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Stupedinluv:
But it can work if you are cute and smart af. I mean smarrrrt

Ok.

dukeokafor:
One friday in December 2016, my friend came to my room crying profusely like as if someone from his family died. At first, I was taken aback because he was the least person I expected to see cry. He has the whole macho thing going on for him, he's more built and taller than I am. So, ordinarily I just felt it would be hard for someone like that to shed tears.


So, after I calmed him down, I then asked what made him cry. He told me it was his girlfriend that made him cry. She doesn't care for him, he doesn't think she loves him, he keeps trying to make her happy but it seems everything he does ain't good enough. He was even trying to talk to her and she walk out on him without saying a word even when she saw him cry. He added that he's not sure he could take it anymore. 'Wawu!'

I felt his pain. He is in love. I asked him, "what do you want to do?". 'I no do again', he said. I said nothing, just kept telling him to calm down. Today, not up to 20 minutes ago, I saw him and the girl all loved up and I just shook my head with mixed feelings.

Love, we give power to the people who hurt us, all in the name of love. Why do we have this fear that we are gonna lose them? At the end, we will. But, do we let them take a part of us too while they go? No. A love that makes us lose ourselves negatively in the process is not worth it. You are to lose yourself in order to grow stronger and not weaker.

Take note.

At a point in our cylindrical lives we give power to people to hurt us which is why i define love as giving someone the opportunity to hurt us but trusting they won't.

Stupedinluv:
And let me remind you too. Reverse psychology does not work on me

See this one, who's doing reverse psycho huh?....you should know me better...if i like you i will tell you without hesitation.

amprat:
Coming back from Ajah the other day I boarded this conductors bus.Unlike the typical conductors he had good manners,spoke well and was clean and reasonably dressed.Even being merciful to people that had incomplete fare. What i admired most was the way he cordinated the whole business.I concluded within my mind that this one is husband material (unfortunately am taken) with no doubt in my mind that if he has more resources he will do better than most company CEOs.shout out to all men that take pride in their work and do it with joy.

Stop lying you can never marry a conductor.

MVPcalls:
I'm curious about your siggy, what is it about? #WorldStar

It's a song by eric donaldson.

Stupedinluv:
I didn't mean it in that sense. I usually use huh and hun interchangeably.

Warreva.

Any girl that falls for this is in for a deep sh!t...an igbo guy?, smh.

Stupedinluv:
Don't be mad hun I just reminded him of how ugly he is.

And who are you honeying

Ok

I hate it when it's too big

Stupedinluv:
Jealoused?

Op u no fine a beg

What's jealoused?

Hehehehehe, atimes the people we date open our eyes to the reality of life...good a thing you are being sincere to yourself and you realised your mistakes and took the right decision...my advice, just continue in the decision you 've taken, you are on the right path...that girl doesn't deserve an intch of your love...i bet after she must 've exhausted that exuberating spirit controling her she will come back to her senses and perhaps comes to beg you, @this point you'd be a fool to welcome her back to your arms...move on and never look back.

If only you 've seen a pastor with "class and taste"...they are the most romantic...i'm sure you would 've wished chris oyakhilome married you

All these faithless christians sef....c'mmon, all of you should come together, hold your hands in one accord and in agreement and pray using healing scriptures...remember if the two of you shall agree on a thing it shall come to pass, for whatever you bind on earth is bind in heaven, and whatever you lose on earth is losed in heaven...remember the story of lazarus of bethany?, he was rottened for 4 days yet jesus resurrected him amidst the discouragement from mary magdalen....bro, if you can kabash in tonques it's an added advantage, go ahead and pray whereever you are now, i'm joining you...no devil can take your sisters life...Pray only in the name of jesus...c'mmon.

Ok, continue like that until your wife meets another man who understand the technics in bedmatics.

Divay22:
Hmmmm.

Ehen?, sent a message on whatsapp, seen?

Nonsense stup!d thread

Some girls are just sheer foolish by default.

Divay22:
[img][/img]When will the validity end

As soon as you say yes, you know what i mean.

A typical example of who i am...there's this song we used to sing back then in sec abi primary school sef, "good better best, i shall never rest, until my good is better i shall never rest"...being or aspiring to be a perfectionist ain't wrong et-all, after all jesus told us to be perfect even as our heavenly father is perfect....when there's a willingless there must be a way out .

Divay22:
Hope i didn't talk out of point

Nah, you made a valid point.

B2Spirits:
Whenever I make sarcastic statements that I would like be laughed off, I add . But at times, users use other Smileys that may mean they are angry or whatever. How does one interpret those smileys when one is seen?

, if it's a girl, she should know that i have a huge crush on her....hence the angry face

All these your segregations on nairaland, well, he nor concern me.

Divay22:
Why are you still talking to her.... She's just jealous you didn't push further,you gave up too soon

Hmmm

keezy125:
Happy Sunday pals.... I noticed some changes in me and really need some advice from you guys. I have a girlfrnd i have dated for four months nw and we love each other that we see almost everyday. The truth is that we both love sex and we do it in every two or three days. Now am this person that can go for two or three times in sex and still won get tired but recently I just go onces and cum and my dick won rise again, even when I know my gulffnd is not yet satisfied and still need more banging but still I won feel the orgy. My question is this, are my been too addicted to sex or is it infection? Please I need your advice

Desist from premarital sex it's a sin

Eventhough the real essence has been altered and abused, in the history of mankind there's always a day set aside to honour something and love was one of the days...but in this case i think the main purpose was to honour st.valentine who died for love.

abdulkabirO:
We all know God condemned the shedding of blood, while would He then sanction the shedding of blood of Jesus? Read Deut. 12: 29 - 32 with particular reference to verse 31. i am a religions student and i need clarification from anyone

You are a religious student…i know the answer but i will allow you to continue to wallow in your ignorant state cos i percieve your question is rhetorical.

jaykaylegend:
So in modern day Christianity, especially in Nigeria we have plenty of Christian spiritual leaders.. And most of them have different titles in front of their names, while PASTOR seem to be the most common of them all, we have many other leaders with different titles like, bishop, reverend, father, apostle, evangelist etc..


So what are the difference(s) between these church titlestitles and does it bear anany meaning to the way the gospel is being preached??

NO difference whatsoever...they are just mere titles given amongst men in christiandom .

Joettti:
God Bless Your Hustle!!!!!! Happy Sunday Bro!!!!!

Bless you too brother.

abdulkabirO:
let me start by asking you what Christianity means?is that word in the bible?
the same goes for trinity,i challenge all Christians to give me a verse where the word trinity appear in the bible

Smh, all these jehovah witnesses and arguement...In col 2 vs 9 apostle paul adressed God as a deity that lives in a body form which is the eternal Godhead, God the father, God the son and God the holy spirit...the 3 lives in one(God)....study and believe the bible and stop reading the bible to look for what you can use to argue....the problem with you is that, you use only one version of the bible and you are hell bent and stuck with it and that's why i don't welcome you cos you lack spiritual revelation.

This is awesomely wonderful and a spiritual food to the soul and to nourish our mortal body....




One benefit i 've been privileged to enjoy as a christian is living in the supernatural ...need i say much.

My dear, he has not married you yet and you are this demanding...i know a guy should support his girl when the need be but you don't need to overtly be dependent of him...i'm sure you are the demanding type that's why he got fed up with your inceasants demands....women should try as much as possible to establish themselves before entering marriage...this is one huge diff between the white women and the black women.