear your story before, lagos i don come, as i see e get as e be lol,,,this lagos sef, hope to be resident there someday, maybe after my schoo...i just like the place

Stevebamdex:
Thank you my guy

, chai, sometimes e good to dey dream big o, you never can tell, dreams come true you know

You are weird man, you weird.

Maxi112:
bro I don't care oh.. tho am a very nice guy if u understand me... I don't joke with my ego!

this issue of kneeling eh hmmm!

there was this babe that ask me to kneel down and beg her in front of her friends, is not up to 3months age

her reason was that, I have the guts to send her back for coming to see me late by 9pm at night, tho she want to spend weekend in my place that friday night.. but for fact she kept me waiting so long, I was angry and I have to send her back to her house that night, she was so annoyed that she have to switch off her phone for two days, me no even bother to call or check if she arrived sefe the next day her friend called me to ask me what is going on btw our two, I told her everything, she ask me to call her and i did, she told me that she will only forgive me if I will kneel down b4 her friends and beg her... cause her friends was disappointed with me for sending her bck... (see her mouth) me i said ok na, gatther them I will beg u na
e sweet her... for her mind (Maxwell go come kneel down dey beg her to forgv me) u are joking! I went there and I was claiming right b4 her friends at d end of day, na she come say sorry me say u are welcome...
from that day till now she no dey Bleep up.. had it been I knelt down and beg her that day, what do u think she will take me for?

gentle man na

Nawa, what's with break ups and mis-understandings in relationships nowadays??...abi is it because of the present state of economy recession of the country or what??





I just tire, today you 'll see a thread tagged, my girlfriend said it's over between us, what do i do, tomorrow you go hear another one, he is threatening to call of the relationship because he saw another guys picture in my phone..




Seriously, good relationship hardly comeby these days,,,,i know some people will come here and say we 've been dating and we 've not had any quarrel or mis-understanding, i bet you give it a lil time, they 'll begin to have quarrel and mis-understanding...i kept wondering why this trend is continually on the increase




Nairalanders and nigerian youths, which way??

Hmmm, this is not coming from you halfrica

pinkydove:
not as you think though. Just myfantasies . I will accept any place I see. Ok, do you have any suggestions for me?

you'd have all these and more in ph--->

Maxi112:
lolzz

am just saying my mind dear. I hardly say sorry talk less of kneeling down in public... that lady must be joking

your ego is way outa this world, and i hope you'd be able to keep a girl with you sha, justsaying

Nothing is there, it's simply romantic and portrays the fact that you cherish and adore the person

olukjamps:
I have been dating a lady for more than a year. We started the relationship on a sound understanding ground. We do profess our love to each other regularly, and i do try to meet her demands, though not all. Am a straight forward type, i only promise what i can fulfill. I noticed of recent that when it come to issue of money btw us....she do pose a high degree of aggressiveness and rude attitude especially when i cant meet all. I call her one day and she told me am choking her with my calls, that she wanted to be free. But before that time, we do call ourselves time without number and nobody is been choked. Esteem friends, isn't it the right time to kick her as and move on with my life.

so, wetin dey hold you ni??

Oyin93:
Francis!so u came here to cast me?it's over!

hahahahha

Just leave her alone ang go for other girls, and you 'll see her calling you wicked guy

Mtcheeewss

EastGold:
I read a recent post titled: "why are girls so cheap", I saw arguments for and against the topic, some annoying, some funny, others are silly while some are shocking.

Before writing to defend our ladies, let me say this emphatically that some ladies are bad while some are NICE and Excellent, same thing goes with guys, it depends on the side it turns to you.

That said, I have to say this that some private conversations between a guy and a geh should not be made a matter of public discuss, the guy who posted that 'why are girls so cheap' erred in that.

Secondly, when you are asked for favour, two things are involved, you help or you decline. It's bad to bring the person seeking your help to public ridicule. Today it's her turn begging for money to buy underwear, tomorrow it might be your turn too, remember patoranking, nobody wey no fit make am o.

Thirdly, it's a crazy thing for we guys to think that all ladies want is our money and by extension sex. I have been privileged to travel across Nigeria, and I observed majority of our ladies are not only excellent they are good help mates to we guys, I can never forget Dupe in Ogun, Chizom in Anambra, Chichi in enugu, Boma in Ph, immabong in Akwa ibom, kubura in Kano, Lucia in Benue, Ele Rabiatu in kogi, Aghas in Edo, Halliyat in Zamfara just to mention a few. LADIES ARE NOT BEGGARS.

Lastly, let me close by advising ladies who are in the habit of telling guys to pay their bills. This idea is bad, except if you are in a serious relationship with the guy. Begging for money doesn't give anyone a value. It makes people look down on you and sometimes ignore your call.


To all the independent ladies in the house, keep the flag flying, keep keeping up.
Thank you

now, this is balance...didn't see any loophole, well done

Op is surely one of them

Rexhenrex:
just came across this on f.b this morning whats your take?? I don't care what name anyone might wanna call me but I strongly support the notion of this quote below .

if you indeed love someone at least you spending on them shouldn't be a problem no matter how small.some men even find it difficult spending on there wife's or fiance some guys its a taboo to give their girl friens money or buy her a gift truth has to be told.

cc:ebubey
farano
lalasticlala

me, i dnt have a problem spending on her, but let her be contented with the lil i give her and be loyal, point and blank

My sister move on jare...isn't the handwriting on the wall clear??, or you wan till you catcham red handed ontop another woman ba??....for the records, guys don't keep any female friend as just a "friend", that's a typical friendzoning and we hate it.

ThuGnificenX:
Just ask him where in the premier league table u belong...

i guess no 10, currently chelsea position

.......

Secondus

greatgod2012:
I just don't know why some married women stop looking charming once they start having kids.
I honestly don't know.
May be they have forgotten that their good looking is part of what attracted the men to them.

and that's why most men look outside even if it's not a justifiable reason why men should cheat....




First, imediately you stop looking good, that fire that first attracted him to you will quench with time.



Secondly, men are attracted by what they see, if you stop looking sexy i bet you he 'll start asking himself what he even saw in you and the next thing is, he 'll start looking outside, God help you if you have a sexy maid.

Seen

greatgod2012:
let's leave the messenger and focus on the message.

So many women stop taking care of themselves once they get married, especially, after one or two kids, they turn to something else and truly, this is a big turnoff for men. Wives need to always look attractive to their husbands, it goes a long way in oiling the marriage flame.

The same message also goes to men who do not take their looks seriously, especially after marriage.

this is so true, i have one ana like that, before her first issue she was dam pretty, afte she put to birth see how pimple is playing with her delicate face, i told her to do something abt it but uptil today she refused, but when she was single she was applyin anti-pimple's pouder.