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You are obviously not a girl

Enters thread, views the topic, smh shakes head in sympathy for the op, opts outa thread

halfricanadian:
Bear grudges is not the same as staying away from more troubles and hoping for a better life

generally girls can bear grudges, esp if you are her bf...btw, why is your post reflecting twice??

delectablegyal:
The I.diot above thinks I'm playing. I'm damn serious this time, don't play with me.

futo, uniuyo, rsust and etc....btw, this should be in education section.

Monalisa185:
so a lagosian is meant to be a journey walker? lol...funny you

yes nau, @least that place is a popular place in lag na??

halfricanadian:
Remember for every action there is equal and opposite reaction

Op talked bou d girls reaction

We havent heard from d girl op myt have done worse and may b dis is d tym she decides to move on op take her actions now bt never rememberd his actions towards her such a biased world

well, i adviced him based on what he wrote upthere, yes true he might 've done worse behind closed doors but he has shown remours and the said girl is supposed to forgive him, but you know girls na, you people can bear grudges eh, but why are you like that??

Monalisa185:
hehehehe, no single idea... never been there though...

lol, and you are supposed to be a lagosian??

Monalisa185:
that's a question?

so, whats up with you this mawning, and what are your schedules like??

dharay99:

qive her a lil more tym
to know watz rilli up, if it continues...
0gbeni start packinq ur luggage out of
her life...no tym 4breastfeeding chicken.

which more tym again you talking bout??, hasn't he giving her enough tym ni?, and that's why i love the typa guy i am...@op, start acting asif you don't care even if it will hurt you inside, just endure it and act asif you dnt care....if she's still into you, she 'll be bothered why you are ignoring her, but if she doesn't show any concern...drop her and furge ahead in life my brother, no time again.

Monalisa185:
well, I'll notify you next time before leaving...we are? I totally forgot...good thing you reminded me...

i'd becoming for our national youth retreat @ajao est in lateef salami street, do you know there??

Monalisa185:
that's the way it should be...doing both

hehehehe...really finding you appealling??

Aminat508:


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Where una Dey?

oncourse with my sun glasses

Monalisa185:
hehehehe, if you didn't want to be left alone, you shoulda followed me na

yeah, you shoulda still notify me before leaving...remember we are built to meet in lag by august, remember??

Monalisa185:
hehehehe, if you didn't want to be left alone, you shoulda followed me na

yeah, you shoulda still notify me before leaving

Monalisa185:
thanks hommie , well, we pushing it...and you?

we taking it one step @ a time...you working or schooling??

Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.

don't marry her...most times we don't marry because of love, but with compatibility and understanding, and maybe becuse we have almost same inherent attributes and physical structures if you understand what i mean....except she changes from this her attitude don't take her to the alter yet, even if she promises to change let the change reflect in her utterances and actions, until then never you venture in marrying her...a word is enough for the wise.

Monalisa185:
it's good to be unstable once in a while, don't you think?

nope, i don't think so, reason being we are buddies and you left me alone here

Monalisa185:
because I'm surprised na...took a lil break off NL...hope you good?

Owk welcm bk..i'm good tho, hws schl werk??

OMG, so, this liecester of a team wan win league

And who cares....for opening this thread it means yua getting tired of being lonely and single

Cutehector:
Why can't a guy and a girl be together in a room alone without having funny thoughts...

why cant goat and yam stay in a room without the goat eating the yam

Monalisa185:
right here

lately you 've been so unstable;

This used to be in vogue in the stone age era,,,,for crying out loud this is 21st century we must join the moving train or you remain primitive for life

Monalisa185:

why are you surprised and where have you been??

skywalker240:
Its 2000/2001

2005

Pheals:
A woman abandoned her husband & her four (4) year old son for her rich boyfriend & they both (woman & boy friend) eventually travelled to the U.S.A

Out of frustration & desperation the husband went & married another woman. Unfortunately the 2nd woman couldn't bear a child for the husband. Despite her inability to bear a child, the 2nd woman took great care of the boy & treated him like her own son.

Few years later, the husband died in a car accident. The 2nd wife did everything in her power to educate the boy, she engaged in petty trade such as pepper, maggie, salt, palm oil, onion, tomatoes, etc, in the market square in order to sponsor the boy's schooling. The boy only knew his step mother as his real mother & there4, he called her Mama.

The real mother in the U.S.A did not for once find out about the wellbeing of her son talkless of sending a penny for the boy, even after she heard that her x-husband (son's father) died in an accident.

Some years later, this boy grew up into a very intelligent young man waiting for his B.A Hons degree in Petroleum Engineering from the University. The real mother who also could not bear another child in the U.S since she eloped with her boyfriend, realized that she had made a terrible mistake by abandoning her own son. She decided to return home to look for her son & present to him all her wealth acquired over the years in the States.

She eventually found her son battling between life & death .The Doctors demanded huge amount of money for the operation & the step mother couldn't afford it. The real mother stepped in & paid all the hospital bills and donate blood after the operations & the son was saved.

Shortly after, the final results were out & the son got a distinction & also got a five year (5) scholarship to pursue his Masters degree in the U.K

At the presentation of the certificate, the Vice Chancellor gave the mic to the son to call his mother to come up stage & receive the certificate. The moment the Vice Chancellor made the statement, the real mother got up & arranged herself waiting to be called upon whilst the step mother sat down & looked at the boy with tears running her chick.

The answer is suspended..........

Assume you are the son, who would you call on up stage?

A) Real Mother
B) Step Mother

Remember only one person you should call.

If u are in the guy shoes what could u do?

simple analogical ratio...weather i call on the U.S mother or my step mother, it doesn't matter....what matters are my intentions towards my step mother cos the truth is, i now have two mothers and i'd give equal attention and care to the both...infact, for the singular reason that my stead mother has no strength financially will make me accord her with much reverence and loyalty financially...




Bottompot, i'd keep the both closed to my heart always irrespective of who i called as my mother on the convocation day.

IZZIFLOW:
lolzz yes dat goal Kanu scored was Superb.....

, he draw the goal keeper go oneside and score

To me, this story looks half baked...con tell us the complete episode jare

Nope, he's not gay, wait till he start tapping you by the buttocks

Stupedinluv:
But the right boo would not make that face. watchu think?

that's exactly wah ah mean na...you wnt be shy when you do it with the right person sweery