Romance › Re: Who Do Nairaland Moderators Sometimes Ban People Unnecessarily by firstking01(m): 7:17pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Berlynn: let today just end already i have seen enough  You should learn how to ignore some mentions...sometimes when you see threads like this just view and pass  |
Romance › Re: Is It Advisable To Give Money To A Girl For The First Time Seeing Her? by firstking01(m): 5:09pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
firstking01: Well, i 'll say it all depends.....
If she asked you for money on the first date, pls don't dare give her otherwise prepare to be giving her money always...
If you are giving her money out if a cheerful and generous heart, then make her understand that you are giving her out of your generousity otherwise she will keep coming for more of which with time you'd grow weary of it...
Again, guys should desist from this mentality of "if i impress her with money she will love me", in the end she 'll use your money and flirt with her real bf. |
Romance › Re: Is It Advisable To Give Money To A Girl For The First Time Seeing Her? by firstking01(m): 4:59pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Well, i 'll say it all depends.....
If she asked you for money on the first date, pls don't dare give her otherwise prepare to be giving her money always...
If you are giving her money out if a cheerful and generous heart, then make her understand that you are giving her out of your generousity otherwise she will keep coming for more of which with time you'd grow weary of it...
Again, guys should desist from this mentality of "if i impress her with money she will love me", in the end she 'll use your money and flirt with her real bf. |
Romance › Re: Would You Endorse The Legalization Of Abortion? by firstking01(m): 3:26pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Nonsense, which ever name you tag it, it's murder and there's a penalty for it  |
Romance › Re: How To Make Your Ex Feel Useless And Desperate by firstking01(m): 11:40am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Massive success does it better |
Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Attracted To Ugly Guys? by firstking01(m): 7:38am On Feb 18, 2017 |
It has to be so for the equation of life to be ballanced  |
Romance › Re: Abstinence From Sex Guarantees Long Life - Scientists. by firstking01(m): 7:31am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Scientist always trying to fault nature. |
Romance › Re: Top Ten Girls Who Are Ready To Be Single Until Further Notice by firstking01(m): 7:30am On Feb 18, 2017 |
coolestchris2: 1)sinaj
2)berylnn
3)twaci
4)horlohlah
5)ireneony
6)makydebbie
7)pinkjacket/airforce
8?)mizk
9)ginaz
this ladies are ready to miss all valentine day...
Guys don't bother to toast them,its just a waste of precious m.b Because they all turned down your lustful advances abi?....nigga follow grow brain, this is 2017  |
Sports › Re: Referee Clattenburg Quits Premier League For Saudi Role by firstking01(m): 7:25am On Feb 18, 2017 |
I just like this man... |
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Romance › Re: 6 Key Ways To Heal After A Heart Broken by firstking01(m): 9:01pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
hyman9ja: Heartbreak is not easy to overcome many of us keep the memory alive by with the decisions we take daily and not giving ourselves the chance to heal or find love again. we have listed ways you can bounce back from a hurtful relationship and find love again. According to Paul McKenna and Hugh in How To Mend Your Broken Heart he described heartbreak as the searing pain of a failed relationship and it is the greatest pain many of us will ever feel. Below are 6 key ways to heal after a heart broken
# ACCEPT THE PRESENT SITUATION
Accept that you will have to go through some pain. It is an unavoidable truth that if you loved enough to be heartbroken, you have to experience some suffering. When you lose something that mattered to you, it is natural and important to feel sad about it: that feeling is an essential part of the healing process. The problem with broken-hearted people is that they seem to be reliving their misery over and over again. If you cannot seem to break the cycle of painful memories, the chances are that you are locked into repeating dysfunctional patterns of behavior. Your pain has become a mental habit. This habit can, and must, be broken.
# CHANGE YOUR HABITS
Now you have to break those connections. Turn off the music that reminds you of your ex. Make your home look and feel different from when your loved one was around. Move the furniture. Take up a new activity. And keep moving: exercise is the single most effective therapy for depression. The point of these changes is to break up the old associations and give yourself a new environment for your new life. The changes you make don't have to be permanent. Even if it is just using a different shampoo and deleting your ex's number from the memory of your mobile, change something. Now.
# CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS
The next step is to do the same thing on the inside - transform your habits of thought. In a relationship, we build up a huge array of such habits. When the love affair ends, these patterns can still be running. To change your thinking habits, you need to understand a little more about them. Have you ever witnessed the same event as someone else, and later found out their account of it was completely different from yours? Each of you saw the event through a 'frame', made up of your personal beliefs, feelings and internal habits. If you are finding it devastatingly difficult to handle the end of your relationship, you may need to change this 'frame'. You will need to reframe your heartbreak. Stop seeing it as the end of your happiness. Instead, turn it into a challenge; view it as an opportunity.
Being heartbroken can make you feel worthless and hopeless - but that is because the frame you are using is too narrow. Learning to see your situation with a different frame is a wonderful liberation.
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Facebook: https://facebook.com/lovesfactory Twitter: https://twitter.com/lovefac3 Whatsapp Group: +2348066824350 PalmChat: LOVE AND LOVE FACTORY So, you are trying to tell us that one of the key ways to heal after a heartbreak is by following you abi? |
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Romance › Re: 10 Norms You Should Know If You Are Travelling Through Nigeria by firstking01(m): 8:53pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
And the bible has come to abolish all these man-made and the law of sin and dead...i wonder why people still practice them. |
Romance › Re: Help: I'm Yoruba But Fascinated By Igbo Girls. by firstking01(m): 5:30pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
Bro, it's your personal life, go and do whatever you deem fit with it and stop disturbing our peace here  |
Romance › Re: Ladies 18 Things You Should Never Put In Your Vagina by firstking01(m): 5:18pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
pittoilet: olosho connect YeaH, what do you use on yours?? |
Health › Re: See What The Vagina Looks Like Under Microscopic View. by firstking01(m): 5:17pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
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Health › Re: See What The Vagina Looks Like Under Microscopic View. by firstking01(m): 5:16pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
Kingsley1000: thats the epithelial linning of the vulva ,it is rudimentary equivalent to vestibule I hear...biologist  |
Health › Re: See What The Vagina Looks Like Under Microscopic View. by firstking01(m): 5:13pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
I doubt if this is VG. |
Romance › Re: Dear Aderola15 I Pray You Are Not Married by firstking01(m): 5:12pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
Aderola15: I like his moniker for real  Just give him a chance jare...i know you are not married. |
Romance › Re: Ladies 18 Things You Should Never Put In Your Vagina by firstking01(m): 5:08pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
pittoilet: i thought it's guys that use cream. vaseline crews them  Most girls use cream to rob on their VG for easy penetration, that's if their VG is very tight...it's common with prostitutes. |
Romance › Re: Ladies 18 Things You Should Never Put In Your Vagina by firstking01(m): 5:01pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Add To The Story With One Sentence (intellectuals Only) by firstking01(m): 3:33pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
This thread won't trend i swear |
Romance › Re: Build Up To My Birthday by firstking01(m): 12:09pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
pinkjacket: I will forever be proud of you cuz of your honesty.
I will always cherish you and everything you stand for. you're a movement and their is no stopping you now till you attain greatness.
Happy Birthday in advance sunshine. Tfu, heap of garbage. |
Romance › Re: bleeped non intentional,getting to lose a year relationship by firstking01(m): 12:00pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
Nonsense. |
Romance › Re: This Cute 19 Year Old Girl Has A Strange Addiction by firstking01(m): 9:02am On Feb 17, 2017 |
Mtcheew. |
Romance › Re: Happy Birthday To Alobright17 & Lawlahdey by firstking01(m): 8:58am On Feb 17, 2017 |
Hbd to the dous eventhough i don't really know e'm  |
Romance › Re: Finally! I Found The Love Of My Life by firstking01(m): 8:50am On Feb 17, 2017 |
Queentito: Hope your outing with your itel S31 went well? You didn't come back and give us gist Didn't getchu, pls recapitulate, and this time around be plain  ?? |
Education › Re: 5 Seccret Societies That Actually Control The World. by firstking01(m): 10:30pm On Feb 16, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Recession Guys: See Why Girl Snubbed Guy At A Mall by firstking01(m): 6:58pm On Feb 16, 2017 |
LuvU2: I wont gv him my number too. U dnt treat a lady like thar  Even if u didn't want ta pay dont leave when its payment time. Rubbish, from the way she sounded she would 've still asked the dude to pay... |
Romance › Re: 6 Text Messages That Shows The Woman You're Dating As A Liability by firstking01(m): 6:53pm On Feb 16, 2017 |
And you will see all theses signs and still nod your head in affirmation that you gonna be doing it huh??....i don't wanna believe that there are guys who still fall prey of these golddigging traits. |
Romance › Re: Kenyan Man Shares After-sex Pictures Of Him With His Sister-in-law by firstking01(m): 2:35pm On Feb 16, 2017 |
That's all they know, rubbish. |
Romance › Re: Who's Justin Bieber To You? by firstking01(m): 2:34pm On Feb 16, 2017 |
Girls, fantasy and wishes, smh  |