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Morhakon47:
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Morhakon47:
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Do not make a mess of the trust invested in you; anger can bring out the worst in even the best people, making them to become vindictive. Lovers share a lot between themselves including secrets and flaws they don’t feel comfortable letting someone else know. Don’t break your partner’s trust by referring them to something they told you in secret just in a bid to break them or... See more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2016/11/7-simple-things-you-shouldnt-do-when_29.html

Some things happen that make us question what we thought we knew. Good people derail and a seemingly great marriage ends. We are riddled with lots of questions we fight hard to understand. Could it be this or that, we wonder. Could it have been fixed? Is there hope for the new ones yet to tie the knot? How does one know what works and what doesn’t?... See more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2016/11/important-tips-on-staying-married.html

oga daddy Sly, make room for trust na.

DaddySLY:
The only woman i trust in tis shitty world is my Mum...n even she doesnt have my password...

hmmm... dont you think that can be misinterpreted as you having skeletons in your closet

YtivitissuP:
I enjoy privacy a lot.... I'd say no

your phone and social media passwords?

Edwinmason:
it depend on what has the password

Married men with cheating wives may never get a hint of their wives’ promiscuity by peeping out of the window to see who dropped them off anymore. There are people that have full blown affairs in different social media inboxes. This might sound like a good case for the snooping wife who wants a decent reason to keep tabs on her upwardly mobile husband. Why

But if one gives in to all these presumptions that a lot can go wrong, where is the place of trust and mutual respect in marriages and relationships? Or when can one be said to have crossed the line. Is there always going to be justification for the inse... See more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2016/11/trust-in-relationships-will-you-share.html

thanks... Of course you can

halfricanadian:
wise words that i follow glad op cud share it to people

God isn't an author of confusion. Trust me, he gave us wills for a reason.

youngest85:
what if God says he's still d one?

Getting married quick becomes a woman’s heart desire once she gets to a certain age. Societal expectations and family pressure play a large part in making a woman get uncomfortable with her singlehood. Unconsciously, she starts to see prospects in people she might not have even given the time of the day while she was younger. Some people handle the pressure well and are still able to discern when to stay or go when caught in bad relationships, while some others keep trying even when the situation says for them to checkout.
Marriage is lifelong and choosing right is very important.
Below is a list of men, you need to keep away from so as not to get your expectations shattered:-See more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2016/08/six-signs-that-says-he-is-not-one.html

Google seem to hold a lot of answers to many issues some couples have. While some of the advice is good, same can not be said of others. Also some good ones may not be appropriate for some couples, the application of which may result to further complication of issues.
‘Do not marry a wife that can’t cook’ , some say.
‘Culinary skill isn’t supposed to be a consideration because couples can eat out or hire a cook’, others opine. For the conflicted person seeking answers, the situation becomes even more complex.

What should be the real guide? Read more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2016/08/1-important-relationship-tip-you-must.html

Are they?

vchykp:
the topic and the write up are 2 different things

New Post:Time was fast passing, Tayo thought. She reminded herself that she would be 35 by her next birthday. Perhaps she was too choosy she thought. She decided there was no gain in all the standards she had set, so the next one that asked her hand in marriage was the one she said yes to. He’s a good man and seems to genuinely care about her, she ignored the lack of chemistry or any shared interest. Time will bring them closer, she thought but sadly it never did. Her boredom knew no bounds till she met her new work colleague whose stares created a fire within her that she had forgotten existed. It wasn’t long that... See more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2016/08/can-cheating-be-justified.html

New Post:Having and taking care of kids changes a lot of things and it takes a lot of inner strength to maintain a decent balance in other aspects of one’s Iife. Having engaged a lot of women, I find that the struggle is alike for most of us. We all want to be there for our children while still keeping our ‘sexy’ alive. Much as we try to embrace the changes that come with the process of starting a family, we still crave control over our work and romance lives...See more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2016/08/getting-your-groove-back-after.html

What started as an Instagram post by a man who took a picture of his food in a restaurant quickly became a public subject of discourse with everyone airing his/her views. Someone had pointed out that his wife ought to be cooking instead of him having to eat out , to which he replied, #WifeNotCook. In that instance, he became the hero of many people that have felt the need to question the structures that have always been.
Many interesting opinions were shared and while I understood some of the posts shared, the others left me riddled. One person tweeted that she will only cook for her husband only if he is worth it. I am not even about to make this a big deal but I really fear that our fight for equality of both sexes is being washed down by such... Read more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2016/07/wifenot-cook.html

If men are such unruly animals as some of these debates try to portray, or if marriage is such hell and as boring as some people paint it out to be, then, why do people still get married? Why do we go through the pains of planning our lives together and taking oaths in front of families and friends? Should it not be enough for us to profess love for one another and just live together without the weight of a certificate and the need to live within certain boundaries?
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Addiction is hard to break and the first step to recovery is accepting that there is a problem. You also have to overcome your fears of being judged and speak to those that truly care about you so that they can provide needed support. You can also reach out to different support groups, there are many online and there might be some around your community/church.

It is also very important to social
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Lai had a long day at work, he was looking forward to a long shower and a quiet evening when he was met at the door by his angry wife. All he could make out from the noise was how he had failed to pay for the cable services which led to their cable getting disconnected. The insults she was howling at him felt like different jabs of sharp edged knives being thrown at different parts of his body. He was going to turn back when she stood in the way, pushing and shoving as she screamed for him to react. A push from him to get her out of the way sent her flat on the ground which was followed by a hysteria and a loud call for the neighbours to come to her rescue. His life is a living hell. Nobody fully understands
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Lai had a long day at work, he was looking forward to a long shower and a quiet evening when he was met at the door by his angry wife. All he could make out from the noise was how he had failed to pay for the cable services which led to their cable getting disconnected. The insults she was howling at him felt like different jabs of sharp edged knives being thrown at different parts of his body. He was going to turn back when she stood in the way, pushing and shoving as she screamed for him to react. A push from him to get her out of the way sent her flat on the ground which was followed by a hysteria and a loud call for the neighbours to come to her rescue. His life is a living hell. Nobody fully understands
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As our relationship grow, we find that love is not all milk and honey, and there are things that can become deal breakers when not properly managed. Turns out many people can fall in love but it takes a large dose of maturity and emotional intelligence to stay in love.

Not many people start relationships hoping for the end of it but things happen along the way that make people get less fond of the love that used to be.

One of such things is finance.
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Before I had my child there were many things that felt like unreachable goals. I never knew how to change a diaper. I don’t sleep much but I have always adored my ‘me’ time and the serenity of having my own space whenever I wanted. I knew my life was going to be altered but I never quite imagined the transition. There are times I just wanted to shout and scream but those beautiful pair of eyes staring directly into mine in the middle of scattered laundry, could disarming. I have learnt to love far beyond whatever limits I might have had.There is absolutely nothing compared to the bod we share.

These past two years have happened so fast. I probably have done more growing up in these two years than I have most of my life. I get asked a lot when I’ll be ready for the second one, I laugh it off sometimes, other times, I say ‘soon’. What I am not saying however, is how scared I am that my heart might not be large enough to pour same amount of love on the second child. I also fear that my daughter migh
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What do you think?

It is true most of us are in denial of what we suppose our kids can be up to behind our backs and it could really seem like the sensible thing to do is to prevent unpleasant surprises by taking the easy way out - See more at: http://www.covenantrelationships.org/#sthash.EsAYGSlI.dpuf

What do you think?

It is true most of us are in denial of what we suppose our kids can be up to behind our backs and it could really seem like the sensible thing to do is to prevent unpleasant surprises by taking the easy way out - See more at: http://www.covenantrelationships.org/#sthash.EsAYGSlI.dpuf

Eat well and healthily: Many of us take our food for granted. We are either eating too much or not eating well enough. We treat our bodies like we have extra lives. Try and change your eating lifestyle. Drink more water, eat fruits and vegetables. Eat proper meals instead of snacking through the day. You can’t put just any kind of fluid in your car engine. Treat your body even better.

Identify easy ways to get somethings done: Some transactions can be done with less hassle eg not having to go all the way down to some offices just to make inquiries that could have been made over the phone or going to the market to buy things that could have been purchased online for same price. Accept help from genuine people that offer same. This can save you time and money.
Stop trying to keep up with Joneses: You dont need to distract yourself with silly competitions. the social media and our circle of friends sometimes make us think there is a level of lifestyle we ought to maintain but you need not allow that get to you. Live within your means and save some for the rainy day. Don’t put yourself under unnecessary pressure. The Joneses are not as perfect as you think they are.

Set goals: Life is filled with so many twists and turns. Who leaves a car to cruise control on bumpy roads with bends? No sane person does. Be more deliberate in your decisions. Giving yourself timelines helps to keep you focused.
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Women cheat almost as much as men do but more men do fine jobs of deceiving whoever they are having an affair with into thinking they are not married or in a committed relationship. Imagine the shock and heartbreak when you get that hate mail or call from a spouse labeling you as a husband snatcher. Must really hurt especially when you have been in the dark as to that particular fact.

Personally, I never get why some women with philandering husbands go after the women in their husband’s lives instead of dealing with the main problem who is the person they made the vows with. I am not saying all side chicks are saints, I am just saying some of them are victims too. I remember stumbling on a Facebook page with a familiar face only to find out the boyfriend of someone I know is married with kids.

It took me a lot to break the news to her because I knew just how much she was into him.

This post is for those that would want to arm themselves with the right tools before getting in a relationship with the wrong person.

There are always telling signs and if you look hard enough, you wouldn’t fall in the trap of the ‘single married man’.

I'l be sharing some tips on how to find out if your ‘available’ man is taken.
What does your instinct say? Do you have a problem with him being a good looking financially stable 40 year old man? Well, there is a need to feel uncomfortable. If he doesn’t have a solid reason for being single at that age, perhaps, your instinct is right. Something could be amiss. The ones with less qualifications are even settled. This takes us to the next few points on how to clear your doubts.
Check him out on the internet: My dear, allow google be your guide. There are not too many people who don’t have their details somewhere on the internet. You might stumble on social media details, wedding pictures, marriage propoSee more at :- http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2015/08/how-to-recognise-single-married-man.html

We are so much in a hurry these days that we skip important conversations, this could be part of the reason why there so many divorces. Marriage is a very important step and being in love is not enough. We also need to have the right conversation before we take that step that can totally alter our destiny.

1. Know each other’s medical background: don’t be so caught up in your feeling that you don’t undergo the necessary medical tests to be sure of your compatibility. Most times I suggest people should ask their partners about this once it is established that there is good chance at a great relationship because it is easier to quit before things get really deep with our emotions being in the way. Another reason is to know if the other person is medically fit and in case of any mental or communicable diseases. I am not saying this necessarily have to be a deal breaker but at least you have tol be well informed about what you are about getting into. I’ll say however that marriage really does have its own drama that you might not want to stress or stretch your bond.

2. Agree on faith: Our faith forms major part of our personality and our way of life. There so many Christians in the world today with different brands of Christianity. Do you share the same ideals? Some Pentecostals don’t think Catholics share their view on faith. This also goes for some Jehovah witnesses. So you need to be sure you are on the same page.

3. Agree on Finances: This can be a very sensitive subject... See more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2015/08/five-important-things-you-need-to.html

Whatever issues you might encounter, it is important that you talk about it and you must never get tired of doing this. Some of the conversations might be difficult to have but I guarantee you’ll feel much better talking about it and probably being able to find a workable solution together, than you’ll ever feel staying mute or bearing grudges.

The thing about talking is it has some basic rules.First you need to know the importance of... See more at http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2015/08/how-not-to-ruin-your-marriage-2.html

there is that process of demystification that occurs in most marriages. That period when you realize there are no more points to lose or to be won so you let your guards down. This could be ‘justified’ considering you have taken the vow to be together forever, but with the many cases of affairs recorded maybe you need to pay more attention inwards.
Humans generally, especially men, have been known to be stimulated by what they see. We all have images in our head that stimulates our senses so the problem might arise when somethings start messing with that image we have created in our heads. Most of are guilty from becoming overly See more at : http://www.covenantrelationships.org/2015/07/how-not-to-ruin-your-marriage-1.html

Thanks.

ladygudhead:
educative.

Reflections are great. We all need to be able to look back at where we are coming from in order to appreciate the progress we have been able to make and also to analyze and strategize on moving forward.

How does one reflect if one had no expectations /goals?

As a child, I was one of those kids that would seat at the back of the class for fear of being perceived as too serious and uncool. I ignorantly thought anyone who set goals took himself too seriously. It took me a while to realize that it can be very dangerous sailing on the sea with no destination in mind. So, I started setting goals; mini and major goals. Along the way, I discovered that setting goals in itself doesn’t guarantee results but knowing that there is
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remember eavesdropping on my mum’s conversation with a friend of hers when I was much younger. They were sharing birth stories and both of them agreed it was the most painful and life changing thing they had ever encountered. They talked about how the size of the baby might make the midwives decide to cut the vagina for easier passage. The picture that information left in my mind made me fear I would never be ready for the encounter. Imagine being stuck with sanitary pads for close to 30days at a go.

I was told by the doctor to wait for at least 6weeks after my child so you’d understand my horror when a woman shared how her husband slept with her six days after giving birth and it sparked a lot of debate. This coupled with other thoughts in my head roused my curiosity to know if there was a uniform time we all have to adhere to as women before our body feels ready.
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