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A patient that was taught how to use a sitz bath goes home and does what the mum or mum inlaw tells now end up having complications like a fistula, Even had d guts to sue d Hospital, of course she ended up embarrassing herself.

A patient who has CS and is as dirty as shii... Plus instead of coming to the hospital now decided to press the suture area with hot water.... Or the one that refused to take her antibiotics. Or the one that's saving money and wants to b discharged etc.

A woman came to the hospital with her sons circumcision site practically rotten... Guess what that was not why she came. She came becos of fever. She was hiding the circumcision tingy from us.

I can go on and on... Some patients are overzealous plus oversabi.. They want to dictate what shld be given to them.. Sometimes so Rude.
I'm not going to defend any Dr but some patients are more than a handful. I know how many times I've had to ask a patient to sign that he or she is going against medical advise.

MiddyO:
Heard it recently too, although I plan to use Sebamed Baby Wash for newborns. I heard of one local black soap prepared in the market too with plenty concoction. (I don't trust this one sha)

stick to the sebamed.

MiddyO:
Nerf you know our stories are similar, I lost my own preg @ 22.5 weeks shortly after you. Private hospital on Bourdillon o!
My friend's sister almost died in the UK from infected CS site last year. Gross negligence ni o.

So UK too de struggle o, NHS isn't all that in my opinion

sorry for your loss....
UK? Infected CS site... Wow.

Some negligence shld also b blamed on some
Patients... Some patients over sabi is too much ... They'll try all other means like self medication, advice from people before coming to the hospital.
And some patients can lie... Lie about everything.. What's even for their own good.

shawlar:
Just coming back from the Naija embassy people @ Comfort Inn.
They are not issuing visas and even the passports they are processing will take 4-6weeks before you can collect it... - like I said, not for me.
The man also said that instead of an ETC, i can apply for the visa online and there is an option of collecting it in MMA II when I arrive in Nigeria...
That is what he said oh...., I don't know if it will work and I'm not that adventurous to try it mesef...

lol... Just do ur ETC ABEG.... Before we hear stories that touch the heart

gratefulalways:
Congrats to all the new mummies & daddies in the house. Please I'd like to ask, at what stage of pregnancy should one begin to scout for a doctor & hospital in the US for child birth. Is it too early at 3 months. Thanks for your feedback

anytime is OK. Especially after the first trimester.

MiddyO:
Yam is not allowed, Agriculture will seize it if they see it. Knorr cubes (not chicken), dry pepper too

its to hide it o.... Very very well. I hid my knorr chicken and I'm glad I did.

Bisoye82:
Good morning everyone.Congratulations to all the new mommies and daddies in the house. I have been a silent reader for a while now and have read most of part 1,all of 2 and the ongoing 3 and my people you are super awesome.

My ibere is for the Iya Ibeji's in the house because am expecting 2 as well, i have relative for Ohio but the estimate i got from Obgyn is bearable but hospital own wan make me piss for bodi(about $40k) they said they will apply 30% discount but its still high because it excludes paeditrician,epidural and all post natal care. I wan port go Atlanta therefore i need info and actual cost of doctor,hospital bill(considering CS,NICU/nursery,epidural,all possible post natal care for mother and babies) accommodation, ati bebe lo from someone who has delivered there.

My email is helagba@gmail.com. thanks

most people here having twins go to elpaso.

MiddyO:
Dusting powder in that red container for the baby, Dudu Osun soap for baby, rubb for aching back etc, blue seal Vaseline for baby, Tom Tom, and ur ante natal drugs.

dusting powder? It's called agnesia.

But anyway There are now things like diaper rash and skin rash creams that clears the rashes very fast. I know they sell it in naija, but I saw better ones in Walmart... For like $2.

They also have badass vaseline here.

For the antenatal drugs... I came with my pregnacare, but when I got here, Na pack my Dr pack ANC drugs give me. It's totally free here.

Then the duduosun part.... Hmmmm... That soap that's harsh for some adults not to talk of a baby.

twingirls:
@ Modath and firstymum, thanks so much. God bless you. So i just need my drugs, coconut oil, sheabutter, pears baby oil, sponge? So I can go get my shawl, bouncer, flask, methylated spirit, cottonwool, flannel et all there? That's good o, dat means I wldnt need to shop here then! Plenty load to carry come Naija o . Thanks mum, I'm most gratefull

Yes yes yes. You'll see variety too... And u have the luxury of relaxing at home nd shopping online

Peebles23:
Bros olokings I've been trying to reapply oo nd I just can't it kept saying I cannot cancel @ this time pls I need ur guidance oo although my interview date was today like I earlier said I was denied. Waiting for ur swift response thanks. kisses to NB nd hugs For DW too

it's too soon to reapply

Shawlar

Since Nigeria consulate is here for now... won't u just go there and do d visa?

olokings:
Greetings @firsty. ..long time no quote. ..
How market na. .hope the ministry is about to establish it's regional he
...

I see u coaching someone to u know what... Hahahhahahhahhahaaaahahha.


Wait for this ministry to establish o... But waiting patiently for hubby to comman use his magic stick and offcourse experience the whole thing.

shrekandfiona:
I troway salute @ Modath. My friend was traumatised o. They flew biz class to US and she said after they cancelled their visas, they were returned back on the worst economy seats. No leg room for her, she was 34 weeks gone. She had her baby prematurely @ 34 weeks immediately they landed cos baby was distressed.

Very traumatising I tell ya.

I follow waka enter part 3 o. Congrats @ ozycy

This is just so painful... See d money she wasted... And how they traumatized her.. Mscheew. They didn't even consider the children sef. E just pain me

olokings:
@shawlar ur pm reply is giving failure delivery. ..

I dey hail sir...

bmanbaba:
@All. I will like to start by appreciating everybody on this forum . I av read almost the whole pages from part 1. You guys are helping a lot of pple . please I av some questions. Although,some pple have asked similar question but I don't think d answers addressed my situation completely. I got a B1B2 visa with my wife a and Daughter in January 2015 for family vacation.we bought the ticket in march and schedule the trip for Sept. My wife became pregnant in May. We however proceeded on our trip in sept has planned. We spent exactly 2 weeks and presently back to Nigeria. It was while we were there that Frnd and family adviced us to come have the baby in the USA. Also at the POE,the officer there noticed that my wife is pregnant and asked if we were there to av d baby. We said No that we only came for holiday.which is true bcus we never tot of it . She will b due in Feb 2016. Please what are our chances at the POE. ? Thank you. So sorry for the lengthy Torry.

You've gone and come back so no wahala. But then send a change of intent to the embassy. There are people that weren't even pregnant during the vacation but was still asked for the letter at the poe

bmanbaba:
@Dere5. Thank you for ur response. I av contacted doctoespirati(thanks to d house) and also another hospital in New york (from a Frnd) might b going for the one in new York which seems cheaper and also bcus I av relative to stay with before and after delivery till we will come back home.
I av read pple make comments abt(1) Burden of proof. (Kindly explain what it is and how to get it(2) Budget sheet . please do I equally need these or are they necessary for pple just going for interview and finally, pls how do I go abt d change of intent mail to the embassy: whats d email address, what's the content going to look like and if possible can anybody help send a copy to my email. I beg the whole house to please help with these. Thank you

and then u said u have read through the thread... Smh

PLEASE READ THE THREAD O.. HMMMM. THESE CBP OFFICIALS AIN'T SMILING NO MORE.
Those people are plain mean... Let's avoid stories that touch the heart

Modath darling how's ur LO...

twingirls:
@ firstymum, Nasadiva, Modath, Ozycy and other experienced mommas in the house, pls can we be guided on what to buy in Nigeria before traveling for childbirth? It will be difficult to buy all from the states, and even more difficult to go shopping with baby wen back in Naija. Pls and pls do advise, what's worth buying here before porting? E se pupo.

here u can shop online... For Me If I Waka small I start having contractions... And my hubby never come Yet... So na online shopping I dey do. But I bought drugs and basic things. Buy Maggi o...
Buy yam if u love yam... The yam here no b am.
Heard naija pears baby oil (has olive oil and shii) is very good for baby hair. You prolly shld buy that.

tatacherie:
@
In oda news, I've not been able to fart for days,so uncomfortable it seems lo is standing on my anux I've kpekus taya to shake him off that area..for wer..God dey sha

how I solved this was kneeling in doggy style position.... On the bed like u r expecting hubby to u know what.

Or same position but chair. As In ur head on d chair and ur knees on d floor.

Ensure u have airfreshner near by... Because en.. Hmmmmm

Ozycy the fear of oxytocin hahahhhahahhaha.... Them hear something for ur hand. Congratulations again dear

curve:
Amen@Sharon6

Congrats to all October mamas that have delivered or yet to deliver( I still dey learn names little by little)

Any team novembe like me that is yet to do laundry or even pack?

Ozycy i will payyyyy full fee, i will even pay for the next ttc mama that will migrate here

Haaaaa zaynie abi na Ozycy Abeg borrow me ur cane.... See my team mate oooo.... She never do laundry or buy Baby things

neks31:
Hi firsttymum pls wot airline did u take from nej to Houston n how dd u book d flight I hope I'm not asking too much

I flew United. Lufthansa was to frankfurt... The rest was United Normal way people book flights na... I didn't book d flights differently. Except I don't get u. I wanted to avoid Atlanta and Houston completely.. [quote author=omogedudu99 post=38960348][/quote]100 dols monthly.... Hian what! I'm using same T-Mobile and I'm not even paying up to 1/3rd of that.

afrobrown2000:
Wow...got my PTA for my wife and i...easy and friendly service at fidelity bank for 199.45 ...next is my trip made a mistake to have chicago as my POE...abeg any expert advice on that's cos for now no turning back....Am in God's hands ooo...any advice pls...leaving 2mao morning...

just rearrange ur documents.... And pray... God pass them.
You'll b surprised they won't even stress u at all. Max 3 mins at d poe Amen....

I'm not the class captain o.

But teamnovember hope u r done with shopping for ur baby and u r packing ur bags....
U r not traveling for vacation those of u packing the whole house...


#teamnovemberforsupernaturalchildbirth

lightedpath:
Congratulations to ozycy and virtuouswife. God bless your princesses. Now firstymum will have the liver to be Nov captain. Captain nt necessarily the last to deliver o

hahhahahahhaaha...... Donno why u or chiwendym won't b class captain en....

Virtuouswife:
My princess arrived yesterday 12/10/15 at exactly 11:05. God is wonderful. Beautiful BS Coming ur way soon.

congratulations darling....

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ozycy:
Hahaha, u don hear d gist already

Ehen na.... I have so many people to visit.... Chai

ozycy:
Wow Nasadiva, you don reach here? Join me in praising GOD, I just delivered my beautiful baby girl at Oakbend abt 1hr ago. Mother and child are doing real good. My GOD is an awesome GOD.

Yeepee congratulations darling

onelove29:
Hi guys,

Please any ideas on how much banks charge using atm card for transfers or pos?i learnt some banks charge as high as 240/$. Any ideas please: standard chartered, fcmb, stanbic,diamond,uba or zenith.

220.5

Lemme be the first to say congratulations to OZYCY on this forum.... October class captain don born.... Congratulations darling.... Yeepee

IyeEjima:
@ ozycy, Temismith n Megilicious Amen to d wonderful prayers, cnt wait to share d gudnews n start giving pregnancy updates. Kai, body jst dey swit me for dis thread, so much positive energy n so much luv to share
Happy bumping n happy vigilante mamas

ur good news is knocking on ur door..... Before u know it you'll b sharing pregnancy experiences and updates. I love ur positivity... God has blessed you with your children in Jesus name

Happytbaby thanks I actually meant any special place aside in Nigeria aside d landing card.

neks31:
Yes on d landing card!

Neks31 thanks my darling

LadyGuinivere:
U don declare am na.

Ladyguinivere thanks jare...

akelvin:
Firsty;thanks,sent a pm already

uptown17:
thanks firsty. bbiz i have Pmed you
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You both are welcome


Justwise thanks alot

MiddyO:
Thanks dear! Hope you have settled in properly? And I have yam and egg here o!

Haaaaa be serious don't give me hope o....