godofwar666:
She still love you... Just relax she's just doing some stuff so dat she will be convince to love you more...... Lay low for now

dharay99:

qive her a lil more tym
to know watz rilli up, if it continues...
0gbeni start packinq ur luggage out of
her life...no tym 4breastfeeding chicken.

firstking01:
which more tym again you talking bout??, hasn't he giving her enough tym ni?, and that's why i love the typa guy i am...@op, start acting asif you don't care even if it will hurt you inside, just endure it and act asif you dnt care....if she's still into you, she 'll be bothered why you are ignoring her, but if she doesn't show any concern...drop her and furge ahead in life my brother, no time again.

skywalker888:
Are you for real?

halfricanadian:


Remember for every action there is equal and opposite reaction

Op talked bou d girls reaction

We havent heard from d girl op myt have done worse and may b dis is d tym she decides to move on op take her actions now bt never rememberd his actions towards her such a biased world

maxdozie:


Hmmmm
I did nothing bro
I have asked her that several times.

Not even cheating ... its the last fin on my mind

skywalker888:
Don't let anybody deceive you that she still loves you. That lady is no longer interested in you that's why she's giving you attitude.. If you are expecting her to sit you down and tell you she's no longer interested then you are sleeping on a moving bike


I will just advise you follow the advice given by Marinza, Tosyne2much, Basics007 and Boland. Goodluck

halfricanadian:


If she is not a runz girl

Then check yourself bro you did something

maxdozie:


She isnt bro.. far from that ...
If i did something wrong she should have told me about it instead of giving me the change of attitude ...

tosyne2much:
Though I'm not a relationship expert but lemme try if I can be of help


As for me, I don't suggest you call her and have a word with her just as some have said.. For God's sake how many times have you complained about her lackadaisical attitude? And to think having another word with her will reset her brain? bro, you are only wasting your time.


Don't force yourself on a lady even though it's obvious she no longer needs you. When you make someone a priority in life, you have given that person the chance to treat you like poo... Don't be swayed or be fooled when a lady tells you she will stay with you till the end of time and never hurt you. Since her promises no longer compliment her attitude, then it shows the relationship no longer interest her. A lady does not need to expressly tell you she's no longer interested in you b4 you know she's truly no longer interest. In fact, the way ladies now break up with men, is display a degree of lackadaisical attitude then it's left for you to decode the message

The truth of the matter is that, it's very obvious that she has found a better dude and one significant thing I notice about ladies is that when they have found someone else they begin to toy with your emotions, play kite or chess with your life as well as always give unending excuses to justify their actions . However, whether you open her head and speak sense into it, nothing can make a lady who has left you come back or regret her action not until she ends up having a sorrowful experience afterwards.

Yoruba adage says "a child will never desist going around fire until he touches the fire and has a slight burnt. This implies that it's obvious she wants to flirt and I will suggest you leave her alone to enjoy her life; if you are irreplaceable, she'd come back, otherwise if you rant, murmor and soliloquy from now till 2moro, she will continue to display those annoying attitude till you will let her be


At this point, I will advise you to stop calling her or chatting with her, don't send sms again. Henceforth, start acting like you no longer care she exists; if she flashes you, don't call back; if she calls asking why you haven't called her, tell her you have been busy doing something productive which has been taking much of your time; if she strikes up a chat with you, kindly give monosyllabic replies. Though this may be difficult but I believe you are a man (don't let emotion affect you right sense of reasoning)


By so doing, if she doesn't still behave well, it means she does not give a damn about you and I am of the opinion that you don't even need to tell her that the relationship is over, just bone her like that


I hope this helps

adepeter26:



Chai.... Claps 4 u ogA tosyne2much

@op,,follow this poster's advice. Well said

halfricanadian:


Remember for every action there is equal and opposite reaction

Op talked bou d girls reaction

We havent heard from d girl op myt have done worse and may b dis is d tym she decides to move on op take her actions now bt never rememberd his actions towards her such a biased world

firstking01:
well, i adviced him based on what he wrote upthere, yes true he might 've done worse behind closed doors but he has shown remours and the said girl is supposed to forgive him, but you know girls na, you people can bear grudges eh, but why are you like that??

firstking01:
well, i adviced him based on what he wrote upthere, yes true he might 've done worse behind closed doors but he has shown remours and the said girl is supposed to forgive him, but you know girls na, you people can bear grudges eh, but why are you like that??

halfricanadian:


Bear grudges is not the same as staying away from more troubles and hoping for a better life

firstking01:
generally girls can bear grudges, esp if you are her bf...btw, why is your post reflecting twice??

halfricanadian:

Nothing

firstking01:
hmmm, hw u been??

halfricanadian:

Good you?

firstking01:
fine..aws yur nyt?

halfricanadian:

Good thank u for asking

firstking01:
don't mention...it's my obligation

firstking01:
don't mention...it's my obligation

halfricanadian:

Obligation meaning ? U avnt found a gf abi
Im not available u av been on my case like since forever.

firstking01:
it's Owk

halfricanadian:

Good

maxdozie:
Am really confused guys.. i need help..

I started dating this girl 2 years ago, it was all moving well ,she told me she loved me and she proved it a countless times.
She did things no other girl has ever done for me, Her promises where keep and always fulfilled, including giving me her Facebook password, our calls where like forever, she could continue singing i love you for hours ..
She was not just my girlfriend, she was a friend, A date , and a wife all in one

This many things made me love like no other. I could go extra miles just to make her happy, i was always there when needed, no matter how busy i was i always made time for her alot of it.

But things changed suddenly
Just few months ago and she started behaving strange
Like no more calls, no more messages
I took it upon myself to do the calling but that didn't end there
Sometime i could call for 20times at night and she wont pick only for her to give me an excuse or the other ..
She always has an excuse to give for her failure to do something , even her promises are no more kept , the most lil of them all she cant keep nor fulfil she would always tell me she forgot..

She has started a life of lies it was unlike her, today i asked her if she was in class and she said yes and she sent me a fake pic of a class with white students in them..
I confronted her and told her she was lying but she kept insisting till i hanged up the call,
I was really sad all through today tonight she called back and apologized and said she was joking ... she promised me she wont
Make me sad again .. she asked me to come online so we could chat..
I had to go outside the rain bought airtime subscribed .. but when i came online she wasn't there
I tried calling her but she wont pick ,i called her cousin and she said she just left for a birthday

I don't sincerely know what to do guys.. she is fast in saying she loves me but all she does is make me sad ...
What can i do please help me

firstking01:

halfricanadian:

What happened?