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Kiliwuwu:
u be mumu.....I can't even sleep on d same bed with my fellow gender talk less of him drilling my ass..............

upon cheap pussy wey plenty for naija

Stop insulting him,you are not gay that's why you can't do it. The same way he can't sleep with women is the same way you can't sleep with men

PrinxArthur1:
About 50% of feminist women are bisexual/lesbian
All lesbians are feminists.
All gay men are feminists.

All antifeminist men are straight.

I'm sorry.....what? Misinformation and generalization much? You do realize that gay men especially log cabin republicans have been accused of misogyny than even redpillers? Their's are even worse because they have nothing to gain from women

Misterone:
shut your trap. Sex is obviously the reason you got married yen yen yen! If you are asexual, don't marry. Stay your lane. No deceive others.

Dude I said what I said. People marry for obvious reasons and there's no shame in that. What's shameful is you mirroring your version of marriage to that of society and making everyone think that's the sole purpose of marriage. Marriage itself is a subjective term and people define it their way and their why is valid

Misterone:
konji never hold you before. Sex is part of marriage. It is even greater than love in marriage. The more you sex your wife, the more bonded you are to her.

Sex is obviously the reason you got married. What are we going to say about people who are in relationships with spouses who have one deformity or the other that can make them sexless? Just say most people married for sex not everyone,I'm asexual so I don't think sex should be in a relationship to thrive and I expect my partner to be the same

cryptofredoom:
I write this letter with a heavy heart and a deeply sad spirit. This is as a result of the cumulative torture I have endured from your actions and inactions SEXUALLY. Yes, sexually in emphasis.
Love they say is beautiful and marriage to the one you truly love, wonderful. Alas! Mine marriage to you is complicated like a stream that produces both sweet and bitter water at the same time.
EXPERIENCE
I had kept myself from other women, waiting patiently for the chosen one, the one I love, whom I would spend, the rest of my life. Like the saying goes “a patient dog, eats the fattest bone”. But my experience in the last six years of marriage has abundantly proven the sayings to be wrong.
You are the first woman whom my ‘member’ felt the warmth of her vagina. I remember vividly you re-directing my penis to the right path, because I was a novice, naïve and excited to taste the honey pot for the first time in over 30 years of my existence on planet earth.
Another thing I also remembered which have sadly turned to be “re-occurring decimal”, was you telling me you are tired on our wedding night and that we should leave the sex part of the night to a latter day. You only caved in after much entireties and plea from me. I must tell you, that night was least memorable to put it mildly. What do I know self?
SEXUAL TORTURE
A month after our wedding/ “honeymoon” you got pregnant and the gate to the honey well was permanently shut, I was inexperienced to think that a pregnant woman doesn’t engage in sexual intimacy, until six or seventh month into your pregnancy when you were told at the antenatal that you should engage in sex to enable the vagina “ready for delivery”. I breathed a sigh of relief which was abruptly cut short immediately after child birth.
The waiting games continued till about 5 – 6 months, before you began to sparingly allow me have sex with you once in a week, even sometimes its reduces to once in two weeks. You often asked if sex was food? I had to mark the calendar to show you when last we had sex before I can be given a shot at another one, mainly on compassionate ground.
SIDE EFFECTS OF BEEN STARVED
1. Loss of confidence: amongst my peers, especially when issues relating to sexual escaped was been discussed
2. Deep Sorrow and Sadness: throughout the day, mostly when I had begged for sex a night before or in the morning of a particular day, and my plea turned down.
3. Constant thought of other women: especially the ones who indirectly had given me “green light” but I have deliberately turned them down, as it is against my personal principles.
4. Self Servicing: sometimes I resort to this as the way to relieve myself of the burden, and the most painful aspect of this inglorious act is when you suggest that I should indulge in it so as to let you alone.
5. Thought of Divorce: even though is not in my options, but I strongly view it as evil and wicked for an asexual individual to enter into marriage and still expect her partner to be faithful. I know you have once suggested getting me a side chick of your chosen, which you have reneged.
SOLUTION
Because of the deep love I have for you, and the need to understand the reason my beloved wife hurts me sexually, I carried out a little research on your conditions and found out that you are ASEXUAL in nature. Below are some of the attributes of an asexual woman you portray.
1. During sex, you don’t like to touch my penis, caress my body and off cause BJ is out of it for you. You don’t like me kissing you, sucking your breast, sucking your ears handling your breast nor fingering you. Whenever I insist, you ridiculously say, “just touch the body of my breast, but don’t touch the nipple”.
2. Your sex positions are most times monotonous, is either missionary style or you are lying by your side. Even when I try to initiate another position your kick against it and sometimes say you are not a prostitute, hence you cannot.
3. Even though your participation during sex is just to lie down and receive, every now and then you tell me you are tired and that I should cum fast or else… You have also several times removed yourself from my penis and rush into the bathroom to wash yourself leaving me “hanging” and return to blame me for lasting longer than necessary.
4. You also frown your face and make it feel like a rape, no moaning nor encouraging sexual expressions, which most times dampens my spirit.
5. You also have refused to see neither a doctor nor a therapist, falsely claiming that there is nothing wrong with you.
6. You also refuse to see a pastor or any councilor.
7. I had also tried to initiate the discussion with one of your close sisters, which you also rejected.
8. You also rejected the use of a lubricant I once bought at the pharmacy
9. Whenever I initiate the sex discussion, your heart skips like I have said something outrageous and you pickup a fight to avoid having sex.
All the points above listed are some of the attribute of an asexual person, and this condition can be corrected through medically, counseling and personal efforts which you have refuse over this past six years.
CONCLUSIONS / RESOLUTIONS
1. I have resolved to stop having sex with you (expect you agree to change), as its an exercise in futility, because the experiences are usually unpleasant, unsatisfactory, mentally sapping and a waste of time.
2. I shall continue to love you, take care of your needs and support you within the best of my ability.
3. Hence, my itinerary of movement shall be for information purpose and shall be made available only when absolutely necessary.
4. I shall not tolerate any form of embarrassment if or when I chose to satisfy myself with whomever, whenever and wherever I please. The consequence of such violation shall be dire.
5. The only reason for divorce still stand and I shall not hesitate to initiate it if the evidence is compelling enough.
From Your Lovely Husband

I'm so sorry man,have you tried initiating a polyamorous relationship with her? Compromise is key in situations like these,I'm a fellow asexual but I'm a gay asexual person and i could give you tips for the relationship to blossom,first and foremost,what spectrum of asexuality is she on? Is it sexually repressed, sexually neutral or sex positive?

gannod:
This is really serious. I wonder why some women behave this way. Why marry if you don't like sex?

Sex shouldn't be the basis of marriage but rather on love but this monstrous world have changed marriage to sex

Zonefree:
Pornography is mainly produced for girls.

That's a huge lie,yes women are sexual creatures too but men are naturally hypersexuals and straight/lesbian porn are marketed to straight men so your fact is fake

If this is gay,I wonder what you will say for pride month when google goes gay....lol

Thebadpolitican:
Lol,who is born that way when they have dicks to show their genders...even serial killers will tell you they were born that way would that stop them being arrested.....


Wait till they grow in Numbers and they start raping your male kids that's if you're not a gay

Born that way my foot

The misinformation is real,from the comparison of queer people to rapist to mixing up gender with sex

blaise26abj:
There is no comedy that cannot make you sad if you have no sense of humour

Oh dude, there are. Creativity is key

Kingcalls:
We don hear u Mr simp ... Ndi woke world... dumbasses

I accept the label,better a simp than a bully

tutudesz:
Homophobic Guy even health official are busy advising gay men to be careful

Everyone is at risk.... don't you get it? It's not a queer disease

blaise26abj:
They are called comedians for a reason . With the way you overtly sensitive bunch take offence with everything and Una notorious cancel culture , You lot are no different from Will smith

There's a thin line between comedy and bullying. Comedy is supposed to make you laugh not make you sad

tutudesz:
Don't be stupid Event the write up was very clear about the gay event and the infected

Yep it was but before then,it was shown in straight people since time immemorial but you don't see queer people raving,y'all are just looking for homophobic jives to throw

Kingcalls:
Mr simp... welcome

LoL..... it's like you literally just learned that word. Bullies as usual want to continue to revel in the power to oppress people hence why you support this. Have a great day

grandstar:
What of Basketmouth who makes misogynist jokes about girl's breast sagging for instance? Does he not have a wife or sister? He is one of the worst.

I said comedians generally and how would you know if his female relatives are mad about it or not,for all we know,they could be offended but he brings money to the table, moreover i don't basketmouth jokes would fly in today's social climate, majority of them are working on egg shells

Kingcalls:
Abeg close mouth...always forming stupid woke

Who hurt you?

Good,I'm glad people are calling out comedians who use their comedy to hurt others. Sit down and be creative but majority of them just release art that ain't funny and is quite offensive all in the name of comedy

Tinububalls:
The WESTERN ASS LICKERS or WOKE dummies.
The OVER RELIGIOUS ONES.
We Africans have our Cultures and Traditions.

Culture and traditions are not static and if they make you a bully then they should be questioned which reminds me, the culture and traditional ones like you

tutudesz:
They should name it Gay-Pox, since majority of the infected are gays

If only you did your research rather than listening to propaganda,then I guess we ought to call syphilis straight Phillis since it was discovered in straight people first,y'all talk without reasoning

SmartPolician:
So people are openly gay in Kenya? I guess that was the best gift Barack Obama, their son, gave them.

No man should sell his semen for less than $5k. If you don't do men, avoid us and stuff that comes out of our third legs

You are kinda dumb. Lavender relationship exists. A gay man will offer her his sperm for free and both of them will be the parents

Rexymania:
I swear... I can be gay if you pay me well

No you can't,you are still straight

Pious101:
and I assume u must be an expert in this field. While I may not be one, there are however series of literatures done by expert in that field that supports my assertion. The only time I will agree with Ur perspective is only when u categorically state the expert that did the studies are absolutely wrong and u are 100% right.

Where did I say I would be subjective to the experts I listen to on the field?,I'm ready to strike a Convo with all of them,just not you

Pious101:
it is absolute a choice. The fact that u read studies that support Ur perspective does not mean there are studies that does not prove other wise.

I'm not gonna entertain a Convo with you because you are no expert in human sexuality and gender studies so I'd rather believe those who've studied those spheres than you

my3name:
what are you even talking
so marriage is also same sex
when go said go into the world and mutiply why him no carry womb give man or put sperm inside women

Not everyone is a person

Pious101:
no one is born gay, it's a choice. It's funny how u consider one being gay with an individual born with blood disorder. In Ur own case, u have no choice. There are people born with sickle cell anemia, HIV, hepatitis and many more. If these individuals have a choice of changing their health status they would have done that. Being gay is a choice and they can choose to change at any time they desire. The discrimination against people who have health challenge is borne out of ignorance nothing more

And your discrimination against queer people is born out of what if not Ignorance. Sexuality isn't a choice dude

Thebadpolitican:
You see why your folks have to be looked in a psychiatric home as mentally deranged people

So I will have to have sex with acsane sex before I can determine my sexuality....

A world leader is coming someday to end this bad ridden from the world

LoL......did you even look at the genesis of this Convo before you went on your rant? The person I replied said why don't a gay man have sex with a woman first to ascertain if he's really gay and I countered it with the opposite and y'all are mad,stay mad

JoyousFurnitire:
Hello I'm not confused and I mean all straight people aren't.

If the question should be asked again it is to be directed to you gay people.

Anus are not meant be drilled by the P*

Men shouldn't have a V* and women shouldn't have a P*. Those are sexual and reproductive organs.

^^^ it's that simple

Nature/God knew what he was doing

PS: Gays shouldn't quote me. I didn't quote a gay person. I have nothing or words to trade with them.

Well,not everyone believes in God and queer people are not confused. If you didn't want queer people to quote you,then stop the misinformation and stay out of our business with your bigotry and your hateful ideology that gay man are gay just because they haven't been with a woman is blatantly homophobic and ignorant so I threw those patterns back at ya and your wings are in a bunch

juman:
Nobody was created a gay.
It's by choice.

Yea right..... coming from you

FreeSpirited:
How does the term relate with the subject matter of epidemics of gay in Nigeria.
..

You mentioned the term not me

ntipro:
How can your dad try to rape you even if he is gay? That's unbelievable.

You have to talk sense into him if you can. If he insists, your mum must know about it.
Don't allow him have his way else you are in for a long term abuse.

Why do I feel this story is fake?

juman:
Most do it for monetary gain.
I remember I had a pen friend in uk, the guy said he was gay.
If I was desperate to travel, I would have forced myself to be gay.

You can't force yourself to be gay man. Sexuality isn't a forced straight,even if you slept with that man,you are still straight as an arrow as long as you are not attracted to him, you are straight. Straight men who sleep with men do it because they need to not because they want to,just like how closeted gay men sleeping with women do the same thing. Sex doesn't make you gay, sexuality does