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bubu2019:
what are you thinking? BIZI BODI,agant of death,if presido die,will you eat the deadbody?

Kentura:
Valentine this Valentine that..

na so short girls wee be wearing red dresses and be looking like fire extinguishers

STILESGANG:
Nigerian fathers are doing a very bad job. Raising sissies instead of men, imagine a grown ass man crying because of a girl. Wtf!

If a girl thinks she is too beautiful for one guy to keep. Then am too handsome for one bitch.

No girl has ever treated me like trash and no girl ever will. I deal with girls with 99% of my brain and 1% of my heart

desquad:
i don't do val


I'll just order some vintage refiner wine and enjoy my day with the wine

Microflux:
I am yet to comprehend why we allow some codes somewhere determine how we live our lives. It so funny how some rules made by some persons somewhere deprive us of our happiness in life.

The society in a bid to achieve social order through social construct, so restricts us that we almost live our entire lives for the society.
Questioning societal conventions has so much become abominable in our society that we live our lives acting out scripts drafted by fellow men.
I understand that the world has been almost entirely patriarchal that a woman’s role and place have often been quite subjugable.

The society has so restricted women and shoved them to the corner that they are often seen as options.
Consequently, this gender subjugating system has become really predominant in Africa that women have been reduced to mere kitchen elements.

Some African men are so myopic and sentimental that they selfishly allow their stomach come first as a parameter among others in choosing a life partner. When an African man is in love with a lady, such love can die down right on the spot precisely because of the lady’s inability to cook. What a myopic traditional perspective!

Am I of the opinion that rules are wrong? Not all! I am only of the opinion that certain rules or codes need to be reviewed and questioned once in a while. Any rule that prevents man from being man is no rule!
Why on earth should a woman’s ability to cook be the algebraic sum of the qualities she possesses?! I refuse to put up with such mentality.

In fact, whether or not a woman can cook, should never be a parameter for a man when choosing his life partner.
To me, a woman who can not cook is not so much different from a man who can not cook. The day we begin to treat people first as humans before even considering what ability or societal imposed defects they possess, the day the society takes its first right step towards attaining social justice and balance.

Since the ability to cook is not encoded in anybody’s DNA, there is therefore is no point ascribing such a role to a particular gender. In fact, if a woman is to be ashamed of herself for not knowing how to cook, then a man should not be far from doing the same.
The world has gone beyond being primitive. It is laughable that some persons have refused to keep pace with it.
There are a lot of catering schools out there. Who says catering schools are for commercial caterers only? For goodness sake, a person who can not cook(be it female or male) can always go there and learn.

The fact that a woman can not cook does not imply she lacks home training. The phrase ” home training, ” is relative and stereotypical in perspective.
I believe a man should care more about whether a woman possesses the ability to learn. It can never be any late to learn. So, instead of looking out for a woman’s ability to cook when choosing a partner, look out for the willingness in her ability to learn.
Your partner’s inability to cook should never be a reason for you to break up with her. What if man did not have to cook his meal before eating it? This could mean nobody would have no business in the kitchen.

Can you try looking past your stomach and focus on the bigger picture?

by Explicit

http://scholarzine.com.ng/why-a-womans-ability-to-cook-should-never-be-a-criterion-when-choosing-by-explicit/

Rachaeleanah:
Awwn... Only of everybody could have sense like you!!
Thanks for the piece! God bless!

Sebastine1994:
do you think she constructed that sentence. She copied it fro one cheap love book.

sophiawisdom:
A month ago I had a cut on my foot and without thinking my boyfriend licked my blood. I was so surprise, I don't expect him to do that. I was like "is it because he loves me or what". It is so abstract to me. Can you lick your lover'so blood?

Uglykelvin:
when I said "woo guys" I didn't mean every guy she comes across.. its normal for girls to show guys they like green light but what about those that go for guys they really like and hit the nail on the head?

abdulkabirO:
story for the gods,if you are sound like you said and u have the spirit of god to understand the bible,say something meaningful!

abdulkabirO:
just tell me you will go and ask your memory lane teacher,obviously all the answers you all have given is just nothing to write home about.
but am not surprised,the bible was compiled through a medium called [/b]the oral tradition[b]\. it was never written when Jesus was alive,because of that there were a lot of interpolations,distortions,add and drop and what a view.That is why there are 1001 contradictions in the bible,you can challenge me to bring some contradictions,i can help you with it.many of our lecturers who have become professors in Christian and comparative studies find it difficult to explain all these contradictions in the so called book of god and that is why they result to having different version of the bible, i wonder how a book from god will have versions.we now have Queen James version where different things if not the whole thing has been removed and replaced with what suit the women race.
with this,we can safely arrive at a consensus that the bible was concocted and there for invalid and null
You don't need to abuse my person,i never abused any of you since i opened the thread,all u need is give me intelligent answers and you are good

Zceesneh:
u have issues with me this guy, whats ur problem? i don't know ur problem

amprat:
Never say Never.Obasanjo is a farner, am not sure how far Okoya got in terms of education.check out their wives (and maybe side chicks)

Zceesneh:
i have test tomorrow, i have tired my best to read and understand buh nothing is working i just bought peak milk rather it got worse, am feeling sleepy right now which drug can help me to read and understand what am reading

makydebbie:
So you opened thread for us to do what?
Cry with you?

Stupedinluv:
By now you should know it doesn't work on most ladies.

Sorry er