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qtguru:
It feels gay as a guy to keep hearing that, I prefer to hear you be chairman vs you're handsome all the time.

I've read your dairies on this forum and sometimes the word "gay" suddenly appears even if it has no correlation with whatever you are saying, it's always I don't "look gay" or it "sounds gay" shit and it's kinda surprising because you don't live in Nigeria so I never expected that kind of mentality from you,I'm sorry to say this but it's kind off giving me "insecure in my sexuality" so you have to assert that you are not gay.
First and foremost, sexuality isn't a look,there are men more rugged than you whom are gay but people think they are straight and will tell you their sexuality if you ask,are we gonna say "those men look straight" when in actuality they are queer?

Moreover, sexuality doesn't show in faces and grooming yourself doesn't make you gay,you are straight man living abroad and I assume you have queer friends, wanting to do something but you perceiving it as gay stems from misogyny and toxic masculinity,a real man does whatever the Bleep he wants. If you want to do something and you are scared because friends and family will think it's gay,then you are completely insecure because you think that a poke in your masculine frame will make you gay but I got news for you,you are more masculine than them because you did something they are scared to do but you showed them who's boss

Finally, I think we should all normalize accepting harmless compliments from people irregardless of gender. About two weeks ago,I was face timing with four friends of mine (3 of them are straight,the last one is gay and he's the most handsome of them all, you wouldn't even know he's queer until you ask),they were in venice for a wedding,in a restaurant,I couldn't make it due to scheduling conflicts and right there on the facetime, 3 beautiful ladies approached just the gay one from their table to compliment his handsomeness,they called him a Greek Adonis and one of them even asked for his number but he declined because he's in a relationship with his bf and he's gay,they all just laughed and still exchanged numbers,he even introduced the girls to the other guys and to me on facetime.
What I'm saying is that he never lost his temper because people of the gender he's not attracted to showered him with compliments rather he accepted it and they moved on,some straight men would rain fire and brimstone on a gay man for doing that. I tell everyone in my life,from family to friends "they look good" and they are beautiful whether male, female, non binary, straight,queer etc. Saying "no homo" doesn't affirm your sexuality,it only questions it the more.

In conclusion,I'm so sorry if I offended you by writing this,I just had to let it out and even if I did, please tell me....I'm up for a civilized debate

Premiumwriter:
why?

Because the west says lesbianism is right and that corrective rape and polygamy is wrong so you simply agree with them?

Y'all are daft.

Seun, lalasticlala we have a rape apologist here

myami:
enemy of progress. I bind you

LoL ...just telling you what I know

pachigo001:
bro give me update na tell her in case her friend need a man I'm available

LoL....be careful dude,a woman paying you to have sex with you when she can get it for free. Majority of them are looking for something and believe me it's not sex,I have friends in Abuja and their stories are something else. Just be careful

femiasaolu2014:
"Jeanslover" == "Gistlover"

Moreover I won't be able to pick Godwin out of a lineup and I am sure 99.99999% of Nigerians have ever heard of the name or care about him

Still the "holier than thou crew" would've called for him to be arrested but I guess he's that B list celeb who frequently hangs out with stars

femiasaolu2014:
Yeah, I remember that episode.
He was outted by "Jeanslover". The way everyone unlooked like it was nothing shows that maybe Nigerians are finally coming around to accommodating things they already do in private, publicly.

I stand by my postulation that Sabinus is a closeted gay man though.

Its his life and I am not condemning him.

Actually gistlover was the one who outed him. Apparently, Nigerians attitudes are really changing towards the community. It's obvious, I mean seeing how Godwin followed him on stage and everyone didn't see it as anything really shocked me.

femiasaolu2014:
IMO, I think Sabinus is a closeted gay man.

That's the only reason why someone of his stature keeps trolling Bobrisky online.

He isn't an upcoming skit maker who needs exposure,

So this constant trolling speaks volumes.

It can only be infatuation.

I don't really know and I don't think it's right to out someone without their consent but the guy that came on stage with him during his AMVCA award is openly gay, he's Godwin Maduagwu and he had a sex tape with his then boyfriend leak last year so maybe sabinus is his new man.....you might be right though because I was surprised when they both came on stage together to accept sabinus's award and we all acted like nothing happened,like everything has been swept under the rug

Albertone:
All those outings they cross dress to are skits also, right?

You may never know....to some, it's an act, impersonating a character they created

Albertone:
You're the hypocrite here.Who doesn't know majority of romantic affairs involve sex?
How many gay men are asexual or disabled?

So I wasn't wrong for pointing out the sexual part.

Personally for me,I don't care....I'm much more of a demi pansexual,I need to have a connection or bond before I can sleep with anyone and you weren't wrong for pointing that out but like I said not all romantic relationships involves sex

Albertone:
Bobrisky and James brown are not comedians nor skit makers.

I've seen them in skits though

Albertone:
Anal sex is sick.But it is still understood for straight people.
But why will a man allow his fellow man to be daggering him with a penis at a place meant for exit alone??

The hypocrisy keeps jumping the jeep.... it's understood for straight people my ass
@thebolded......is that all you think of human sexuality.....sex,are you that much of a pervert that when you hear of homosexuality, you quickly imagine the sex? Seriously dude, it's got to stop,you don't think of the same shit for you strykes,I know of gay men who are asexual and don't even care or like sex,same with straight asexuals and also gay men who are disabled yet they care deeply for one another,wish I could say the same thing for most Nigerians who see people as a sex object before the see people as human beings both queer and straight people alike
Moreover,there are different types of gay sex,not everyone is a fan of anal when there's frottage,mutual mast etc,sex is relative and people define it in their own way

CheapHomes1:
then you shouldnt have any challenges answering these questions:

What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?.

Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist? Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made.

Like I said answer mine, I answered the first one you asked despite the back and forth so please answer mine and I will answer this

CheapHomes1:
then you shouldnt have any challenges answering these questions:

What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?.

Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist? Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made.

Like I said answer mine, I answered the first one you asked despite the back and forth so please answer mine and I will answer this

CheapHomes1:
Very good. Same reason why I asked:

What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?.

Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist? Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made.

Like I said answer mine, I answered the first one you asked despite the back and forth so please answer mine and I will answer this

CheapHomes1:
Very good. Same reason why I asked:

What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?.

Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist? Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made.

Like I said answer mine, I answered the first one you asked despite the back and forth so please answer mine and I will answer this

CheapHomes1:
Same reason why I asked:

What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?.

Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist? Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made.

Like I said answer mine, I answered the first one you asked despite the back and forth so please answer mine and I will answer this

CheapHomes1:
What is completely obvious? That you can't defend your claims?

What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?.

Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist? Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made.

Like I said answer mine, I answered the first one you asked despite the back and forth so please answer mine and I will answer this

CheapHomes1:
Which takes us back to:

What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?.

Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist? Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made.

Like I said.... it's completely obvious. Have a great day

CheapHomes1:
Did you answer these?

Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made. Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist?
What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?

You didn't answer mine so go figure

CheapHomes1:
Whats trolling? What's my business with that. I am asking you questions based on what you said.

Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made. Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist?
What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?

Ok forget it. I answered your question though

CheapHomes1:
Pls reproduce my question verbatim let's compare it with your claim you just made. Who asked you whether transmen and transwomen exist?
What claims did I make that warranted your question? Can you provide the claims?

It's obvious you are trolling but I will bite. My question had no background,just please answer it